Sleepy Mari

any pronouns | Filipino | married I do art (mostly OCs) | Comm Status: OPEN

[sleepy-marico]

Intro 🖤​💤​🐑

You can just call me Marico or Mari.

🖤​💤​🐑 BYF

I don't post nsfw and dead dove art directly here, but I'm firmly anti-censorship and may ramble about it here once in a while.

I'm not much of a fandom person anymore so please don't expect me to draw fan art too much. I mostly draw for commissions or for my OC project now.

I do not like associating harmful behaviors with mental illnesses. That includes paraphilias. Actions and beliefs are what matter to me.

I don't agree with policing queer labels.

I won't follow back if your bio says you're a minor.

🖤​💤​🐑 DNF

Antis/fancops/"neutral-shippers"

Bigots (chuds, TERFs, SWERFs, etc.)

pro-c paraphiles/MAPS/"zoosexuals"

Anyone 15 and below

🖤​💤​🐑 ​MY INTERESTS:

menhera and the aesthetics related to it (yamikawa and jirai kei). If you don't know what these are, please check out Takayan's songs. Disclaimer: I do not condone self-harm or any harmful behavior. What I do advocate for is exploring thoughts and feelings in safe and creative ways.

fictional priests :3 (Do not give me real priests. I do not trust them.)

cute fictional girls (and feminine characters), especially if they're a bit unokay. :blobfoxfloof:​

sussy fictional men who can manipulate me :blobfoxfloof:​

Vocaloid music, especially the angsty ones

Fate Grand Order

Other multimedia IPs that I don't often talk about (MILGRAM, HypMic, etc.)

Art and art-related things

🖤​💤🐑​ TAG DIRECTORY:

#Maricopium - self-indulgent art and stuff about me

#Marico Draws - general art tag

#Maricopium OC - art of my OCs/sonas (pls use this tag if you decide to draw my OCs)

#Moricaposting - silly art/shitposts of my OCs

🖤​💤🐑​ COMMISSION LINKS:

VGen

Waitlisting and Commission Inquiry Form (For PH clients and other non-VGen comms)

🖤​💤🐑​ OTHER LINKS:

Aethy (18+ users only)

Bluesky

Strawpage

Carrd

My OC project blog (Afterdeath Encore)

[holidayslaughter]

whenever i see people call random edgy but not-at-all harmful artists "degens" i would like to refer them to the first sentence of wikipedia's "degenerate art" article

[starlight-riptide]

@sp0ng3art did this malix commission for me back in late 2024, idk if i ever posted it here. one of the very first rival dance malixes. they're open for commissions rn, so if you have your own toxic yaoi (or yuri, i don't judge) you want art of, i'd go get some from them! they also do other things. furries. ponies. spongebob gijinkas. etc

go give them money

[prismatoxic]

the man who haunts my dreams and also my dick

[kaelio]

[sp0ng3art]

I'M OPEN FOR COMMISSIONS (YEAGH)

i have a crippling amount of medical debt i need to get paid off and also need to eat food so i am remaking my commissions post! our situation isn't super dire but basically my gf and i are barely keeping our heads above water

if you're interested in a commission, dm me here and we'll get started!

if you'd like to throw a struggling rat and their gf a lil money just because, my paypal is @mcmcgee -- i'll even draw you a thing if you want!

[sp0ng3art]

we're barely making rent this month and i'm freaking out about it a little, so if you're interested in a commission feel free to dm me! if not, sharing this goes a long way. my paypal is @mcmcgee if you can toss a couple of bucks our way!

[ms-mazarin]

Words to replace said, except this actually helps

I got pretty fed up with looking for words to replace said because they weren’t sorted in a way I could easily use/find them for the right time. So I did some myself.

IN RESPONSE TO Acknowledged Answered Protested

INPUT/JOIN CONVERSATION/ASK Added Implored Inquired Insisted Proposed Queried Questioned Recommended Testified

GUILTY/RELUCTANCE/SORRY Admitted Apologized Conceded Confessed Professed

FOR SOMEONE ELSE Advised Criticized Suggested

JUST CHECKING Affirmed Agreed Alleged Confirmed

LOUD Announced Chanted Crowed

LEWD/CUTE/SECRET SPY FEEL Appealed Disclosed Moaned

ANGRY FUCK OFF MATE WANNA FIGHT Argued Barked Challenged Cursed Fumed Growled Hissed Roared Swore

SMARTASS Articulated Asserted Assured Avowed Claimed Commanded Cross-examined Demanded Digressed Directed Foretold Instructed Interrupted Predicted Proclaimed Quoted Theorized

ASSHOLE Bellowed Boasted Bragged

NERVOUS TRAINWRECK Babbled Bawled Mumbled Sputtered Stammered Stuttered

SUAVE MOTHERFUCKER Bargained Divulged Disclosed Exhorted

FIRST OFF Began

LASTLY Concluded Concurred

WEAK PUSY Begged Blurted Complained Cried Faltered Fretted

HAPPY/LOL Cajoled Exclaimed Gushed Jested Joked Laughed

WEIRDLY HAPPY/EXCITED Extolled Jabbered Raved

BRUH, CHILL Cautioned Warned

ACTUALLY, YOU’RE WRONG Chided Contended Corrected Countered Debated Elaborated Objected Ranted Retorted

CHILL SAVAGE Commented Continued Observed Surmised

LISTEN BUDDY Enunciated Explained Elaborated Hinted Implied Lectured Reiterated Recited Reminded Stressed

BRUH I NEED U AND U NEED ME Confided Offered Urged

FINE Consented Decided

TOO EMO FULL OF EMOTIONS Croaked Lamented Pledged Sobbed Sympathized Wailed Whimpered

JUST SAYING Declared Decreed Mentioned Noted Pointed out Postulated Speculated Stated Told Vouched

WASN’T ME Denied Lied

EVIL SMARTASS Dictated Equivocated Ordered Reprimanded Threatened

BORED Droned Sighed

SHHHH IT’S QUIET TIME Echoed Mumbled Murmured Muttered Uttered Whispered

DRAMA QUEEN Exaggerated Panted Pleaded Prayed Preached

OH SHIT Gasped Marveled Screamed Screeched Shouted Shrieked Yelped Yelled

ANNOYED Grumbled Grunted Jeered Quipped Scolded Snapped Snarled Sneered

ANNOYING Nagged

I DON’T REALLY CARE BUT WHATEVER Guessed Ventured

I’M DRUNK OR JUST BEING WEIRDLY EXPRESSIVE FOR A POINT/SARCASM Hooted Howled Yowled

I WONDER Pondered Voiced Wondered

OH, YEAH, WHOOPS Recalled Recited Remembered

SURPRISE BITCH Revealed

IT SEEMS FAKE BUT OKAY/HA ACTUALLY FUNNY BUT I DON’T WANT TO LAUGH OUT LOUD Scoffed Snickered Snorted

BITCHY Tattled Taunted Teased

Edit: People, I’m an English and creative writing double major in college; I understand that there’s nothing wrong with simply using “said.” This was just for fun, and it comes in handy when I need to add pizzazz. 

[fuckyeahcharacterdevelopment]

In addition to a little pizzazz in the dialogue tags, these are also super useful as part of the narration, or summing up/paraphrasing something that has been said, or even in a character’s dialogue as they describe how someone was talking!

[morganwriteblr]

Snarled growled hissed my BELOVEDS

[peach-pot]

hearing examples of smaller scale things that (many) allo people consider cheating is the conversational equivalent of having ice cold water dumped on you. like jesus christ.

[peach-pot]

examples I’ve heard lately:

thinking of someone else during sex

being friends with an ex

hiding your phone/texts from your partner

spending time one on one with someone else

liking someone else’s instagram post

[peach-pot]

I think some people have forgotten that something can be upsetting to them without being cheating

[the-bar-sinister]

#all of this is true but also?#i don't think it matters if you think dumb shit is cheating as long as you and your partner are in agreement #like yeah that's fucking stupid but rules for thee and not for me‚ so#truly who cares if you aren't forcing it or being unreasonable in each other's eyes #that said keep that shit like 5‚000 miles away from me at all times ok👍

Exactly, exactly!

But here's where the problem arises! Most (monogamous, assumed allosexual, assumed alloromantic) people never actually discuss boundaries and what they consider to be cheating when they go into a relationship.

They just go into a relationship with a specific, idealized version of what everyone's boundaries "should obviously" be and assume they are on the same page as their partner, and then shocked pikachu face and cry 'cheating' when it turns out that they're not, in fact, on the same page of what counts as cheating at all.

[unclefather]

[superepicchan]

[prismatoxic]

oh i forgor to post this. it was for an art trade

nunchuck.

[charlesoberonn]

Anime creators will design so many cool and appealing girls and then make the main character a copy-paste skinny guy with black or brown hair.

[charlesoberonn]

I see a meme with a cute anime girl. I check out the anime she's from. The main character looks like this

[roving-rover]

[c00bie]

[kirindensetsu]

Wish people could see this in its context as an expression of fascism instead of in its shallowest interpretation as haha gender funny. Most Japanese men *exist* in uniform. If you are an adult man in public not in uniform, you are broadcasting that you are outside of society and will be treated differently and less well. You can't wear a fun tie or a colored dress shirt or shoes other than black. It extends to your body. You can't have long hair. You can't have dyed hair. You can't have a waist size over 85cm. You can't be too tan.

On the flipside, if you are a woman and dress plainly with no makeup or accessories, you are treated differently and less well. Go into any station shopping arcade, any mall, any craft fair, and it's like infinite permutations of Claire's For Grown-Ass Adult Women. ESPECIALLY if you're unmarried and of ~marriageable age~, you HAVE to try to be fancy or you're like. Mentally-ill by society's standard.

Please take the intensity of the patriarchy here seriously. People joke about it being the year Showa 100 and not Reiwa 7: we're living like it's 1926 and it sucks :,)

[ratbastarddotfuck]

tumblr keeps giving me these ads with straight up porn in them (like, nude dickriding) and while idgaf about seeing porn I really am like, exhausted by the double edged swords of "terms of service" and "advertising".

I can't post images that show too much of my stomach, because notable body fat trips whatever alarms are up in tumblr HQ. but advertisers can show me skinny white girls bouncing on it all day long bc like, they're advertisers.

we live in advertising world. companies have more rights to "expression" in public than individuals. once you notice it you won't stop seeing it. you have a moral duty to resist it.

[ratbastarddotfuck]

getting tired of these kinds of responses. "you're only seeing porn because you look at porn and the ads are connected to your data huehuehuehue" like it's some kind of gotcha.

I am a sex worker - a porn creator. Yes, I spend a lot of time on porn sites! sometimes for work, sometimes for pleasure. I'm not embarrassed to admit it. Do you think I should be? I'm on testosterone, sometimes I jerk off four times a day. Get over it.

When I said "idgaf about seeing porn" I meant it! What I DO care about is the fact that I as a user and a worker cannot post my creative labour on this website, but that advertisers can show me whatever they want, including AI generated Attractive People doing my job. The implication that they're doing this with the use of tracking cookies makes it worse, actually. I don't like living under surveillance. Do you think it's funny? Or do you think that was part of the problem I was trying to talk about from the start?

[color-palettes]

You know, they used to call me the Drift King back in college - submitted by artisticallygay

#E3DCF9 #8D5EB2 #9758C9 #3B2BC2 #371E99 #08073C

[saveyourhelplessspite]

okay so we all understand that sexual attraction doesn't always lead to sex. are we ready to consider that romantic attraction doesn't always lead to romance.

[saveyourhelplessspite]

and i dont mean this in a "its for your own good we dont date" way, or a "they got turned down and are still friends" way, i mean it in a "there is romantic attraction present but the one experiencing it doesnt want to do anything with it" way. am i making sense. are you hearing the words im saying. it wont fucking kill you if you dont act on it. like obviously you should probably communicate it someday but you dont have to let it dictate you or consume you. its just a feeling.

[papercranesandpride]

I've had multiple hook up partners who were clearly very into my personality and stuff in a more than just sexual way, but knew I was aromantic so they'd just bend over backwards to say that they were so into me platonically, only platonically, they thought I was sooooo cool but only in a friend way. And it just was obviously not true. And I had to be like "hey. You are allowed to be romantically attracted to me, you know? That's a feeling. You don't control your feelings. Me being aromantic doesn't mean you're supposed to somehow stop having certain feelings? That isn't how it works? And you're not a dick for having feelings? You're only a dick if you expect them to be reciprocated or for them to turn into an actual romantic relationship when I made it clear that wouldn't happen from the start."

Like. It really troubles me that people apparently think they aren't supposed to have feelings for aromantic people because that implies they can't actually wrap their head around having romantic feelings and then not doing anything about it. And that's like. Really really troubling from a consent perspective.

Like. Alloromantics really don't seem to have the concept of "feeling romantic attraction and just not doing anything about it and seeing it as morally neutral because it's just a feeling" and I think that's a huge problem.

[dyscomancer]

[can-i-make-image-descriptions]

[Image ID: Bluesky post from alix e. harrow (@/ alixEHarrow.bksy.s...) reading: gently: it's fine if you don't love explicit sex scenes in fiction but it would be cool if you could talk about it without sounding indistinguishable from moms for liberty /End ID]

[radiogeist]

pink metro luka!

[churomo]

kisses for the young master…!

[churomo]

get a room!!!