Sissies - Stay Safe Out There!
Oh gosh - interacting with mistresses is so dangerous! I am fortunate, so far, to have avoided any issues, but I just want to warn Sissies to stay safe!
Here are some of my red flags:
1. RED FLAG - If they use Kik & Google Hangouts -> DO NOT USE
Neither of these chat methods have any sort of verification. They could be anyone. THEY COULD BE MEMBERS OF FOREIGN HACKING CONSORTIUMS!!
Kik is a notorious cesspool of predators and Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM). DO NOT USE.
2. RED FLAG - They want your picture
They can use a reverse facial-lookup software to find you and blackmail you. Do not send your picture. This is not safe!
3. RED FLAG - They ask you to chat via a text message / or they want to talk to you on the phone.
They can use a reverse phone # lookup your phone number to find you to blackmail you. Double-red flag if they say "Chat only".
4. RED FLAG - They want you to send them money via Bitcoin
Where is that money going? You have NO IDEA. This is almost certainly a criminal organization or state-sponsored hacking team.
5. RED FLAG - They are too eager
Do they text you all the time? Are they constantly asking "why are you not texting back?" Are they impatient with your responses?
I know, sissies, that it's flattering to think that a Mistress really thinks you could be the perfectly little subby for her. But seriously? Think practically. Subs to mistresses are like 100 to 1. Maybe 1000 or 10,000 to 1. Real Mistresses are not going to be so eager.
6. RED FLAG - They have no original material in their Tumblr
Real mistresses will have real, original pictures. Like pictures of their dungeon, sissies, etc. (see #8 below)
7. RED FLAG - Their Tumblr is recent and shallow
Are they recently on Tumblr? Do they only have re-blogs and maybe some text items? Big red flag!
8. RED FLAG - They send you pictures for someone else
If they send you a picture, or if they have posted a picture which they claim to be a picture of themselves or original content, do a facial recognition search and an image search. If it's not them then STAY AWAY.
9. RED FLAG - They are threatening, trying to create urgency, or giving you ultimatums
Do they threaten you when you don't respond? Do they threaten to leave you? Do they give you sales tricks like 'do this or you'll miss this opportunity forever' ?
This is a triple-quadruple red flag if you have just been contacted by the Mistress. If she/he is saying these sorts of things within the first few days of getting in contact - RUN AWAY!
Yes, we all want to be owned by a mistress or master. Yes we are subs seeking a loving, stern, demanding dominant.
But do you want to be a sub to a real, actual dom? Or do you want to be a sub to some sort of faceless criminal syndicate who only exists to scam you out of all your money and perhaps to ruin your life in the process?
Personally, if I've decided to ruin my life, I'll go to the local bar and get myself fucked over (financially and otherwise) by the first asshole shit-head I can find. At least it will be someone I know! And at least it will be an actual person - who probably needs the money - and not providing funding for a truly evil organization which is buying arms for terrorists, human trafficking, or state-sponsored terrorism.
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