soldierlex

𐕣 he ⎠him ☠︎ ㈩㈤ ☠︎ ru ⎠eng ☠︎ ㈣.㈣ ☠︎ ⚧︎ ☠︎ 🇵🇸＆🇺🇦𒀸 Et erit liberum ‼️‼️IM SORRY BUT I CANT DONATE‼️‼️

[soldierlex]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊

n this

[closet-keys]

This comic is about my friend Fadel. He survived the bombing of his home over 800 days ago, and has still not raised enough money to get to a hospital where they can remove the shrapnel from him. Worse, he rarely has enough money to even afford his medications and supplements to treat his blood disorder and the effects of long-term malnutrition.

[trexandfriends]

[minouji]

Dear Weird People, Your Excuses Don't Hold Water.

Let's deconstruct them, shall we

"It's fiction, it's not real!"

Yes, the characters and the scenarios they're in are fictional, but the chemical surge in your brain from frequent exposure and/or sexual gratification derived from viewing that stuff is very much real.

Your reward center can't tell the difference between what's fictional and what's not. It doesn't go "oh, this child is not real, I'd better turn of the chemical reactions!" It just gets bombarded with a crap-ton of feel-good chemicals and associates that goodness with whatever stimulus caused the arousal.

If you consistently view content of, for example, children being sexualized, where that pedophilia is painted as acceptable and enjoyed, you are conditioning an arousal response to children and/or childlike characteristics.

You can go on and on about how you're immune and fiction can't affect you, but you aren't. Psychology says so;

The sexual script approach has been widely used in the literature to examine the relationship between pornography consumption and the endorsement of specific sexual attitudes and behaviors (Wright et al., 2022). The 3AM Theory (Wright, 2011) provides further insight into this relationship by suggesting that individuals acquire new behavioral scripts through media exposure (Acquisition). These scripts can later be triggered by similar media content (Activation) and applied in real-life situations (Application). According to this model, pornography provides consumers with sexual scripts where violence is depicted as normal, acceptable, and even enjoyable. The activation of such scripts is influenced by content-related factors (e.g., attractiveness), individual characteristics (e.g., gender, motivations), situational factors (e.g., sexual arousal), and the accessibility of the script (e.g., vividness). The application of these scripts is further influenced by beliefs and moral standards. If a script conflicts with internal moral values, it may be suppressed (Wright, 2011).

The normalization of violent sexual behaviors in widely consumed media, such as pornography, contributes to the justification of violence during sexual encounters, shaping societal views on acceptable sexual practices. 

Source here for the above two.

"Dark romance novels promote and romanticize abuse, illegal activity and a lack of consent. The novels have real-world implications and should not be dismissed just because they are fiction."

Source

Psychological research heavily links the consumption of media that glamorizes sexual assault to an increase in Rape Myth Acceptance. These myths are false cultural beliefs that excuse perpetrators and blame victims.

Source

2. "Fiction doesn't affect reality!"

Where did this narrative of "fiction doesn't affect reality" even come from? There are multiple real life examples that show the opposite.

Jaws is a fictional movie. Yet it lead caused a massive, wide-spread panic surrounding sharks and their "potential for bloodlust", leading to the overhunting of millions of sharks, almost to the point of near-extinction.

Minstrel shows were fictional depictions of black people, yet they managed to influence the perception of us as "stupid, violent and sexually immoral". Stereotypes we still struggle to shake to this day.

Media often presents manipulative relationship dynamics as evidence of deep, passionate love rather than abuse. Stories like “Twilight” or “Fifty Shades” present controlling, possessive behavior as romantic devotion. Stalking becomes “persistent courtship,” isolation becomes “wanting to spend all our time together,” and manipulation becomes “caring so much that boundaries don’t matter.”

Romanticized portrayals can teach audiences that controlling behavior is normal or desirable in relationships. Dramatic portrayals can make people miss subtle real-world manipulation.

Source for the above two

A study published by Oxford University Press, called "Fantasy and Reality: What is the truth?" states;

When I discuss the effects of exposure to mass media with various audiences, one of the comments I hear most often is that anyone old enough to “know the difference between fantasy and reality” is not affected by media content. In other words, fictional stories do not influence us because we “know they are not real.”  This fantasy/ reality argument represents a major misunderstanding of the psychology of the media…

An article published in association with the American Academy Of Political and Social Sciences, called "The Impact of Factual versus Fictional Media Portrayals on Cultural Stereotypes" states;

Sociological research suggests that human minds are hardwired to first accept everything we comprehend as true, and only later exert the mental energy to evaluate and reject what is false. Because fiction bypasses our natural skepticism, it serves as one of the most potent forces shaping human culture, law, and empathy.

3. "I use it to process my trauma!"

That behavior is known as "reenacting" your trauma. It does not help.

In general, reenactments are an unconscious attempt to reconcile, reframe, or repair a trauma that occurred in childhood. Sexual reenactments are no different. Most sexual reenactments originate due to childhood sexual abuse or sexual assault in adolescence or adulthood. Although not every former victim of sexual violence will have a need to reenact their trauma, many do. This is because most sexual trauma goes unprocessed. Most sexual abuse victims don’t talk about it due to feelings of shame and the fear that they will not be believed. Many try to put it in the past the way friends and family encourage them to do. Unfortunately, this doesn’t work, and they end up reenacting the abuse in some way. As it is with other forms of abuse, typically, former victims tend to either reenact their trauma by continuing to be victimized or by becoming abusive.

Source

Ongoing reenactments are a reflection that a patient is continuing to act in stuck and rigidified ways. In addition, reenactments often lead to revictimization and related feelings of shame, helplessness, and hopelessness. Consequently, an important goal of treatment is facilitating an understanding and control of reenactments. Reenactments are caused in part by powerful unconscious forces that must eventually be verbalized and understood. Thus, in order to address reenactments and to break their repetitiveness, the therapist should help the individual to understand why they occur. However, before proceeding into this phase of treatment and exploring past traumatic relationships and experiences, the therapist must first have achieved a strong and solid therapeutic alliance with the patient. In addition, the patient's safety must be firmly established, and any acute problem areas, such as chemical abuse problems or ongoing self-destructive behavior, need to be stabilized. Once these issues have been resolved, exploratory therapy may begin.

Source

It is a maladaptive coping strategy which functions much like a band aid on a bullet wound.

Using sexual content to cope can reinforce traumatic neural pathways or lead to an escalation in the intensity of content needed to achieve the same numbing effect, potentially recreating aspects of the trauma.

You are not healing. You are numbing yourself, and you think that because you don't feel anything you are fine. This is not fine.

Experts do recommend interacting with the cause of your trauma, but not through violent pornographic material. Experts recommend addressing the root causes of the trauma through trauma-focused therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), or Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) rather than relying on sexual behaviors, which are viewed as symptoms of unresolved distress rather than solutions.

4. "Anti-ship is pro-censorship!"

According to Marriam Webster, the act of censoring is defined as;

Let me be clear when I say this;

Anti-shippers do not want these topics to be removed from media as a whole.

There are many tasteful ways that these topics can be explored in a narrative which can make for great storytelling and help victims feel represented.

All we want is for these topics to be taken seriously, and not portrayed as something good or acceptable.

5. "Anti-shippers are puritans!"

It's honestly so funny to see y'all misuse that word all the time.

Actual Puritans are against sex being in media as a whole, whether it's vanilla or not.

Actual Puritans are religious fanatics who believe a parasocial relationship with god is the only means of salvation from sin.

Anti-shippers don't want that. Anti-shippers want you to stop wanking it to written/drawn child porn.

Anti-shippers do not want sex to be entirely removed from any piece of media.

So we do not meet the dictionary definition or historical characteristics of actual Puritans and, therefore, cannot correctly be referred to as Puritanical.

Do your research before you go name-calling.

6. "Anti-shippers are fascist!"

What exactly relates fascism with anti-shipping?

Fascism is the belief that your nation and/or race are above all others. How does that correlate with being against the romanticization of abuse?

7. "Anti-shippers are perpetuating purity culture!"

Again with the misused terms 🤦🏽‍♀️

8. "Don't like, don't read!"

Is just another form of anti-intellectualism. The fandom equivalent of "it's not that deep". If you don't want to be criticized, then don't post it.

9. "Video Games make you violent hur de hur!"

Video game violence doesn't hijack your dopamine pathways the way sexual content does.

The sheer flood of positive chemicals released during sexual gratification can be accurately compared to doing hard drugs - the only difference is that hard drugs prolong the chemical flood to unnatural lengths.

Video game violence, on the other hand, simply reduces emotional and violent impulse control. It doesn't necessarily "make you violent", it just shortens your fuse.

source

Violent sexual content is a completely different ball game. And according to the studies provided above, it does, indeed affect you negatively.

10. "They're just pixels, we're not hurting anyone!"

Sure, they are just pixels. But that's how it all starts.

It's not the fictional characters we're worried about - they're fictional, after all - its the consumers of that content.

Pedophilia, zoophilia, necrophilia and the like are paraphilic disorders.

A paraphilia is defined as;

According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (Fifth Edition; DSM-5), paraphilias are defined as any “intense and persistent sexual interest other than sexual interest in genital stimulation or preparatory fondling with phenotypically normal, physiologically mature, consenting human partners”

Not all paraphilias are bad, they only become bad when they involve harming others (i.e. pedophiles harming children, zoophiles harming animals). Then, it is known as a paraphilic disorder.

An article on Paraphilia published on MD Searchlight says;

These types of disorders often lead to harming others, which can result in legal problems. This fear of getting into trouble with the law can discourage these individuals from seeking help. Generally, those who do get professional help are often required to do so by law, or persuaded by their family, friends, or partners.

An article published by Psychology Today, on Paraphilias, says;

Behaviorists suggest that paraphilias begin through a process of conditioning: Nonsexual things can become sexually arousing if they are repeatedly associated with pleasurable sexual activity.

The process of encouraging a paraphilia by repeatedly viewing or masturbating to related content is called "habituation".

And, in the context of harmful paraphilias, refers to a behavioral escalation where the individual becomes desensitized to the initial stimulus, leading to an increased need for stimulation or more extreme behaviors to achieve the same level of sexual arousal.

Read up on "Drug Habituation", which is very similar.

Eventually, jerking off isn't going to be enough.

Eventually, fictional sexual material of children and animals are not going to be enough.

The thing about paraphilias is that they escalate. You may think that they're small and harmless for now, but, with continued encouragement, it only gets worse.

The same way a drug addict becomes tolerant to a lower dose and begins to seek higher and more dangerous ones, you will eventually see fiction as insufficient and move on to harming real people.

Seek help.

[antiproship-lizzie]

i'm sorry but slapping "don't like? don't read" on some fanfictions is so dismissive. you have people writing fetishized incest, corrective rape, indulged pedophilia, eroticized racism and it's like. why shouldn't people be mad at it? why can't people criticize it? why do people, especially those who are affected most by stories like this, are supposed to never react on them negatively? it's dismissive because it can open up dicussions as to why people find those things hot but it's quickly shut down because it might trigger censorship. like dude.

^^^^^

[thepinkpestilence]

despite me being a skyler selfshipper i actually like seeing posts about skyjesse or skysaul because most of them are about the time during brba (which is when me and skyler wouldnt be officially together anyway in my story) but also i like exploring her potential romantic dynamics which people who arent walter or ted. let my girl cheat on walter with men who wouldnt cause her any more problems on top!!!

[hihi-puffy-yumi]

reblog to throw tomatoes at people who romantize abuse in fiction

also reblog to give victims the love and courage to recover from whatever they went through and live happy forever because they deserve it

[antiproship-lizzie]

when I come to the 'anti censorship' party but their all talking about how their worried about porn and not the actual censorship that's going on against poc and queers so I just leave

[sweet-discordia]

I'm frustrated, scared and hopeless

I'm so frustrated with a lot of "anti-censorship" people claiming governments will come for their porn first when that's not true. These people are PRIVILEDGED and STUPID.

They come for your speech, they come for who you support, they come for those who oppose their power.

I can get arrested for supporting Palestine, for being against Isreal, for being ABORIGINAL. I'm against my government. I can get arrested for my art supporting Aboriginal rights and Palestine.

I'm scared it will happen... A woman got arrested for sending an empty voice mail. I've seen children getting arrested.

There was recently an attempted TERRORIST ATTACK on Aboriginal people on the day of mourning ["Australia Day"], and the censorship and control of language is SO OBVIOUS in media. Because white people cant be terrorists! nooo! And the guy wasn't even charged with ATTEMPTED MURDER. HE THREW A BOMB INTO A CROWD OF PROTESTORS, and the government IS PROTECTING HIM.

THIS. IS. CENSORSHIP. Australia NEVER had freedom of speech.

We can't even talk about ABORTION in government! FUCK.

If your first concern is censorship of PORN and "dark media", then you're a stupid, selfish and privileged. You provide NOTHING to people who are ACTUALLY CENSORED AND POLICED BY GOVERNMENT.

[ahmadwaleedfamily]

🚨 Gaza is not okay people are breaking.

The killing of innocent people has not stopped. Violence is everywhere in Gaza.

No food. No clean water. No medicine. Just hunger, fear, and days that keep getting harder.

Families are exhausted. People are collapsing under the weight of everything.

We say it in every language, hoping someone, somewhere, will listen:

🇵🇸 غزة ليست بخير والناس تنهار

🇺🇸🇬🇧 Gaza is not okay and people are breaking

🇨🇦 Gaza is not okay and people are breaking

🇳🇱 Gaza is niet oké en mensen breken

🇫🇷 Gaza ne va pas bien et les gens s’effondrent

🇪🇸 Gaza no está bien y la gente se derrumba

🇩🇪 Gaza geht es nicht gut und die Menschen brechen zusammen

🇮🇹 Gaza non sta bene e le persone stanno crollando

🇷🇺 Газа не в порядке, люди ломаются

🇨🇳 加沙情况不好，人们正在崩溃

🇯🇵 ガザは大丈夫ではなく、人々は崩れている

🇰🇷 가자는 괜찮지 않고 사람들은 무너지고 있다

🇹🇷 Gazze iyi değil, insanlar çöküyor

🇮🇳 गाज़ा ठीक नहीं है, लोग टूट रहे हैं

🇧🇷 Gaza não está bem e as pessoas estão desmoronando

🇮🇩 Gaza tidak baik-baik saja dan orang-orang sedang runtuh

🇵🇰 غزہ ٹھیک نہیں ہے اور لوگ ٹوٹ رہے ہیں

🇮🇷 غزه حال خوبی ندارد و مردم در حال فروپاشی هستند

🇬🇷 Η Γάζα δεν είναι καλά και οι άνθρωποι καταρρέουν

🇸🇪 Gaza mår inte bra och människor bryter samman

🆘 Please don’t scroll away. Share, speak, help in any way you can.

[antiproship-lizzie]

a collection of profics/proshippers thirsting/talking sexually about a real child.

thread here

cw: sexual talk, talk about a real life minor sexually, fantasies of raping a child under the cut.

[dreamycastaway]

The original pride flag and the sewing machine it was sewn on

[iwriterobots]

[butteredravens]

MY COUNTRY MY FLAG MY EVERYTHING. HAPPY GOD DAMN PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE!!!!!

[mizumafumondays]

Happy trans day of visibility everyone!! Always remember that it's never wrong to show your true colours 🏳️‍⚧️ Thank you 🐧 for your lovely animation <3

-💫

alt text description/cc are below the divider:

A short animation of T4T mizumafu to Kero Kero Bonito's song Flamingo. Timed to the lyrics:

"Black, white, green or blue,"

Mizuki dots Mafuyu's face with the matching colours.

"Show off your natural hue, flamingo."

Mizuki gets out a paint bucket with a Flamingo on it and covers her hand with the trans flag colours.

"Oh, oh oo-oh."

Mizuki dances with her shoulders in time to the singing.

"If you're multi-coloured that's cool too."

Mizuki paints Mafuyu's face with her hand and gives a thumbs up to the viewer. A sparkle sound effect plays and a wand makes a sliding transition to an image of T4T mizumafu behind the trans flag captioned, "Trans visibility." The drawing shows Mafuyu looking to Mizuki on the right and Mizuki smiling as she winks and holds up a peace sign.

[junoisabug]

radqueers like “we js wanna be respectful and accept identities” and then you’re “transnazi” shut up

[sincerely-aaliyah]

why do radqueers just slap “trans” in front of everything? “transmasochist” just say you’re a fucking masochist oh my gosh

[antiproshipmurray]

they want to seem quirky and like a part of the queer community is why

[antiproship-lizzie]

proshippers be like: yeah I defend racial and ableist sterotypes. its just fiction dude!!!

its "harassing" now to *checks note* tell people if theirs a sterotype in their writing.

Anon Is it reasonable for someone to tell a writer "hey, i'm part of this race/sexual identity/disability that you're writing about, and your depiction is very stereotypical and problematic. You need to take this work down or rewrite it?

A friend of mine considers themself anti-censorship but thinks that if you write about an identity you aren't a part of and receive criticism for it and don't take down/change the work, people are allowed to set you straight. ("Set straight" in this instance means making posts that say "this person is racist/homophobic, so report their account and do not support them", making burner accounts to com- ment on all of their posts about how bad the fic in question is or calling them racist/sexist, or spamming the fic with ag- gressive comments). Their argument is that freedom of expression stops when your expression involves stereotypes or misinformation about marginalized groups, since it affects real people. I'm having a hard time disagreeing with them to be honest.

the response:

no, it is never reasonable or justifiable to harass anybody. period. I have already talked about this before but you (general you) someone is racist or homophobic or a bad person in real life just because they write about fictional stories that are taboo and "problematic" in a way that is "problematic". I have always praised "write whatever you want, however you want" and I mean writers can and should write whatever they want, however they want. what art someone creates does not reflect their real life moral compass or who they are as a person. my advice for your friend is to close the tab and move on. because while I get how frustrating it can get and while their feelings are valid, fanfiction is not an activism and fanfic writers do not owe anybody anything. fanfic writers write for themselves. they don't write for anybody's approval. or at least I write for myself, not for anybody's approval. no, people are not freely allowed to "set someone straight" if it's a hobby that that someone does for themself and their own enjoyment. "but what they write is harmful" actually it's words on a screen that you (still general you) choose to read, you can stop reading anytime you want. and if someone else reads it and thinks "oh everything that is written in this fanfiction must be true in real life because it's portrayed as such in this piece of fiction, I will change my entire moral compass now" then chances are that with or without the fiction they consume, they are already troubled - if they can't separace fiction from reality - and they need help the problem is them not the writer or how they write their fic

no one needs to take anything down because it pissed someone else off. "taking something down because someone else doesn't want people to see it and so they believe they have the power to control what other people see and what can be created" is literally a fascist tool and what censorship means. so your friend cannot claim to be anti censorship if they think a work that offended them specifically should be taken down, otherwise I promise you there would be no fic about taboo contents or "problematic" ships. because these fics still offended someone and there are people (pro censorship folks) who believe these fics should be taken down because it offended them.

anti censorship means no censorship, no censorship means no censorship. it does not mean "works I personally think is morally goop enough can stay but works that I personally find too offensive must go". "but it affects real people". no, it doesn't. it's a work about fictional characters. not you. "but it's about marginalized people who are real" it's still a fictional stories about fictional characters. by your friend's logic, works that contain topics like violence, murder or SA also affect real people because violence, murder and SA happen to real people in real life too. go back and read what I've already said:

"if someone else reads it and thinks "oh everything that is written in this fanfiction must be true in real life because it's portrayed as such in this piece of fiction, I will change my entire moral compass now" then chances are that with or without the fiction they consume, they are already troubled - if they can't separate fiction from reality- and they need help. the problem is them. not the writer or how they write their fic."

also… good luck trying to report works you don't like on ao3, a no censorship site that was created specifically to host and give platform to works that are deemed "offensive, harmful and problematic" by pro censorship folks.

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sterotypes do affect reality. we cannot claim that they don't. "oh but its fiction-"

yes many characters who face racial sterotypes are not real people. because they're sterotypes.

https://compass.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/spc3.12862

How Racial Stereotypes in Popular Media Affect People — and What Hollywood Can Do to Become More Inclusive

In 2015, the average U.S. resident consumed traditional and digital media for about 15.5 hours each day. In the same year, eight- to twelve-

From headlines to hit shows, media portrayals shape how people see others outside their own group.

[antiproshipmurray]

it is NOT censorship or harassment to tell someone they're using stereotypes. oh my god are these people stupid.

proshippers try not to be ableist or racist or generally bigoted challenge failed miserably

[dazaiapologism]

so tired that my brain is just flatline empty. I hate this evil world so driven by money. if I find myself wanting more it’s usually so I don’t have to tell so many people I can’t help.

[mahmoudfamilygaza]

Please, my dear friend, I don't want help, I just want to talk to you. Please don't ignore me and contact me privately, my friend @dazaiapologism

Please don't ignore me and contact me.