singing like a puncture

Out of the strong came forth sweetness    18+ ONLY.    Please let me know if there's anything you'd like tagged. Queer femme switch and lazy aesthete, often ridiculous. 40s.

[singinglikeapuncture]

Hi! I decided to create this pin for those who are triggered/squicked by anything here. More personal info will eventually be added further down in the post; here are just the kinks:

cnc/ free use/ dubcon

Fingers in mouths, whether being sucked or probing in a way that's like a subtle violation

Breath control: choking & drowning

Impact play/ pain/ marks/ bruises

Catholicism

Light knife & blood play. Occasional guns.

Blood in general. Gore. Body horror.

Light humiliation, objectification & degradation

Possessiveness & control

Psychological sadism / stockholm syndrome

Orgasm control, overstimulation and denial.

While we're on the subject, cum splattered and pumped everywhere my god you have no idea how much this does it for me

Desperate subs grinding and pleading and losing all sense of dignity

Twitching cocks being worshiped

Hungry wet holes being rubbed, fingered, fucked & fisted

Neediness and desperation

Vulnerability. All the vulnerability.

And all the sweetness.

Most stuff here isn't very visually explicit. I generally don't like porn, even the wonderful queer stuff out there, so mostly I reblog writing, visual flashes of ideas for scenes, things that make me think of certain moods or dynamics. That said, occasionally something more visually explicit strikes me & I post it.

I'm generally an inconsistent tagger, but please let me know if you want anything to be tagged & I'll be diligent about tagging That Thing.

My only DNI is for minors. Everyone else is welcome as long as they don't act like an inappropriate asshole.

Did... did you really read this far down? offers deep hug, where we lightly clunk our foreheads against each other

❤️❤️❤️

About me:

Bi/queer, very switchy femme. Fascinated by the emotional & instinctual layers of kink. This is a side blog; I follow from an account starting with de.

I've spent my life in and out of kink communities since my late teens, but never found a real "home" in them, except in some very special individuals I have met through them who are & have been very dear to me.

I started this sideblog because I see so little of how I relate sexually, and can lose track of what my sexuality really is when I don't have a person who creates that *spark* that sets my whole being on fire. Certainly, whatever my sexuality is, it isn't reflected in porn (even the good stuff.)

But I found a little reflection of it here. Until the great purge. Then I came back years later & have been so happy to see all the holdouts & corners of resistance that still exist.

Thank you, every single one of you.

[breakingroxy]

“Hush”

A self portrait of Roxy and I as I tape her mouth closed

[letsbelonelytogetherr]

the intimacy of having your efforts reciprocated in the same intensity and with the same tenderness

[tongue-spasm-deactivated2025070]

idk sometimes i just need to be fuckin bitten and clawed at and pinned and smacked and called a bitch and a faggot and fucked and kissed like youre gonna consume me i need to be loved like im being devoured

[letmelivesailorpluto]

[calware]

new tumblr update finally lets my followers slap the shit out of me

[les-enfantsterrible-s]

[dunmerwhore]

i need a toyyy..... i need to take care of someone touch and play with their most sensitive parts make them squirm and writhe underneath me make them beg me to keep going or to stop, which one won't make a difference because i will keep going, i will keep playing with them until i've had my fill

[sohelpmegod]

Angels Of Porn I

@prairieslut

[rosebdraws]

happy vday 🏳️‍⚧️💘

[urlovelyvamplover-deactivated20]

Someone cumming early or quickly is so hot you literally can’t argue with me about it

Like you you’re focusing on them and giving them pleasure, and they let go into an orgasm in just a few movements. They go panting, “I didn’t mean to cum so early, you just made me feel so good”. Or you penetrate them or vice versa, and they’re all shaky and they say something like “Oh I’m sorry, you felt so good, I couldn’t help to”. Like darling no don’t apologize, that was so fucking hot that you just came so early, now I want to make you cum even more

[beamer-boy-deactivated20240208]

Peter Steele (1993)

shot by John Wadsworth

[lalibertine]

Show me how catholic you are XXXIII

[fuuuuuuuuuuckme]

[baravaggio]

James of San Francisco ad (Honcho, 1985) / Barberini Faun (Giorgetti, restored 1669)

[prokopetz]

The argument: "How does it make sense to treat sex as a sacred act when it's simply another bodily function, like eating or pissing?"

The conclusion they're clearly aiming for: "Sex is not sacred."

The unintended but equally obvious inference: "Pissing is sacred."

[playerspliffsmagoose-deactivate]

Rona and strap what’s better than that

[eatmythoughts]

The C.U.N.T Cheerleaders, at Fresno State College (1971)