how i manifested extreme appearance changes
disclaimer: this is based off of my personal experience and what worked for me!
1. stop “trying”
- i was constantly preventing myself from getting the results i wanted because i was trying, instead of just being. law of assumption is all about being, assuming, and deciding. one thing that clicked for me was that my constant listening to subliminals, checking the mirror constantly, finding something new to fix, was just holding me back
- i was able to finally stop “trying” and instead just “be” when i just told myself there was nothing to fix, because i was already going to manifest my desired appearance, it was inevitable. this allowed me to stop the constant checking in the mirror, obsession with subliminals and affirmations, and beauty rituals. it was already done, so theres no reason to try.
2. i acted like the version of me who already had my desired appearance
- i took a second to reflect and think about what the future version of me who already had the appearance that i wanted would do. for example, my current self was counting calories. but in my head, i knew the “ideal” version of me would never do that, she would simply just eat healthy without needing to track it constantly. so thats exactly what i started to do. i imagined this future version of myself would drink coffees and yogurt bowls in the morning. so thats what i started doing.
- another example would be, my current version was mainly wearing baggy shirts and jeans everyday. but when i reflected, i realized that the version of myself that i wanted to be, would never wear that. i knew she would wear more fashionable and feminine pieces. so thats exactly what i started to do.
- did i feel insecure at times, or as if i wasnt “ready” to do these actions yet? sure. but i persisted, and although at times i felt uncomfortable, deep down i knew i was on the right path, like i was actively becoming who i wanted to be. that feeling was very satisfying
3. i persisted
- i didnt try hard, affirm more, or listen to more subliminals. i just persisted in my belief that the appearance i wanted, was already mine. i was already beautiful. it wasnt about convincing myself or forcing myself to “feel” beautiful, but just knowing i already was, and any thought that contradicted that, i just let it pass by. i didnt engage with it at all.