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@speeedylesbian
“Don’t you know how HARD and EXPENSIVE and how CHALLENGING it is to deal with someone who’s autistic??!?? :C”
idk i imagine it’s probably about as shitty as dealing with a parent who’s never even bothered to be subtle about treating you like a burden but that’s whatevs amirite??
ppl on tumblr: lmao if the alignment meme isn’t doing anything for u and you don’t feel represented make ur own :3c cringy ass special snowflake lmao
pan nb ace and/or trans people: look at this alignment chart lol
ppl on tumblr: uR ERASING GAYS?? HOMOPHOBIA HAS NEVER BEEN SO PROGRESSIVE!! HELLSITE! HELLSITE!!
The tea on this blog is marvelous.
finger guns
Choose you’re fighter discourser:
“this ace person said they were raped by a partner for their asexuality but tbh it wasn’t bc of that, I know more about it than they do.”
“ace people who have had sex are all rape victims without exception bc aces can’t ever really consent.”
“ace people who have sex think they’re more pure than non-ace people who have dirty non-ace sex.”
“uuuuuuh aceys no fuckey lol. turbo virgins”
like don’t get me wrong b99 is DEFINITELY cop propaganda but imagine thinking ur so fucking superior for boycotting or celebrating it’s 5 minute cancellation lmao
“the people who used #renewb99 aren’t talking about a police murder that wasn’t highly publicized therefore you guys are all fake copaganda loving whores and I am more Woke than you”
yeah i mean people having issues with the word for past experiences and such arent exaggerating, its people who pretend like queer is only an homophobic slur and not also an identity are those who exaggerate, also because indeed in non english speaking countries queer doent exist so its not nice to assume that EVERYONE must be disgusted by it
ooooooh :0
You are the neutral watcher of the discourse on this hellsite, and for that I salute you.
i do my v best
as a non native english speaker can i say that i find the hate for the word queer a little exaggerate? like where i live that doesnt even exist and the biggest slur is gay itself. however queer is useful for me at least in online spaces because i dont have a set gender/sexuality and i think that applies to me more than anything.
like honestly? growing up gay and dyke were used as slurs in my direction way more then queer. like i still absolutely get people not wanting to be associated with that word and I don’t necessarily think they’re exaggerating. I think they just have differing experiences, you feel?
tbh i dont believe people are angry bc they mis identified as something, they just hate that orientation and see it as degrading to id as such. im saying this as a lesbian who used to id as bi and now im chill with myself but also i have the highest consideration for bi people because im not a biphobe who thinks its bad and shameful for a woman to like boys. if people get angry at bi people for mis identifying as bi theyre biphobes plain and simple
also yes.
Like when people bitch about being “”””forced”””” to mis-ID as something they weren’t, all I hear is someone who’s upset that they didn’t know then what they know now and feel the need to take out their (often legitimate) anger out somewhere.
It’s just easier to say that the bi and ace communities exploited your trauma and comp het like an evil hivemind and forcibly prevented you from becoming the lesbian you were always meant to be than to admit that maybe, just maybe you were given options and chose wrong, right? If it didn’t personally work out for you, it couldn’t ever possibly work out for anyone else, right?
Honestly this site really needs to fucking stop acting like it’s the end of the world if someone misID’s for a while and treating it like it ISN’T a giant part of most people’s navigation of their identity as a person who is LGBT. it isn’t our fault that people aren’t taught about these things, that this website is often the first place a LOT of people will learn about labels and shit, or that sometimes people will make mistakes. Like a lesbian who accidentally IDs as bi for a while isn’t “””proof””” that bisexuality is fake and evil. a gnc gay man who ID’s as NB by mistake isn’t a “””gotcha””” against the entire NB identity. Misidentification is normal and really fucking common and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.
white girl vc: catholicism is misogynistic so everyone who is religious is aiding the patriarchy and therefore I’m going to rip off a muslim woman’s hijab to ~liberate~ her and tell a grieving mother that her prayers for her child’s soul are doing jack shit :)
“this [thing] didn’t work for me personally and therefore it’s Fake(tm) and Bad(tm) and everyone who still uses/is apart of this [thing] ranges from a Poor Misguided Lamb to An Evil Manipulative Abuser, and if you contest me it means they’ve brainwashed you.”
comes in exciting flavors like:
religion
sexuality
gender
white people from european countries talking shit about america and about how it’s a racist country and acting like they’re some how superior
popular discourser vc: I don’t know what asexuality or aromanticism actually is and somehow this is all your fault
like someone could find a badly worded post made by a 13 y/o back in 2012 and get it 2k notes over night bc they screenshot it and commented “why are the asexies so #Cringe” on it