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Alex | nb | 26 | Black | Any Pronouns | 18+ only

[pristineblades]

i think a lot of the people who say that warning posts are useless drama-starters that only exist to further harass marginalized/vulnerable people would have more plausible deniability if those type of posts didnt spring up literally every single time a black user pointed out that a white user is racist

[pristineblades]

and also if the Black user didn't proceed to get racist harassment from the white users followers for pointing out said racism

[pristineblades]

Black tumblr user: this user is racist, here is proof, and i would prefer it if those who willingly interact with this person after knowing this to keep their distance from me

dashboard for the next 4 days: when you make a callout post for someone you have murdered them. it is the same thing. it is the exact same thing as taking a life. you have killed them forever and you have blood on your hands.

[pristineblades]

a small reminder with all the "trans womens blogs getting deleted is Literally social murder" going on that white trans women harassed and mass reported a Black trans womans blog that she used for fundraising to the point of termination all because the Black trans woman said she didn't rock with pedophiles and racists.

[courteous]

lesbians always remember to hate on men however much u want and curbstomp anyone who tries to shut u up by talking some bullshit abt how its "male centered" to do so

[keltoid]

[pspsappho]

& honestly there's no debate to be had the zendaya earrings are orders of magnitude worse than kim kardashian wearing that marilyn dress. yes that piece was a one of a kind unique textile made so specifically for marilyn monroe she had to be sewn into it. at the end of the day it was a ~70 year old usamerican cultural artefact being repurposed by an american for an american cultural event and everyone involved knows exactly where the dress came from + what happened to it + where it went afterwards. zendaya is wearing the looted (or forged) cultural heritage of a people her government is currently bombing & whose lives they have been deliberately making unliveable for decades to a movie premiere that has fuck all to do with iran. we don't know where those discs came from where they were found or by whom & we never will. AND the jeweller appears to have altered them substantially from their original condition. destroying a people's cultural heritage at the same time you destroy their country + their lives so you can look good on a red carpet One Time i want to fucking hurl

[uhhhhmanda]

Zendaya’s The Odyssey premiere earrings spark ethics row

The earrings, worn by Zendaya at The Odyssey press tour, are believed to be 2,000-3,000 years old and come at a time when the US is bombing

An archaeologist quoted in the article says "the point of these earrings is not to showcase legitimate ancient artistry, it is to fetishize the past, to be a commodity, stolen from the elite, circulated illegally, and immorally…this is about class signalling."

[anglaised]

every man who goes on a reality dating tv show should get a bomb collar put on and if they are shitty enough to the women on the show they should be able to vote and if majority wins his head gets blown off

im passing legislation on this as we speak

[anglaised]

i cant laugh at anything white ppl do they always gotta ruin it randomly swinging at black ppl like damn okay.

[mousidy]

I'm so sorry to tell you this, but I just saw someone make a blog specifically for trans men to talk about trans women being abusive titled "transmascvoicesproject" and with you having just put a pause in your project, I don't think this is at all a coincidence. As in yes, it's transmisogynistic, but to make it even more gross, they're probably also specifically doing it because they saw your post about pausing submissions. The tag is #transmasc voices project, incase you're interested in blocking it or anything else

you know it's always been a fear of mine that someone would copy tvp and change up the wording to create a male version and frame it as an equal counterpart, subtracting from the purpose of tvp which is to center transfem survivors... but never in my worst nightmares did I imagine they would make their project specifically about abuse from transfems and nobody else. fucking horrific

[mousidy]

I was about to say I'm glad it's so transparently ghoulish and disingenuous that it will never get taken seriously, but well, let's fucking see lmao

[void-of-nothing]

this is actually disgusting. to blatantly steal an idea from a transfem without credit, the purpose of which was to help marginalized voices speak up against violence from all places, not just trans men

and to twist it into something that uplifts the already dominant voices of the trans sphere, that specifically only accepts submissions when the submitter is talking about violence from transfems.

this is so fucking transmisogynistic and it hides under the guise of uplifting survivors of sexual assault.

[salmaciansalix]

Never been clearer that people like this view TME/TMA as a binary of and between trans people, rather than the specific identification of who is and is not affected by one kind of bigotry.

You're not centering their healing, you fucking shitheel. The point of the TVP is that a small group with a minority of power is constantly sexually assaulted by everyone else on the planet, while this "project" is, for some reason, focusing on presenting trans feminine people as uniquely and especially dangerous and harmful to "TME's"; rhetoric that has existed and been used to socially murder us for decades at this point.

This isn't a revolutionary new campaign to shed light on an unacknowledged system of abuse and harm that's occurring under our noses, it's a blatant tool of transmisogynistic oppression.

Returning to my first point, flipping TME and TMA like this is self-evidently wrongheaded and ignorant to what they are. This assumption that TME refers specifically and exclusively to trans masculine people for some fucking reason is the most self-centered birthday boy bullshit, and it would be laughable if it wasn't being used to further buttress the idea that we're uniquely predatory and evil.

"Why is it that when trans mascs attempt to analyze the exact same dynamics regarding TMA assailants, it is suddenly framed as a distraction from our own healing?"

Because TME and TMA are not interchangeable in this way, and an "assailant" being TMA does not carry the same, or any, systemic weight, power of oppression, or abuse via privilege, that those who are exempt from transmisogyny do when they abuse, rape, assault, gaslight, and correctively rape a transmisogynized person.

The only thing about the replies on their posts that encourages me somewhat is that even trans masculine folk who think TME/TMA is "bullshit" think that this shit stinks/is bait. They know this is what actual divisiveness looks like, they know this is a disgusting way to talk about trans women, even if they don't think it's worth talking about our unique oppression.

[creatingblackcharacters]

Gotta be honest, when it comes to this post-

1) how am I supposed to interact with someone who has me blocked (and therefore... does not wanna interact with me and I cannot see their resources) and

2) I do not regret saying I do not want to interact with a willing peer of someone who said, on a public platform, that trans victims of sexual assault are equivalent to the police for talking about the attackers because those attackers are trans. Amongst the other... Also racist stuff. I suppose having the white European validation isn't ironic (?)

Idk. If being called out for talking about white supremacy and the purposeful eradication of Black and Indigenous peoples for European settlement, just because it happens to be in another settler colony, leads to a crash out like this... I think that I'm on the right path, fr. Everyone sees it. For it to be such a "gringa" mentality, it is wild how... Everyone in other places in Latin America sees it and has commented on it. So. They're just gonna have to be mad at the villain they've invented in their head to defend against. Instead of, apparently, the people in their country calling Black people slurs and letting the rest of the world see it.

@ghoulz-n-goblinz you and op can tag me next time though 👍🏾

[normielesbian]

I will never be able to fully express how being a lesbian is not considered cool and sexy to average people, who aren't terminally online. It considered especially disgusting to people when you're a woman who doesn't look like a super model or actress. People are shocked and appalled at the thought you want to eat the pussy of an ordinary girl whose like a waitress or something. People are grossed out that two women who might be fat, masc with stretch marks/scars or without makeup etc find each other completely attractive and have completely fulfilling sex for themselves. Lesbianism that is devoid of the male gaze repulses people. It's why lesbians are rarely fully represented in media. It's not sexy anymore if it's not two straight thin decorated actresses directed by a man. They so mad when we want each other and don't care to meet their beauty standards or need their approval.

[texasbama]

MEGAN THEE STALLION Love Island USA Season 8 Episode 23

[pseudomantis]

Just found out this tag that keeps trending is people shipping the protagonist of Project Hail Mary with the protagonist of Iron Lung you people are bored as fuck on here and it's because you don't watch sports or eat vegetables

[gokusclit]

HELP like immediately when i hear “it’s for the girls and the gays” i know whatever it is is gonna be dogshit

[calamity-corner]

"a woman who's willing to fuck men is actually more queer than a lesbian" actually i think you just hate women

[calamity-corner]

i'm not interested in making space for trans men in lesbianism. there's no reason they have to suddenly give up their lesbian friends, their "community", but Lesbians do not need to make a special little bioessentialist seat at the table for straight men. it does not ever need to happen. this shit pisses me off so bad

[calamity-corner]

yknow what post i hate? that post about how "sometimes a dyke will mistake a twink for another dyke and vice versa and they'll make out and it's not actually straight it's Extra Special Queer, even more Queer than usual!" no what you just described is at best a silly mistake. it's not More Queer for a lesbian to make out with twinks. it's not Extra Special 5D Gender Chess for a lesbian to kiss a man. why are you so obsessed with making sure every lesbian knows she should really kiss men? why is making straightness Queer the hill you want to die on? why do you hate lesbians so bad

[thesituation]

there’s no such thing as a bi lesbian and if you have any word of dissent or disagreement or any other opinion on the matter save your breath and quietly unfollow me. i’m a lesbian and that is lesbophobia

[plushie-sex]

rest in peace eryka caldwell. she was a 41 year old trans woman of color stabbed to death by her boyfriend. she had so much life left and yet it was cut short by this man. i hope the world can be better for trans women of color, sooner rather than later.

[morganitism]

Rest in peace, Eryka. You seemed like such a beautiful soul that brought so much love and joy to those around you.

I'm glad the world had you. I just wish it could have had you for longer.

[connorsjorts]

i've never played dragon age and don't know anything about it but what i do know is that that solas guy looks exactly like if astarion and wulbren bongle had a baby

[connorsjorts]

this is an animorphs cover

[hemipenal-system]

queer allies as a rule have got to get more normal about the idea that trans women can have periods

[hemipenal-system]

anyway trans women please learn from the mistake i make literally every single month without fail: if you get these random bouts of feeling really fucking hopeless about everything and they're basically monthly it might be the fact that you are on your period at the moment and you've missed it because you don't bleed and (if you're anything like me) the physical symptoms start AFTER the emotional ones by like three or four days

you will be alright. eat something sugary and go play a board or video game with someone. consider magnesium and b complex supplements please. for me