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Just finished this Series last night! And here is my review 😂 You call this book series "The Illuminae Files" i call it "A Series of Mind-Blowing Events" like seriously the authors, Jay Kristoff and Amie Kaufman, are a pair of geniuses! The book is so unique, the characters are remarkable, the world building is amazing, and the plot! OMG! It's so f@#$%* aweeeesssomeee! I need the next installment in my hands now! GIMMEEE! I recommend this to book lovers out there who loves conspiracy theories! I fell in love with conspiracy theories since I read Angels & Demons by Dan Brown. I recommend that too hahaha! 😂 by the way, i read the series through Ebook 😂 I don't have the time to buy the book and everytime I checked the bookstores, it's always out of stock 😭 I will buy you one day!! 🙏 © WeHeartIt for the picture

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The only argument I really need to defend Sansa Stark. You know… besides the one where she thinks she’s all alone in the world and her whole family has been murdered and she’s fighting to not meet the same end.

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True

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10 Thoughts to Remove from Your Mind “The only place where your dream becomes impossible is in your own thinking.” – Robert H Schuller Have you ever wondered how some people are able to overcome incredible adversity, while others remain stuck, defeated, and struggling to handle failure? There is a common thread between the “rags to riches” and underdog stories of victory. What’s the common thread? – A resilient spirit and ability to bounce back from failure. – A determination to learn and get better instead of getting bitter. A resilient person is tough, they don’t give up and they find ways to get through the obstacles they face. Whatever you are going through, you have the option of whether to give up and give in, or to push through the pain and difficulty. If you don’t have the grit and resiliency you would like, it is because your “thoughts” are leaving you filled with resistance, fear, judgment, or doubt. Notice what keeps you from persevering and staying committed to your dreams. It’s your thoughts, isn’t it? Fortunately you can learn to think in ways that help you persevere and never give up! It’s time to think more optimistically, focus on learning and growth, and look for opportunity instead of problems. It’s time to stop the failure thinking, and start thinking and living like a winner. Here are some thoughts to avoid so you can transcend the hell out of failure. 1. “I already know everything I need to know.” Often the most stubborn people struggle with failure and setbacks. When we assume we already know everything there is to know it makes it difficult to understand why we aren’t succeeding. How to reframe: People are always learning. If something isn’t working for me, there is probably another way to look at things. I am constantly learning each and every day. 2. “I don’t need help from anyone. I can do this on my own.” When we are unwilling to seek out and accept the help of others we are basically deciding to learn the hard way. We all need help from others, whether it’s emotional support or actual resources. No one made it to the top without the help of others. How to reframe: It is okay to ask for and accept help from others. It is actually more courageous to seek help than to deny I have a problem. Getting assistance from others is a necessary step in reaching my potential. 3. “I should always be in control.” If there is one thing constant in life it’s change. There are many things out of our control and learning to accept what we cannot change is pivotal in overcoming life’s obstacles. Learning to let go allows us to live with greater peace of mind. How to reframe: I am adaptable and able to change along with my circumstances. I will focus on what I can control and accept what I cannot change. 4. “If I fail it means I’m a failure.” There is a big difference between making a mistake and failing to reach a desired outcome, and actually viewing ourselves as a “failure.” We will fail but that is a part of the process. Who we are doesn’t change because of our mistakes. How to reframe: I may not like to fail but it is inevitable and I can find the silver lining. When I fail, I will learn what I can do different next time. I will use failure as my teacher. 5. “I’m not smart enough, old enough, rich enough… (You fill in the excuse).” There could be countless reasons why you’re not ready or prepared to achieve your goals. Notice your excuses. Determine what limiting beliefs are holding you back and realize the lies you are telling yourself. Reframe: I may not have the ideal circumstances but I will use what I have and be the best I can be. I will stop making excuses and following beliefs that don’t serve me. 6. “I’ll never get over this problem.” This is a classic pessimistic interpretation. If we believe things will never get better we won’t be very motivated to work through problems. No problem lasts forever unless we make it a problem for forever. Reframe: No problem is permanent. I can deal with whatever I am facing. It may not be easy but I know that all problems pass with time. 7. “My circumstances won’t allow me to do that.” Many times we blame our environment on our failure. We use our job or boss as the reason we can’t get ahead. We even go as far as to blame society for our own issues. Talk about giving away accountability and power. Reframe: I am the co-creator of my life. My circumstances do not define me. I will take action and create the circumstances I desire. No more letting my external world determine my state of mind. 8. “I have never been the type of person to do that.” It is easy to base what we are capable of doing in the future on what we have done in the past. If I have failed at something over and over again, it is easy to assume I’m not meant to do it. It is a fact that learning anything requires practice and with enough practice we can do just about anything. Reframe: I will let go of my past identity. Just because I haven’t accomplished my goals doesn’t mean I never can. The past is in the past, and I will take the necessary steps to mold my skills, talents, and traits. 9. “I not good at dealing with stress.” We can all learn to manage stress more effectively. Frankly the more stress we deal with effectively the more natural it becomes. We can all learn new ways of thinking and behaving to help us handle stress, and ultimately build up a stress tolerance. Reframe: Stress is normal and healthy as long I learn to cope with it. Stress exists to communicate what my needs are. I will listen to my stress and find a healthy way to cope with it. 10. “What will other people think of me?” Worrying about what other people think of us is part of the human experience. We tend to want people to like us and approve of what we do. However, this is also a trap because we may sabotage our own wellbeing and success if it means someone else will give us approval. Reframe: Other people are more worried about themselves they are about me. I need to focus on what I think of what I do. I will follow my truth despite disproval from others. I will live with integrity. Start paying attention to your thinking. Notice your failure thoughts and begin to reframe these thoughts to help you manage setbacks and obstacles. Ella xxx

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pre-asoiaf meme: Prince Rhaegar Targaryen

Rubies flew like drops of blood from the chest of a dying prince, and he sank to his knees in the water and with his last breath murmured a woman’s name.

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My GoT craziness is coming back... 👍😊

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I JUST NOTICED THIS. The fact that one boy has pink laces and the other has blue could support the theory of Charles being shunned from the family due to wanting to be a girl. The whole story of the two yellow dresses and the fact that mrs.D didn’t want mr.D to know led people to believe that the other dress was for Bethany, but I think it was for ‘Charles’ who felt like a girl. Later he must have been sent to radley either by mr. d because he couldn’t accept a transgender child, or by mrs. D to let her son have the life he wanted. Maybe charles is Bethany?? Who knows, we have never seen Bethany’s other than in drawings of herself, and we do know that she resembled Alison, and that would make sense if they were actually siblings.. Another part of my theory is that when Mrs. D got a call from radley and didn’t want Alison to leave the house, I think that it was Charles who escaped radley, and then hit Alison, and this is why mrs. d tried to protect him, because he was her son. Or should I say daughter now? Idk. I also think that because Alison and Jason were both accepted in the family but he wasn’t, caused him to lash out and become -A. He was jealous. He/she had no family, no one who accepted them. When you think of it this way, it really is heartbreaking. Ella xxx

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season 1: who is A? season 2: who is A? season 3: who is A? season 4: who is A? season 5: WHO THE FUCK IS CHARLES?

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Practically the problem right now... I just finished watching the Season Finale, and it's so great... But seriously... Who is Charles???

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10 Years

Hi everyone! Two weeks ago, my friend asked me this question "Where do you think you're going to be in 10 years time?" So it got me thinking more than probably it should have. I always been the one who likes to answer questions as quickly as i can, and when you can't answer the question, there's only one way to find it. GOOGLE IT! Hahaha! xD But after searching for something that i thought can inspire me to answer it. I FOUND NOTHING 😩 maybe i'm just not ready to answer it, and that scares me. It scares the crap out of me. 28 for me seems like an age where you're settle down with a job than you can be working for the rest of your life, you have home, long-term relationship and you might have children. I'm 18 years old, a college student, waiting for my own prince charming. Haha! XD But that's still doesn't answer the question. So i wrote in my journal. 1. Get married and have a couple of children 2. I hope my friends and family are healthy 3. I wish people are still reading my Blogs hahaha! XD 4. And finally, i hope i love and enjoy my job that i will be having I don't really wanna plan out my future, i feel like the most exciting thing that may happen to me for the next 10 years or so, will be purely excited than i expected. I mean i can look back on the past 5 years and see things that happened right now today, that back then i wouldn't even dreamt off. So i pass forward the question on to you. Where do you think you're gonna be in ten years time? Feel free to answer it on a comment in my Instagram Account, which i will be posting a picture of that question. Instagram: _snoella Thank you for reading! Ella xxx

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Imagine being a youtuber

The majority of people will grow up, go to college for a while, get a 9-5 style job like a doctor or an accountant or something like that and continue that job until they’re 60 and then retire. No summer break (unless you’re a teacher). Always waiting for the next thing to happen. 
Youtubers have it great. Their job doesn’t have limits and they can do so much with their influence. They live in the moment, loving their life. It’s practically impossible to become one of them now, because there’s so many videos on YouTube. I get it, they do have cons to living as we all do but their life is just so cool! It could be a Monday and they could sleep in until 11. Young adults living the dream. They aren’t quite celebrities in the paparazzis eye but they have hundreds of thousands of fans. I’ll be working for the rest of my life. They may be doing that too but they obviously love what they do and it’s just asdfghjklssiabwb idk. I’ll be in a cubicles observing how I’ll make a mark and they’ll be making people smile.

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Cinderella Parallels | 1950 vs. 2015

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This is amazing!

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Hate On The Internet

Hello! Just a minute ago, i watched Gabriella Lindley’s video about many Zoe Sugg’s viewers hating her and telling her mean things she is not attempting to do. And i know and you guys (if someone is reading) know that i’m new here. Though i am open for constructive criticism. Okay! I will explain it this way.

I started this blog yesterday March 24, 2015 as a place to share things about myself and my life. It is now my hobby, my little space on the internet with an amazing community around me full of happiness and positivity. I don’t have any goals in mind, i just want to share everything about me. When someone posts parts of their life online, you are giving them a little piece of you, but i want to emphasize that point… “Just a little piece”. I watched many Zoe Sugg’s videos and Gabby Lindley’s. You guys know (the one who watches Zoe’s video). She have a YouTube channel with over 6 million subscribers and let me tell you, there is NOTHING that can ever prepare you for that amount of pressure that comes with that. She didn’t set out writing a blog on her blog website to have book deal with Penguin or her own product line, or for her face printed in magazines or on billboards. She just wanted to talk about what she loved, and her YouTube was no exception to this.

I never thought i would ever have to write a post like this, but it’s been brought to a lot of people’s attention lately that YouTube isn’t turning into a pleasant place to be. Not just for Zoe, but other people too. This is also why i’m actually debating to make my own YouTube Channel.

Now back Gabby’s video. She explained how she was terrified to be in Zoe’s vlogs because of the judgmental comments left by viewers of Zoe’s video. It is so upsetting because Gabby is so amazing and a great friend to Zoe and all of her friends. I can only imagine how she felt when some of the comments absolutely tore her to pieces for “using Zoe for her personal gain” or “replacing Louise”. It is so sad! 😔. As Gabby explained on her video, nobody replaced anyone, we’re all adults and we can have more than one friend. There’s no drama behind it. I think that sometimes, it can probably very easy for some viewers to get little carried away in their thought processes, almost like our lives are soap operas, and there couldn’t possibly be no drama. I think it’s really important to remember that the videos that YouTubers upload, are a select amount of clips put together by that YouTuber of their day, or if it’s a main channel video, it will have some structure to it. Everything else that happens in their lives, remains unknown. Their complete past, medical history and relationships with people off camera, are also mostly unknown. Although there is a lot that someone can share with the internet, it’s not everything in a lot of people cases.

I’ve never felt this way before, and it’s disheartening. That once fun, happy place that YouTubers uploaded content had all of a sudden turned evil.

I just feel that some people need to take a step back and have a little moment to think. We need to remember that everyone behind the screen, when the camera isn’t rolling, has a heart and has feelings, and could be going through hardest time of their life but you might not know that. There is a whole host of amazing free content for people to enjoy on YouTube, but if there is a YouTuber you don’t like, is it really healthy to indulge in their content on a daily basis and become so full of hatred towards them that your days just consist of negativity through social media? I feel like it’s not.

I think it’s so amazing, that someone is able to pick up a camera, and upload whatever they want to a free social platform as entertainment for others, or for their own personal reasons.10 years a go, that wasn’t a thing, HOW COOL IS IT THAT WE CAN DO THIS? That YouTubers able to interact with people all over the world immediately after uploading a video, to watch feedback coming in INSTANTLY and to have conversations with people.

Some people would say that being judged just comes with having a youtube channel or Blog Website and “what do you expect, having over 6 million subscribers?” Or “many people likes to read your blogs” but I would never subscribe to a channel or read and dislike it, and i’d never judge another human being without fully knowing them (and even fully knowing them isn’t a reason to judge anyone unless they have personally done something to offend you). I make my content to make others happy, and because it makes me happy. I want my post to be read only by those who want to read them, and I want us to all live in a world where people use freedom of speech for good. To spread positivity and make others happy or even to use that space for constructive criticism, but more recently it feels like plain old bullying. I’ve watched Gabbys face change in seconds from a smile, to someone who is trying desperately not to cry, because of those types of people and it really makes me so mad and sad.

If you are one of those people who creates hate accounts, sends nasty “anonymous confessions”, judges youtubers based on 20 minute videos or just leaves unnecessarily mean comments that you think “would I want to read this about myself”, then I am asking you, just to think for a minute. Think about the things that are making you unhappy in your life, does posting these things make you feel happy in the short term? Does it boost your self esteem to put others down? Unsubscribe from the people you don’t like to watch, if you don’t like it, don’t subject yourself to it on a daily/weekly basis. Try finding something in life to be excited about, to be positive about and put that into action when being online. It’s okay to admit to yourself that you might have been a bit mean at times in the comments section of youtube, and you can change that. Together we can make it a nicer place to be, and in turn, you will be a happier person too.

The last thing I would ever want to do, is become so scared of the comments, and the judging, and the mean people that the ones who are so supportive and positive miss out on my positivity. As i made this Account, i know one day i will have those hateful comments, but please understand I am only human, and no human is perfect. But in this account, you will only know the online version of me. You don’t know everything that goes on behind the posts and you don’t know the entire ups and downs I might face.

I can’t be the only person that wants the world wide web to be used in a good way? To help people? To make people smile? To spread positivity? To guide people? To provide useful information? To be involved in this amazing community?

I also want to quickly add, if you see the negative comments, or rude and plain bullyish behaviour whether that’s in youtube comments, tweets, other blogs etc, just ignore it. I don’t want any of you who stick up for me to give them any time of day, or to use any bullyish behaviour back. Instead, focus on the positive ones, and in turn, this will push the bad ones away. The more people engage, the more obvious they become and that’s the one thing we don’t want.

I’m going to end this here by saying this, which I will be tweeting or posting it on IG.

"Every time you post something online, you have a choice. You can make people happy or take away their happiness. Just a thought"

If you’re one those people that choose to spread positivity over negativity, I love you and thank you, because chances are you make a lot of people happy, including me, and chances are you feel a lot happier in yourself too.

Ella xxx

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Hello World!

How you doing guys? Great? Good! I would like to introduce myself, my name is Ella, i’m 18 years old and a college student. Currently studying in University of the East Manila Philippines! Yes i am a Filipino! I made this blog because i think it is good to just have a little piece of my life in the internet. And i was actually inspired. I read Zoe Sugg’s book “Girl Online” which is really good by the way! After reading it, i was laying in my bed browsing pictures in WeHeartIt, then it popped in my head “oh Ella! Why don’t you make a blog!” So i did, i searched so many blogging websites then i made a choice to just do it here in Tumblr. So yeah! It is currently March 24, 2015 8:55pm Starting now i’m gonna post pictures, writings about what i will be doing! Thank you guys for reading!

Ella xxx