you've been on my mind

asher; adult; he/they. self ship sideblog

[spiritsandships]

Hello!

My name is Asher (he/they; adult), and this is my self ship sideblog!

My main f/os at the moment are Spy from Team Fortress 2 and Reigen Arataka and Dimple from Mob Psycho 100! I'm chill with sharing everyone (except for Astarion from Baldur's Gate 3, who I'm more selective with). My full list + some other stuff is here

[spaceymindsz]

f/o laying on top of you like a weighted blanket. hit post-

[bruhs-selfshiphell]

Imagine your F/O letting you rest against their shoulder because they know you're tired sometimes.

[candyheartedchy]

I love self shipping and having fun :]

[knightoflove]

Tip for when you're making stuff for your selfship: If you ever go "this might be too cringy/indulgent" you're doing it right and you need to continue. Make it more cringy. Now.

[dudeshusband]

just call it self ship.

[scaryselfship]

Putting f/o down

[borderlandsbf-deactivated201907]

honestly if we selfship from the same media id love for our self inserts to be friends

[nebbyselfships]

How to explain to harry potter selfshippers that they are doing the selfship equivalent to dating a conservative because they "don't see politics"

[nebbyselfships]

THIS IS EXACTLY IT. Thank you so much prev for these tags

[luunamor]

shoutout to the selfshippers who struggle to talk about their f/o(s).

shoutout to the selfshippers who find it hard to put things into words, and most of their thoughts are never realised in any way.

shoutout to the selfshippers that cannot ‘gush’ about their f/o(s) with no prompt, or that find it hard even with a prompt.

shoutout to the selfshippers that feel guilty about talking about their selfships for whatever reason that may be, whether you feel like you’re being selfish, annoying, or any other reason.

shoutout to the selfshippers that want to talk more about their selfships, but feel like they can’t, for any reason.

you are a valuable part of this community. you’re no ‘lesser’ for finding it hard to talk about things. it can be overwhelming. you are still incredible and your f/o(s) adore you so much <3

[spiritsandships]

every year when a new invincible season comes out i remember how much i like cecil but it's usually in a "teehee i want to put the old man in a situation" way. why is he hot now that's not fair

[luckieangel]

why yes, that fictional man is the love of my life

[kruxband]

pleaseeee imagine your romantic/queerplatonic F/Os kicking their feet and giggling whenever they think about you.... it will change your life

[venum0us]

I thought this would go without saying but. Guys dont tag selfshippers in art of their f/o with someone else 😭 its not only disrespectful but also very awkward, regardless of if theyre sharing or not...

[aizawashuichi]

the thing is, i feel like sometimes self-shippers don't fully embrace the idea of a character being in love with them. instead, the character looks like they are pretending to be in love, like unwillingly putting on this role on the side, as they continue their own life as their canon self, you know what I mean? you need to be more self-indulgent. you have to disrupt their in-character persona in some way, because love is now present and it alters things and people. someone who is in love with you, as aloof and emotionless as they may seem, will care for you and will change if necessary. they will do things for you that they wouldn't normally do for others or even for themselves, because you are not just a random dude showing up next to them. you are their person.

[lopbunfairy]

i wanna selfship in like,, a situationship way. like, my crush on this character isn't big enough for a romantic selfship & also we don't have much romantic potential BUT there's potential for a COMPLICATED situationship there which is so much more fun and interesting

[reg1ment]

seeing the term yumeship slowly take over the selfship tag