SURRENDER When not to keep the HOPE of LOVE ALIVE? Soshevy Out of nowhere, a friend suddenly uttered, “confused… uncertain… puzzled..” she even asked, “hold on? Or let go? Wrenching lines and questions provoked by despaired heart from an experience of chaotic relationship. When you feel like everything fails remember one thing – SURRENDER. Beside, not every relationship is meant to be, no matter how great it may have seemed at the start. Break off of making alibis and excuses and assess whether the relationship is worth keeping or hanging on to – or not. Here are some signs to perfectly surrender to a relationship near to a cliff. The million dollar question after this is, whether to jump on the cliff, be free and see the remaining hope in life or stay where you are and wait for the hope of love to be alive. Pain instead of happiness. The simplest and most obvious reason, don’t overthink it – a great partner should make you happy, period. If a relationship leaves you frustrated, upset or unhappy more often than not and leaves you in tears every so often, perhaps this might not be the right person for you. A relationship should be one which brings happiness. Your partner doesn’t make you priority. If he has problems making regular plans with you, hanging out with you, and giving you at least equal time as what he gives with others, (even if it’s just walking and talking with you any time of the day), he’s simply not invested enough. There’s too much mystery. Where did he go till 3:25 A.M after his training? Who was he with? What were they doing? What was he keeping? If you never seem to know where he is or who he’s with, it bothers you. It makes you paranoid to his whereabouts. This is not healthy to a relationship. When your partner puts little to no effort in the relationship. Every relationship requires effort by the duo. Both of you have to commit to the relationship together. If you constantly put in more effort, sooner than later it’ll drain you. Don’t give more and more just to keep the relationship afloat! When money and material things ultimately matter. If the only reason your partner stays with you is because of what he gets from you, wake up! He doesn’t make you a better person, instead he causes you to eventually fail in your career, in your life. Now, if one feels like things won’t get better, THINK THINK THINK, FEEl FEEL FEEL. If you see these signs, do not be scared of letting go. Do not be afraid of your own love story. God still writes the perfect one for you. Do not waste your time to a relationship that is not worth it. Stop waiting for the HOPE of LOVE to come ALIVE. Life is too short. Just remember, it’s ok to SURRENDER. Beside that doesn’t mean you are weak, it simply means you are strong to let go.
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