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i dont like it when elephant seals give me that look
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ABSOLUTELY love this post but the real artist is @tomecko ! Pls donât let their work go uncredited!
rsd is not a condition. rsd is not a diagnosis. rsd is not a medically recognized symptom of adhd and the experience "rsd" describes is not exclusive to adhd at all. this does not mean people with adhd can't experience rejection sensitivity, but "rsd" as an "adhd" thing is a concept with no emprical backing developed by one man, with claims of it being brain-based without any evidence behind that claim, as well as many other claims surrounding the "nature" of rsd. adhd is a condition characterized by executive dysfunction, which can involve emotional dysregulation, but acknowledging that is different from the framework of "rsd" and seeing people on this site pass this around without critical thought and even claiming rsd is "adhd only >:(" makes me sick. you're buying into what's basically pop psychology instead of scientific research.
emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity is by no means adhd exclusive, and people with adhd experiencing those things doesn't need to have its own special label or whatever when there's no meaningful difference between someone with adhd experiencing those things and someone without adhd experiencing those things. that's not logical and a ridiculous mentality of "rsd is adhd ONLY because our rejection sensitivity is SPECIAL" completely goes against building common ground with other neurodivergent people for petty and invalid reasons.
the amount of misinfo going around about adhd on this site is uncanny. please investigate claims others make about disability and do your research - actual research, which doesn't include tumblr posts that lack citation and oft unreliable sources like ADDitude Mag and WebMD. it would be INFINITELY more productive to operate on a shared experience of emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity among varying groups of neurodivergent people than to feed into this nonsensical idea of "adhd-only special super rejection sensitivity."
if you allow me to second this op, i became aware of the whole rsd thing being bullshit during my research for my current graduation work. i looked through many articles, hundreds even, in english, portuguese, spanish... granted, i did not exhaust EVERY possible science research website, but i favored ones that had good rep and that i already knew could help me get easy resources. still, no mention of rejection sensitive dysphoria, for my research that contained adhd as a keyword.
i feel like the case that happens here is that people see adhd and rsd through the lens of false correlation, and by that i mean, they observe a phenomenon that DOES happen, which is people with adhd feeling alienated from their peers and having a negative sense of self when it comes to social situations, and immediately think: âoh! this happens a lot with people who have adhd? must be a symptom!â when rather, it is related, yes, but it is more of a risk.
and this risk is not related to the very existence of adhd, but rather to outside circumstance, specifically ableism and underdiagnosis. during my research, some articles would cite going undiagnosed until adulthood as a higher risk for comorbid anxiety and depression. also, negative labels and rejection from family and peers contributed to low self esteem, negative self perception and oh shocker!/s social anxiety (sources, if you want them, sorry some of them are in portuguese: 1, 2, 3, 4).
its not that adhd CAUSES any of this. its just that its a high risk because of ableist environments and often a lack of diagnosis, which leads to you feeling pretty fucking bad about yourself and wondering why are you so different. i mean, i know i did. but i think thats something that can happen with ANY disorder, specially disorders that can persist through your whole life and affect pretty much every corner of your life. i may even be confident enough to say that, if i had done a research on autism, i may have found pretty similar results. ableism and rejection is something common to the experiences of pretty much all of us neurodivergent people!! there is literally no need to confuse a common experience with something that only this disorder or that disorder can have.
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Thank you both for this. As someone with major depressive disorder, an undiagnosed form of anxiety that came with the depressive package somewhere and c-ptsd from some very fucked up relationships, i absolutely experience rejection sensitivity (ive heard the dysphoria part may or may not be scientifically backed yet but it seems a pretty legit thing based on peoples experience) and feel guilty because I am not adhd yet identify and experience it so often. I'm not trying to be a "oh yeah i get that" person so it legit worries me yknow? Sorry this was probably an irrelevant ramble but it hit home and yeah.
I know the body-ableds swear their bodies are the norm and nothing else exists but some people depend on vitamin supplements to not be in complete agony 100% of the time, and many of us disregarded the potential benefits of supplements for YEARS while remaining miserable because people around us kept telling us they were useless for everyone, doctors included.
Maybe, just maybe, some peopleâs bodies have different needs from yours and if it doesnât provide any specific benefits to you it doesnât automatically mean itâs useless. It just means YOU, in particular, donât need it.
Also body-abled people with limited access to a decent diet (usually due to being poor!) can benefit from those âuselessâ supplements, so itâs not just us who may need them.
Some of the issues Iâve seen around vitamin complaints really do stem from a lack of industry regulation, tooâ the FDA does not cover over the counter supplememts until or unless they begin poisoning people, contain controlled substances, or are caught making unsubstantiated health claims⊠but that only adds to the confusion.
For example: I take a specific dosage of Vitamin D in a specific format using specific ingredients for fibromyalgia. So not only do you have the whole phenomenon of âwhat this does for me it will not do for youâ due to disability, illness, other meds I may be on vs anyone else off the street, environmental & dietary factors, allergies, etcâ just the sheer fact that different people with different bodies will react to drugs⊠differentlyâ the same vitamin from a different brand, or in tablet vs gel cap vs liquid form vs injected, may not do a goddamn thing for me as Patient A, either, while working perfectly for Patient B, or it may not work for either of us, but serves an entirely different function for Patient C! Because how you metabolize a compound & how bioavailable it is/its general quality changes your bodyâs reactions!
So for an âideal patientâ with a nutritionally balanced diet tailor made for their health, exercise, and general dietary + fitness needs, yeah, you might not âneedâ an OTC multivitamin. A lot of people are not that patient, though! Or even if they had the potential to be in terms of baseline health, will still have bad diet days, days they didnât rest well, days theyâre sick, etc. Or they might not âneedâ it, but it makes them feel betterâŠ
And even the fact that people think supplementing vitamins isnât necessary is based heavily on the ways foods are fortified in America! I take a B vitamin supplement + a prenatal multivitamin with folate, because Iâm allergic to wheat, and thatâs what a lot of grains in America are fortified with. Iâm lactose intolerant, so I drink a lot of calcium fortified orange juice, when oranges naturally are not a good source of that mineral, so, like, thatâs not even interchangeable with EATING actual oranges, even though that SOUNDS absurd. I have anemia with low hemoglobin. I could drink or chew iron supplements all day long, though, and it wonât help, because I have a genetic heme deletionâ but those supplements are still helpful for other kinds of anemia!
The abled-bodies-as-default one size fits all approach/mentality, and the assumption that all vitamins are created equal & function identically, have really done a disservice to how people approach the subjects of medicine, healthcare, self-care, and diet altogether, when the truth is all those things are far more complex than they get credit for, and not all industries or products are âuselessâ just because they donât all cater to every single arbitrary person or disease.
ahhh honey, people lie about being sick
Oh illiterate honey that isnât the topic of discussion
always be suspicious when someone tries to derail a conversation by talking about people taking âadvantageâ of a social safety net. brings this to mind:
also, a lot of the doctors HATE it. Itâs insulting and unhealthy and isnât how medical science works.Â
First of all, your doctor has a waiting room full of people with health concerns. You have an illness that is probably contagious. You know you should stay home, rest, and drink water. Your doctor can do nothing for you except tell you to stay home, rest, and drink water. But instead of doing that, your employer is forcing you to bring your contagious illness to your doctorâs waiting room full of health compromised people.
Secondly, health is so subjective itâs literally impossible for doctors to give exact ranges of time. Like, if you have any specific strain of influenza (the flu) you might be sick for 3 days or you might be sick for 9 days, your doctor has no way of knowing. Plus your doctor canât even tell which of the several strains you have, or even for sure IF you HAVE influenza and not one of the other thousand reasons you could have a fever and not feel well. Like, your doctor could find out, but it would be expensive, and a waste of time and resources, when no matter what the lab finds, the treatment is 99.999% of the time going to be stay home and rest and drink water. There is literally no way to give an exact and accurate time to your employer, and nothing your doctor can do to help you.
Lastly, by making your doctor their little enforcer, the employer is treating the doctor like some kind of junior high hall monitor, instead of a highly trained professional with better things to spend their time on.Â
My father used to get so mad at the whole situation that he would offer a note for unlimited time, just, whatever date you wanted. Like, oh, those employers think itâs more likely youâll lie to them than me? After they treat me like their little bitch, waste my time, and endanger my patients!? HAHAHAHA fuck them and fuck that â you want six months off? A year? Whatever you want and can afford my friend, fuck your boss, I hate him for sending you here.
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If someone tells you they have a chronic/illness condition and your first instinct is to blurt out âHave you tried (most common sense or most widely known way to help treat that or something similar)?â you need to stop doing that because it really sucks and it pisses people off.
Whatever youâre about to say, they have already thought of it or heard about it and one of the following things then happened: 1) they tried it and it didnât work 2) they were unable to try it for reasons that they donât have to share with you 3) the thing you suggested doesnât work for the thing theyâre dealing with (as I just saw on my dash, NO, extra strength Tylenol doesnât work for cluster headaches) 4) they flat out realized it was stupid and/or that there was no scientific backing or 5) they just plain decided they did not want to and you donât get to push on that either because itâs none of your damn business.
âHave you tried yoga?â Itâs none of your damn business if Iâve tried yoga, see if I ever open up to you about anything ever again if you respond to me disclosing my mental illness by being pushy and annoying and, from my perspective at least, vastly underestimating both my intelligence and my drive to seek out anything that will alleviate the misery I live with literally every day of my life.
I hope Iâm not sounding rude, Iâm just curious and I want to learn, but whatâs the appropriate response in that situation?
I think it depends on the situation, like how solemn theyâre being about or it why theyâre telling youâif someone seems a little embarrassed about it and theyâre telling you in a way thatâs trying to sound flippant or off-the-cuff, going âOh okayâ is enough. If it seems like it was scary or difficult to open up to you and theyâre being very sincere, a âThank you for telling meâ is goodâif theyâre someone youâre close to you can offer to help with anything/something specific that they need help with, and if theyâre someone like a new romantic partner you can ask questions about what that means for them and their life and your relationship (if you have questions about the disease in general, you can probably just google it later).
The only time I would âmake a big deal out of itâ or anything like that would be if itâs a new diagnosis and/or an unexpected/scary-to-them diagnosis. If someone has been diagnosed with something that shortens their lifespan, you can make sure to let them know youâre there for them if thatâs the kind of support youâre actually willing to give (saying youâll be there and then Not Being There sucks a lot more than just not offering to help tbh).
If itâs a very stigmatized illness like schizophrenia, I would make sure that your reaction doesnât make a big deal out of it, because people who have mental illnesses that are frequently misunderstood have probably had people react with fear and nervousness before and you should let them know that itâs not a big deal to you. (Because it shouldnât beâall the people Iâve known who have schizophrenia have been lovely people and good friends and never gave me a single reason to be afraid of them. Same for a lot of other mental illnesses where the common perception is that everyone who has them is an ax murderer or an abuser.)
If anyone reading this disagrees or has something to add Iâd love to hear it. Iâm no expert and Iâm only going off of my personal experiences of divulging chronic issues to people and having people tell me about their own long-term illnesses.
I can drink 3 cups of coffee and go straight to sleep, this is just one example of what is fundamentaly wrong with me as a person
Thatâs a possible sign of ADHD, my dudes. :P One of the prevailing theories explaining ADHD is that itâs caused by a lack of certain neurotransmitters, specifically norepinephrine and serotonin. Everybody has a background level of these neurotransmitters, and when they see or do something novel or interesting, those neurotransmitters increase, and then decrease back down to normal levels. Because people with ADHD have less of these than they should, they are constantly looking for something new and interesting to give them that jolt back to normal levels. Thatâs why theyâre so easily distracted and why they hyperfocus on things that interest them. Stimulant drugs, like caffeine, cause your brain to make more of those neurotransmitters. So while neurotypical people might get a buzz off caffeine, people with ADHD just get bumped up closer to normal levels, and so, if anything, feel calmer. Thatâs why they prescribe what are basically amphetamines as treatment for ADHD and why ADHD meds are so bad for people who donât have ADHD.
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Yup! At my job as a mental health counselor where we assess people, if we start detecting hints of what we think might be ADHD, itâs actually something my supervisor trained me to do, to just ask âSo when that sort of thing happens, do you ever drink coffee or soda to calm down?â or âDoes coffee actually help you wake up, or does it just not do anything?â because itâs such a commonly known fact about ADHD for people in the mental health field.
You were supposed to have regular access to healthcare to find out⊠but odds are youâre American so tumblr is your best betâŠ.
"Stop scrolling and please help me spread the word, because if I've landed on your page you're most likely either a black woman or someone who cares about black women and the simple phrase I'm about to share could help save a black woman's life.
Doctors are to black women what police officers are to black men. That may seem controversial but I believe it to be true and I speak from personal experience.
If you've seen this TikTok you know that a 2016 study showed that 50% of medical students and residents thought that black people couldn't feel pain the same as white people.
And we learned from this video that because of a 1999 study, to this day, there's a black correction factor for the creatinin levels in black people's kidneys, meaning we're less likely to recieve a kidney transplant if needed.
So if you go to a doctor, feel you aren't getting proper treatment or they refuse the treatment you've requested, say to them the following:
I will need you to document on record that you are refusing the treatment (or medicine) I've requested, and the reason you are doing so."
Perspective of a med student hereâI just wanted to clarify... never in my first two years of med school did I ever learn that black people feel pain differently than others. I donât want people to look at this post and suddenly think âWOW THEY LEARN THAT?â cause we really didnât (at least in my school). Iâm not disagreeing that medical racism doesnât exist, but I donât think itâs explicitly in the curriculum. However, I think that there are definitely subtle biases that do exist in the medical world.
I can say that there IS a lack of non-white representation in medical literature and education. For example, I had a black patient come into the outpatient clinic with Tinea Versicolor, a skin disease that would look completely different than someone with white skin. But when I first saw it, I was clueless since I had really only learned what it looked like on a white person.
Black people not getting treated as well or not receiving proper treatment: That exists, not all the time, but itâs still there. This I believe stems more from 3rd year and onwards, when students and residents can become biased through their experiences with their preceptors during rotations and during residency. Iâve noticed a lot of doctors will blame illnesses more on the character of the person: âShe has back pain because she just doesnât want to exercise due to lazinessâ, but not even consider that she might have something more serious. Sometimes the docs I follow donât notice their biases but then you can start picking up little patterns on how they treat different races.
Hereâs what I thinkâImo there should be more efforts by med students themselves, others fresh out of the didactic years, and all others in the health care profession to challenge those who are âmore experiencedâ in their biases. By learning about racial biases, starting up clubs dedicated to equality, and teaching our fellow classmates to treat every patient with respect, I really hope that one day we can change the way the healthcare system is run.
If someone tells you they have a chronic/illness condition and your first instinct is to blurt out âHave you tried (most common sense or most widely known way to help treat that or something similar)?â you need to stop doing that because it really sucks and it pisses people off.
Whatever youâre about to say, they have already thought of it or heard about it and one of the following things then happened: 1) they tried it and it didnât work 2) they were unable to try it for reasons that they donât have to share with you 3) the thing you suggested doesnât work for the thing theyâre dealing with (as I just saw on my dash, NO, extra strength Tylenol doesnât work for cluster headaches) 4) they flat out realized it was stupid and/or that there was no scientific backing or 5) they just plain decided they did not want to and you donât get to push on that either because itâs none of your damn business.
âHave you tried yoga?â Itâs none of your damn business if Iâve tried yoga, see if I ever open up to you about anything ever again if you respond to me disclosing my mental illness by being pushy and annoying and, from my perspective at least, vastly underestimating both my intelligence and my drive to seek out anything that will alleviate the misery I live with literally every day of my life.
I hope Iâm not sounding rude, Iâm just curious and I want to learn, but whatâs the appropriate response in that situation?
hiya! I figured id make an informational post about the little things ive noticed about being on testosterone that I found werenât talked about a lot when I was starting my transition and even before when I was doing my research. I think that trans sexual health is an extremely important part of trans peoples lives (and that doesnt necessarily mean sex) seeing as the physical changes that happen during transition are often foreign to us. Sexual health keeps us healthy and comfortable in our bodies, so do your best to stay attentive to your bodyâs changes! As always, consult your doctor if you feel the need to. These are only tips ive learned from transitioning myself and from my doctor when I asked about certain things.
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Fucking tumblr our here really trying to teach the world things
Hey this isnât necessarily something for HRT. But rather for top surgery for those considering it, most every surgeon and endocrinologist Iâve met (save for the ones Iâm working with currently) doesnât mention this and trans dudes who have gone through top surgery sometimes donât even know about it, but your tiđ ±ïžđ ±ïžies? They make hormones. Lots of them. When you get top surgery youâre removing a primary maker of hormones from your body and itâll throw you through a loop, and for anywhere from a few days to a couple months after the surgery your hormones are gonna be WACK. This will usually cause a post-surgery depression that a lot of trans men sometimes confuse with regret for taking this step in their transition and itâll throw them into an identity crisis, so for those planning on taking that step, just remember that weird ass sadness youâre gonna feel is just your hormones being like âhey wHAT the FUCKâ and you made the right decision for you!!
Can confirm that bottom growth is a real and painful thing. If youâre the kind of person who wears skinny jeans regularly (looking at u fashionable goth/punk trans ppl), hereâs a tip for your first few months of T: donât.
Bottom growth will be overly sensitive and stick out of the hood more than usual, and anytime the inside of ur jeans rubs against it it will a) hurt and b) make u horny.
This can be a problem in general, but especially if u have bottom dysphoria and being reminded of ur junk can make u dysphoric, and/or if ur ace like me and being horny can be a very confusing and annoying experience (I know this is not every aces experience but I had never really had a sex drive or arousal before T and it was very distressing at first. Still ace tho)
Oh also: microdosing can be great for slowing changes and letting ur body adapt more gradually (It can be very helpful for more gradual and natural sounding voice changes), however, it will not let you avoid certain changes entirely. Microdosing will not prevent bottom growth from happening, or any other changes you may want to avoid. Unfortunately what changes you get are genetic and there is no way to pick and chose which you get. A lower dose of T can make it go more slowly to help you get used to it more gradually or so that if there are changes you really want to avoid you can try and stop before those advance too far, but it canât prevent changes from happening entirely, certainly not specific ones. And certainly not bottom growth, which is one of the first changes to start and one of the least reversible.
(I donât say this because I think that was what op was trying to say abt microdosing at all btw, Iâm just trying to clarify because I remember when I started T and was researching low dose T, I saw some people on online forums hoping it would allow them to avoid bottom growth for example, and it wonât, so I wanted to clear that up)
Also re: top surgery, the first time I saw my chest post-op my brain flipped and I got so dizzy I nearly passed out. This is also relatively normal and okay. I think my brain just kind of freaked out seeing my body so different from what we were used to and also oh yeah with a big scar running across it. Its okay, that doesnât mean you regret it either. I think sometimes ur brain just needs a minute to catch up and realize âoh wait this isnât a traumatic injury this is what my chest is supposed to look likeâ. Once I had seen my chest a few times and let my brain get used to it I was absolutely thrilled and loved it (and still do). I also had a panic attack the night before my surgery because I was afraid of the anesthesia. Again, doesnt mean I made the wrong decision.
I think a lot of trans ppl donât know that surgery can just be an emotionally intense experience, and yeah can also mess with ur hormones a bit (another consequence of both hormonal stuff and the stress of surgery is I got really bad acne for awhile after surgery) and so you might feel all kinds of weird or stressed directly before or after. Itâs okay. Make sure u have supportive ppl around u to take care of u, and wait until ur body has had a bit of time to heal and renormalize before u start panicing over if u made the right choice or not. Youâll probably be sleeping for most of the first week anyway. Give ur body and ur nerves a break for a bit.
So your breast doesnât actually make hormones, however it does work closely with the hypothalamus, an organ in your brain that makes the hormones, and the anterior and posterior pituitaries, a pair of structures in your brain where these hormones are released from. There is a feedback mechanism between these structures, and when there as an imbalance, this can tell your brain to make more or less of a certain hormone.
Normally, your body does a pretty good job of sensing these changes, but it gets stressed out trying to balance things out again. When your body starts freaking out, itâs just doing its job for a while until itâs able to get used to the changes!
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So was ren more upset about losing the relic or about almost attacking âNoraâ?
Either way I feel so bad for him...
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So how is Dynamax wailord gonna work
two questions for u homestucks
1) what should i read first? meat or candy?
2) are these epilogues the end or is there more content to come?