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祝日 / Permanent Vacation
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
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Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
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Stranger Things
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@soldier4anight
Barbie: I’m looking for my friends Gloria and Ken.
Stranger: What do they look like?
Barbie: One is a stunningly beautiful woman with dark hair and a fierceness that’s both scary and inspiring.
Barbie: The other’s a guy
Lovw this movie and this quotw. It dits so well with Barvie 😂😂
Barbie: I’m looking for my friends Gloria and Ken.
Stranger: What do they look like?
Barbie: One is a stunningly beautiful woman with dark hair and a fierceness that’s both scary and inspiring.
Barbie: The other’s a guy
margot robbie w america ferrera is my religion
daylight is soooooo 😭
I'm just so tired of watching myself and every single other woman tie herself into knots so that people will like us. And if all of that is also true for a doll just representing women, then I don't even know.
AMERICA FERRERA as GLORIA in BARBIE (2023) → for @pragmatic-optimist
I don’t understand why all these mlm shows get continued and every single wlw show gets canceled. Like, I love all of the representation; it’s amazing. But what is it about wlw shows that scares producers?
Grease: Rise of the Pink Ladies was so fucking amazing, and not just because of the LGBTQIA+ representation. It openly talked about race, class, and gender struggles of the time. It has a diverse cast. The songs are fucking amazing and the dance numbers are beautiful. Getting to see the origins of so many things from a wonderful movie is beautiful.
So tell me why the FUCK it’s not only been canceled, but fully taken off any platform? I especially don’t understand it because it was really popular! TV shows shouldn’t be expected to do as well as movies at the same rate as movies, especially if THE EPISODES ARE RELEASED ONE AT A TIME! OBVIOUSLY people won’t catch onto it as fast as with a movie.
I just really need this fucking series to be picked up.
consider: teenagers aren’t apathetic about everything they’re just used to you shitting all over whatever they show excitement about
Teen: *gets a job*
“I GOT THE JOB!”
Parents: Well, when I was your age, I already had 5 jobs and was supporting my family
Teen: *gets all A’s*
“I worked really hard!”
Parents: Well, of course you did, this is the expectation, not a celebration.
probably why so many teens take to social media where they can enthusiastically share their interests and achievements and get positive feedback that their parents never gave
A LITTLE LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
This hit hard
I remember once, when I was in my early 20s, I was an afternoon supervisor at my job, and I worked with mostly teenagers, and the one day this one kid, who was like 15, was bored so I suggested he could clean out the fridge. He did and when he was done I said he did a good job.
After that, this kid was cleaning out the fridge at least once a week, and I was like, “why are you always cleaning the fridge?” Like, I didn’t mind, but it seemed odd. And he said, “one time I cleaned the fridge and you said I did a good job. I wanted to make you proud of me again.”
Literally, I changed the entire way I interacted with teenagers after that. I actually got a package of glitter stars and I would stick them on their nametags when they did a good job, and they loved it.
My manager had commented on how hard these kids work and I said, “they’re starved for positive feedback. They go to school all day then come to work all evening and no one appreciates it because it’s expected of them, but they’re still kids. They need positive feedback from adults in their lives.”
Like, everyone likes feeling appreciated. Everyone likes being complimented and having their efforts be noticed. Another coworker (who was a mother of teenage children), hated that I did this, and said they were too old to be rewarded with stickers, but like… it wasn’t about the stickers. The stickers were just a symbol that their effort was noticed and appreciated. I was just lucky that I learned this at a time when I was still young enough to remember what it was like to be a teenager. I was only 2 years out of highschool at that point and highschool is fucking hard. People forget this as they get older, but ask anyone and almost no one would ever want to go back and do it again, but they expect kids to suck it up because they’re young so they should be able to do school full time, plus homework, and work, and maintain a healthy social life, and sleep, and spend time with family, and do chores and help out at home, and worry about college and relationships and everything else, and then just get shit on all the time and treated like they’re lazy and entitled. And then they wonder why teenagers are apathetic.
For a german exam I had to argue against an article that was essentially „kids these days, they don’t care about anything and are constantly on their phones“ and really it was the easiest essay I‘ve ever written.
Teens don’t talk to adults bc adults only ask „so, how‘s school“ to then interrupt them two sentences in. And because they can’t engage in a conversation about buying houses and working in a bank. I would’ve loved to talk about philosophy and politics and history with family the way I did with friends and in class but because I was young no one took what I had to say seriously.
And no, teens aren’t always on their phone. They’re on their phone when they’re bored. You think I‘m on social media when I‘m with my friends? When I‘m talking about something I‘m interested in?
Maybe the reason kids are so distant and always on their phone during family parties and the like is because you‘re failing to engage and include them.
Whoop there it is
When you respect kids, they really respond and learn from you. But if you treat kids like “theyre just a kid, what do they know??” then you’ll never find out.
As a Disneyland Cast Member, I’ll add my own experience onto this –
Very frequently, when I first speak to a child while I’m at work, they’ll kind of withdraw and act uncomfortable and shy. Their parents will then rather frequently tell them to not be shy and try to coax them to talk to me – whenever that happens, I always, without fail, politely dissuade the parents from pressuring them.
“I’m a stranger,” I’ll tell the kid’s parents. “I don’t blame them for not talking to me – if they were anywhere else, they’d have the right idea, to not immediately trust me.”
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve seen that same kid – simply after hearing their initial reaction being validated, instead of reproached – immediately open up to me after that. I also cannot tell you how many times that child and I would go on to start a friggin’ marathon conversation, and I got to hear all about how great their day was or what their favorite Disney movies were or what rides they liked and didn’t like or how much they like a certain Disney character or song…all from me validating that initial feeling and showing genuine interest in what they had to say.
This isn’t just young children, either. I will always remember being positioned outside the Animation Academy one day and starting up a conversation with a young lady, perhaps 12 or 13, who joined the line with her father a full 25 minutes before the class was supposed to start. Now keep in mind, we do a drawing class every 30 minutes: there was no one else in line at that point, and no one else joined the girl and her father in line for a full fifteen minutes. So I could tell pretty quickly that this girl was very emotionally invested in getting a good spot for the drawing class: a conclusion all the more bolstered by the fact that she had a notebook under her arm. I asked her if she was an artist – she said yes, but seemed uncomfortable at the question, so I skipped even asking her if I could see her work, instead admitting that I myself wasn’t very good at art, but that I’m trying to get better and that I love the history of Disney animation. On the screens around us was video footage of different Disney concept art and animation reels, so I pointed one of them out (for Snow White) and asked if she knew the story behind the making of the movie. Upon confirming that she didn’t, I proceeded to get down on the floor so I could sit next to her and her father and dramatically tell the whole story of how “Uncle Walt” created the first full-length animated motion picture, even though everyone and their mother thought he was an idiot for even trying, and how the film ended up becoming the first Hollywood blockbuster. After the story was over, the girl’s father said that his daughter really wanted to be an animator when she grew up, and she finally felt comfortable enough to open her notebook and show me some of her artwork. It was wonderful! Every sketch had such character and you could tell how much work she put into it! And I could tell how much telling her that – and sharing that moment with her, where we got to connect over something we both really enjoyed – had meant. And after the class was over, she sought me out to show me what she and her father had drawn – and sure enough, hers was great! (Her father’s was too, really. XD)
People, kids and teens included, love sharing what they love and how they feel with others. You just have to give them the chance to show it.
A LITTLE LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!
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I feel like I am obliged to add one more thing: don’t ever think that the kids won’t feel your unspoken judgements cause they do!
I felt always like a ‘problem’ in my family, until I was about sixteen, I got this teacher who was litterally the first to tell I was worthy. He changed my life up till this day.
Also how do grown ups imagine how ‘we’ will ever learn to engage in conversations with adults properly if you don’t teach us?
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Everything
I told one of my new coworkers (who is 26) that he was doing really well and that I was proud of him and his progress. I thought he was going to start crying for how quietly he said “really?”.
Positive feedback makes the biggest difference to everything.
The other big factor to consider here is that when you raise up kids like this, kids so starved for validation and positive attention, they become extremely vulnerable to manipulation and abuse by somebody with even a little bit more life experience.
number one hottest thing a girl can be is funny. number two hottest thing a girl can be is lame as hell
being a fan of something with like 30 total fans on tumblr is funny bc you get like 12 notes on a post and you're like wow the gang's all here
we really fucking popped off with words for being up to no good. scam. fraud. swindle. nefarious. dastardly. ne'er-do-well. diabolical. scheme. rogue. knave. there are real classics.
THEY REALLY DID IT
GOTHAM CITY SIRENS LET'S GOOOOOOOOOO
We will never have this again but we had it.
alright where is the black cat gloria x golden retriever barbie story?
they were insane for this
doing that thing that i do every 6-3 months where i hyperfocus on a wlw ship that’s blonde/brunette who’s also in some form of cheer and/or dance and has a dramatic betrayal scene a couple seasons in and is sunshine/mean girl with a bunch of really old fan content again
Rosa "the badass" "the closest to all members of the squad" Diaz.
Opening up to Charles first.
Charles got to call her Roro.
Eventually coming out to Charles first, weeks before she came out to the rest of the squad.
Telling Gina about her secret bathroom when she needed it.
Crying when Gina left even though it wasn't even her "gina moment"
Gina taking care of Rosa when she was sick, even made her a care package herself!
Rosa telling Amy she has her back during the first season
Rosa supporting Amy during her bachelorette party even after it kept getting more lame, insisting to turn it around
Rosa wanting to win a stroller for Amy because she felt bad about buying her the wrong stroller
DELIVERING AMYS BABY?? And countless others with Amy too.
Rosa and Jake being the ultimate partners?? In the academy together?? A thousand push ups??
Rosa opening up to Jake after he was upset they aren't as close as he would like
Rosa and Jake's first and final impressions
Rosa asking Jake to be there when she comes out to her parents.
Rosa hanging out with hitchcock and scully and actually enjoys herself. Challenging them to the "butt-lympics"
Rosa asking Jake to make sure Terry likes adrian because his opinion means too much to her
Rosa immediately gives zero shits about the case anymore when she hears that Sharon has gone into labor
Rosa sticking with her stupid dozerpad for Terry and for Terry only.
Rosa helping Terry achieve the 99 arrest record.
Rosa and Holt being GREAT at emotions together.
Rosa and Holt listening to death metal together after her breakup
Rosa letting Holt move in with her?????
Girly can act all badass but she's truly the softie of the squad. She's literally everyone's best friend.
AMERICA FERRERA and MARGOT ROBBIE – "Barbie" European Premiere (July 12, 2023)
