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Praying for the woman I’ll be in 5+yrs I hope she’s happy, and loved, living life unapologetically, doing what she loves.
Tips for Managing your Emotions
1. Practice mindfulness
2. Play, laugh and enjoy the simple things.
3. Develop an attitude of gratitude.
4. Invest in, and nurture, your relationships.
5. Give up your attachment to outcomes.
6. Decide to be adventurous and try new things.
7. Choose to live life at a slower pace, and don’t be driven by a sense of urgency.
8. Give up the need to be in control.
9. Accept that you are human and life won’t be perfect.
10. Don’t compare yourself to others.
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i wish my life was as neat and tidy as my study space
Just in case this helps anyone!! Go decorate those notes, friends!!
Masterpost 4 out of 50: The Motivation Self-Discipline Masterpost
It’s better to work blindly than not work at all.
Sunday mornings are for lie-ins, fancy breakfasts and planning the week 🍓
(Instagram Cinnamon_Studying)
If you’re anything like me, you’re a chronic procrastinator and you’re maybe a little bit lazy sometimes! I used to be terrible–ignoring important work I knew was due soon even–but have since improved a lot by doing these things.
Read a lot: Reading lots of books and articles, especially ones that challenge you, forces you to focus for a long period of time. For me, these periods of focus got longer and longer over time with practise. You’ll also have to finish a project that doesn’t supply instant gratification. Having a reward (finishing) that only comes after a lot of hard work was (and is!) important to me, because it trained my brain to not expect things so quickly. Plus, who doesn’t love books?
No zero days: I sometimes see that this is bad advice for mentally ill students. You know you best! Always go with what you think is best for you. But, as a mentally ill student, I actually found the concept of no zero days extremely powerful as a means to gain discipline and stay productive. I only forced myself to work for five minutes every day. On bad days that was all I did, but I got into the habit of doing something, which was important. Most days I worked for at least half an hour!
Have a job or large project on the side: If you have the free time, I highly recommend getting a job or finding another project that you’d like to work on. Even in the best jobs for you, there will be days when you don’t want to go. When I have to go to work on days I don’t want to, I’m establishing discipline that can be applied to my academic life. Plus, the change of scenery and extra cash are nice!
Make challenges for yourself: I use Habitica for this. Basically, I’ll take a long term project of some sort and break it into smaller tasks, tick off boxes as I go, and get a sense of accomplishment when the challenge is complete. It’s more fun and better for long term projects than just a to-do list, and it (again) instills in me that good things come to those who work hard consistently, not just when there’s instant gratification to be found. You can start these challenges off small, then build up to larger ones. The important things are that they’re actually challenging to you at the time of making them, and that you actually complete them. And, if you complete a challenge, you might want to….
Reward yourself: You deserve it when you work hard! I reward for completion and for diligence. For example, if I’m really depressed, and I do more than the minimum five minutes of work, I reward myself with a trip to the café, or something nice for dinner. If I complete something I rent a film and have a relaxing night, or take a bubble bath. This just makes me associate working with nice things!
Hopefully some of these tips are helpful to you. Diligence pays off in establishing good habits! I’ve got a long way to go, but I’ve improved my discipline and focus so much in the past year doing these things. xxx
Here is a simple semester timetable spread for your bullet journal. Again, I’m trying to stick to a minimal style :)
Hope you guys try it out…oh and before you ask, no my classes don’t start that early and end that late. I just factored in extra time for extracurriculars, etc.
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““Love can come when you’re already who you are, when you’re filled with you. Not when you look to someone else to fill the empty space.””
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50 Things that Top Students Do
Listen to everything they’re taught, not just hearing
Take notes
Listen to opinions they don’t like
Be open to having their minds changed
Don’t listen to music with words when studying
Practise
Commit
Keep a regimen of self-discipline even in the face of a lack of motivation
Take breaks
Sleep regularly and more than expected
Work very hard during the day
Exercise
Plan in advance
Get small tasks done when there isn’t time to do bigger ones
Engage
Take failures as a learning curve
Think positively
Do their best work at the start of the year so they get more slack later
Talk to those who teach them
Debate
Do a little every day instead of all at once
Ask for help
Help others
Drink water
Work hard but work smart
Know what study setup is their most productive
Hold themselves accountable
Figure out which work is a priority
Don’t waste time re-reading as a form of studying
Find out things they don’t understand
Test themselves frequently
Work backwards through things to understand why something works
Learn more than they need
Have more interests and hobbies than just academics
Find out the most important concepts in a course
Learn the most important 20% of the course to get 80% of the grade
Don’t complain
Tailor their courses to focus on what interests them the most
Play hard after working hard
Read in advance
Know how to say no but don’t say no unless they have to
Take every opportunity they can
Eat well
Defend their personal beliefs
Don’t use other people’s successes/failures as an excuse for anything they do
Don’t let studying become the main part of their life
Understand that everything is temporary
Set goals, short- and long-term
Put their phones away/on silent when studying
Don’t expect any results immediately
college app season is coming up! since i’ve had some experience with interviews, i thought i would throw together a post about college interviews to give all you seniors a hand and alleviate some stress
🌿 t h e b a s i c s
many colleges offer interviews
can be required or optional
can be conducted at the school with a student/admissions rep, or near your home with an alumni
a word of advice: if an interview is optional and you are contacted to have an interview, TAKE THE INTERVIEW–it can only help
types of interviews
individual
most common type (95% of the time it will be this one)
one-on-one with a school representative
informational
short
more of a Q&A about the school
not personal; can have multiple interviewees
most interviews run from 20-60 mins
however, leave ample time around your interview. all of my interviews went at least 20 mins over. but remember: length of the interview doesn’t mean anything
📑 i n i t i a l s e t - u p
first of all, if you can’t secure an interview or are not offered one, DON’T FREAK OUT. that just means the school doesn’t have enough resources to give you an interview
it will NOT count against you or your application at all
for interviews conducted on-campus, you will have to sign up for a time slot to have an interview or email the admissions office to set one up
for alumni interviews, they will contact you
via email or phone
respond within 24 hours if you can, and absolutely by 48 hours
respond using “Dear Mr./Ms. ______”, thank them for contacting you, tell them you look forward to the interview, schedule a time that works for both of you, and make sure you are clear on the interview location
you’ll get an email of confirmation back from them
then mark it in your calendar
💭 h o w t o p r e p
research your interviewer !!! seriously, this is important
make sure to know…
where they’re from
which schools they’ve gone to (undergrad & grad)
what they majored in
what profession they have now
anything of significance about their relationship with the school you are applying to. for example, during my Princeton interview, I brought up my interviewer’s senior thesis topic, and he said no one had brought that up to him in like 20+ years. we had a great 20 min conversation about that, plus it made me memorable
research the school
specifics! whether it be clubs, resources, traditions, classes, etc.
especially know classes, research, professors, and resources that relate to the major you intend to study
create a list of questions to ask
these should not be questions you can look up the answer to (shouldn’t be factually/statistically based)
run over your résumé or topics that could come up
research what previous interviewees have said about the format of the interview
use tumblr, college confidential, etc. BUT take everything said with a grain of salt
make sure to know the transportation route to your interview location
optional: create an elevator pitch
👔 w h a t t o w e a r
business casual is best
gals: a nice skirt and cardigan, dress with tights, nice jeans/slacks with a blouse, etc.
keep your hair out of your face!
stay away from noisy/clunky jewelry, or anything you might fidget with
guys: button-down shirt or polos with khakis or a nice pair of jeans, suit jacket and tie/bowtie, etc.
wear nice shoes (no sneakers) AND SOCKS
nonbinary/non-gender-conforming: do whatever you think is best for you! just remember to look professional and well put-together (although this rule applies to everyone)
weather
summer/spring: lighter clothes. most likely you will be interviewing indoors, so don’t forget to bring an extra layer if necessary
fall/winter: add outerwear like tights, stockings, sweaters, etc. check the weather and bring an umbrella, hats and gloves, or snow boots if necessary
general tips
better to be overdressed than underdressed
avoid logos, graphics, and anything noisy (and please don’t wear apparel from the school–it seems “sweaty”)
use accessories sparingly
wear something classic but comfortable, that enhances your personality but doesn’t override it
📓 w h a t t o b r i n g
notebook/looseleaf paper
pens/pencils
any notes you may need
a list of questions to ask the rep
résumé
phone/money/keys/bus card
***make sure you know the interviewer’s contact info and directions to the interview!
💬 d u r i n g t h e i n t e r v i e w
arrive 5-10 mins early to get comfortable with your surroundings
location will most likely be either a workplace (like a law/business office) or a casual setting (like a cafe)
the interviewer will meet you
make sure to shake their hand
if you are at a place like a cafe or coffee shop, you don’t need to offer to buy them anything !!! you can get yourself something if you want
they will most likely start with an open-ended question like “tell me a bit about yourself”
ELEVATOR PITCH FO DAYS
tell them your name, your school, some activities you do, etc.
try to tell them stuff that’s not on your application
ex: talk about upcoming internships/events/activities
from there a topic will latch on and they’ll start asking questions and transitioning
at the end, they will ask if you have any questions
DO
sit up straight, use manners and make eye contact
ask questions–even in the middle of the interview
consider the interview a conversation
listen to and learn from your interviewer
take notes
DON’T
interrupt your interviewer or get distracted
hold back/be modest
sound haughty
be quiet. speak. tell stories. talk!
make your answers generic
be nervous! it’s really, really hard to mess up an interview. everyone has nerves, but just remind yourself that this doesn’t really count for anything
🎉 a f t e r w a r d s
whew! you got through it. CONGRATS !!!
within 24 hours, write them a thank you email
thank them for taking the time to interview you
make sure to mention specifics about how they were helpful! it makes you memorable
you may or may not get an email back, but that doesn’t mean anything
breathe a sigh of relief. compile notes. rest.
💡 i m p o r t a n c e
how much does this actually matter?
not much
seriously, stop stressing
interviewers cannot make or break an application. having a superb interview will not boost your application by a huge amount, just like having a not-so-great interview will not doom you for all eternity
what the interview CAN do is…
help the interviewer advocate for you further
give you insight into the school
give you a chance to elaborate among things in your app
show the school you can conduct yourself gracefully in social/professional situations
give your application a boost if they are deciding between you and a similar candidate
and that’s all! i hope this post was helpful. please feel free to message me if you have any other questions or need more advice.
It is better to be alone than to be with someone who can’t see who you are.
Yes, as a studyblr,
I haven’t been particularly happy lately. Like that odd state between happy and sad that tends to dip more towards the sad and you have no idea how to grapple with it. My marks haven’t been as great as I wanted them to be, even though they’re actually starting to count. I’ve cried after exams, I’ve cried getting results, I’ve cried at my desk and I’ve cried on the train. I have entire lists crossed out in my planner. I haven’t used my planner for a week. My planner isn’t aesthetically pleasing in any way, shape or form. I am not aesthetically pleasing in any way, shape or form.
But you know what, it doesn’t matter. We make our mistakes and find ourselves in holes we dug and don’t have our lives together. We barely have ourselves together sometimes. This doesn’t mean we’re failures or not going to achieve our goals or unworthy of achieving our goals, or worse. This doesn’t mean we should give up. We need to take in a shaky breath, look out at the sky, look straight at the mirror without batting an eyelash, and try again.
“If you fell down yesterday, stand up today.”
—
H.G. Wells
It’s never to late to try again