You can call me Sleeps, I use Ze/Zhir/Zem pronouns.
My tumblr name is a lil joke with myself because Ive had issues with Chronic Fatigue my whole life and sleep between 14-17 hours on a good day.
Profile pic is a crochet tiger orb, pattern is by eniyee on youtube. I like making lots of crochet things and i post the pictures sometimes :)
I’m Queer, Polyamourous, and Genderfluid
I’m dating two very wonderful folk irl, a nonbinary he/they buddy bf, and a she/it puppygirl gf
I am disabled, a mobility aid user, with hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, Fibromyalgia, tourrettes, Migraines, cptsd, anxiety, and adhd and autism.
I self-diagnosed as autistic since 2018 and only decided to get an official dx in 2021 as i finally found a place that diagnoses adults on a payment plan. Feel free to ask me more about that process if you’re interested :)
I also had a PFO (hole in my heart) that i had surgery for in 2020.
I am interested in psychology (studying it at uni), Magical Boy!, Boyfriends (comic), flowers, acnh, solitaire, puzzles, stardew valley, our life:forever and always, arcane, psy-changeling series, guild hunter series, the owl house, Welcome to Demon school, fantasy manga, pokemon, legend of zelda, writing, drawing, crocheting and some other random hyperfixation of the month (this month: DnD! Specifically the campaign my partner/housemate is running for me! And even more specifically, the ships between my character and the npcs they made haha)
I am a big supporter of Self Advocacy, Self-dx and self-care! I am also a spoonie <3
I tag my posts with either long post, various triggers where relevant, and im going to try to tag my posts as well “sleeps says stuff” and “sleeps shows stuff”
If there is anything you would like me to tag just flick me a message :D
Though fair warning, I will sometimes reblog nsfw in a reblogging brainfog. I'll try to tag anything very explicit but if you don't wanna see anything even vaguely nsfw probs dont follow.
Anyway! If you have any questions feel free to pm me or send me an ask! Even if you just want to vent or infodump I am happy to chat :D
actually insane how many people are in the notes of lrb making it about anything but transmisogyny. yes it hurts to be treated like a misguided woman by cis people when you're nonbinary, no it is not even remotely equivalent to being perceived as a rapist-in-waiting by not just cis people but also tme trans people who claim to be in community with you
when you are presented with the concept of people viewing all nonbinary people as either "silly girls" or "dangerous sexual predators deserving of social and physical violence" your first read on the situation should not be "oh no!! they're imposing a binary!!"
I was at a major convention with some family (hence the devon posting) earlier and I thought I was a fan of anime but I'm realizing that I'm Not and being a fan of anime isnt even really a thing because anime really is Way More than just one thing, its 100 different genres of which i like maybe Two. The amount I have in common with Logan (26, Demon Slayer fan who argues over shonen character power levels and owns figures of that one chick with the bamboo in her mouth) is genuinely almost 0 and yet to most people we'd both be considered Anime Fans which is. Crazy. I'm a yuri obsessed lesbian who dresses in gothic lolita fashion and exclusively reads 2 volume manga that never gets turned into anime there is almost Nothing for me at any major anime convention or manga store Ever and yet everytime people see Goku they go "Oh hey look its anime you like anime" like. What the hell. I guess it makes semse but also Damn there is NOTHING for me huh
Seriously though the amount of times ive been at like a used bookstore or something and a friend or family member is like "look mori they have a manga section!" and its just volumes and volumes of like naruto or something then i have to go and ask the tired clerk if they have any yuri and they point me to an "lgbtq" section tgats like 3 full rows of yaoi and then for yuri theres like 3 books and one is an anthology, one is volume 3 of a series i havent started yet, and one is fucking volume 8 of love hina for some fucking reason, its CRIMINAL. ITS FUCKED!! IT SUCKS!!!!! IM GOING CRAZY
i always find it a little funny when someone claims they don't like fate and will put something else on a pedestal for comparison. you look inside and it's a bunch of fate inspired story/character beats.
[ID: A photo of three cows. In the center is a brown and white calf. On the right is a solid brown calf, touching noses with the middle calf. On the left is a brown and white adult cow, licking the middle calf’s cheek.]
As a transsexual woman 👩 who has had multiple experiences ‼️ I have found 🔎 that the biggest block of cheese 🧀 is usually the one ☝️ that has the largest size 📈
