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The fairies of Alfea have gathered together in order to help you achieve your glow up, or should I say, transformation. What are the steps you must take? Pick your fairy and find out!
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Despite your stubborness and set attitude, you are a bit lazy, don't you think? All of that passion exists just to be left behind by procrastination and other unimportant things. It's time to take a good look at your life and get rid of all of the bad habits that have been standing in your way. Stop spending so much time on your phone and grab that notebook. Sit that at the table, write your goals down, then make an action plan. There could even be habits such as unhealthy eating that keeps your energy low or friends that tell you hanging outside all the time is much more important than your career or future. Be honest with yourself. Is your present close to your ideal future?
I have the feeling that you might now already a lot of the things that you must do in order to get where you want. But what is stopping you? Lack of discipline? Maybe even fear of failure? These are simple obstacles, but the thing that is truly stopping you is you. So do something about it!
I have the feeling that you might now already a lot of the things that you must do in order to get where you want. But what is stopping you? Lack of discipline? Maybe even fear of failure? These are simple obstacles, but the thing that is truly stopping you is you. So do something about it!
I have the feeling that you might now already a lot of the things that you must do in order to get where you want. But what is stopping you? Lack of discipline? Maybe even fear of failure? These are simple obstacles, but the thing that is truly stopping you is you. So do something about it!
I have the feeling that you might now already a lot of the things that you must do in order to get where you want. But what is stopping you? Lack of discipline? Maybe even fear of failure? These are simple obstacles, but the thing that is truly stopping you is you. So do something about it!
I have the feeling that you might now already a lot of the things that you must do in order to get where you want. But what is stopping you? Lack of discipline? Maybe even fear of failure? These are simple obstacles, but the thing that is truly stopping you is you. So do something about it!
Those goals that have been lingering in your mind? By working towards them and your other dreams and making the necessary steps for changing your life, your glow up is gonna appear when you least expect it. It will happen out of nowhere, and fully. Everyone around you is going to see the way you've transformed from the small caterpillar to the extraordinary butterfly. You've just gotta put in the work.
Maybe you've been working hard. But have you been working smart? Take a moment to analyze, then prepare the attack!
My dear pile two, there are many things you will have to do in order to reach a full transformation. But lucky for you, my cards know exactly what the steps are!
First of all, how about starting with self-love? Even a drop of confidence can make your perspective change, and with it the way your life looks like. I know this is quite tough and working on liking yourself after years full of doubts and insecurities is not easy at all. But I believe you can do it! I know you can. You deserve to cherish yourself and appreciate your own reflection. How about starting with the way you treat yourself? Compliment yourself when you look in the mirror, even if it seems fake the first few times. Stop taking the blame for the things that are out of your control and be nicer when you talk to yourself. Build a self care routine. There are many things that you can do to slowly start loving yourself. If it's hard to identify what are the mistakes that you've been doing, compare how you treat yourself to how you treat the people that you care about.
You've been lying to yourself about something in your life and you know you should let it go. Take your time with it, love. But remember that you shouldn't hold onto it forever.
The past has hurt you, hasn't it? It still brings tears to your eyes and your mind still goes back to the old times. Healing is a process that takes a long time and it better not be rushed, but you cannot start healing if you drown yourself in memories. Let go of the past and the future will look brighter.
Lastly, take some time out! Relax, enjoy your time. Start doing things that bring a smile to your face and make you feel good. Could be a small hobby or spending time with a friend. Make time at least once a week, even if it's for a few hours, to breathe. Even a small trip to the mall or the park could be helpful as I got traveling from the cards.
Spend more time with your friends or build new connections! Many people are still dealing with school or you could be letting your job occupy your whole time. Or even rejecting people's invitations. This seems like a pile that might have problems with communication and dealing with other people, but it's time to come out of your shell. Make some new friends. Join a group, a community, anything. A book club, some sort of class. It could be something you've had in your mind related to maybe a hobby or topic you particularly like. If someone tells you to hang out, do it! (If you don't like that person, don't do it then).
I have the feeling this pile would be great at manifesting. Make some time and do a little research on the law of attraction or assumption and get started on it! I see that you have some limiting beliefs that could prevent you from getting what you desire, so really think about your thought patterns that aren't helpful. Even google some examples to give you an idea.
Talk to someone about your problems. I know it's not easy, love. I know how hard and uncomfortable it can be to let everything out in front of someone else. Letting yourself be vulnerable and seen in this state by another human can bring a whole different type of anxiety. If you have someone trustworthy, you can try. But if you don't, you can buy a notebook where you can write about your day or something that worries you. About anything. It's better to keep your emotions in check than letting them pent up.
Lastly, treat yourself. Spoil yourself more. Be kinder to yourself. Learn about who you are. Wear that item you like but you keep it hidden in the closet. Allow yourself to be lazy at least one day. Call that friend you miss and go out. Enjoy your life, dear. And you will see how beautiful it can be.
Pile four, it looks like you need a change of mindset. Looking at the darker side of things is easy and we are all pessimistic at times. But it looks for you it's a constant thing, always expecting the worst in anything. This mindset of yours made you miss out on some pretty good opportunities and even drove people away, even if you don't realize it. It's good to be cautious and look from both perspectives. But right now you should learn how to see the bright side as well.
You love a little bit of drama, don't you? Even if you don't seek it, somehow you still find yourself in this type of situations full of anger and competition. You should really take a step back and analyze your approach to other people and see what makes fights so enjoyable for you, why there is so much toxicity around you and WHY you allow it to surround you.
Be more practical and patient. Similar to a few of the previous piles, you could have some goals in mind that you are ready to achieve. Stop rushing towards things and act one step at the time. Don't expect things to happen immediately and rethink your plans a bit. Be practical and spend less time daydreaming and more working. Things will appear in front of you as soon as you change these things.
Also, really think about what you want in life. Are the things you desire because you want them, or because your family and friends push you towards them. Are you in control of your life, or are you spending your time trying to prove yourself to them?
Lastly, let go of a few specific events in your life that really hurt you. I know, it takes time. But a new journey is calling you and the boat is almost ready to take off.
Wow, this is such a passionate pile! I love it! You are definitely one creative person that has the potential to reach a glow up in all aspects, one better than expected! You have some ideas in that head of yours that I think you should transform into reality. You could even have a creative job or side thing later in the future that will bring happiness and even recognition. This thing will help you learn more about who you are, feel happier and even help you meet new people!
Some fears are really keeping you inside of your comfort zone. Fears you keep feeding. Thoughts as not being good enough, talented enough or even overthinking related to the small things that you do. These fears are actually walls you put up yourself, so it's time to bring out your inner gryffindor and destroy them.
Be determined and don't give up! Keep on working and growing your little garden and don't let anyone's words or opinions stand in your way. Hardships are always present in important journeys as they are meant to help us evolve, not stop us from reaching the stars.
Start listening to your intuition more. This will help you prevent unwanted situations and even lead you to the path you are meant to be one. I also hear some blessings will come as soon as you pay more attention to what your inner voice has to say.
Drop those friends. You know they have no place near or you and you could be even aware of them gossiping about your life or you in general. I think you've had quite the bad luck with people in the past, but that's because you should work on boundaries and how you let people treat you. Being a good friend isn't letting them walk all over you. And if this isn't your case, stop caring about what other people think. You know you can't stop them from talking about you, but you can stop yourself from being interested in what they have to say.
Pile six is always different in a way and wow, you guys need some love. Things have been quite tough for you and it feels like it's a never ending cycle of hurt and suffering. I promise you it is not, and things will get better soon. And you deserve so much more than what you've been given. You are worthy of that happiness you've been dreaming of.
It looks like you need some healing. Emotional healing is what will make your life change for the better and even help you move onto a brighter path. It will be a slow process as healing needs time to properly take place, but it will happen. Take it easy and be gentle with yourself. Allow your emotions to be felt and even cut off the things that prevent you from moving on. Toxic people, bad habits, old material stuff that bring bad memories, photos with sad stories or moments attached to them. Try to eliminate these things slowly from your life and start writing a new chapter. The fresh air can help you with moving on.
This pile can also benefit from meditation. Also, maybe check your sleeping pattern? If you've been dealing with nightmares or insomnia, please seek help from a professional. Make sure you are taking care of yourself and and your health. I do not like including medical related messages in tarot readings but it's important to pay attention to this kind of matters.
Balance work and "me time". Do what you have to do for your career/school but also make yourself a priority. Your needs are much more important than paper work or other trivial things, but also don't neglect your responsabilities.
Do some self-love exercises and start working on the way you view yourself. Self love is a type of love just as important as the others.
If you've been thinking about working out, do it!
