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Tyke

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smolbeanfren

Getting real sick and tired of people acting like the Hall Monitor of agere. Like they created the community and are the "boss" of everyone. Like people of all kinds don't belong here.

"But they wear diapers!" So do bio babies. Who cares. Also they may be incontinent. Who's the real weirdo here, the person you're harassing or the person obsessed with what a complete stranger finds comfort in?

"But they aren't happy and soft when regressed!" And you're saying you always 100% are? Get real.

"But they're a permaregressor!" And? A big reason people regress is disability. Are you ableist?

"But they get sexual sometimes!" Who caaaressss. Adult bodies = adult needs. They aren't a bio-kid. If they're not a minor, just ignore them.

"B-But they let ABDLs interact!" Again, nobody really cares as long as that person is an adult. Are you gonna ask an IRL regressor you just met if they let ABDLs interact online? Go ahead and print out a questionnaire for IRL people to fill out. I'm sure they won't find it weird or invasive. /s

If you're gonna be over-reactive about people not exactly like you, just leave the community. I'm done with people acting entitled and pretending they own the community.

juiceystains

SO GODDAMN REAL.

Policing or being some weird version of an online hall monitor is just bothersome. You aren't the "boss" of regression, you can't place rules on a literal coping skill. It's coping, be it stress or trauma. Or even without it being to cope, it just being for comfort or fun literally helps no one. you're just being loud and wrong, it does nothing.

You don't have to like it, you don't have to find comfort in it like they do, you don't even have to see it if it bothers you that much. It's your online experience, you have ways to control your experience, but that doesn't give you the right to harass, insult, or send death threats to people who are just trying to exist.

Also, the whole fucking thing about "interacting with kink" online? It also makes me wonder how much some people, mainly talking about the adults, really take everything. Not all ABDL is nsfw, not all kink is porn, being sexual isn't some carnal sin. You have a right to block it, to avoid it, to do whatever. But who interacts with me, and who I interact with, doesn't say a lot about me in this context. It's not some red flag, it's not some insane "sin" or "crime".

My page is non-sexual, my likes and follows are private, and I will never expose children to sexual content, but I am an adult. They're adults. Consent and age is the only concerns that should be brought up, but if they're adults, and they're consenting, and they're not involving kids in the whole ordeal, who cares?

"Sfw agere" rules do nothing but give people the excuse to harass, and even then, it's a shitty one.

smolbeanfren

YES exactly!

Some people are so extremist about things I swear. I saw an actual gun threat against ABDLs in a pinned post once. With an actual picture of gun they owned, on a starry sort of banner as if making it look "cutesy" makes it ok. That's not a safe space and in fact it made me, a fellow regressor, feel unsafe. So unsafe that I had to go report it, even! Hopefully their blog got taken down.

#tyke is toasty

l1ttle-wolf

Agere community try not to call the ddlg/adbl community inherently pedophilic challenge despite having extremely similar, intertwined roots and origins, challenge: level IMPOSSIBLE !

Getting real sick and tired of people acting like the Hall Monitor of agere. Like they created the community and are the "boss" of everyone. Like people of all kinds don't belong here.

"But they wear diapers!" So do bio babies. Who cares. Also they may be incontinent. Who's the real weirdo here, the person you're harassing or the person obsessed with what a complete stranger finds comfort in?

"But they aren't happy and soft when regressed!" And you're saying you always 100% are? Get real.

"But they're a permaregressor!" And? A big reason people regress is disability. Are you ableist?

"But they get sexual sometimes!" Who caaaressss. Adult bodies = adult needs. They aren't a bio-kid. If they're not a minor, just ignore them.

"B-But they let ABDLs interact!" Again, nobody really cares as long as that person is an adult. Are you gonna ask an IRL regressor you just met if they let ABDLs interact online? Go ahead and print out a questionnaire for IRL people to fill out. I'm sure they won't find it weird or invasive. /s

If you're gonna be over-reactive about people not exactly like you, just leave the community. I'm done with people acting entitled and pretending they own the community.

#tyke is toasty #vent #rant #seriously be nice to people who cares if they're weird #If you don't want them to interact that's fine but do NOT treat them as lesser or threaten them

roomwithavoid

a lot of people in the age-regression community seem very interested in upholding this sort of “purity” (i’m not kidding i’ve seen many people use the term “impure little” for people who do drugs or swear while in littlespace) and i think we need to finally address how straight up not okay it is.

i watched in real time as age regression began to become more widespread, and people began to use ageplay communities as their scapegoat towards normalcy. “i’m an age regressor, but i’m not like one of those FREAKS who sexualizes it” or “age regression and abdl are Completely different things with absolutely no overlap at all.” going so far as to make the default age regression flag specifically the “sfw age regression flag” (in what way is being age regressed Safe For Work? think about the terms you are using for two seconds) half of the age regression communities saying not to interact if you even Sometimes participate in kink, or if you’re even supportive of people who do. demanding people keep it “child friendly” completely avoiding any conversation about how loaded of a term that is to be using with no elaboration.

i’ve seen people who are into completely nonsexual age regression get ostracized for wearing diapers while regressed. because it’s “too kink-adjacent.” call out posts are written about them. there are blocklists for regressors who are too weird, too kinky, too “adult,” and so many of the people being called out are perma-regressors! people who are always regressed in some way, completely ostracized from their own community for the crime of having an adult body and adult body needs.

i’ve seen almost every resource on age regression refer to overlap between age regression and kink be described as “inherently traumatizing,” completely ignoring the wide variety of ways people can experience age regression, and especially, even if you Do believe it was “inherently traumatizing” for someone in littlespace to have sex, i don’t think i have ever seen any manor of exception made for middle regressors, probably because i frankly have never seen anyone ever acknowledge middle regressors in any sort of meaningful way. (this one’s for you middle regressors, i see you!)

it is totally fine to experience age regression in whatever way you experience it. i’m not saying you Have to get sexual about it. you don’t even have to be ok with seeing it. but you do have to be okay with the knowledge that there are kinky age regressors and they aren’t doing anything wrong. you do not get to excuse your puritanical worldview with your age regression. frankly, some of you need to be really unpacking what you think it means to be a child.

i am so tired of this community being so restrictive like this. i’m plural, i’ve seen the “can littles consent” debate play out 100 times over. you all need to get more comfortable with the idea that everyone is different and you don’t get to decide what someone else’s boundaries should be. the experience of age regression often overlaps with ageplay and frankly you should get the fuck over it. there are going to be people who do things you don’t like. LIVE WITH IT.

smolbeanfren

THANK YOU. We all need to be way more civil to kinky people and "weird" regressors, whether we interact with them or not.

I've even seen violent threats towards kinky folks in DNIs. Like, actual gun threats with a picture of a real gun. Whether one is comfortable with ABDLs or not, threats are not ok and they're unacceptable.

Treating other age regressors like they're lesser for being different will just make the community fall apart. Things like that is why I see adult age regressors leave the community and go to ABDLs, cause at least they don't judge.

#kink mention #kink discussion

fiftykatz

playhouse disney’s website (november, 2007)

nkp1981

The goodbye song from "Bear In The Big Blue House"

cgcomfort

you are never too old to want to be treated softly, you deserve to be.

you are never too old to regress, everyone should feel safe doing so.

you are never too old to feel small, its such a big world, sometimes you just need to be.

you are never too old to play with your toys, they still love you.

you are never too old too buy new toys, they want to meet you.

you'll always be tiny to me. <3

princeofsnails

Iced lavender tea recipe

I've seen a lot of lavender tea recipes but they're all hot teas and it's summer. So I took a look at a few and tweaked them for the kiddos who like cold drinks!

This requires using a stove top or microwave so I'd recommend having an adult help or preparing this while still big!

Ingredients: milk (1/2 cup per serving) , edible lavender buds (to taste) , teabag of choice (green tea or earl grey recommended) , water (1/2 cup per serving), sugar (to taste) , honey (to taste), vanilla extract (to taste. A fun replacement if no extract is 1 tablespoon vanilla icecream). Sugar is optional for this recipe.

1. Heat up milk in sauce pan with lavender buds.

2. While milk heats up, boil water and steep teabag.

3. Mix sugar (if wanted), honey, and vanilla extract into now steeped tea.

4. Once milk is infused with lavender, strain out lavender buds.

5. Mix heated milk and tea together, leave in fridge until cool.

6. Pour over ice. Add sugar to taste if needed.

7. Enjoy! Good to drink before bed to help you have the sweetest of dreams!