Annie

Be prepared for incessant reblogging.

[bsd-elle]

I know that Buddy Daddies is a dumb show with cute moments, and I totally agree.

But I just can't help but marvel at their writing choices.

They could've very easily continued with the sxf narrative, two hitmen adopt a kid for some reason, and hijinks ensues.

But rather, they opted to create a genuinely authentic found family trope, where two adults, both traumatised and not equipped to be parents, have taken it upon themselves to raise a child, to the best of their abilities.

Rei, who's father can't even be addressed with that title, who never had the chance to live his childhood.

And kazuki who never had any parental figures, who's chance at family was ripped away from him, for which he blames himself constantly.

These two people, who come together, to adopt and take care of a sunshine child like Miri, not only do they give her a loving, caring family dynamic, something she wasn't privy to earlier, but the two of them heal through her.

Rei is able to live his childhood, and enjoy his life, has a space where he can show his emotions, without being a stoic figure.

Kazuki, my poor boy, who feels like he doesn't have the right to have a family because he couldn't 'protect' them, now have a chance to raise a child.

And what I love about it is, not once does kazuki project his trauma onto Miri, not once does it seem like he's trying to 'redo history'.

He's very self aware of himself, the trauma he carries, and the mistakes he's made.

Yet, he constantly tries to better himself, and be the best parent to Miri.

Their love for each other is so palpable, obviously with his over protection and physical touch, but beyond that, the small things he does.

'our Miri', 'my girl', 'our genes'.

He fully has accepted Miri into his life, and considers Rei as his co parent, and I... I just love that so much.

Because I imagine this airing in a conservative country like Japan, and even if it wasn't gay parents, this could also be used for adoptions, where some people believe that it's not that same thing as having a blood relationship.

Buddy daddies simultaneously breaks down so many gender roles, and this ideal family notion, by having two male parents.

But more on the writing, Rei's care towards both Kazuki and Miri was so clear.

It's through subtle words, he tags along for everything Kazuki does, he reassures him even though he has no idea what to do either.

And with Miri, my sweet angels, that episode where he refers to himself as her papa, I scream everytime.

At the end of the day, yes, buddy daddies is a dumb show with cute moments, that shouldn't be taken seriously, but it's also a show that tells you that family is definitely something you can have, but it is also something you can choose, the people you choose to have in your life, the people who choose to be in your life, the people who love you regardless of who you are, the people who love you will be there for you, no matter what.

[mcki]

“my six eyes tell me you’re suguru geto but my soul knows otherwise” is such a raw line that you’d think it’s from a satosugu fanfiction but it’s actually from satosugu canon

[sukunasdirtylaugh]

A Brief Analysis on Gojo's Astrological Chart Plus the Type of Partner He'd Need

A/N: I am basing this off of their sun, moon, rising, etc... The goal is to find a partner that can help them grow and/or compliment their character. we'll see!

Disclaimer: I am not a professional reader. I only do astrology for fun. Nothing grand lol so enjoy my analysis on the honored one.

Gojo's Introduction-

Assuming he was born in Tokyo, this makes him a Sagittarius sun, Pisces Moon, and Capricorn Venus. Let's take a small look into his relationships with people. He has his 3rd house in Gemini (Mental activity, learning, communication) and I think it's really funny because Nanami has his Venus in Gemini so I think the reason why he puts up with him is because he can understand his form of communication (its a Gemini Venus thing).

Now, his 5th house (romance, children, fun) is literally in Leo. He's extravagant, big, and loves to draw attention to his partners and make others feel special. He is kind, protective, and straightforward. Family wise, they desire balance and harmony (hence his possible want to raise megumi *cries*). Overall, he can be pretty dreamy in his emotions (moon in Pisces- 12th house). He's able to sit in his own sadness. He tries to be reserved about his emotions so as to not bother. At his best, he can be gentle and decisive, however at his worst he can be impulsive and stubborn.

What kind of partner they'd need:

Straight off the go, he'd need someone to stabilize his water moon. Potentially an Earth moon (preferably Taurus) here to compliment his Earth Venus. He will best fit with someone who can rationally ground him all while having patience. A partner who is able to travel with him would be ideal since his Mercury is in Sagittarius, he'll want to venture out (he's able to stay home and play chess, but not for too long). Plus, traveling helps him mentally ease so it’s almost like therapy. His love for travel may result in him learning a new language (bonus points if he has an s/o that speaks another language! He'll love to get to know about your language/culture).

Regarding love, his Venus in Capricorn makes him a traditional partner who deep down values loyalty and stability. One thing to note is that they do NOT like to get into a relationship unless they know the other person is interested. So again, a patient partner is what he'd need. Ideally, they need a partner who will reassure them. Someone who can sit through and put up with his walls all while showing some emotional vulnerability.

it sucks to say, but it's like a showdown. "You show me first, then I'll show you" kind of energy. This could be his fear of vulnerability since he doesn't want to be the only one giving more in the picture. So you’d have to be okay with making first moves here and there. (Poor baby just needs reassurance).

Also- I read his Chiron and I'm sobbing. It says, "(unhealing children)... may compensate by creating their own big family, by constantly dealing with the past, or by deciding to never become parents in order to never cause pain to their children."

Speaking of children, I feel he may be very hesitant on kids. While he did raise Megumi, having children of his own nearly scares him. Descendants of Gojo Satoru, the honored one? He'll think it twice since he won't want children being born under such a title that will eventually weigh them down. However, I do see a possibility of hope. If his partner helps him raise Megumi, or in the case that he sees that she's a teacher or works with kids then maybe... maybe there is hope.

One of the biggest reasons why he could have fallen for you was your nurturing personality. You looked out for Megumi when he couldn't. You packed him a lunch before a mission that made his heart warm. Sure, he could have stopped at a station to buy food, but it doesn't beat the thought that you were considerate enough to think about him.

I see his partner being one of two. 1). They are nurturing, patient, loving, but independent. They bring a sense of home and security to Gojo. It’s like- while he brings the physical safety, chaotic energy, and monetary support, you put the nurture in love; creating this safe space where he can settle down and be Satoru Gojo (not Gojo Satoru).

This partner would have to also keep up with his witty comebacks. He’s like this water current- you have to keep up with him or else he’ll feel like you’re not interested in him. So if you’re active in conversation (big love language for Geminis), he’s yours.

Partner 2). would have to challenge his beliefs, his witt, but at the same time share some common ground. Maybe they’re a bit ‘stuck up’ like Nanami (you know what I mean) but they’re very good at observing others. This partner has to be able to call out Gojo when needed, leveling him.

Additionally, I seem him 1,000% with a partner that also had to grow up too fast. Someone who can share his loss of childhood. A real relationship where these two are healing their inner child(ren) is ideal. Preferably when Gojo is the one pushing that partner to relax and simply enjoy life.

a/n: I have more things to add, but I'll leave this out here for people to freeky add what they think and what their interpretations are.

Let me know what character you'd like to hear from next!

[warm-starlight]

Still can't believe Yams did this with All his ships

[camelidae]

They say some mother cats will adopt /anything/…

[humanityslittlestwendy]

The thing with satosugu is, I don't even really care wether they were friends, lovers, friends pining over eachother and not getting the chance to express their feelings to the other, or whatever else you can think their relationship was.

That isn't the point. No. The thing is, it doesn't matter what their relationship was, it doesn't matter what name you give to what they had. It's just undeniable it was that connection you can only find once in a lifetime, if you're lucky enough. Call it soulmates, call whatever the hell you want, but suguru was that person to satoru, and satoru was that person to suguru.

Right friend. Right lover. Whatever.

Right person. You think they were just friends? Fair enough to me. You can love a friend and suffer for him leaving the same way you do with a lover, if not even more.

You think they were lovers? I'm with you, I can totally see it, of course. But, then again, that's not the point.

The point is, friends, lovers, and all of that are just labels that I find purposeless here. They were for eachother the only person in the entire world to be able to understand the other, to support the other, to care about the other in a way that no one else could ever dream of. And despite all of this, they ended up losing eachother.

That's the beauty, that's the tragedy.

They were their one and only, and, in the end, that still wasn't enough.

[hard-times-paramore]

I find it so funny when people act like Nanami is a paragon of responsibility and maturity with the Jujutsu kids while Gojo is just a manchild that likes to get in trouble. Because when Gojo took Yuji to watch his techniques in a "field trip", he told him not to fight, stood by his side the whole time, and protected him while explaining his lessons.

Meanwhile Nanami

[evelyn-art-05]

marked by the stars

[firstsurugi]

"you don't have to be scared anymore. i'm here, i'll take care of you."

[magesup]

the gun hybrid

[starapture]

[forgetmcnotts]

I heard your nickname is Sun, so I will observe how peacefully you handle the situation.

[mookybear12404]

Anyways just thinking about the scene they added in the anime where Loid tells Yor he drinks his coffee black, and then later in the anime we see her give him a black coffee without him mentioning he wanted it.

And how later in the manga we see Fiona criticize Yor giving Loid milk to put in his coffee.

Yet Loid adds the milk to his coffee anyways

This added scene in the anime shows that Yor already knows how Loid likes his coffee. She didn’t give him milk because she forgot how she likes it, but because she’s grown so close to him over the months of their fake marriage that she’s able to recognize his needs without him even needing to tell her

Loid’s stomach ulcers are played as a joke throughout the manga to emphasize how stressed he is about the mission, but this scene shows that Yor has been attentive to him and how his stress has been affecting him. The milk was Yor’s way of trying to help ease his pain, and the new scene they added to the anime really emphasizes how close the two have grown throughout their time living together

[mallgothed]

you guys are the real heroes

[mmediocreman]

i always think megumi sees gojo as this unwanted older brother that is at times reliable but most of the time is just a pain in the ass

[samaraweaving]

I have never met anyone like you.It is maddening, how much you consume my very being. My family is on the brink of ruin. I am nearly certain every last one of my brothers and sisters secretly despise me. My own mother, at that. Despite the fact I have lived the better part of my life for them. And yet still, all I find myself thinking about, all I find myself being able to breathe for… is you. Do you think that I want to be in this position? Contending with these thoughts of wanting to be nowhere except with you. Wanting to run away with you. Of acting on the most impure, forbidden desires, no matter… how much I must remind myself I am a gentleman, and you are a lady.

[furiwokaaan]

big cat, small cat