babydoll

cuz i said so

[manifestingitgurlll]

can you please help me? every single day when i manifest and persist i feel so scared that my desires will always stay in my imagination only, i'm so scared that it won't reflect, i never been this scared in my entire life, manifestation is the only thing i stay alive for

i completely understand this fear. it can be hard to first wrap your mind around manifestation and the concept that imagination creates reality.

everything is your imagination, including the physical. the physical is just an exact mirror copy of the imagination, so it has no choice but to reflect! when you stand in front of a mirror and jump, does the mirror version of you go "nah i'll jump in 5 days." NO. it reflects instantly. the only way it wouldn't reflect, is if you didn't claim it in imagination. but once you decide and don't contradict, there's no way it won't.

but knowing this information, don't focus on the physical!

the only way you can change your reality, is by changing it in imagination first. it's impossible to do it in reverse. the goal isn't for it to reflect, the goal is for you to decide it's yours. remember that YOU ARE NOT YOUR PHYSICAL BEING. you're aware of it, but that's not your real reality. once you have it in imagination, which is instant, you have it period.

you imagine what you look like right? that you sleep in your bed every night? you imagine it, so you have it.

but i understand it can still be hard to believe this right away. so do a couple small decisions (yes i know there is no such that as small/big manifestations but u get what i mean!!). stuff like "it's gonna rain today" or "i'm gonna find a dollar on the ground."

decide it, don't contradict it, and move on. ease yourself into it a bit, that's perfectly ok to do.

[dollxotic]

hey dolls, ik i never updated after “reawakening” but guys lemme tell u something, u can litr have your realization/awakening at ANY moment and it’s something that can happen over & over again. it’s not a one time experience. i’m using the term “awakening” bc that was some legendary shit fr. i literally had so many realizations in the moment and was enlightened frfr. so much info was going through my brain, it was insane. i was on some philosopher shit for a second bro. i may post abt my experience soon or when im ready but for now all ima say is do NOT expect awakening to happen in a certain time frame, event pattern, NOTHINGGG! i wanted to re-discover self through real self inquiry and shit but i didn’t even make it to session one of self inquiry, i literally had it immediately. now i am writing this after getting some bad sleep and being restless so js bare with the shit i just said. ik i barely be posting on here now cs realistically, there’s me experiencing new shit constantly but i’m trying to find balance and shit but here’s some posts to expect from me. also, idk about yall but when i first learned abt non duality i was wondering why that “tone” was used SO MUCH until i reawakened. i understand the reasoning so much now…its really like an automatic thing. i wrote after my experience and coming from that place of enlightenment my tone was different and exactly like the sources i used to read. it was a lor scary ngl. okay, i’m done yapping for now…😭

[lotusmi]

"Ego doesn’t need to be killed because it was never really alive. You don’t have to destroy your false self because it’s not real, which is really the whole point.

It’s just a character we play, and what needs to be killed is that part of us that identifies with the character. Once that’s done—really done, and it can take years—then you can wear the costume and play the character as it suits you to do so, now in the character but not of the character. "Jed McKenna

[slqvicbimbo]

Heyy how have you been? I wanted to ask you about your thoughts on manifesting a celebrity crush if you haven’t done one already? I saw many people on social media saying that it’s not possible and that it doesn’t make any sense. So what do you think?💝

If you see other people saying it’s not possible they are lying, everything is possible your the god in your reality, you are able to do anything and to do that you just need to change your thoughts, nothing more. I have manifested a celebrity stalking my insta and tik tok but we are not dating, because i manifested my fictional character to be my bf. I have a post about it.

[shradsmanifestt]

You have what you want

This sentence is the simplest way that I could explain manifestation. There is really nothing else to it. You are not seperate from your desire. This isn't something that you have to win and earn. This isn't something you're trying to get. This isn't a competition. It's not about whether you're good enough for it. And this certainly doesn't come with a box of instruction manuals and rules.

You have what you want. Simple as that.

It's already done. Simple as that

Outside isn't your validation. Simple as that.

The end is guaranteed no matter what you see now. Simple as that.

Decide it's yours. Simple as that.

You are the creator of your reality. Simple as that.

Nothing outside of you can affect what you want, no matter what. Simple as that.

Outside circumstances means nothing. Simple as that.

You can have/change anything. Simple as that

You decide, you assume what you want is true. Simple as that.

You have created everything in your life till now, so you can create anything you want as well. Simple as that.

You will not fail. Simple as that.

If you decided that you have it and stay firm in that, you cannot fail. Simple as that.

Refusing to change something means accepting it. Simple as that.

Constantly seeking validation is proving to yourself that you don't have it. Simple as that.

Affirming the whole day and then asking where it is, is proof that you're telling yourself that you don't have it. Simple as that.

It's already done. If you decide so, it's yours. As simple as that.

Whatever it is, whether you have it or not - YOU DECIDE. As simple as that.

[salemlunaa]

as simple as that✨✨

[etherealkissed88]

ⓘ 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖽𝖾𝗌𝗂𝗋𝖾𝖽 𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿 𝗁𝖺𝗌 𝖺𝗅𝗋𝖾𝖺𝖽𝗒 𝗅𝗈𝖺𝖽𝖾𝖽, 𝖼𝗁𝖺𝗇𝗀𝖾 𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿 & 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗋𝖾𝗌𝗍 𝖿𝗈𝗅𝗅𝗈𝗐𝗌

☆ 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐬 ☆ 𝐦𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭 ☆ 𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐞𝐬 ☆ 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐬

kisses, jani𖥔

[msperfect777]

call me perfect. this blog will help you learn about your true selves: consciousness, and about non dualism. i occasionally post self care and self love posts too. im 17 years old, pronouns she/her. click the star for the link 2 all my other socials: ⭐️

understanding consciousness & non dualism series: part 1 : how to know you are only consciousness part 2 : why everything is consciousness; non dualism part 3 : everything is imagination & an illusion part 4 : what exactly is consciousness (you)? part 5 : ego + when "you" dont understand non dualism part 6 : time, thoughts & meditation part 7 : proof that everything is imaginary part 8 : stop and just observe part 9 : non dualism vs law of assumption part 10 : the world within the mind + the 5 senses part 11 : the unreal vs the real part 12: finally, play a new game

[4dbarbie-archive]

Welcome!

Just another student of 4dbarbie ♡ My main is @4dkellysworld where I share my own thoughts & notes of my journey

Ada if you ever see this, we miss you dearly!!

4dbarbie archive: All of her posts that have links will have fixed links in my reply posts 😊

4dbarbie's original masterlist (scroll through the tag)

4dbarbie's Google Drive

Original posts

Short notes

Answered asks (anon thanks)

Book excerpts (from Lester Levenson, Nisargadatta Maharaj, Neville Goddard, Erin Werley)

Quotes

Reblogged posts

Recommendations (see her Google Drive for reading material!)

Resources | Talk to AI 4dbarbie | Talk to 4dbarbie GPT

LOA posts (these were most likely deleted by 4dbarbie so I don't recommend using them as a basis for your study, I'm just keeping them up for reference)

Experience sharing (all progress is celebrated, all experience sharing is welcome for what they can teach!)

See @ndjournal for more, all further journals of this in practice will be reblogged there. That blog is also taking journal submissions of non-dualism in practice so if you have something you want to share about your understanding or applied experience, feel free to do so there! But if you have questions on concepts or anything that requires a response, please send those to ND blogs that are open for asks.

My notebook

4dbarbie remix: You're dreaming from memory

4dbarbie remix: How to realise Self

4dbarbie remix: How to let go of Vanessa

4dbarbie remix: Give up and Be Free

4dbarbie interview: All about Desires

4dbarbie highlights

My notes to anons

Post replies

Updates

Memes (hehe)

What is a 4dbarbie remix post? I compiled information from various 4dbarbie's posts and answered asks, organised and pieced them together in a way that makes sense for me to help me learn and understand her teachings better and also how to apply the knowledge practically.

[4dbarbie-backup]

Ultimate: End of All Seeking

New: link to @4dbarbie c.ai

This took me hours, so I cannot imagine how long it should have taken her to write such detailed answers when only to catalogue them took forever. I did it mostly for myself so I could always come back to the response I needed and not search through 200+ posts. But I figured since I spent so long on it I might as well share. There's nothing, truly, that she hasn't given an answer for. I phrased the links as questions so that they could be easily accessible.

First, LEGEND TO UNDERSTAND TERMS.

Who am I?

What is ego?

What's it like, being your Self?

How do I stop identifying with something?

How do you become aware of something, do you accept it's yours?

Then how do I get something random (eg. a cold) if I wasn’t even aware of it before it came?

What is the 3D? How do I change it?

Does that mean I have everything I want in the 3D right now?

Why haven't my desires manifested yet?

How do you drop a belief?

Would dropping a belief be the same as accepting a belief? Is the process the same?

How can I change my appearance?

How can I stop being conscious of my old face?

What do I do when I have doubts?

If I know I am Awareness, why do I still lack things?

Why don't my affirmations work?

How to deal with situations which traumatized me? (TW: SA)

I want to change something in my life, how do I go about that?

How to make my life perfect?

Do past and future exist? Why not?

How can you explain there being no past and no future?

How to spawn things/make my results instant?

What happens to me when the body dies?

Is there ever any delay?

How to get rid of my conviction of being the body?

I've been living in my 4D forever and still no results in the 3D, what am I doing wrong?

How to have everything I want?

Do I need to meditate to discover my Self?

Should I condition my mind that I am God?

What do I do if I feel I am only halfway?

How do you practice erasing problems from the mind?

Why do I struggle with manifesting instantly?

Why am I still not getting my desires if I understand nondualism?

How to fix the separation between "me" and the world?

I can't control my thoughts, what should I do?

How do I cease to be what I feel I am?

I can't suppress my desires, help?

Do spirit guides/ghosts/deities exist?

My circumstances are so saddening and exhausting, how does one realize themselves in that?

Stop allowing yourself to be what you are not

I am attached to my character and her family, how do I get over this?

I'm sad letting go of my character, what happens to her?

If I am infinite consciousness, how can I be conscious of being a new person or having a new story?

I'm confused, shouldn't 3D be instantaneous if I have my desire in my 4D?

How do I get out of the cycle of trying to change my life?

I'm imagining myself as a person who is manifesting instead of a person who has, why can't I stop?

I have so many obligations, all I want is peace of mind. How can I be free from them?

I'm afraid of losing my mind if I believe in this

What's the simplest advice you can give me?

How do I treat the "real" world as a dream?

I only know myself as a conditioned being, how can I be the opposite?

What is realisation, after all?

How do I practice nondualism?

How can I stop experiencing desire and fear?

What prevents me from knowing my Self, here and now?

Why shouldn't I desire? I deserve the best so I should have the best

How to know my Self?

How to change the body?

How do I go back to just being "I AM"?

Can you do a guide for how to awaken ourselves and change our lives?

One concept that I don't understand is how are we as consciousness, everything?

Why am I still confused? I'm hopeless atp

What if I'm a certified non-believer?

Why hasn't my 4D come to fruition?

Is it all about having a new identity?

Can I change facts by changing my attitude?

How to be done with trying once and for all?

I feel hopeless about my circumstances, when will it end?

I overconsumed and I don't know what to do anymore, help?

4D Self/3D Self, do I exist as two people?

I know my Self but I still try to get things, so what does that mean?

I want my desires, to realize my true Self I feel like I should be in the right mental space first

No matter what, I can't make myself believe I'm my ideal person

How can I possibly realize myself as a depersonalized, universalized awareness of nothing in particular?

Why can't I get what I want by manifesting?

One thing that really bothers me is: do I have to endure the world while I know my self as awareness and disbelieve that I am Vanessa?

Why can't I change the world?

How do I get in the void?

Should I keep striving for the void?

What if I'm just not fit to know my Self?

How do I reach my higher Self?

I have a health condition that needs attending quickly

How long does it take to reach self-realization?

How to gain control over the world?

What do I tell my human Self when she asks for her desires?

What exists and what doesn't? What is real and what is false?

What am I, in comparison to the universe?

GOOGLE DRIVE

For those who are sad she left, so am I. I miss her too, but I also realize why she left. There was nothing more to say, she's said it all, we just need to listen, trust, and live in accordance with what we've found. Wish you all the best on your journey.

Here's more questions answered, if you hadn't found yours in this list. I hit the limit on links in a single post so I had to make a separate one.

[itgomyway]

♡ welcome to calypso's island ♡

hello sirens! my name is calypso and I mainly speak about non dualism. other topics include the law of assumption, tarot, astrology, meditation. and mindset.

here's a list of my socials/other platforms:

ღ carrd

ღ twitter

ღ discord server

︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵

here’s a master list to all of my non dualism post :) please read them before asking any questions. the answers you seek are probably already there! you are welcome 🤍

non dualism 101

everything is an illusion

pure consciousness and observation

there is no "manifesting" or "desiring" with non dualism

why you already have your "desires"

you are free

there is no separation

the importance of self love

what is the ego and help on "being"

navigating as consciousness

former limiting beliefs i used to hold

ways i have improved my life / my experience with non dualism

you cannot serve two masters

(you)r sp and you!

understanding and applying non dualism (experiencing)

the physical world vs imagination vs consciousness

accepting your responsibility and surrendering

there's nothing to do, there's nothing but you

let's talk more about being

non dualism cheat sheet

what the human condition is and how it involves the ego

being present and living it to the fullest

let's play ! the sims | how reality is like the sims

you can send me ask, private messages, or a question on curious cat. understand i will be frustrated if you ask me to "sum it up for you". I have spent countless of hours compiling this information. do not ask me a question without at least trying. i can do effort, i cannot do stubbornness and unwillingness to try. with that being said, I hope you enjoy your time on this island. kick off your shoes, grab a pina colanda and dip your feet in the water. i do not tolerate bullying, harassment, or unnecessary drama. i will remove your access to me if you bring this around me. <3

[itgomyway]

♡ welcome to calypso's island ♡

hello sirens! my name is calypso and I mainly speak about non dualism. other topics include the law of assumption, tarot, astrology, meditation. and mindset.

here's a list of my socials/other platforms:

ღ carrd

ღ twitter

ღ discord server

︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵

here’s a master list to all of my non dualism post :) please read them before asking any questions. the answers you seek are probably already there! you are welcome 🤍

non dualism 101

everything is an illusion

pure consciousness and observation

there is no "manifesting" or "desiring" with non dualism

why you already have your "desires"

you are free

there is no separation

the importance of self love

what is the ego and help on "being"

navigating as consciousness

former limiting beliefs i used to hold

ways i have improved my life / my experience with non dualism

you cannot serve two masters

(you)r sp and you!

understanding and applying non dualism (experiencing)

the physical world vs imagination vs consciousness

accepting your responsibility and surrendering

there's nothing to do, there's nothing but you

let's talk more about being

non dualism cheat sheet

what the human condition is and how it involves the ego

being present and living it to the fullest

let's play ! the sims | how reality is like the sims

you can send me ask, private messages, or a question on curious cat. understand i will be frustrated if you ask me to "sum it up for you". I have spent countless of hours compiling this information. do not ask me a question without at least trying. i can do effort, i cannot do stubbornness and unwillingness to try. with that being said, I hope you enjoy your time on this island. kick off your shoes, grab a pina colanda and dip your feet in the water. i do not tolerate bullying, harassment, or unnecessary drama. i will remove your access to me if you bring this around me. <3

[lotusmi]

☆ﾟ. ── deciding to allow

At any second you can decide what you gonna experience by changing your state. Since everything exists in imagination and imagination creates the external world, everything is possible. It's a fact that your desires are only waiting for you to allow them showing up by stop resisting the fact that its already done. You don't need to attract them, its here, done in imagination and as so – guaranteed in reality. But you have to persist in this fact. Its your choice to decide since no one hold power above you. no doubts, no fear, no ego. If you decide, though false (in 3d) will harden into fact. This is the law, that's just how it works. But you can't say you are aware if you affirm, to STATS or any method if you search for your desire in 3d world after it. Why would you check it? You saw it within, world is a mirror and can only reflect it in without. Your imagination is the only reality and that is all that matters. “You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe it is the only reason you do not see it.” ― Neville Goddard When will you allow your desires to show up?

[orasdiarie]

Taylor, you Goddess, you.

[loaprinc3ss]

doubts don’t manifest. worries don’t manifest. intrusive thoughts don’t manifest. ‘what ifs’ don’t manifest. anxieties and fears don’t manifest. anything i don’t want to happen has never happened and will never happen, period. i’m in control and only what i want is allowed to happen and manifest!

[awarenessis-deactivated20230827]

How to actually manifest/reality shift, and how it works

Disclaimer: this is NOT a method, technique or a new trend. It is a way of life! And is the reason behind why manifestation and reality shifting even works in the first place

Who YOU actually are

Awareness, consciousness, the observer, imagination. That is the TRUE you. Not who you “think” you are, not your body, not your identity. All those are imaginary made up concepts, and are not who YOU truly are. If you were your mind or your body or your “identity” you would not be able to be aware of these concepts.

You can hear your thoughts, you can feel your emotions, you can feel touching a table, you observe these things, and you therefore cannot be them. If you can be aware of something, observe something, how can you BE it?

Are you a table? Or are you aware that there is a table?

Are you your thoughts? Or do you hear your thoughts?

That shows us that we are something more than this human body. But that “more” can never be explained or understood, for as long as we are in a human body, because there is nothing to understand, it just IS. YOU are everything and anything. And nothing. Nothing would exist without your awareness of it.

What was before this person?

there just was

What was before this physical world (imaginary human world)?

there just was

What was before doubts and negative thinking?

there just was

it all just IS

It CANNOT be explained!

This is the reason a thing like “manifesting” and “reality shifting” even exists. They are imaginary concepts made up to try and understand and explain being awareness, imagination, the limitless creator. They “work” because they are METHODS to become aware of something.

Awareness of something = it’s real

No awareness of something = it’s not real

Things cease to exist when we focus our awareness somewhere else, which is why things can change and feel like they have been “undone”. The imaginary concept for this is revision.

But as we covered, anything and everything is JUST imagination, it is imaginary, it is not something outside of you, it IS you. 

As a limited human, we believe that the world we live in is something outside of us, we then discover reality shifting and manifesting, and find out we can change this outside world.

But the whole point is to realise that there IS NO outside world, it is ALL within awareness/consciousness/imagination. It is IMAGINARY it exists because we are aware it exists.

We are human because we are aware that we are human.

So then is nothing real?

Not in the sense that we used to believe about the word “real”

How we used to view something as real, was something outside of us. “Imagination is just that. It's not real '' I know a lot of us have been told this growing up, and we believed it.

But the thing is there is NOTHING OUTSIDE OF US.

So yes things are real, when you become aware of them. If not, they just exist as a thing we cannot understand.

But the second we become aware of something, it becomes real, because it was given awareness, it was given attention.

So no nothing is real in the sense we used to think. But that was a made up limited idea. There is nothing but awareness/consciousness/imagination. Anything you can think of, is imaginary and made up.

We have always been aware and observing, if you were your thoughts, then wouldn’t you cease to exist when you didn’t think? What is that pause between your thoughts? Awareness. Observation. It has always been there. Sit in silence and reflect on everything i say in this post, and i promise you, you realise how limited you have always been.

How do you “manifest” and “reality shift” with this you ask?

First, There is no such thing as manifesting or reality shifting. They are made up concepts as I said. Manifesting and reality shifting implies a process to go through, when in reality you are just observing, becoming aware of something, and then it exists, and you as a human body can experience it.

But because you are truly imagination/awareness/consciousness, you are everything, because nothing would even exist without you. There is nothing to “get” or be. Because you already are / have that thing.

awareness/consciousness/imagination is everything, and there is therefore no such thing as “time” ONLY in the imaginary human world. Time is a made up thing. The past and future only exists in thoughts, and thoughts are something imaginary, that means that time is imaginary too. So anything and everything you could ever imagine or think of, exists right at this moment, and is ready to be observed / given awareness/attention to.

This makes this imaginary human life, your playground. Your video game. your dream. You can do absolutely anything and everything

And since this is the case, and what actually changes the imaginary human life, is not affirming, or states or any other method, it is awareness that changes it. That means that whatever you DECIDE is true. Is true.

Want to affirm? Do that. Want to get into a state? Do that. Want to fulfill yourself in imagination and let the “3d” reflect it? Then do that. Want to simply observe something? Do that.

It ALL WORKS, because AWARENESS is what changes your surroundings.

Something important to really understand, is that no matter what any state person says or any affirm person says. Pretty much any law of assumption person says. There is absolutely NO difference between what you see/hear/say/imagine with your eyes closed and with your eyes open.

There is no 4d or 3d. It is just IMAGINATION. The imaginary human world does not “reflect your imagination” how could it when it is only here BECAUSE IT IS imagination. THERE IS NO TIME LAG!! Whenever you become aware of something, it is INSTANTLY real.

Affirm / affirmation = becoming aware

Getting into a state = becoming aware

Deciding / observing = becoming aware

Wanting = becoming aware

You see how it all boils down to the same thing? AWARENESS.

The second you become aware of something it exists immediately like i said, the reason you may not see it show up in the human experience, is because you are aware that there is a time lag, or even aware that you cannot change anything.

Doubts = only real if you are aware of them, you can decide they do not exist.

How it really should be is:

Manifesting -> observing, becoming aware, and things will change because it is just imagination, there is no such thing as manifesting, this is how it normally works!

Reality shifting -> becoming aware of ex. Hogwarts exists, and it does, become aware you are there, then you are. You are NOT shifting to a different “place” because all is imagination.

And lastly, don’t EVER be fooled by what someone else says. YOU DECIDE what is true for you, others don’t. If you want to experience a bunch of things, it's okay to do so! If you just want to be and let things unfold, that is okay! If you want to think, that's okay to do. Never let anyone else tell you what you can and can’t do. It's your imagination after all

[4dbarbie-archive]

4dbarbie remix: How to let go of Vanessa

My notes: This is basically a TLDR version of my first 4dbarbie remix post How to realise Self. My original intention for that post was actually to make something like this, a really straightforward (and short lol) practical guide on how to let go of the ego in order to realize Self that I could refer to and apply on a day to day basis. It ended up being a long essay (it was over 3000 words aha) as I decided to go through all her posts and answered asks and found a lot of important information to include so it sort of became more of an educational post (which I'm glad to have made and it helped me understand everything better too!). So anyway, here it is. Pretty much all of the below information was taken from my How to realise Self post (besides the suggested exercises section at the bottom) - I just extracted the more practical guidance outside the explanations to make it.

My personal notes and highlights are in pink for main points and purple for 'action' points.

Just let go of the ego, that’s how simple it is. All you need to fix is your wrong identification. There isn't anyone who couldn’t materialize anything right now if he or she would just let go of identifying as the limited body. 1

Stop thinking you are Vanessa, the thoughts of needing this or that drop away. To change, you need to give up this conviction of being this person. You need to disbelieve. 2 A lot of beliefs are subconscious. "I am a body", "I am Vanessa", "There is a world" are all subconscious, automatic beliefs. Upon investigation you can get rid of any belief (by making them conscious and then dropping them). 14 How do you drop a belief? (see part 1 and part 2)

All you need to do is detach from this form during the day, let life happen as it happens while reminding yourself it's a dream, a dream that doesn't have to be yours. 3

What I recommend you to do is bring your self into focus, become aware of your own existence. See how you function, watch the motives and the results of your actions. Study the prison you have built around yourself because of credulity. By knowing what you are not, you come to know your self. The way back to your self is through refusal and rejection. 4

Leave your mind alone, that is all. Don't go along with it. 5 Thoughts will keep on coming for a while, just now you know they have nothing to do with you. Get into a habit of watching, letting them be but not identifying with them. If you can observe them, it means you are not them. 6

Step away and look (observe). The physical events will go on happening, but by themselves they have no importance. It is your mind alone that matters. When you identify yourself with them, you are their slave, you think you have to act on them. When you stand apart, you are their master 7

Just stop taking the thoughts you don't like for truth or reality. There is no convincing involved, it is all letting go. 8 Doesn't matter what the thought is, leave it alone, ignore it BUT not by force of will, just indifference 9

Start letting go bit by bit, just to see what happens. You won't start "acting crazy" just because you become uninterested in thoughts, I promise 10

You don't need to convince yourself they're unreal, just dismiss them (the thoughts) as not yours. They will disappear more and more through your newfound indifference, then their physical counterparts will, too. Detachment is by doubt and indifference. First you start doubting "the facts", then you become indifferent to the facts, lastly there are no facts anymore and you can establish your own. 9

Your next step will be realizing there is nothing to learn in a dream. You'll find yourself having less and less thoughts, then none at all. Then, only if you want, you will be able to reinstall the mind, now of your choice, and change the dream. 3

All you need is to get rid of the tendency to define your self. All definitions apply to your body only and to its expressions. Once this obsession with the body goes, you will revert to your natural state, spontaneously and effortlessly. 4

Be patient with yourself because you don't lose any time, just get to that place I'm telling you about and then you can just go back in time if you so wish. All worry is pointless! And there is nothing to fear, things just happen, do not claim them as yours for a while. Unclutter your mind, it becomes your servant after you've freed it enough. 11

Reminder: This body and this world are not forced onto you, they exist through your identification with them. Not yours, remember? Repeat. Not yours. You won't lose your mind, you'll only lose your misery. After you've detached, you'll easily shift to as many realities as you want - don't put any on a pedestal of desire, they are equal. See this world and the body as not real first. What is true is only what I AM is identified with, right now this body which is not in that TV show (referring to anon's desire). Correct this first by letting go of thinking it's you. 12

Suggested exercises (not required if you don't want to do it!)

1. Sitting in silence & just being with no thoughts - The whole point of sitting in silence is to realize what you are, pure beingness. Awareness only becomes consciousness when it has an object. The object changes all the time. In consciousness there is movement; awareness by itself is motionless and timeless, here and now. 4

2. Start doubting you'll wake up as Vanessa tomorrow - Not to get it, but consider it actually… What if… I wake up tomorrow and I realize an entire life has been just a dream?! Equal to the one I dreamt last night?! What if you wake up and realize it all was a nightmare that you THOUGHT went on for years and it's just been a few hours... even get scared and terrified about that thought. Better than getting scared about non-reality.

WHAT IN THE WORLD?! That never was... but I felt it so real, I swear I was her?! Yet here you are, awake, and the dream never was.

Do it like that. Doubt that it's anything but a dream as much as possible. 13

Sources:

Citations: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14

In-text links: 1, 2, 3, 4

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4dbarbie remix: You're dreaming from memory

4dbarbie remix: How to realise Self

4dbarbie remix: How to let go of Vanessa

4dbarbie remix: Give up and Be Free

4dbarbie interview: All about Desires

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