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33 Malaysia May Allah Ease and Bless Everything In Shaa Allah

[insjourney]

11/365 Baik

Tuhan, pintaku sederhana. Dekatkanlah aku pada kebaikan, pertemukanlah dengan orang-orang baik, mudahkan aku berbuat baik, serta kumpulkan aku bersama orang-orang baik. Pintaku semata bukan karena aku sudah baik namun harapku dengan pintaku aku bisa terpercik kebaikan-kebaikan mereka yang engkau ridhoi baik. Agar aku pun jadi pribadi yang baik.

Ins

[azurazie]

MENJADI MUSLIM YANG SIBUK

Bagi seorang muslim idealnya memang harus selalu sibuk. Sejak terbangun di sepertiga malam, sebelum datangnya waktu subuh. Sampai bertemu kembali waktu untuk tidur di malam hari. Harus selalu sibuk. Dari waktu ke waktu mengejar kebaikan. Jangan sampai terputus. Dari waktu subuh ke waktu syuruk. Dari syuruk sampai ke duha. Dari duha sampai ke dzuhur. Dari dzuhur sampai ke ashar. Dari ashar sampai ke maghrib. Dari maghrib hingga ke isya. Kemudian istirahat sejenak untuk merehatkan badan. Hingga kembali bertemu tahajud. Terus begitu berputar sepanjang hari.Sepanjang pekan. Sepanjang bulan. Sepanjang tahun. Seumur hidup.

Bagi seorang muslim, idealnya memang harus selalu sibuk. Sibuk memperbaiki diri. Memperbaiki kualitas wudhunya. Memperbaiki kekhusuan shalatnya.Sibuk menambah panjang. Memperpanjang durasi sujudnya. Memperpanjang durasi doanya. Sibuk menambah bilangan. Menambah istighfarnya. Menambah shalawatnya. Menambah durasi tadarus al-qur'annya. Memperbanyak sedekahnya. Memilah kapan waktu membaca amalan-amalan rahasia lain. Yang kita rahasiakan di depan manusia.

Rutin, terus ditambah jangan sampai terputus. Sepanjang hari. Sepanjang waktu.

Bagi seorang muslim idealnya memang selalu sibuk. Karena kalau tidak begitu, kita akan disibukkan oleh kepentingan dunia. Dan melupakan untuk kebutuhan akhiratnya.

Dan pada tiap-tiap kesibukan itu, pastikan benar-benar melibatkan Allah dalam menunaikannya. Agar apa yang kita kerjakan tidak sekadar kosong. Sekadar ritual harian. Sekadar menggugurkan kewajiban. Ada efek untuk diri kita sendiri. Ada dampak perubahan yang membawa kebaikan untuk diri kita sendiri.

Bagi seorang muslim, idealnya memang harus selalu sibuk. Sebab kita tidak akan pernah tahu amalan mana yang Allah ridho atasnya. Maka, perlu selalu berusaha untuk meraihnya. Sebab kita tidak pernah tahu kapan akan datang waktu azalnya. Maka, perlu selalu berusaha untuk tidak lalai akannya.

@azurazie

[sabrgirl]

when your heart hurts

pray

go into sujood on your prayer mat and pour your heart out. He is always listening and there is nothing more comforting and relieving than venting everything out to Allah SWT.

understand that it is okay to cry.

read Surah Yusuf/Surah Maryam/Surah Duha. the lesson to take from these are so comforting and a reminder to have sabr as it will always be okay in the end in ways you can't possibly imagine. because He will make it okay.

breathe in, close your eyes and say 'Oh Allah, I trust that only you can take this pain away from my heart' and breathe out.

having sabr and tawakkul does not mean you won't have bad days where it hurts but it is trying your best to continue and leaving the outcome to Allah SWT. it is trusting that He will bring the ease. because He will.

[thepersonalquotes]

[karolinactually]

[thenukilanhatiku]

Jujur. Kadang. Mana mungkin melihat tanpa merasakan. Rasanya masih muda tapi tak sedar makin lama umur semakin bertambah. Senangnya orang bertemu someone. Macam mana someone boleh ada dalam relationships. Macam mana boleh berkenalan dengan seseorang dengan mudah. Macam mana boleh kenal orang banyak kali. Aku walhal satu terlalu payah dan susah. Adakah rupa menjadi ukuran. Adakah cantik sahaja yang dilihat. Macam mana nak tutup mata. Sedangkan rata rata semua orang dah berpunya. Dihargai oleh someone. Dibahagiakan oleh seseorang. Semua dah ada. Terlihat depan mata. Mana mungkin hanya melihat tanpa merasakan. Tipu tak sedih. Jika benarlah rupa menjadi ukuran aku terpalinglah kalah :'( Alahai. Taknak fikir taknak sedih tapi biasalah manusia. Untuk saat ini masih menanti.

Buat seseorang yang tidak saya ketahui. Jika anda berminat dan suka pada saya. Janganlah tunggu lama. Jika anda tidak bermula saya juga akan menunggu tanpa mengerti. Jujur saya memang tidak tahu dan tidak mengerti. Berusahalah memiliki saya dengan cara terbaik. Berusahalah menyakinkan saya agar saya mengerti dan merasa benar benar dihargai. Kerana saya tidak mengerti dan tidak tahu cara untuk memulakan. Wahai jodohku, saya menanti :') jangan terlalu lama 🤍🥲

[langitmadiinah]

Terlalu khawatir terhadap apa yang mungkin terjadi nanti

Dan terlalu menyesali apa yang sudah terjadi sampai berandai-andai

Keduanya memang pencuri kebahagiaan di waktu sekarang

Create your own happines!s and don't let anything steal it away from you

Your happiness is in Allah's pleasure and it can be created from your obedience.

Allah,

Your are my happiness ❤️

11 April 2021

[mostlyaboutme-deactivated202205]

Ada Hikmah Saat Memandang Langit

Dalam kitab "Al Hikmah Fii Makhluqotillah" Hal 17, Dari Ihya'il Ulum Imam Ghozali menerangkan,

"Dikatakan, bahwa memandang langit itu memiliki 10 faidah, yaitu:

1. Mengurangi kesedihan

2. Meminimalisir rasa was2

3. Menghilangkan perasaan takut

4. Bisa membuat ingat kepada Allah

5. Dapat mengembangkan pengagungan terhadap Allah dalam hati

6. Menghilangkan fikiran rendah

7. Bermanfaat untuk menyembuhkan penyakit melankolia (depresi berat)

8. Bisa menghibur orang yg sedang rindu

9. Menyenangkan orang2 yg mencintai

10. Sebagai kiblat bagi orang2 yg berdoa.

Wallahu a'lam bishowab

Semoga bermanfaat

Sc: Ilmutareem

[chuyakasim]

“ Mengapa adzan harus dikumandangkan keras-keras? Pakai speaker pula. Apa tidak mengganggu yang lain yang bukan orang muslim?

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Ada sebuah cerita menarik yang diceritakan seorang teman melalui aplikasi perbincangan di grup WhatsApp.

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Berikut kisahnya:

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Adalah teman saya, yang kebetulan non muslim, bertanya kepada saya, “Kenapa kalau adzan harus dibunyikan keras-keras dengan speaker pula?”.

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Saya yang bukan ahli agama kemudian berpikir sejenak mencari jawaban yang mudah dicernanya, menjawab seperti ini “Bro, adzan itu adalah panggilan sholat, pasti dong namanya panggilan tidak mungkin dengan cara yang sama seperti berbicara atau berbisik-bisik”.

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Teman saya membalas “Tapi kan di orang-orang sekitar tidak semuanya muslim?”.

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Saya jawab lagi “Benar.

Bro, kita sekarang sedang ada di bandara, dengar kan announcement bandara selalu memberikan panggilan boarding?

Apakah kamu juga mempertanyakan ke mereka mengapa melakukan panggilan boarding pesawat YANG LAIN keras-keras padahal bukan panggilan pesawatmu?”

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Dia tersenyum namun membalas lagi “Tapi kan hari gini semua orang sudah tahu dengan teknologi jam berapa waktu sholat tiap 5 waktu, apa masih harus adzan keras-keras?”.

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Saya pun kemudian menjawab "Ya setiap penumpang juga kan sudah tau jadwal penerbangannya sejak pesan dan memegang tiket, kemudian check-in, sudah tercetak jadwal keberangkatannya di boarding pass, sudah masuk ruang tunggu, tapi tetap bandara melakukan panggilan boarding bukan?"

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"Dan ada satu hal lagi mengapa adzan harus dikumandangkan, itu bukan hanya sebagai penanda sudah masuk waktu sholat tapi benar-benar panggilan sholat, karena kami harus menyegerakan sholat.

Sama halnya semua penumpang harus menyegerakan masuk pesawat setelah panggilan boarding, walaupun masih ada waktu naik pesawat sampai pesawat tutup pintu."

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Kali ini senyumnya bertambah lebar, lalu dia setengah memeluk aku sambil menepuk-nepuk bahuku dan berkata "Super .. I got it bro".

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NB:

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Masih banyak orang yang TIDAK RELA ketinggalan Pesawat dibanding ketinggalan Sholat.

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Bahkan mereka lebih rela menunggu pesawat yang belum datang dibandingkan menunggu Azan datang.

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[haneefaa]

Your journey is not the same as mine, and my journey, is not yours but if you meet me on a certain path, may we encourage each other.

[jannaahh-deactivated20220216]

صبر

Having Sabr doesn't mean you're not allowed to have emotions. Sabr means that even with all the anger, even with all the sadness, even with the nights you cried your eyes out, you still were gratefull to Allah swt. You still turned to him & trusted his plans.

سبحان الله

[thingsidontsayoutloud]

One of his friends asked me, “kau memang tak nak cuba suka dia ke?”

I took a deep breath. “Macam mana nak kasi harapan dekat orang yang tak nampak pun nak terima harapan yang kita cuba nak kasi tu?”

“Tapi kau tahu dia suka kau kan?”

“Kau boleh suka seseorang without wanting that person to be part of your life pun. Perhaps, to him, that’s who I am.”

A crush. Yknow what pasal crush ni? That feeling can disappear whenever you want it to. It’s not that hard like when you love someone.

It’s just a crush. Aku pun ada crush, and I know what it feels like. When he found someone better nanti, he’ll forget about me. And when that happens, I don’t wanna be that person yang sakit sendiri.

I smiled to the one who asked, “if he’s serious, he’ll say it. Kan? Kalau tak cakap, then I take it as ‘just friends’. Aku tak nak hidup dalam keadaan trying to figure apa segala benda mixed signals yang dia kasi atau interpret segala action dia buat just to get the answer to ‘dia ni suka aku ke tak?’ No. Ada orang maybe jenis suka cuba-cuba nak main interpret bagai ni. Tapi bukan aku. Aku ni jenis, kau serius kau cakap, kau tak cakap, aku tak tahu. I am no mind reader.”

I took another deep breath. Nak hadam sendiri apa benda yang aku baru cakap. Nak suruh diri sendiri appreciate dan sayang diri sendiri sebelum suka hati nak kasi dekat orang lain.

[blissalittlesblog-deactivated20]

Ya Allah forgive all the dead ones, the ones who are beloved to us and also the ones whom we never meet nor know. Ameen 🤲🏼

[b-lessings]

How does patience work?

(Surat Al Kahf - The Cave 18:68-69)

We read Surat Al Kahf at least once a week, and we pass by these verses often, we all know the story of Musa (as) and the servant of Allah swt who had knowledge, we often make reference to these verses, but how often do we exactly stop and actually give ourselves time to grasp their meaning?

There is a reason we were told and encouraged to read this particular surah every Friday: it is full of lessons, lessons we need to recharge our souls, refresh our eman, and be able to carry on thru this tough world. It's a very rich surah, SubhanAllah, but in this post I just want to focus on these two inspiring verses: 68-69. So when Musa (as) asked the wise knowledgeable slave of Allah swt (also known in the literature as sayiduna Al khidr - but Allah swt does not name him in the Quran), he asked him for permission to accompany him and learn from him. And we all know the answer in the previous verse (67): قَالَ إِنَّكَ لَن تَسۡتَطِيعَ مَعِىَ صَبۡرًا (He said, "Indeed, with me you will never be able to have patience.). To strengthen or prove his point, the wise servant of Allah swt added a rhetorical question (that doesn't have an answer) in verse 68: He wanted to justify that Musa (as) will not have the patience for the journey as he cannot be patient for something he lacks knowledge about.

وَكَيْفَ تَصْبِرُ عَلَى مَا لَمْ تُحِطْ بِهِ خُبْرًا

And how can you have patience about a thing which you know not!

Tafsir/ explanation:

`For I know that you will denounce me justifiably, but I have knowledge of Allah's wisdom and the hidden interests which I can see but you cannot.

Through this verse, we understand that the inability to be patient in times where we don't understand what's going on, in times where we can't see the bigger picture and we can't understand Allah's plan is only human nature. We (portrayed by Musa (as) here) are humans, we lack knowledge, we are flawed, there are divine things in the universe that we can't fathom with our simple mind, so we will not be able to understand, that's beyond our power. As a result, we will slip, we will deny, we will fall, we will reject, we will be torn, we will cry, we will hurt... It's only human, it's only natural. Patience in times of doubt and in hard times, patience when we don't understand the reasoning, when we can't see the end is really a super power, it sounds unhuman, almost impossible.

Luckily, and by Allah's mercy, the answer (normally a rhetorical question doesn't have an answer but Allah's merciful.) comes in the next verse through Musa (as)'s words:

قَالَ

He said,

سَتَجِدُنِي إِن شَاء اللَّهُ صَابِرًا

If Allah wills, you will find me patient, (with whatever I see of your affairs)

وَلَا أَعْصِي لَكَ أَمْرًا

and I will not disobey you in aught.

means, `I will not go against you in anything.'

So how do we be patient when patience seems like a superhuman power?

" If Allah wills " - first and foremost, we be patient by Allah's will and Allah's mercy. We RELY on Allah swt, even if we don't understand what's going on or why we are going through awful horrible things, even if what's happening to us seems " unfair ", we still have tawakkul and complete trust in Allah swt, for He is the best of the planners, the most just, the most merciful. And we pray that Allah swt give us Sabr. We pray to have patience, we make duāa that Allah swt fill our hearts with patience because He is As-saboor and He is the source of patience. We can't have it from anywhere else but Him, we can't have it by any other means except through getting close to Him and asking Him.

" I will not disobey " - Obedience is the key. Though in this verse Musa (as) was referring to obeying Allah's servant's orders, we understand in the bigger picture that systematically he was obeying Allah's orders as Allah's servant was only executing Allah's orders. The bottom line here is, even in hard times, especially in hard times, when we are going through calamities and bad things are happening to us, that's when we have to obey Allah swt the most. A lot of people in our ummah take it out on Allah swt, they take whatever wrong is going on in their lives on the religion. When something bad happens to them, it they lose someone dear to them, if they happen to be victim to any kind of abuse, they might abandon praying or fasting, some women or girls might take off their hijab as a first reaction or response to whatever oppression they faced. Others, might start doubting in the existence of Allah swt all together. But is that going to give you peace? Is that going to help with the patience? Obedience is your path to patience. Even when it gets really hard for you to get up and pray, to put your forehead down on the ground and say Subhana rabbi'a al āalaa, you still have to do that because you show that you are submitting, and you are accepting whatever is decreed upon you from the almighty, and you are being patient.

Finally, I leave you with the quote of sayyiduna Yaaqoob (as) : فَصَبْرٌ جَمِيلٌ ۖ وَاللَّهُ الْمُسْتَعَانُ

But come sweet patience! The help of Allah is always there to seek. (12:18)

May Allah swt fill our hearts with sweet patience to be able to accept His qadar and survive the calamities and hardships. May Allah swt save our people and our ummah suffering in Palestine, in Syria, in Yemen, in Kashmir, in China, in India, in Ethiopia, and all over the world. We can only survive this duniya by the mercy of the Almighty.

~ bintafriqiya.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

1. Don’t listen to the voice inside your head that tells you that you are inadequate.

2. Don’t hang out with people who look for the flaws and can’t see the best in the people in their lives.

3. Recognise each person is different and unique. There is no-one like you - and you have great attributes.

4. Take note of your efforts, and the progress you have made. You’ve already come far. You should celebrate that!

5. Appreciate others, and what you gain from them. Don’t see them as people who undermine you.

6. Remember that NO-ONE is perfect at all - and that other people struggle with the same stuff as well.

7. Go after what matters the most in this life: being loyal, and thoughtful, and caring, and kind.

[viviaramie]

Saat kita berdo'a kepada Allah meminta apapun yang baik, percayalah Allah pasti akan menjawabnya, namun dengan cara yang berbeda-beda, dengan beberapa proses yang akan kita lewati dan alami, seperti kita meminta "ya Allah berilah hamba kesabaran", maka bisa jadi Allah akan memberi kita ujian, agar kita terlatih untuk bersabar, maka berbaik sangkalah selalu pada Allah bahwa apa yang kita alami hari ini adalah proses dari do'a-do'a yang sering kita pintakan pada-Nya.

[lovelynewbegginings]

Things I’ve learned so far about marriage:

Before getting married I wanted to mentally prepare myself about a few things that I’ve learned from my elders and lectures. Having this kind of mind set has really helped me allot in my marriage so far and pray to Allah (swt) that He allows me to a righteous wife. 

1. No Ego ( especially with your spouse)

Generally, we should aim to have a humble personality always with our elders and our young ones. This really allows us to be more merciful towards Allah’s creations. However, when it comes to your spouse, compressing your ego should be an conscious effort. Frequently remind yourself that, you are both in the SAME team. You have to have each others back. Don’t have this mindset that ‘Oh, I did this for him/her last time now its his/her turn’. This creates conflict in the wrong run and it will hurt you both individually.

2. Expect Less.

Some people take this totally the wrong way ( including me). When I use to listen to lectures, elders or read articles about successful marriages, I always thought ‘expect less’ means expect the worst or expect marriage to be… well not that great.  And this is where many of us go in the marriage thinking ‘oh it wont be that great’ and automatically you becomes less motivated to make your marriage work.

Before I got married, I really worked on this. Yes, in the beginning I had this ‘negative view’ on marriage. But I tried my best to change and I’m glad I did. You just do your part in serving your partner in any way you can. It doesn’t have to be big things, small acts of kindness can go a long way. Remember, no ego. You both are on the same team. You doing something for him/her will not make you any lower but rather it will put you on a high status in front of your spouse.

Honestly, it really comes a long way. If you just do your part, you will be surprised how rewarding it can be. And when your spouse returns that favor it becomes even more special and it motivates you to do more for them. 

3. Do everything for the sake of Allah(swt)

Every act you do in marriage, do it for the sake of Allah(swt). Subhan’Allah that act has so much barakah and blessing in it. Often, we forget to include Allah(swt) in our every day tasks. Even the smallest act like doing chores for the sake of Allah(swt) has so much blessing in it. :)

4. Be less judgmental

When you’re newly married, we may not know your spouse so well. For me, we did exchange texts and some phone calls but you don’t know the person fully unless you live with them.

Its normal that we do get a bit judgmental when we are with someone new. So lets say you see them do something different or that you dislike. Don’t just make assumptions and make conclusions. At times we make certain conclusion like “ oh man, they do this! Great I’m stuck with this now”. Lol. Remember to relax first. You have to remain calm because if you react, situation can go way worst than it already is.

Someone wise once told me. Time is key. Give things time. You can’t just change that habit of theirs overnight. You need to be careful because it may hurt their feelings or offend them. Be very smooth. Don’t confront the situation directly. Their habit can be anything and there can be different ways to confront the situation. However, the key thing to remember is nothing is permanent. Things change, people change. 

5. Stay Connected with Allah(swt)

It is human nature that we cry for help in time of need. But when everything is going smoothly and you’re happy we tend to forget our Creator who made that possible. It can get difficult and that’s okay its normal. Just remember everything that is happening in your life is because of Allah(swt). Appreciate and be grateful to Him every second. Allahamdulilah.