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at lvl 22 • MtF • Pansexual • Mentally silly

[kalofi]

i tried the “ask your mom what she would do if you were a bug” trend

[kalofi]

asked my dad too

[queersona]

"i was a transtrender" no you werent. you were just questioning your identity and then you decided that wasn't for you. that's a fucking healthy thing to do. fuck off lmao

[queersona]

Questioning is:

-healthy

-common

-normal

Questioning isn't:

-an excuse to be transphobic towards often young individuals

[queeranarchism]

I once thought I was asexual and it turned out I actually wasn’t ready to have sex before I had transitioned to a point where I was more comfortable with my body. 

And in that time, the asexual community welcomed me, supported me, helped me feel good about who I was, protected me from the harm I would have done to myself if I had pushed myself to have sex. That made a huge difference.

If I see an opportunity to support asexual organizations, I do so not just because it’s good but also because they were there for me in a difficult part of my life without judgement. I owe them for that.

If you at one point identified as transgender or questioned your gender identity, maybe you too sought a home in the wrong place because you were struggling with something else. And it is very likely that the people in that home, the transgender community, believed you and welcomed you and listened to you.

And then when it turns out that you were searching for the wrong thing, you don’t just leave that community behind but you turn around and shit on them? Shame on you. What a shitty thing to do.

[leatherwingsinc-deactivated2015]

[the-frightening-ghoul]

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[dumbpuppyfag]

me (an angel): and this is the inner thigh, engineered to be the most biteable part of the entire design

god (just fumbled a tgirl, angry at world): put the femoral artery in it

[queermasculine]

going to the grocery store to purchase one energy drink to give me the boost i need to press the button that turns on the washing machine

[wolfworldsblog]

me asf

[catcrumb]

[catcrumb]

[runby2]

very specific situation that happens to me and my partners a lot

[molsno]

I don't know which trans girl needs to hear this but you don't need to have sex ever if you don't want to. no matter who your partner is. if the thought of having sex makes you feel anxious or uncomfortable, or even if you're just not in the mood for it, you don't have to. it doesn't matter if your partner really wants it or if they'd feel insecure that you don't find them attractive or whatever, you can just say no. don't let anyone pressure you into sex that you don't want. you are not a sex object made to please other people. you deserve to have your boundaries and sexual autonomy respected, and that includes the right to have no sex whatsoever, if that's what you want.

[wolfworldsblog]

I'm like 🤏 this close to shaving my head

[sokudolgur]

you won't, L

[wolfworldsblog]

[sokudolgur]

[toskarin]

ahaha you sly dog! you bastard! [getting a little too comfortable] you wretched fucking animal

[thememedaddy]

[boobcareer]

Giving a weird girl an oddjob

[eebie]

[sokudolgur]

a classic from a long time ago

[hjartasalt]

Joined a trans only workout group like two weeks ago (incredibly cool) and somehow managed to not know a single person there (rare and somewhat impressive for Iceland) only to find out yesterday that like a good 1/3rd of them already knew who I was because I'm Lauf from Iceland. Hi.

[hjartasalt]

It is an incredibly surreal experience sitting in a hot tub surrounded by people you barely just met whilst they talk about your tumblr posts. Truly a biggest clown in the circus moment

[hjartasalt]

Yeah ok to be fair this was kind of on me

[sokudolgur]

I don't know a lot abt u, but it was fun talking in the hot tub. I only knew of you because my partner showed me the meowing video some time ago :P

[shamebats]

[cute-catts]