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[ramithetradfem]

I feel so bad for my trad girls who are on TikTok. It's such an open space and people will literally fight them tooth and nail about their own life choices. Being trad does not mean that we rely on men only. Many of us are still single. And it also does not mean that we would let him dictate and control every part of our life. That would make no sense. We are people too, many of us just want men who can provide for us and who can step up into that role. Especially some of us who are black women and who have never had men do that for us. Don't tell women like myself that it's just a fantasy because I will not be consumed by struggle love.

[softlytrad-nc]

Being a “trad” woman can be such a strange experience w/ the way people treat and perceive us. Being a black trad woman really adds an extra layer of spice.

It’s always comforting to hear and see other black women in the community, especially those w/ shared experiences even when those experiences are rather unfortunate ones..

[lilyinthevalley]

🌸“Just as there is no warning for childbirth, there is no preparation for the sight of a first child. There should be a song for women to sing at this moment or a prayer to recite. But perhaps there is none because there are no words strong enough to name the moment.” — Anita Diamant

[lilyinthevalley]

🌾 “Having kids—the responsibility of rearing good, kind, ethical, responsible human beings—is the biggest job anyone can embark on.” —Maria Shriver

[gonnabeatradwife]

Why is it that when I say to people I want a big family, to stay at home, take care of the children and the house, im "wasting my potential" and "fueling the weak female stereotype"? Why can't people understand that im not being pressured into anything or brainwashed by society? I literally just want to have a big family, loving husband and be a housewife.

[lettersfromadreamgirl]

really just want to live a quiet life with quiet, genuine, humble people. not interested in loud people or dramatic situations. just want peace, and the sun, and tenderness, and warmth.

[gearboxpraexology]

They destroyed the single-income family because a stay at home parent is un-taxable labor.

[kweza-deactivated20221020]

"if it weren't for feminism, you wouldn't be able to participate in the workforce!!" girl, everyone in the workforce benefits from female labor before females themselves + i don't wanna work

[patriarchal-femininity]

“I enjoy being independent and having a career” ok girl some of us don’t and thanks to much lower incomes it’s really difficult to live off of only one persons income especially if you want to have multiple children. So thanks for ruining that for a lot of women.

[kweza-deactivated20221020]

The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

1 Corinthians 7: 3-5

[chronicallytraditional]

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[egberts]

not to sound like an old bitch but little kids shouldn't have unlimited access to phones or tablets or the internet in general. they really gotta go play outside and with toys sometimes. you can't let wifi raise your kid

[lovely-trad]

And when you tell this to other parents they all say “oh that opinion will change when you have kids” Like no it won’t, I have seen what it has done to kid’s brains. I don’t care if technology is the future, your kid is just a kid and deserves to live out their childhood as innocent children who want to explore the outdoors and use their imaginations when playing. If we keep this bs up, kids will just have mush for brains, zero social skills, and no innocence.

[tradmidwestman]

These are also the people who say kids cost $1mil each by the time they're 18, refer to them as "crotch goblins," and proudly proclaim how much they love working because they hate their family.

[oldfarmhousefallfeatures]

http://www.instagram.com/longestacrefarm/

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[petitefleuriste]

I personally only want to wake up next to a man who is committed to me and we're in a covenant marriage.

[homeiswherethewitchcraftis]

A man being loudly "pro choice" is a huge red flag

[homeiswherethewitchcraftis]

Since abortion is a hot topic right now and the pro life /pro choice debates have been all over my dash I feel it's time to bring this up again.

Men being loudly "pro choice" is a huge red flag.

You need to ask yourself why a man would be so invested in this issue and for many "pro choice " men the reason is they want access to women and women's bodies without the consequences and commitment.

[dreamsofmotherhoodandmarrige]

Could someone please explain to me why people feel the need to scream at trad women about how we can "be more" ? More than what? Why don't you just let us live our lives? Why do you feel the need to control womens choices?