You must fix your heart

Maverick || 19 || he/they 🏳️‍⚧️ || Multifandom || Ao3: Snubton || not an MCR blog, just tormented by them

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RESIDENT EVIL: VILLAGE

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The other night I freed Vah Medoh and then explored Rito a bit more, with the objective of getting sunset refs ^_^

Revali is such an ass lol I love him

[emoparamore]

sylvia & marianne @ london night 3

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🎣!!

[eatkura]

his pony tail aww

[nietii]

I don't recognize her

[itwashotwestayedinthewater]

[itwashotwestayedinthewater]

happy decade to the horrible beast i have wrought

[emoparamore]

the clown & gerard @ london night 2

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[rockergiirl]

yeah sure whatever

[what-even-is-thiss]

Talking to allo people who haven’t really interrogated how society has told them to view sex feels like that bit in SpongeBob where Patrick keeps failing to put his hand on the lid

[what-even-is-thiss]

Sex is just a thing. No it’s just an activity. It doesn’t have to be… no listen it’s just an activity. An activity. It’s just a thing. A thing. No it’s not the same for everyone it’s just an activity. No it’s a value neutral activity. An activity. An activity.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’ve been experiencing this lately with people trying to argue with me about my views on sex work.

“You can’t compare sex work to other types of work because having sex you’re not enthusiastic about is really traumatizing”

I’m sure for a lot of people that’s true but for me sex and masturbation occupy a similar emotional space to brushing my teeth or doing the dishes and I certainly don’t feel traumatized about it and I know for a fact that I’m not the only person who feels this way.

Also I think that someone physically and violently forcing me to brush my teeth might end up being traumatizing.

Sex is so taboo and mythologized that people have forgotten the mechanics of it.

Yeah sex might be sacred and important to you. To me it’s a chore I’ve gotta do sometimes. Like cooking. I love cooking and put great importance on it and who I do it with. A lot of people just cook to live though.

Yeah if to you sex has a lot of emotions caught up in it I’m not gonna tell you that you’re wrong for feeling that way. That’s normal. It’s not a universal experience though. And if you can’t accept that, then too bad. Other people’s personal realities don’t exist to confirm your personal worldview.

[what-even-is-thiss]

What a beautiful picture you paint

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[Image ID: Tumblr reply from sorryThatHappened reading: as an allo person why was my first thought "oh so sex is like playing wario land 3" /End ID]

[marshemillow]

This was the most frustrating thing I had to try and explain to people when that "porn addiction doesn't exist" post of mine blew up out of nowhere and people kept arguing in the notes that sex work is automatically more exploitative than every other type of work.

And it makes me feel crazy because like...you've allowed someone to borrow money from you or given money as a gift before, presumably? It's also traumatizing to be mugged, and yet, I've never heard anyone try to argue that getting jumped on the street is bad because it's giving money to someone. That would make you sound insane.

Eating is often an enjoyable activity for me. It would also be pretty traumatizing if someone forced food down my throat when I wasn't hungry, even if it's a food I normally enjoy, and yet, I've never heard anyone try to argue that having food forced down your throat against your will is bad because it's eating, because that would make you sound insane.

This can apply to basically anything! The above example of someone violently forcing you to brush your teeth despite tooth brushing not being traumatic by itself! Knocking someone unconcious by drugging them despite sleeping not being traumatic by itself! Literally ANYTHING could be traumatic if someone forces it onto you against your will, even if the event wasn't actually all that physically violent!

So why is sex so different?? Why do I hear so many people finding every way to say what is essentially, "Rape is bad because it's sex."?? Like yeah fucking OBVIOUSLY rape can be traumatic, because it's someone violently forcing you into an activity against your will!!! Why is that not the part that's emphasized??? Why do people keep saying over and over again that doing back-breaking labor that disables you early and leaves you with joint pain for the rest of your life can still NEVER be as exploitative as sex work even in theory???

Like yeah, go ahead and keep telling me you think getting beat the fuck up by a mugger is exactly the same as a boxing match. You sound ridiculous though and maybe like you need a reality check. It's an activity. An activity. An activity. Patrick, the lid. THE LID-!

[syn4k]

"lock in" is probably one of the most important phrases to enter the public lexicon in the 2020s

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[badymaru]

Gerard noticing two fans crying and hugging during Kids and sending them a hug 😭

(fans' POV here)

[badymaru]

another angle 🥺

[theunfortunate-author]

my daily affirmation as an author

[pixeljade]

more than anything i want a world where a trans girl realizing she is a trans girl faces zero fear from that realization and subsequent coming out. Where she can say "Oh sweet, I can just be a girl? Sign me up!", no worrying if shes girl enough, no worrying if society will accept her, no worrying if she'll be an attractive girl as she transitions, no worrying at all in any way shape or form.

[wifegideonnav]

gonna be honest i don’t know how many more ‘enter the 6 digit code we sent to your phone’s i got left in me

[tomb-mold]

anyway. computer show me big hairy sweaty men in docile positions

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