How Did You Think This Was Gonna End?

Mimzy - 26 - I tend to be very Dean critical and I post/reblog posts about it -- all tagged as either "Dean critical" or "Dean negative" or "anti Dean Winchester" so blacklist those tags if you do not wish to experience my righteous anger.

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Got in a dumb tiktok argument with someone over Dean's treatment of Jack and whether it was comparable to John, aand... at some point, their argument was "He treated him the same as Sam and Cas; Dean is brutal in his relationship with others..." and really just made the "it's ok he was cruel bc he is also cruel to the rest of his family" argument. Then later, when I tried to be kind and give the out of "I do think this was bad writing though," they literally insisted it wasn't bad writing and their way of proving it wasn't bad writing was... by listing several other examples of Dean being abusive to other teens/young adults like pointing the gun at Kayla. Literally just gave free examples of Dean being abusive in order to argue it was good writing, while arguing Dean was nothing like John and wasn't abusive.

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[undean]

dont judge me for using reddit but this comment is killing me. dean does not deserve a home or loved ones

[suncaptor]

The sequence of events in road trip is INSANE. Dean realises how much he's fucked up from letting some angel possess Sam without his position so they track that angel down to STICK NEEDLES IN SAM'S BRAIN, LOBOTOMISING HIM, also without Sam's consent, later in which Dean asks Cas, another angel, to possess him, forgetting Cas even needs Sam's permission, then, to wrap up his lesson on not letting entities possess Sam without Sam's permission, he removes a tattoo from Sam's skin and has the king of hell who he KNOWS Sam actively hates and would kill, possess him instead. It's fucking insane.

[samaelwinchester]

Also this doesn't really matter because they fought over it anyway, but John was actually proud of Sam (it's mentioned in 1x04 and 1x20 I think). It's just that no matter hard Sam worked for a better life and education, John and Dean both couldn't accept it, because it would mean that Sam would be outside their influence/ control and out of the hunt, something that they were way too attached to. It has nothing to do with getting an education or twisting "something that would make other fathers proud", really, and is purely on John (and Dean) and not on Sam's supposed bad boy personality.

the fact that most fans moan and whine over sam leaving them for a better life is so stupid. why wouldn't you leave an abusive home situation where you feel ostracized and alone just for existing?

according to the fandom, dean was sam's parent instead of john (left him alone for hours at a time), he starved himself so sam could eat (pocketed the money john left for dinner) he took the abuse from john while sam got special treatment (dean literally was on john's side most of the time- sam was shocked to see dean defend him when john comes back), and he took on extra work so sammy could afford college :) (he LITERALLY SAID HE GOT A FREE RIDE) but because sam got to have lucky charms for dinner once the canon contradictions of their Poor Wittle Dean narrative don't matter

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If it's alright if I jump in here, it's important to mention that I'm pretty sure Dean just threw the spaghetti-Os that Sam rejected away. Into the garbage. Unless Dean had a tomato allergy no one knew about, pretty sure he wasn't starving that day. The fans are just out here manifesting a false narrative. (Also I'm absolutely bewildered that he didn't put them in the fridge for later as a whole. Who wastes food like that, especially if they're from a live-in-crappy-motels-type upbringing. That's gotta be some type of red flag, right?)

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so hey been a while but you ever sit and think about the character Dean coulda been in an alternate reality where the writers were vaguely aware of what an abuser looks like and how to not write one

[livedinthecastle]

you always said you didn’t have time so i thought now that you have time and i have time and there’s nothing but time you might want to hear-

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Team Free Will but Dean stayed in Hell and Adam is there instead.

[samaelwinchester]

another meme to give in my absence. enjoy

[nevidimochka]

the world if we got jess!lucifer instead of nick…

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Thinking about Penelope Scott's "Lotta True Crime" and the lyrics, "She could've killed you / she had every right / you just caught her off-guard tonight." Because man -- Magda Peterson being unfairly killed by Ketch vibes.

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Also thinking of "But [Arthur Ketch] was just never that fucking bright / he was just sorta charismatic and white, alright / and he was so fucking sure he had the right. / But he's ugly, and I'm glad he's dead / cuz there was no fucking candle in his pumpkin head" Because I think that would also apply to this situation.

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Thinking about Penelope Scott's "Lotta True Crime" and the lyrics, "She could've killed you / she had every right / you just caught her off-guard tonight." Because man -- Magda Peterson being unfairly killed by Ketch vibes.

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i know you destiel bloggers want dean to be a casgirl so bad. but dean would sell cas to satan without hesitation for a single corn chip if sam wanted something to dip in his guac

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seraf reminded me it’s a bold take to think dean would care what sam wanted and he’s right. my early seasons rewatch got to me. later seasons dean is still a samgirl but sam didn’t even ask for chips he was happily eating his guac with pitas and dean decided he’d like chips better then gaslighted sam into thinking he asked for chips and it’s his fault cas is gone

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Happy Birthday to Jessica Moore and Jessica Moore only.

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“Taking out the Trash to the Tune of No Scrubs” by me

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Still relevant to my emotions fyi

[samaelwinchester]

supernatural ending: erin edition

-dean still dies, pretty early on. the son of the kitsune amy immediately pulls up after the one case they do and rips his heart out, because he deserves it. he immediately dies, too, so he doesn’t get any last words.

-sam is distraught, naturally, praying to god to see if there’s another way, or something that can be done, before coming to the realization that he can be his own person without dean. he attends therapy and learns to open up and embrace his feelings, and also leaves dean’s constant abuse of him in the past. he puts dean’s body in the impala and burns them both.

-no, cas is not there. deal with it.

-sam leads a rich, fulfilling life. he opens up the bunker as a safe haven for monsters and humans alike. no longer burdened by dean’s expectations of his humanity, his powers come back in full force and he learns to master them to protect himself and others.

-when sam dies, he ends up in heaven, finally getting to see so many people he missed dearly. except dean, who went to hell. the end.

[cramenjoyer]

does dean go to hell or to super mega turbo hell extremo for fruits?

[samaelwinchester]

he goes to hell, idek and idgaf about super mega turbo hell. he goes to normal hell where he has an unpaid internship as a hellhound chew toy forever and ever. alternate ending for sam is that he becomes the king of hell and gets a front row seat to dean suffering forever. dean not only has to deal with the pain of being tortured for eternity, but the pain of knowing he failed his father’s dying wish and let his brother become the very monster he was tasked with killing. THE END

[thingsisaidweredumb]

anyway here’s the tea

if either cas or dean was a woman, y’all would have manifestos written about how abusive it is. ESP if dean was a woman, cas would be the easy shitty man like not gl 

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oh, is it time for another game of “if cas were a woman”? fun.

imagine dean standing over a female cas’s dead body and saying to her “cas, you child, why didn’t you listen to me.” imagine dean yelling “just kill her now.” imagine dean saying “without your powers, you’re basically just a baby in a trenchcoat” and a female cas being visibly hurt and upset by this. imagine dean repeatedly referring to a female cas as being a baby or a child. imagine dean yelling at a mentally ill, suicidal female cas in a childlike mindstate while she dries the dishes. imagine dean telling her that nobody cares that she’s broken. imagine dean knocking a board game to the ground while a female cas moves away from him and lowers her head and eyes. imagine a female cas on the ground picking up that board game. imagine a female cas backing away from dean when he’s angry. imagine dean trying to keep a female cas in an amnesiac state so it’d be easier to use her. imagine dean agreeing to let meg use a female cas in exchange for her help. imagine dean referring to a female cas still in a catatonic state as being the same “down to the drool.” imagine dean pressuring a female cas into having sex while she’s visibly uncomfortable and doesn’t want to be there and says as much. imagine dean trying to pressure a female cas into returning to heaven, her saying no, dean laughing that off, and cas shouting “i said no” at him. imagine dean automatically refusing to help a female cas every time she comes to him for help for little to usually no reason whatsoever. imagine dean pretty much making a female cas beg him for his help. imagine dean pretty much threatening to take their relationship away when a female cas can’t help him. imagine dean ordering a female cas around and telling her what she is and isn’t allowed to do. imagine dean telling a female cas “oh, you think you have a choice.” imagine dean seeing a female cas on the ground, cowering against a wall in the middle of a panic attack, and saying to her “cas, anytime now.” imagine dean telling a female cas that she can’t come with them and that, unlike her, “even banged up, sammy comes through” and that they don’t need her help. imagine a female cas trying to appease dean’s anger and prove her usefulness by going grocery shopping. imagine dean constantly criticizing, belittling, yelling at, and being dismissive of a female cas.

imagine dean beating the shit out of a female cas, almost killing her, and then threatening to kill her. imagine a female cas having panic attacks about that. imagine dean hallucinating a beaten female cas in front of him—because he’s the one that beat her—and asking her if she’s there to say sorry to him. imagine dean threatening a female cas with violence twice—once while pointedly handling a weapon that can kill her—and then following through on his threats of violence by slamming her against a wall and holding her there. imagine a female cas dying and then dean trying to kill her child within the first few minutes of his life by shooting him. imagine dean saying that the only reason why he’s taking a female cas’s child back to the bunker is because he hasn’t found a way to kill him yet—and all within earshot of her child. imagine dean yelling about how a female cas’s child is evil and her child running away and hugging his knees to his chest. imagine dean finding a female cas’s child stabbing himself because he’s afraid of what he is and that he’ll hurt people and dean telling her child that he doesn’t think he can be saved and that dean’ll be the one to kill him. imagine dean blaming a female cas’s son for her death and using that to justify abusing him—y'know, just like how max miller’s dad (and uncle) abused him and justified it because of his mother dying.

imagine dean telling a female cas that she’s dead to him. imagine dean angrily stalking toward a female cas and sam getting between the two of them to stop dean before he assaults a female cas. imagine dean angrily breaking a chair in a female cas’s presence after that’s happened. imagine dean manipulating a female cas’s son into locking himself in a box and planning to trap him there forever. imagine dean telling a female cas that he’s locked her son in a box, a female cas responding “no,” and dean telling her that’s where he’s going to stay. imagine dean trying to convince a female cas that her son wanted to be trapped in a box—and when a previous scene just showed her son scared and saying “i don’t think i like this” while trapped in the box. imagine dean telling a female cas that he didn’t even want to lock her son in a box and that he wanted to kill him instead. imagine dean rubbing in a female cas’s face that he’s going to kill her son. imagine dean picking up a gun and telling a female cas that he’s going to kill her son with it and that she can either “get on board or walk away.”

imagine how that entire exchange would look like if cas were a female character instead. imagine how it would look for a female cas to be sitting there with her son, telling him that they need to run away together somewhere safe where no one (dean) can find them, then to have her son look off in the distance and a female cas look to where he’s looking, too, only to see dean standing there with a gun, ready to murder her son.

imagine dean being incredulous that a female cas doesn’t want to work with the demon masquerading as her dead son. imagine dean asking a female cas if she’s all right but only for the purpose of showing her how much he doesn’t care about her and how she’s doing at all. imagine dean implying to a female cas that she doesn’t try her best. imagine dean telling a female cas that she’s going to go to hell with the demon masquerading as her son—a plan that could result in her death, and one that would place her with someone that deeply upsets her—then a female cas saying “it sounds like i don’t have a choice” and dean replying with “good.” imagine dean telling a female cas that she’s the reason everything goes wrong. imagine a female cas finally walking away from dean once she realizes that he doesn’t care about her. (imagine that event being what prompts tv guide to call their relationship out on being toxic and abusive. which is what actually happened. when it was a male cas. oop.) imagine dean still never actually apologizing to a female cas for the way he’s treated her at all and excusing all of his actions on how he just can’t control himself—y'know, like how abusers actually do. imagine dean not even being able to tell a female cas’s son that he doesn’t think he’s a monster. imagine dean outright saying that he doesn’t consider a female cas’s son to be family. imagine dean encouraging a female cas’s son to kill himself. imagine dean pulling a gun on his brother and assaulting him because he wants to drag a female cas’s son off to his death and a female cas witnessing this.

then imagine the culmination of all of that—and oh so much more that i didn’t even mention—is a female cas’s entire existence being made about a man. a man that treated her and her child like that for a decade. while she proclaims him to be the most selfless and loving man. that somehow being her moment of true happiness. and then dying for him. and that’s how, for all intents and purposes, a female cas’s story ends on the show.