Sissy Sasha

Bisex Sissy 40+

[misogenius]

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[breederofbetas]

I wanted to link the source blog (I believe) that this came from. I was VERY proud that my knowledge meant simply that I did not know 3 - 4 out of the 100+ kinks. https://vanillawithatouchofcinnamon.wordpress.com/2017/01/19/kink-table-%F0%9F%94%A5/

[transgenderteensurvivalguide]

Transfeminine resources:

Presentation:

Tucking

Chest area

Voice

Broad shoulders tips

Body hair removal

Feminine walk

Curves

Waist training

Hair

Clothing

Makeup

DMAB Masterpost

Hormones:

Estrogen

On taking just Anti-Androgens

Progesterone

How do I know if HRT is right for me?

Here’s the deal with puberty blockers

Surgery:

Facial Feminization Options

Breast Augmentation

The difference between a MTF Breast Augmentation and a “Regular” Breast Augmentation

Bottom Surgery Blogs

Why we don’t answer bottom surgery questions

Other:

Representation

Feminine hygiene options

Slipping into masculinity

Women’s restroom etiquette

Yes, trans women can breastfeed

Having sex or masturbating

Transmasculine resources:

Presentation:

Binding FAQ

Fake beard & masculine makeup

Getting short hair

If you can’t start T

Lowering your voice

Masculine clothing

Packers and STPs

Passing as male

Shaving

Swimming

Medical transitioning:

Puberty blockers

Testosterone FAQ

Top surgery

Lower/bottom surgery

Other:

Hudson’s FTM Guide

Masturbation with dysphoria

Periods and related things

Seeing a gynecologist

Sex and related topics

Using the men’s bathroom

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[mandatory-feminization]

Psychology of Sissy Faggots

A sissy faggot is indeed a complex animal. She is definitely not a man and not really a woman. A sissy faggot is usually a closeted crossdresser who wishes to be a whore for men. He has a “public” life and usually presents himself as straight to everyone even though he knows deep down inside that his true purpose and desire is to be or to be turned into a gay homo fag. A lot of sissy faggots have their first experience crossdressing at an early age. Maybe they tried on their mother’s panties or they played around with makeup. These early experiences are very important in the blossoming of a sissy later on in life. Many sissies are young, in college, and are looking for daddies who will make them feel feminine. If these young sissies are provided with the right encouragement and attention at an early stage, they will almost always start taking hormones and successfully transition. The other kind of sissy faggot is the one who hasn’t had this early life development. Over the course of years, they perfect their lie of being straight to the point that they convince even themselves. At some point, they get married and have kids. Then the realization sets in that they don’t actually want to be a man. but they don’t wanna let go of this fake life. This is a great dilemma that many sissies face. In this series of writings, we will explore the complex nature and psychology of sissies. Hopefully, in reading this, you will learn about who you truly are. 

1. The Big Cock Effect: from “straight” man to cock-addict

We can define two aspects that can make a “straight” male finally realize that they are a sissy: dick size and porn Dick size: Males are obsessed with the size of their cocks. Is it big enough? Am I too small? Is my erection strong enough? Males are worried that a woman might find them too small. Men are told that they have a small dick as a form of insult. It means that they aren’t fit to be a man. We live in a modern world with a lot of sexual pressure coming from TV, movies, and society but we can’t deny that it is also something that they are born with, sissies will realize that they have always been a bit feminine and smaller than other men. All this pressure builds up insecurities which most men can handle because they have the size to back it up but for a sissy who knows he is too small, it can destroy their confidence as a man. This is one of the reasons that more and more beta males are realizing that they were born to be sissies. This “confidence crusher” is actually a blessing in disguise for sissies. Many participants of the sissy lifestyle start out being unsatisfied with the size of their small “dicks”. Instead of trying to make their dicks larger (which is impossible) they accept their inferior dick size and rename it a “clit”. This helps them cope with the fact that their dick is too small and that they will never please a woman. It becomes a symbol of pride and they strive to make their “clit” smaller and more limp. By “ruining” their “dick”, they are  breaking themselves free of the heavy and soul-crushing chains of masculinity. They will never look back and want to return to a life of shame and depression. Porn: Sissies may try out the “straight” lifestyle at first. They try dating girls but can’t get hard during sex or they are made fun of for having a small dick. The girl usually breaks up with them and this makes them depressed. The depression makes their dick even limper. The beta male then starts watching many hours of porn hoping that watching sexual content will help them get hard but it has the opposite effect. They watch so many porn that they become desensitized and induces erectile dysfunction. This puts the beta male into a state of panic and they become more depressed, their dick becomes more dysfunctional and their porn preferences change from normal straight fucking to more extreme forms of entertainment like bukkake, creampie gangbangs, etc. They are only excited by the most extreme forms of straight porn that they can possibly find. Usually the porn they begin to prefer includes some worship and focus around cum.  They are now obsessed with porn. It is the only thing that gives them excitement. They are not even concerned about their small dick anymore. They can only get hard from watching porn. They love watching the porn actress obsess over cum. They constantly hear the words: “I love cum!” “I love big cocks” “I am a cum slut” “I’m a filthy disgusting cum dump whore"  These words and phrases begin to be associated with a state of sexual excitement in the subconscious. The beta male starts to fall in love with the idea of a whore but can’t imagine her sucking his cock since he is too small to please her but enjoys seeing other bigger men use the whore. This is the beginning of the development of a cuckolding fetish. He begins to admire the strength, vigor, cock length, and aggressiveness of a real man. He watches more porn of guys with big cocks (usually black men impaling white pussies) and literally fucks his mind. He’s frustrated because he can’t have a girlfriend but then realizes that he doesn’t need a girlfriend. He wants to fall in love with a whore who shares a mutual interest: a love and obsession with big cocks. The beta male also craves to be humiliated by a woman for having such a small dick. Congratulations! You are officially a O.C.C.L (Obsessive Compulsive Cock Lover)

2.1 Profiling a Sissy

Continuing on from the last point, you are now a porn-addicted, cock obsessed beta male. You spend all your time jerking off to your fantasy. You have no social life, no one to talk to. All you do is fantasize about drinking cum, sucking cock, having a mistress humiliate you and increasingly fantasies about them making you dress up like a girl and pleasure a man. Your porn preferences have been changing all the while and you have started becoming excited by shemale porn which after a few searches leads you to finding sissy hypnos and crossdresser porn. You have never experienced a sexual rush like this before. The hypnos are telling you everything you knew about yourself from an early age. It’s like you finally know who and what you were meant to be. After being exposed to sissy hypnos, there are only two choices: one of them is to keep living in a fantasy world, dreaming about your non-existant sexual life and deal with depression, frustration that will leads you to be a O.C.M (Obsessional compulsive masturbator). The other is to put yourself out there. You begin to interact with people and start creating lots of sex profiles on websites like fetlife, tumblr, pornhub, xhamster, etc. You are just curious to see what is out there. At this point, you start taking pictures of yourself dressed up in panties to attract attention to your profiles. They aren’t great but they are your attempt at exploring your sissy side. As you build up confidence, you start posting better pics and this may or may not lead to a sissy sexual encounter maybe with another crossdresser. Most sissies aren’t really attracted to men at first but after they taste a cock in real life, they become instant addicts and only want to have sex with real men. It is the perfect match. Sissies tend to love showing off their bodies and will begin feminizing their bodies at all cost. To fund their obsession with making their clits smaller and their boobs bigger, they will go into the cam sex industry on sites like chaturbate or even fulfill their dream of being a hooker. The sissies who work hard on their image and are truly serious about becoming as feminine as possible team up with the likes of @tiatizziannifeminization and become models and porn stars winning lots of awards and making real money. They find daddies who are rich and willing to pay for their full transition and have all their dreams come true. 

[souljumping]

So…

[femmecd4u]

Pretty much.

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What is the difference between faggots, betas, omega boys, and bois?

Great question. You could ask it of a hundred different people and you’d probably get a hundred different responses. For me, i embrace the following definitions for those and other frequently used terms on this blog:

Faggot: A faggot lives to take dick. For him, cock is to be respected and revered. And, therefore, worshipped. A faggot is a vessel for cock and a receptacle for cum.

Pig: A pig can be a Top or a bottom. When i use the term on my blog, however, i use it exclusively for subs. To me, a pig is a class of faggot — a faggot who enjoys filth and raunch, and loves to wallow in all the various byproducts of Men’s bodies.

Beta: A beta is a submissive who takes pride in his submission. He doesn’t submit to just anyone; he submits to Alphas who he deems worthy of his submission. For him, it’s an honor to submit to someone who’s deserving of being submitted to, and an honor for that person to receive his submission. A beta may even be a Dom and a Top in the presence of faggots or omegas; he only submits to his Alpha.

Omega: While a beta submits only to a deserving Alpha, an omega submits to everyone. An omega is the most submissive person in the room, no matter who else is in that room. He will submit not only to Alphas, but also to betas and faggots, if they’ll let him. He exists to grovel and receive abuse. That’s where he feels fulfilled: under everyone else’s shoe.

Slave: A slave is a faggot who has entered into a formal agreement of service with a Master. He is “owned” — part time or full time, and for whatever length of time has been agreed on by him and his Master. A slave surrenders all rights and decisions under the terms of his contract and agrees to service and obey at all costs.

Sub: A sub is someone — usually a bottom — who embraces the act of submission. He defers to his Dom and allows his Dom to make all (or most) sexual decisions. He typically enjoys some degree of physical or verbal abuse, but it’s typically just a temporary sexual identity. His submission is generally confined to the bedroom, whereas faggots, slaves, betas, omegas, etc., typically incorporate their submission into their larger identity. For a sub, submission is an outfit they wear; for the others, it’s their skin.

Boy: A boy can refer to the sub in a Daddy/boy relationship, which is a Dom/sub relationship where there typically is a sizable age gap between an older Dom and a younger sub. When i use it, however, i’m typically using it as a token of submission. When slavery was legal in the United States, white Masters used the term “boy” to refer to their black slaves, to indicate that they were lesser people — because a boy is less than a Man. i don’t use the term for its racial connotations, but i do use it for its Master/slave meanings.

Boi: A boi is a twink. A bottom, usually, who has boyish features.

As you can see, a lot of these terms overlap. One person can be several of these things at once. i, for instance, typically identify simultaneously as a sub, a faggot, a pig and a boy. And sometimes — when i have a Master — as a slave. i don’t identify as an omega or a boi, nor as a beta — although i do have strong beta tendencies, in that i take pride in my submission and reserve it for Men who i think are worthy of it.

[lockedndenied-deactivated201609]

How to Become a True Locked Bottom Bitch

I’ve hd several conversations with locked boiz over the past couple weeks where we discussed how to truly become a locked bottom bitch.

Now, you may ask, “But isn’t having your cocklette permantently riveted in a cage enough?”

The answer is “No.”

I believe that the point where you no longer focus on your cocklette as a source of pleasure, that it’s simply the thing you piss from, AND when your holes have become your only sources of sexual release - when you learn to have anal orgasms ans squirt cum from your soft cocklette from receiving a man’s cock (or dildo) - then and only then have you truly become a locked bottom bitch, a true servant of real men, an acolyte of cock, a disciple of sexual energy.

I’ve been asked how to get to that state of mind, to that place where we want to be.  Now, I haven’t quite gotten there myself; though in truth, I no longer think of my locked cocklette as anything other than something to piss from.  I no longer get erections (though sometimes a bit of swelling) and I haven’t had a real, honest-to-goodness orgasm in 623 days (as of 4/12/15).  But I haven’t gotten to the point of being able to have an anal orgasm while being penetrated every time.  It HAS happened but I would love to have one every time my hole gets used.

So here’s my theory on how to move from a cock-focused life to a hole-focused life.

1. Get that cock caged!

2. Stay locked’n’deniedlonger each session. Start at 2 weeks, then 3, then 4 … and just keep going.

3. Now the real trick, of course is to shift your sexual NEED from that locked cocklette to your hole. So, they way I’ve done it is simply by fucking a dildo EVERY TIME I GET HORNY.  

Its that simple.  Back when I was a top with a free cock, when I cruised porn I’d take my hard cock in my hand and wank one out.  Or, when I mad my bottom bitch, Carlos, would kneel under the desk with a plug in his ass and suck my cock until I told him I was ready to blow.  Then I’d put him over the desk and fuck my load into his El Salvadoran ass.

Remember when your cock was free?  I bet you stroked that sucker every time you got the slightest bit horny.

Well, now, instead of thinking about your useless cock … go jump on a dildo - the bigger, the longer, the better.  NEVER cruise pron without being ready to fuck a dildo the second you get horny.

You will train yourself to equate “horny” with “penetration.”  That’s the key.

4. When you watch porn stop thinking about that real man’s cock, look at that bottom bitch taking it.  Hear him moan.  Think about your hole and how wonderful and amazing it feels when it is being penetrated.  My God! Writing this now I have the urge to grab my Kevin Dean dildo and fuck it into me!

4. Once you’ve gone 6 months locked’n’denied you are ready to go permanent … invest in that stainless steel cage that fits perfectly and rivet the fucker on!

5. NEVER stop training. When you’re horny … fuck a dildo, fuck your man … fuck a stranger.  Watch porn? Fuck a dildo.  Each and every time!

The chastity cages we all so love to use just tackle part of the “problem” of being a submissive bottom.  We have to change our physical, mental and emaotional states.

If you have additional suggestions on how you have learned to become a true bottom bitch … please share!

[newboiontheblock]

This is something I need to work on. Got to keep training myself.

[thegayboybible]

Table of Contents 9.0

@foralphasglory suggested a table of contents. I think that’s an excellent idea. If you would like to read any of the following titles from past posts, just click on the titles below and you will be redirected to that webpage. I’ll summarize them all below in chronological order (most recent to oldest):

Being Present

Connection With Your Submissive

My Education Plan

Cultivating Bravery

8 uses for sweaty underwear

Cheap (but effective) kinkster toys

How to Manipulate Pain Processing

How to Process Pain

Planning a scene

Bullying

Lessons for New Dominants

Effective rule making

What to look for in a Sir

What I look for in a submissive

The Mirror Technique

Relationships

Tips for verbal

Punishing subs

How to find a Sir

Etiquette

Why I am a fan of pain

Titles

Layering

Ball gags

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Wau! A really good Summary and Quick Tips to focus on. Thanks!

[thegayboybible]

Styles of Domination

The more I write, the more I find myself expanding on things I touched on in other posts. Somewhat similar to my 8 uses for sweaty underwear post, I’m going to do a quick dump of every style of domination I can think of; with the brief understanding I have of it. 5 minutes to think up as many styles as I can.

I have talked at least once about understanding the personality of the dominant you want to serve. It only seems useful to present as many as I can think of for the very newest of submissives. In real life, personalities can combine multiple types below in varying mixes. But for simplicity’s sake I just stated types I could think of. If you can think of other archetypes and provide a good description when you reblog, I’ll reblog it as well.

- Financial dominant: This dominant is most interested in what submissives can do for him financially. These days it is most often done over the internet although it still happens in person. The personality for this archetype is usually arrogant, actively disrespectful, and self absorbed, and entitled. You owe him this money for simply existing in his presence, for him even deigning to notice you.  I don’t know much about the practicalities of setting tribute amounts nor what exactly the dominant does in exchange if anything.

- Hypnotist: This dominant’s power comes from his ability to hypnotize you. I think for many people there is a question about whether hypnotism is real. My mentor insisted the answer was yes. I think it’s yes, but it depends on who it is, genetics, maybe willpower, and desire to be hypnotized. A hypnotist uses the lure of control over your mind to draw in submissives. What might you do without your conscious mind putting up inhibitions? Hypnotists are usually calm, confident, and have a quiet intensity about them. Hypnotists also have a tendency to be found online since hypno enthusiasts are not always located nearby.

- Bully: Some dominants fetishize the experience of pushing someone around because they are have an intimidating personality and/or physique. Bullies get off on the transgression of using their intimidation to put someone else in the weaker position. Bullies are usually extremely aggressive, often physically fit, and abusive (duh). Bullies tend to play in person since their body is part of what they draw strength and intimidation from.

- Suave (James Bond): This dominant uses charm and wit to dominate others. Their domination is usually more subtle but inevitable. Very much like James Bond himself. When he starts chatting with a pretty girl in the movies, you just know they’re going to sleep together… it’s inevitable. There is no one physique for this type of dominant since the game is primarily mental. Even if they are quite attractive, it is still their wit and charm that gets them what they want.

- Straight Guy: I really hope you all know about the idolatry surrounding straight men before you read this. Simply put, they’re dominant because they’re straight. Submissives cater to them because they’re a challenge and it’s something of a badge of honor to some guys to get someone to act against their publicly stated sexuality. If you need any examples of straight men and their wide variety of personality types, turn on a TV, open Netflix, or walk outside. There are a seemingly unlimited set of examples.

- Corporate Type: The corporate type is a guy who has a nice suit. He’s probably well off, or at least dresses like he is. He has a refined personality. He is usually calmly assertive, authoritative, and elegant. In this way he has a lot in common with the Suave type. The difference is that the corporate type is using his outfit to imply his social/economic station is high enough that you should cater to his will in hopes he will make you a part of his life which in turn will grant you access to the benefits of his social/economic status. He can be assertive when he really wants something, but he will mostly state or imply his will upfront and expect you to comply or not be contacted again.

- Old Guard Leather: My path through BDSM never included interacting with the old guard. What I have to say is merely observation, and may not be entirely accurate. Old Guard types have the weight of tradition behind them. Old Guard is called such because in the relatively young gay scene their traditions are from at least the time of Stonewall if not before. They have a very particular way of doing things. Dominants start out as submissives to a more experienced Sir and that Sir takes the fledgling dominant under his wing and teaches him his style, technique, and skills. In exchange the fledgling dominant serves that Sir however that Sir sees fit until that Sir says the fledgling dominant is ready to leave his tutelage. They have a disciplined and regimented structure that is highly fraternal to the point of dominants almost conveying pedigree to their mentees. Old Guard types are serious, regimented, and very knowledgeable.

- Sadist: A sadist is someone who enjoys inflicting pain (emotional or physical) on others. The media tends to paint a picture of sadists being akin to sociopaths. Maybe some are, but the sadists I’ve met have a very clear sense of whom and what is a plaything and who isn’t. Sadists have a variety of personality types, serious, intense, or just quiet. Dominance can even take a back seat to the desire to inflict preferred types of pain on others.

- Brat Tamer: A brat tamer is someone who enjoys a submissive who is a challenge, someone who challenges their authority. They get off on getting a submissive to submit. They’ll often get bored with more obedient subs. Brat tamers tend to be energetic and intense. Their dominance is often quiet creative both in their assertion of control and punishment. The challenge of a sub who doesn’t obey gets their creativity going and when they succeed they feel far more powerful for having “won” this round.

- Pup Master: I know far more about pups than their masters. What little I do know about pup masters is that they seek puppies to dominate. Puppies tend to be rather high energy and bubbly so I would expect pup masters to have patience as a trait.

- Alpha: Alphas are men who view themselves and their kinky world around them as completely hierarchical. They’re always at the top of that hierarchy, although others coming in second place are a threat of sorts to their authority (although they might never admit that anyone could even BE a rival). Those who do not submit or make themselves useful are generally ignored. Alphas are self obsessed, strict; their aggression varies, and often has very little patience. They believe themselves kings among men and expect that station to be recognized on sight and catered to.

[angelpet]

The 10 Levels of Submission and Slavery

NOTE this is reposted from a defunt elist that I was a member of I do not know of the name at the end of this is the author or not. But I am not the author in any way shape or form. I actually do NOT support or endorse anything that is within this post - take it for what it is reading material that is interesting but has little to no basis in reality for most people who are into BDSM/Kink. This list (“Ten levels of Submission and Slavery”) has become sort of a “defacto BDSM bible” of “Submissive Levels” a submissive/slave may or may not attain. The danger in reading the word “attain” is that a submissive or Dominant may look at this list as something to “work toward.” This is NOT at all the case. It is not a “stair-step” type of thing, where one begins at level one, and progressively moves through the steps up to the platform’s auction block. These ten levels simply gives U/us a VERY broad idea of where a submissive may be upon her own Path. I wrote this piece (again, copied all over the web) to serve as a more convenient guide In My practise. I like to know where the submissive is in this “pseudo” heirarchy to better evaluate problem(s)they face in relationship(s). I hope it helps some of Y/you sort thru your own feelings and functions. We tend to like labels, though I do not particularly care for them Myself. There are far too many shades of kink to pigeon-hole vanilla people - let alone those in O/our life. As with anything, I suggest you take from this article what speaks to you - and discard the rest. No level is “better” than another, or classifies one as a “real submissive or a real "slave”. And again, the lines of demarcation are not cast in stone - you know who and what you are, and the only person to whom one’s level of submission should matter - is the Master or the Mistress. Same courtesey is asked of you in the previous article I recently submitted - please don’t sweat the small stuff. Dr/Master

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[littleredsissy]

Limp Clitty Training!

I found this wonderful post on newfapchan, and I’m going to preserve it here for future reference and for other sissies who want to cum like a girl~

A limp clitty is indeed possible.

Its not too hard to teach your body to stay soft when aroused. The main problem is that the arousal response is autonomal, it’s just something your body does without getting the go ahead from your brain. It’s chemicals in the brain firing on a level you don’t have any conscious control over. Drugs can try and prevent you from getting hard by jacking around with the chemicals and chemical receptors and hypnosis can try and prevent you from getting hard by subconsciously re-associating the stimuli which cause those chemicals, but both of these options are of limited effectiveness and will depend largely on how your brain works. I wouldn’t really recommend either - the former because you may end up with some nasty side effects and the latter because it frankly won’t work super well.

The method I recommend to my sissies is basically a kind of re-association training. I posted this as part of Anni’s training in the ‘Someone Take Control of Me’ thread, but because I care, I’ll repeat the information here for you girls.

See, the big hurdle is that your body is a big dumb beast. It grew up learning to do things a certain way so that’s what it does. When you remove your consciousness from the equation, your body is an animal. It doesn’t know it’s doing anything wrong by getting hard, it’s just doing what instinct and training have taught it. Thankfully though, we can use its own nature against it.

The human brain and the human body are remarkably resilient. If there’s one thing it knows how to do, it’s adapt. That’s fairly convenient for our purposes. So is the fact that the human brain is basically wired for sex. Your body is a slut. It wants to reproduce. All that’s needed, then, to teach your body to be soft, is to force it to realize that it isn’t going to be having any sexy fun if it’s hard. This requires a bit more work and discipline than hypnosis or drugs, but you’ll probably have better long term results with it. Plus, well, training is a whole kind of sexy fun its own.

Here’s what you do.

First, you need to teach your body that an erection is a profoundly unnatural and undesirable state. Think of it like having a muscle cramp. When your leg cramps up you stop what you’re doing and don’t continue until the cramp has gone away. You want to do the same with your clitty getting stiff. If you find yourself getting hard at any point for any reason - if you notice you are getting erect or if you notice you’ve become erect without noticing - stop whatever you are doing and focus on making the hardness go away. Look at something else. Think about something else. Do something else. Do not continue with what you were doing until you are once again nice and soft. With time and a lot of discipline, this will begin to teach your body that your clit shouldn’t be getting hard in response to these stimuli. You will eventually start to notice that you can focus on those things without fear of becoming hard.

For added feminization, when you are trying to think about something else, make an effort to only think about the girliest things you can imagine. Cute shoes, makeup, nails, stuff that is super girly, but which doesn’t get you hot beneath the collar. This will both help you to associate these things with being soft as well as just plain teach you to think girly thoughts throughout the day.

Second, and probably more importantly, you have to change the way you masturbate. Normally when you rub your little clitty it gets all hard and you keep rubbing it till you cum everywhere. This rewards and strengthens the association your body has between arousal, pleasure, and hardness. We are going to change that. From now on, when you masturbate you need to do so either while also playing with your sissy pussy or, if you aren’t that accustomed to anal yet, while pinching your nipples and squeezing your chest. This is to teach your body that it has more than just one erogenous zone. Before you start make sure your clitty gets nice and soft. Concentrate on either the pornographic material or fantasy you are focusing on. Make it something really hot - something that never fails to turn you on. Start rubbing your soft clitty while also fingering or pinching yourself. You should soon find yourself getting hard. When this happens, stop rubbing your clitty, but keep playing with yourself. Consider using the free hand to pinch your other nipple or rub your thighs or slap your ass - do something slutty with it. Eventually your clit should start to become nice and soft again. If it doesn’t seem to want to become soft, slowly ease off on the stimulation until you’ve stopped altogether. If you still have trouble becoming soft, go do something else entirely until it finally goes down. When it does become soft, resume rubbing it. Stop when it becomes hard, start again when it becomes soft. Continue this pattern for at least half an hour. This will teach your body that there is a greater sexual reward for it if it is nice and soft. It’ll also teach it that breast stimulation and getting your cute little hole filled are important parts of having sex, which will also help add to the strength of the orgasm. The first several times you do this you may have trouble cumming. If this happens, don’t try to force it and especially don’t rub one out afterwards. You may simply need to resign yourself to the fact that sometimes sluts like you don’t get to cum. Not cumming will make you hornier for next time, which will make it all that much easier. As you get good at this, you’ll find yourself regularly able to cum while soft.

If you keep this training up, eventually you should find yourself no longer getting hard at all when you are aroused, but rather you’ll find a feeling of emptiness in your ass or a yearning in your breasts to be pinched and squeezed. Your body will have relearned how it should be handling arousal. With persistence and discipline you should notice some basic results within two weeks, and some more substantial results after about a month. Obviously the longer you keep the training up the more effect it has, but of course, you’ll eventually hit the point where you’re no longer getting hard at all, at which point you don’t really need it anymore.

[randychristian]

How to get your boy into Chastity!

1. Tell him why you want to place him into a chastity cage *”I want you to always be your horniest around me"*

2. Start Cheap. I recommend a cheap device from Ebay. Search for  Male Polycarbonate Chastity.

3. Put it on for him. Be careful and gentle. The first time takes a while. If he has hair down there, leave it. He will discover he needs to shave on his own. Shaving will be his gift to you, if you want it.

4. Put his clothes on and take him out somewhere where you can both see how it feels while walking, sitting etc.

5. Take it off. Have him jack off for you. Then have him do it again. And again.

5. Have him put it on himself. This is usually the time he will bring up shaving. If he wants to shave, do it right. Downward strokes. And after have him put deodorant on it. Not lotion or oil as so many recommend. You want that freshly shaved area dry to prevent razor bumps.

5. Tell him he will be in it for three days. That’s just enough time to drive him crazy. 

6. Introduce him to his nipples. Have him wear a Shirt and lightly play with them. Not nipple torture, light pleasure. Explain to him that the nipples are directly connected to his prostate area, and with training he can have an orgasm that feels great, but leaves him just as horny. This will take the attention off his penis while giving him a new path to pleasure. Anal play is for you, not him. (Nipple orgasms have become my favorite!!!)

7.  Monitor him. Check for his comfort. This might not be the right cage for him. It can be too tight over time or too loose and pull out.

8. On day three he will really want to cum. It’s time for his first ruined orgasm. Have his hands behind his back, take the penis portion of the cage off only and stroke him making sure to let it go just as he is about to cum. This will ensure that this way of cumming is not pleasant for him and over time, he will not want it any more. Lock him back up. This time for 7 days. 

9. Have him really concentrate on using his nipples for pleasure. After some practice he will be able to release some boy juice into his cage relieving some pressure from his balls, but keeping him horny.

10. On day 7 give him another ruined orgasm. Keep on this 7 day schedule until he requests more. 

Now you have a good boy that wants nothing more than to please you.

[lockedguynyc]

The Best Chastity Letter... Ever

Check out this AMAZING Chastity Letter from a Master to a Boy posted on metalbondnyc’s website. Fuck it makes me fill my cage more than the rest…. ( metalbondnyc is my hero)…

Find the link to this awesome website here: http://www.metalbondnyc.com/

“By Unknown

Rob:

You’ve long had a desire to explore Chastity, and although I’ve indulged you at times over the years, we’ve only played at the edges of your desires.  That, Boy, is about to change.

I’ve carefully thought through how best to make sure you have the opportunity to explore your desires and explore a period of Chastity while keeping in mind that your fantasy may be more than you’d bargain for.

I’ve also considered our schedules, lifestyle and your high need for sexual release and believe I’ve found the perfect solution to meet your desires.   This may not be what you’d choose if it were you making the decision, but the decision will not be yours.

I know you far better than you know yourself, and I understand that an exploration into your desires and fetish won’t work while we remain equal partners, so I’m making you my Chastity Boy.  Understand that Boys don’t have cocks (those are for men); Boys don’t have erections; Boys can’t be trusted to stand and pee (you will sit to urinate); Boys don’t have pubes;  Boys have chores with ramifications and/or punishment if they don’t perform them to my satisfaction; Boys don’t have orgasms.

I have no interest in your being a boy in any other area of our relationship, but until I decide otherwise, you will be a boy when it comes to your dick and exploring your chastity fantasy.

As my Chastity Boy:

You will be shaved from the neck down..   Chest, Ass, Crotch, Arms, Legs, Armpits will be completely smooth. You will shave yourself and present yourself for my inspection.

We will have sex one more time before you’re locked in the cock cage. Enjoy this sexual release, because it’s the last one I’m guaranteeing for awhile.

To ensure that this is a consensual agreement, you will beg and plead with me to lock up your cock as you’re approaching orgasm. You will beg me to take complete control of your cock and orgasms. You will beg me to make you my Chastity Boy.

Immediately upon achieving orgasm, the cock cage will be locked on your cock. I want it locked on while the last of your cum is dribbling out of your dick and before you even clean up.

The instant the lock snaps shut, you give up all control of your penis and orgasms to me. I will decide the next time you touch your penis as well as the next time you have an orgasm.

I demand the following as owner of your penis:

You will learn the benefits of chastity, the enjoyment of orgasm control and the pleasure of handing over all rights to your penis.

You will learn how to gain sexual fulfillment though bringing ME to orgasm and learn how your ass, mouth and other areas of your body can provide enjoyment despite not being able to cum.

You will not speak of your penis or your orgasms. The penis belongs to me, and you simply don’t have orgasms until I choose otherwise. When asked, you will respond with how MY penis is doing while locked in the cage.

You will learn to embrace your interest in chastity without complaint. You will not ask for release, or ask when you will be released.  You will not like what happens if you complain or beg.

Since there are times when wearing the cock cage will cause undue discomfort or not be appropriate, I will allow it to be removed in the following conditions: Doctor Visits, Social Situations, Travelling or other situations as I deem appropriate. Unless otherwise instructed, you will not touch yourself or seek sexual gratification when out of the cage.  On demand, you will put it back on and surrender the keys.

Your period of chastity will not impact my sexual needs. You will ensure that my sexual needs are met in any way that I choose. You will learn how satisfying it is to provide total pleasure to me without regard to your own sexual release.

Get used to this. I know you have a strong desire to be a chastised boy, but lack the initiative to do it on your own.

I WILL control your cock and you WILL become the boy you and I both know you want to be.”

[kjay-puppy]

[doyouwantthetoporbottom]

Isn’t this going a bit far? 

[objectd-deactivated20220216]

Nope!  Master smiles. 

[ownedbybds]

No… it’s not. What the fuck kind of question is that?? If you DON’T fuck up, you won’t get punished. If this sacred you, then you feel it’s ok to fuck up. Owners have the expectation that their time training a fag won’t be wasted. Don’t want to feel the volts, then operate as you were trained and you’ll never feel your Owners jolt.

[betaboys]

No need for an obvious collar when a dog zapper around the boy’s balls will work just as well - if not better.

Boys, if you find yourselves misbehaving, ask the Alpha Man in your life if you can have one of these - and give him the remote control.  He’ll love you even more.

[therestrained-deactivated201709]

In my previous life as a slave, my Owner and I had a detailed plan and schedule for transforming me into a slave object. We got to #17, and we were about to transition to the really serious ones starting at step #18 when my Owner decided not to do this any more. Sort of a shame. I would have liked to have gotten my restraints sealed permanently!