Hi, welcome to spongebob love letters :) We're here to write you ( or someone you know who needs it ) a sweet letter or note ! Love-letters, if you will :)
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🫧🍍 ABOUT US :
This account is ran and managed by two parts of the @mtmassiveasylum-co system :) one of which is a Spongebob fictive !
🫧🍍 REQUEST INFO + WHAT TO INCLUDE :
1 . ) To request a love-letter, you can dm or send it to our ask-box !
2 . ) Be specific, but dont overshare, if youre dealing with a particularly stressful personal situation, feel free to vent ! But DO NOT include any information that might dox or endanger you/someone else. This includes real names, addresses, phone numbers, personal social medias ( Instagram, Facebook, etc )
3 . ) if its a letter to yourself, no worries! Include whatever it is you'd like to hear ( reassurence, validation, well-wishes, etc )
4 . ) if its for someone else, include the tumblr @/username so they can be tagged in our post, or so we can send them a nice message/ask on your behalf :) if you'd like to remain anonymous, let us know !
5 . ) dont want a love letter, but appreciate some positiveity on your dash? No worries, we post semi-regular positivity :) no need to request a full letter, if you'd simply like you/someone else acknowledged, drop it in our askbox !
🍍🫧 BYF :
1. ) Meanies, bullies and HATERS will be blocked !!! This includes anyone whos account is based around a bigoted or damaging set of beliefs ( I.E: zionism, terfism/radical feminism, transphobia, homophobic ETC ETC ETC )
If you request a love letter, and your/their account is full of hate and negatively, we will ( politely ) decline your request and block your/their account(s)
Other than that, we don't have an official DNI ! everyone is free to interact, make requests, etc.
2 . ) we are unconditionally supportive of ALL our friends and siblings, INCLUDING ->
I feel like everytime I try to do something slightly intimate with my partners / friends (consensually), my mind always throws me back to back when I was little and with my uncle. I think you can figure out the rest.
I want to be able to experience it happily without being reminded how my innocence was wiped away.
Is it possible that I could get some reassurance / validation maybe..idk, i just want to know that everything is okay.
-Karma
Hi karma !
I hope youre doing well! Firstly, I am so sorry to hear about what happened, and that its effecting your relationships now.
It goes without saying, but you absolutely did not deserve that :(
We speak from experience when we say that while healing is hard, it is possible and just takes time. It's incredibly normal to feel uncomfortable or even triggered during intimacy when you've been hurt that way, and youre valid in feeling the way you do.
We are not a therapist or anything like that, but if we had to give any advice, I would say: if you feel comfortable, talk to your partners. Sometimes it helps to open up about your experience and set boundaries and safe-guards for yourself. If not, its always a good idea to consider talking to a therapist, its scary at first, but is definitely worth it :')
It might not seem like it at times, but youre incredibly strong for surviving, and I believe in your ability to continue to survive and thrive. Youre loved by your friends, partners and community 💛🍍
For anyone questioning persodivergence and/or are struggling with a personality disorder, you are not alone.
Being persodivergent is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! In fact you are loved, persodivergence and all 💛
Youre not evil or scary or inherently broken for having a cluster B disorder.
Youre not undesirable or weird or scary for having a cluster A disorder.
Youre not broken or "too much" for having a cluster C disorder.
Regardless of where ever you fall on the.. spectrum of persodiverence, youre loved. You are just as deserving and worthy of softness, care, and respect as everyone else. And you'll find it, I believe in you :) 💛