iwillresthere

making a nice cosy orange light cottage for myself on the internet 🌈 Ao3 - rest_here 🌈 other things that make me happy

[thatsbelievable]

[camillamaecaulay]

graves grow no green that you can use.

gwendolyn brooks

[calllynx]

Op turned off reblogs but I MUST

[only-tiktoks]

[britney-j-christ]

[softservecanine]

You’re completely correct. Out of my way, able-bodied losers. Fuck you.

[aetherograph]

It's called an EZRide+ and you can learn where to find them here. They're about $1100 US as of June 2026, but you might need to buy additional parts to attach them to your chair, depending on the style of chair.

Remember to put links to products like this, they're usually hard to find and a lot of people need to know they exist.

[aggressive-positivity-network]

When someone gives the advice of “don’t be afraid to disappoint your parents” they don’t just mean taking music theory in college or starting a YouTube channel.

It also means wearing things they might not approve of. Using accommodations that they might not think you need. Not falling for their guilt trips. Eating when you’re hungry, not when it suits them and their idea of your weight or health. Making your own friends instead of seeking the stamp of approval from them.

Of course, some parents are stricter than others, and some use abuse to keep you from expressing yourself. But do what you can, even if it seems small.

Otherwise, when your parents are no longer in the picture, you’ll try to find it somewhere else to get validation. A strict boss, an abusive partner, a selfish friend.

Going against your parent’s wishes is developmentally healthy. Not doing so stunts your independence and self-regulation. You shouldn’t be living to constantly please others, even the people who love you.

[madebymothman]

Another sweatsuit Ilya because thinking about this while high last night made me laugh

[liveoakgrowing]

Read about this superstition that if you hold an animal as it dies as a child, you’ll have trembling hands for the rest of your life. So I’m thinking about Bucky holding Steve’s hand when he’s so sick with Scarlet Fever as a kid and nearly dies but he doesn’t. Then Bucky has steady, deadly hands for the rest of his life.

[headspace-hotel]

literally can never stop thinking about a character's relationship to their body. if i am thinking about The Character I am thinking about their body and how they feel about having a body and the vulnerabilities and complexities of their body. relationship to food, relationship to touch, relationship to nudity.

[sternfleck]

Thoughts and prayers to my European mutuals suffering under their omega heat

[horsesource]

"You can say that [orangutans] are not dependent on social support and approval, and if you admire this in them, that an orang is irredeemably his own person, 'the most poetic of the apes', researcher Lynn Miles told me once in an unguarded moments. What she had in mind was the difference between orangs and chimps in the way they carry on their discourse with the world.

Chimps are much admired for their tool use and for their problem-solving relationship with things as they find them...the orang is, let us say, not so replete with enterprise. Give an orangutan the hexagonal peg and the several shapes of hole, and then hide behind the two-way mirror and watch how he engages with the problem.

And watch and watch and watch--because he does not engage with the problem. He uses the peg to scratch his back, has a look-see at his right wrist, makes a half-hearted and soon abandoned attempt to use his fur as a macramé project, stares dreamily out the window if there is one and at nothing in particular if not, and the sun begins to set. (The sun will also set if you are observing a chimp, but the chimp is more amusing, so you are less likely to mark the moment in your notes. An orang observer has plenty of time to be a student of the vanities of sunset.)

You watch, and the orang dreams...when casually and as if thinking of something else, the orang slips the hexagonal peg into the hexagonal hole. And continues staring off dreamily."

Vicki Hearne, "The Case of the Disobedient Orangutans"

[magnesiumflare]

Important tags from @sashayed

[memeuplift]

[mossspores]

life if comes fucks me

[tomb-mold]

oh yeah, i crocheted this little lingerie set for myself back in june and never posted it

[miamaimania]

“Spine Corset” by Shaun Leane for Alexander McQueen, SS ‘98.

[my-dailydreams]

[artgroves]

A missing scene from Berlin

on AO3

[artgroves]

I just realised this year marks the ten year anniversary of this art from /checks notes/ 2016

[vesnuszki]

things shane and ilya are up to when they’re a little tipsy on a night out with the team

-shane starts asking really unhinged questions and expects 100% thoughtful serious answers. he will not accept one word half assed answers: how many calories do you think is in the meat of my buttcheeks? do you think i could sprint 100m in under 11 seconds with no preparation? how many squats do you think i could do with you on piggyback? if stranded with the team on a deserted island, who would you eat first? they’re all ALWAYS vaguely anatomy related

-they try how many squats shane can do with ilya on piggyback

-thigh squeezes that very quickly turn into something inappropriate because they think no one can see them (again, following a collective eyeroll)

-they have a competition who is a better pole dancer, the rest of the team judges

-when they’re properly done in, ilya asks shane to do the lastochka (it’s a pose where you stand on one straight leg, arms out and your torso and the other leg parallel to the floor). shane executes it perfectly no matter how blasted he is. ilya falls on his ass frequently

-they buy a yacht

[quasi-normalcy]

Reverse Mulan about a young man who disguises himself as a noblewoman and has to learn how to do passive-agressive politicking at dinner parties.

[batsarebetterthanpeople]

He does so to dodge the draft