Should They Be Trusted? Spread (Full & 3 card version)
I made this spread a few months ago, but got caught up with life and didn’t get around to posting it here until now. Oops! This was created when an old friend suddenly tried to pop back up in my life and I looked to the cards for some advice, although it can definitely be used for new people in your life. Partners, parents, friends, that weird boss you might have- It doesn’t matter, just change “person” to their name or their relationship to you. I find it best to really think of this person when you’re shuffling your cards, and to think of the relationship that you might have with them at the time.
The difference between the two versions is that the full version is a bit more situation based and in depth, whereas the 3 card version is a bit more open to be used in any situation. The explanations for both spreads are below.
The words in parentheses on both spreads can be added in if the person is someone you’ve had a past with.
Full Spread
*: Why is this this person coming (back) into my life? This card is an optional card, as it may not be necessary if you already know why that person is in your life. I personally include it most of the time anyway, as it may give you a message that you hadn’t known before.
1: What is this person’s intentions? This card will reveal the person’s true intentions at the time of the reading. Are they up to no good like you may suspect, or are they truly trustworthy?
2: Should I trust this person (again)? This card can be read as a simple yes or no answer, but I suggest really delving into it if you have the time/patience. If it is a positive card, does it show why you can trust them? Or why you cannot trust them if the card is negative?
3: Will a relationship/friendship with this person be beneficial? This card is much like the previous card, in that it can be read as a simple yes or no, but I prefer to read it as what would happen if you pursue a relationship or friendship with said person. Will it be beneficial to you in the long run, or will it be a waste of your time to even try?
4: Overall advice for the situation. This card wraps up the reading and offers you advice on what should be done regarding the other person.
3 Card Spread
1: What is this person’s intentions? This card will reveal the person’s true intentions at the time of the reading. Are they up to no good like you may suspect, or are they truly trustworthy?
2: Should I trust this person (again)? This card can be read as a simple yes or no answer, but I suggest really delving into it if you have the time/patience. If it is a positive card, does it show why you can trust them? Or why you cannot trust them if the card is negative?
3: Overall advice for the situation. This card wraps up the reading and offers you advice on what should be done regarding the other person.
If you have any questions about either spread, feel free to send a message!











