18+ only or block! Spike, 27, (he/they) submissive puppy/edgy goth top, sadomasochist. not so secret horny sideblog. fetlife: spikedmutt main: p****e-r****w owner of vulturetits
Feel free to DM or askbox me, flirting is OK, but don't ask to be my pet, I already have one 💘
Transphobes and other bigots are not welcome here.
My text posts are tagged #spike.txt and photos of me are #spike.jpeg.
This blog is a sideblog. Likes and follows come from pr****-ra***w. Check me out on fetlife at the same username (spikedmutt).
More details about particular interests below.
Petplay: You can find me anywhere on the "dog" spectrum from puppy to service dog to primal wolf, although I identify more closely with mustelids like martens and wolverines. I love being a service animal and doing a good job and receiving praise and attention. I also love being a feral thing that just wants to use your body for relief. Take your pick~
Knifeplay: My true love forever. I top and bottom for knives, but I prefer topping. Knives are a tool for sensory, fear, and bloodplay and I almost always have one ready to go.
Sadomasochism: I am a sadist and masochist in equal measures and I love giving and receiving pain. I prefer impact (stingy and thuddy), knives, and other sharps, choking, as well as having my puppycunt stretched or fisted. My tools of choice for giving pain are knives and my teeth.
A moderately intense pain play scene, where your partner is teary and whimpering and saying no- but you're responsible and gentle at heart, so you get down close, hold their face in your hands, and demand their color.
Make them look up at you with their big watery eyes, tell you they're green, and ask them again to tell you they actually like it. They like you hurting them. They're just crying because they can't help it. They don't want to be anywhere else.
Make them kiss your hands before you start hurting them again. 💖
Enamored w the idea of 24/7 knotwarming… imagine ur cunt always being stretched around a knot, leaving your hole soooo full … until ur completely unable to stand the feeling of being empty. Ur cunt was made for taking thick knots. Being trained so you’re only able to submit to knotted doggy cock. So you have to be stuck on a knot to cum, nothing else will do it. Immediately presenting your cunt like a bitch in heat when you see a throbbing knotted cock. Having to go about your day all while pretending you’re not a knot-drunk puppy slut….. Ough
I love when they can't stop cumming around my knot and they're so overstimulated that they try to crawl away. Even if I wasn't holding your hips, after making such a pretty puddle on the floor, do you honestly think you have enough strength left to pop off my knot? You're so cute, now stop struggling and let me fuck you until I decide we're finished.
Knotting you in missionary as you struggle to escape and beg me to stop just so I can settle in and nuzzle up to you and kiss your face and hush your tears for a good long cuddle once it's in
I get to have a luxurious, long release filling you up, and you get to feel me on top of you as the pressure inside you builds and builds. Can you be a little more grateful please? There you go, let it out. Just lean into my arms, that's it, I know it's overwhelming. Hush now, it's okay, it's okay...
can i stress the importance of boundary setting? of being able to say no? if you want to be able to play with this shit, or really engage sexually at all, you need to be able to look someone in the eye and say “i don’t want this.”
if you can’t look me in the eye and say No, if you haven’t demonstrated an ability to voice discomfort when you feel it, you are not a safe partner and i do not want to play with you.
specifically what i’m thinking about here, though idk if clarification is needed, is that when you don’t tell me you’re uncomfortable you’re putting me in the position of harming you without giving me the option not to. if you never say “i don’t want this” then i don’t get to say “no problem, we don’t have to!” and you’ll grow to resent and hate me for crossing a boundary that was never communicated to me. actually, this applies to things other than sex too. if you never voice displeasure/discomfort, or direct desire, you’re making it impossible for people to respect you and give you what you want and keep you feeling safe.
good tags. but i want to respond directly to one thing here bc in a lot of ways it’s the crux of what im talking about. “do not let them find out later that you weren’t actually consenting.” the thing about this is that, if you verbally consent, even if you don’t mean it, you DID consent. your partner cannot read your mind. they cannot anticipate that you weren’t actually feeling it. you don’t then get to turn around and go “oh this person assaulted me because i didn’t actually consent” when you said yes and responded positively to every check in. that person did nothing wrong, you failed to communicate. when someone needs to set a boundary and doesn’t, they’re causing the harm in that situation. their failure to communicate is what is putting them in an unsafe situation.
The thing about doing a good cnc scene with somebody is. It always feels real in a way. It feels like a hunt, the way I like to do it.
I don't like to just launch into it so I usually have a prenegotiated "starting window" sort of thing. Like, "we will lie here and chill and watch this movie like normal and at some point during the movie I will initiate the scene". Right?
And then you're just there, trying to act normal, with that constant tension there. This is going to happen to you. You can't talk about it. Every move I make, you'll tense up, only to find I'm just reaching for water.
I'll pause the movie to go pee. You stay there. You have to stay there alone, in the dark. Am I going to do it when I come back? Is this starting the scene? Am I going to come back with something, something to hurt you or restrain you? Am I going to keep acting normal, pulling the thread of tension tighter? What will I do to you? When will I do it? How will I do it? Don't talk about it. You can't stop it.
