the line tends to deviate

she/her, 37 header by @bisexualalienblast currently posting a lot of heated rivalry and taylor swift and too lazy to make a sideblog previously I wrote rnm fic and made fanvids sometimes I ramble about parenthood, infertility, and sobriety

[soberqueerinthewild]

soberqueerinthewild links and things

Heated Rivalry Edits

The Pitt Fic

Taylor Swift Favorite Lyrics

RNM fics, edits, meta

911 fics

[soberqueerinthewild]

I love when you listen to a song and you know exactly the type of person they are describing. Like I don’t need to know who the actual person is but I need to fully understand the vibe. Some good examples:

Taylor Swift - ttpd (song)

Sabrina Carpenter - dumb and poetic

Noah Kahan - Dashboard

[squiiiiiirt]

tumblring for these 6 people always in my notifications

[soberqueerinthewild]

Quick, quick

Tell me something awful

Like you are a poet

Trapped inside the body of a finance guy

[swiftpolls]

which of these songs do you like more?

bigger than the whole sky

glitch

Remaining time: 3 days 5 hours

[swiftpolls]

which of these songs do you like more?

sweet nothing

hits different

Remaining time: 3 days 2 hours

[righthandarm-man]

can you remember the name of every person you’ve kissed?

yes, I remember all their names

I could name most of them but there are few I can’t remember

if you put all of them in a room I could put a name to at least half the faces

i’m not confident I could name a quarter of them, let alone half

I can’t remember more than one or two names

I’ve never kissed a soul and want to see the results

Voting ended onJul 23

[takofukkatsumi]

Reblog this and tell me what was your biggest crying over a piece of fiction. You can be vague if you don't want to spoil.

[sayspeaknow]

The Tortured Poets Department Track by Track

My Boy Only Breaks His Favourite Toys

“My Boy Only Breaks His Favourite Toys is a song I wrote alone, and it’s a metaphor of you know, from the perspective of a child’s toy being somebody’s favourite toy until they break you and then dont want to play with you anymore which is you know how a lot of us are in relationships where we are so valued by a person at the beginning and then all a sudden they break us or they you know devalue us in their mind we’re still clinging on to that no no “you should’ve seen them the first time they saw me, they’ll come back to that, they’ll get back to that”. So it’s kind of like a song about denial, really, so that you can live in this world where there’s hope for a toxic, broken relationship”

[etiennelux]

reading a negative review of something you love written by a person who very clearly didn’t understand it at all

[t-valentines]

reading a positive review of something you love written by a person who very clearly didn’t understand it at all

[jabberwockypie]

Reading a negative review of something you hate by someone who very clearly didn't understand it at all and hates it for the wrong reasons

[soberqueerinthewild]

Taking my kid free morning and walking for the entirety of TTPD. Wish me luck!

[soberqueerinthewild]

I did successfully complete this walk this morning and wow that’s a long fucking album

[soberqueerinthewild]

Taking my kid free morning and walking for the entirety of TTPD. Wish me luck!

[soberqueerinthewild]

I’ve always been a one blog kind of a girl but I suddenly understand the advantage of a side blog

[soberqueerinthewild]

You guys I’m dead on my feet because I’m doing the job of 3 people but my wife unexpectedly got Sunday off due to some licensing bullshit that will take a few more days to sort out and she’s taking our daughter camping Saturday night into Sunday and I’m gonna stay home and I’m so excited to have a little time to myself (especially since I just traveled solo parenting with my daughter for 10 days)

[soberqueerinthewild]

Listening to Opalite and still really think “you were in it for real, she was in her phone, and you were just a pose” is so mild as a criticism of a past partner

[robinavitchgf]

I didn’t mean to offend you I just genuinely think you’d like what the ai did with the story, it’s really great and maybe even better than the first chapter! I also asked it to make fan art based on some of your shorter works and they’re gorgeous, some of the best art I’ve ever seen. Ai isn’t as bad as people think so if you ever realize that and change your mind I can still send it all to you!!! <3

i wasn’t going to respond to this bc of how much it fucking pissed me off but i feel like this needs to be said.

don’t ever come into a writers’ inbox and openly admit you used ai to, let’s face it, plagiarise their work. i don’t CARE if you want it to be on my blog, you still fed it into an ai bot for your own gain. it’s fucking ridiculous that you blatantly ignored the rules on my page that state NOT to do this to my work.

also saying it’s “better than the first chapter” sorry but fuck you?? first you steal my work and put it into ai and then basically say my works shit and ur ai slop is better???

i work full time, i dont tend to write all that often, hence why longer one-shots/fics are barely posted. sometimes all i can get out is a little drabble/blurb. and then sometimes i lose motivation for fics/series’ that i’ve previously posted about. this doesn’t give you an excuse to take my work and use ai to create your own. sometimes fics just don’t get finished and you have to fucking deal with it. if i ever find the motivation again, i might post about it again, but if i don’t, then don’t use ai on my work. and especially don’t use it to create fucking fanart on my other pieces.

tl;dr don’t fucking steal my work and plagiarise it through fucking ai. i don’t want your ugly nasty disgusting ai slop anywhere NEAR my blog and my content and my works.

[bullet-prooflove]

My jaw fucking dropped at the audacity.

[parkchanwoohoo]

Once you start noticing how the incapacity to handle discomfort affects how people live their lives it's actually pretty shocking how it ruins pretty much every conceivable aspect of existence. Interpersonal relationships, romantic and platonic. Career and education opportunities. Your politics Your willingness to go anywhere. The kind of food you eat. The kind of art you expose yourself to and your ability to read it. It's never just one thing, it touches everything, and once you notice it it's like suddenly being able to see germs or something. Just this horrific catastrophe people look at you askance for screaming about. As I grow older and see what became of my friends and peers who could not learn to handle discomfort, the more I'm like. This is a genuine societal issue

[werewolf-beans]

Increasing my discomfort tolerance has also been one of the greatest assets to improving my mental health.