Aroace, aroallo and alloace folk aren't afforded proper representation in media and especially in fandom unless they are romance/sex favorable. Fandom cares far more about shipping their blorbos than they do about respecting aspec folk and their identities. They all HAVE to be romance/sex favourable otherwise they CANNOT have it. Instead of hearing "aro/ace people can still date" from fellow aspec folk defending others in the community, it's from allos who want an excuse to ignore that characters identity in order to ship them with others.
















