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“Can I be butch if I’m [insert gender identity here]?” Yeah. “But what if—” Doesn’t matter. You can be butch. “But someone on TikTok said—” TikTok is a psyop designed to destroy the humanity of anyone who uses it for too long, you better not be taking anything to heart if it comes from TikTok. “But I don’t want top surgery or short hair.” Then you’re gonna be in great company because neither of those things are requirements to be butch. “But I’m not strong or tough.” The bedrock of butchness is built on fat, disabled, gentle butches. You belong here. You can be butch if you feel you are.

andonlyafoolwouldsaythat

Hey so remember when the current wave of anti-transmasc discourse appeared and a bunch of us were like "this sounds exactly like baeddelism"

And how some of us were like "declaring that half of the trans/nonbinary community and everyone outside of it is Out To Get Transfems is bad because it makes socially vulnerable transfems even more isolated! Just like with the original baeddels who used it to abuse people!"

And how we were like "saying trans women are ontologically incapable of evil is going to be used to cover for abuse, just like the original baeddels did"

And how we were like "making it so that any accusation of abuse against a trans woman is written off as transmisogyny is also going to be used by abusers, just like the original baeddels did"

And NOW the neo-baeddels have one-upped the originals by defending pedophilia and saying anyone who disagrees with them is transmisogynist! Y'know, like someone who definitely isn't looking for young victims would do (WINK)

It's almost like we knew what we were saying when we said "hey this is a rancid philosophy and it's going to harm a lot of people! Mostly young trans women!" Because we'd seen it happen before!

I hate it here!!!!!!!

(Further reading if you aren't familiar with baeddels.

Also it should go without saying but: obviously I am not saying transfems/trans women in general are abusive. This is about a relatively small and very specific group of extremely online trans women. I am also saying to never trust anyone who wants you to buy into a philosophy that says Only The In-Group Is Trustworthy And Safe, for any value of "in-group.")

sorin-sunchild

The fact is 'baeddelism' never really went away because radical transfeminism never really went away. For a while that specific branch just wasn't popular enough to be watched and noted by the majority of people.

Every so often a cult of personality is created around someone or a few someone's in the TRF spaces and whatever they say, goes. Currently the ones who have that following are happily riding the let's hate trans men train into a brick wall.

None of what is being said about trans men, nonbinary people and intersex people is new the only new part is that we have a word/concept they don't like (transandrophobia) and this has caused an unusually high concentration of hatred on trans men/mascs specifically.

But also any trans woman/femme who dares to disagree with them.

You see how history repeats itself? (General you, not OP) I dare say it's even worse this time because we've got trans men and mascs joining it more often with the TRF stuff and cis people happily joining in just bashing trans men/mascs because it's more fun and acceptable.

I don't care how many people consider filing away the receipts and talking about it 'bullying' and 'harassment campaigns'. For the safety of all trans people, including trans women and femmes, we can't just shut up about how dangerous and wrong this all is or let it be lost and without evidence so it's just our word against theirs.

It's not just about the groups they target for hate and bigotry, but also about the damage TRFs and neo-baeddels can and will do because their ideology is inherently flawed and more about causing trans women to become fearful and isolated and therefore vulnerable than it is helping them. It's no better than any other branch of radical feminism and it's important to not forget it.

waitingforthet

optimysticals

I am laughing so hard I scared the cat.

paw-thetic

The concept of being borrowed is so hot. Your partners friend asking to borrow you, and you don’t get a say, they’re not asking you. Your partner has the power, the say in who can borrow you, who you have to listen to, what they’re allowed to do to you. And you just go along with it, like a good puppy

grimygrimygrimy

firm reminder that when youre hitting people in the face for horny reasons you need to need to need to make sure their mouth is fully shut. i dont care how hot slapping something out of someones mouth is, or slapping them to shut them up. if theyd like to keep using their jaw in the future you must make sure its shut first. this can be really hot too ofc for those with open hearts and minds

grimygrimygrimy

exactly this part

d4rthberry

oh my god, your canines are so pointy, they almost look like fangs (flirting)

katlovesshrimps

Brandy has wandering hands

she/her for both characters

excerpto

Me: i support the fetishistic nature of this content but NOT the mischaracterization

furbasement

Art by hyenaboi

vintar

there's this one gay porn studio i'm subscribed to email updates for just because i am never prepared for what each email contains

pretentious gay sluts i am very fond of you

puppy-mommy

handing out flyers to transmascs about estradiol cream (can be used to keep your pussy wet and healthy but without triggering periods or having any feminizing effects) and transfemmes about Cialis (works even post-orchi)

puppy-mommy

and then telling both to start prep too

houndmother

new blog same sexual health advocate. since making this post i’ve switched from cialis to topical testosterone cream though.

houndmother

you can take both. i do both now. testosterone cream once a week, Cialis as needed. might start taking the cialis on a regular schedule too.

boybeetles

Would like to add on about the estrogen for transmascs; if you get dysphoric of the feeling of your vagina getting wet, there isultra-low doses of estrogen suppositories. I take a 10 microgram suppository of estrogen twice a week. It’s enough to make it easier for me to pee, but not enough to cause me to get wet. ✌️

I know a lot of guys skip looking into estrogen suppositories bc they don’t do vaginal penetration, but even if you are a top or only do anal penetration it’s still important to consider it as an option if you’re experiencing issues. Pelvic floor dysfunction caused by vaginal atrophy can make it hard to relax the muscles in the pelvis, making it hard to pee and make it hard to relax the anus. If you find yourself having trouble peeing or trouble relaxing for anal, talk to your doctor about your options for treatments. Once I started 10 micrograms biweekly I had a lot easier time prepping for anal.

basic-bamboo

I also originally didn't like doing the estrogen cream because, at the dose I was taking, it made me feel like I was on my period all the time (it didn't trigger a period, just made me feel crampy and sick), but then I used a non-hormonal alternative vaginal moisturizer for awhile which worked really well, but I just so happened to be using a small amount of the estrogen for dryness stone my urethra and that small dose also worked for my vaginal atrophy as well with none of the side effects.

THERE IS SOMETHING OUT THERE FOR YOU!

sunspotpony

Adding along for transfemme folks that in addition to an ED medication to encourage continued use and bloodflow, that topical t-gel is not masculinizing, and helps protect the tissue and reduce atrophy, and help keeps the tissue healthy both pre and post-op. It's the same tissue being repurposed post-op, so it's still at risk of atrophy, so the same stuff can help reduce tissue atrophy. That's right, t-gel is helpful even if you plan on getting a neovagina, because "If you're asking a doctor to fold an origami cat, it's best to bring them the highest quality paper." Healthier tissue is easier to work with and more likely to result in a successful surgery. Similarly, as much as a lot of people find it gender affirming, please think carefully about deliberate long-term use of cock-cages -- those kinds that result in substantial shrinkage. If you're looking to get a neovagina, you'll want to avoid prolonged cock cage use for the same reasons-- less tissue, thinner tissue, atrophied tissue, unhealthy tissue, will have poorer outcomes for surgery. Cock cages and the associated shrinking are GREAT for transfemme folks who want to KEEP their bits/don't want surgery, but want to minimize them, keep them small, and to reduce the dysphoria of a larger, more prominent penis. But they can be a setup for FAILURE if one is trying to get a neovagina constructed. Please be safe, and good luck and much love. World may be spooky, but we're all in this shit together. Rooting for you.