We are a plural system and this is our blog for caregiver stuff!
This blog is and always will be 100% sfw, and kink/nsfw accounts will be blocked. This is a safe space for all good faith identities, and we intend to keep it that way.
We post moodboards, scenarios, and whatever else we feel like posting! Please feel free to request a moodboard with whatever theme or characters you'd like, and we'll do our best to make it happen!
We are not looking for a little; while we post cg related things, we don't have the capacity to handle being a proper cg to someone right now. Do not dm us asking us to be your cg or acting like you're our little/cg.
We are a traumaendo system and will block sysmeds/anti-endos without hesitation. This blog is NOT welcoming towards terfs, transphobes, homophobes, etc.
Our personal tag for yapping purposes is sproutbun speaks!
Some of our insys caregivers and their emojis below the cut! Not all of them are listed here, just the ones who will be interacting on this blog!
We've set up our own Discord server for age regressors!
Cozy Corners Daycare is a pro-endogenic, bodily 18+ age regression server centered around fostering a sense of safety and community for all who join. If you're a regressor, an age dreamer, or are simply curious about the whole concept, we got you!
What we have to offer:
🍼 a separate category for general chatting so those who aren't regressed can chat outside the dedicated space for littles and pets
🐶 a secure verification process to keep out trolls and bots
🥀 friendly staff
🧸 various roles for you to choose from to suit your needs
✨️ an inviting community supportive of everyone, regardless of their race, gender, sexuality, nationality, system origins, etc.
Check out the Cozy Corners Daycare community on Discord - hang out with 8 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.
Shout out to all the little ones feeling exhausted by everything going on in the world right now. We feel you, and we see you.
It's okay if you need to regress and get some relief from the stress of it all. It's okay if you need to take a break from thinking about all the nasty stuff happening. It is, quite frankly, unrealistic to expect yourself or anyone else to be able to devote 100% of your energy to focusing on what's going on 100% of the time. You'll just burn yourself out doing that, and you'll be worse off than you already were. You're allowed to take a break from it all if you need it. It doesn't make you a bad person in the slightest.
We're making our own Discord server centered around age regression!
We're still working it all out, but we hope to have it all set up soon! This server will be strictly supportive of endogenic systems and those under the umbrella, and will be for those bodily 18+ to protect the younger members of the community. As much as we love our younger regressors, we do not feel comfortable running a server where minors can interact with potentially harmful adults; while we will do our best to properly vet everyone that joins, we feel that this is the best way to ensure the safety of everyone there.
With all that being said, we can't wait to see you all there when the server is fully up and running! Have a wonderful day/night!
what if m main blog is not-so-child-friendly (not really nsfw but like swears n stuff :(() but I have a little blog ? should I still no interactionz or can I like read stuff n ya
Hello, friend!
As long as your blog you're interacting from isn't nsfw or anything from the sort, you're all good! We understand Tumblr is a bit weird about interacting from side blogs, no worries!
Sorry for the long silence; we took a mental health break from social media for a while, but we're working on slowly getting back into the groove of things! Gonna be answering stuff in our inbox and whatnot and making moodboard requests again <3 we adore you all and hope you're having a wonderful day/night! Stay safe, kiddos!
Being a caregiver and little while also being a pagan means that, at least for us, these two worlds tend to overlap.
Shadow work is a massive part of our craft. For us, this means that our objective is to heal and recover from the wounds of our past so that we can be the best version of ourselves we possibly can, no matter how far or how recent in the past these wounds might be.
One of the ways this healing manifests is... well, our little space, both sides of it: our cg side and our little side. We can not do shadow work without acknowledging that aspect of ourselves because it's so integral to how we heal from our childhood trauma. (More in-depth discussions of this below the cut)
We were emotionally, physically, and mentally abused by our mother growing up. She was very emotionally immature, and that tainted just about every interaction we had with her. Because of the way we were raised, we simultaneously grew up too fast yet also didn't fully mature.
Now, as to how this ties into our age regression and our spirituality. Our goal in shadow work is to make sure that trauma doesn't manifest as unhealthy behaviors that lead to us acting the same way our mother did. This also means that we have to find healthy ways to cope with that trauma; our mother was abused by her own parents, but didn't put in the work necessary to make sure she didn't repeat their mistakes like we are.
One of these healthy coping mechanisms is our age regression, both being a caregiver AND being a little. Being little means giving our inner child the safety and security they didn't get to have growing up, including learning how to set healthy boundaries and ensuring that our living space is a sanctuary instead of something to be feared. Even something as simple as having our own bedroom full of things that nobody can take away from us on a whim is huge.
Being a caregiver means giving somebody else that sense of safety and security; our ultimate goal in being a caregiver is to help someone experience the childhood we never got to have, and that in and of itself is incredibly healing even without our little space side. In a way, we're healing ourselves by healing someone else.
It helps that our deities fully support this aspect of us. They know what led to us being a little and a cg and acknowledge that this is just one of the ways we can heal from what we went through. They actively encourage us to explore our age regression and our caregiver side in a healthy manner. Different people do shadow work in different ways; this is our way of doing it, and it's been working really well for us. Feel free to reblog with your own experiences. -🌱
It's okay to doubt yourself and your abilities as a caregiver every now and then. It doesn't make you any less of a wonderful person! You're going to slip up and make mistakes along the way, but that's just part of being human. As long as you apologize when you mess up and try your hardest to be the best caregiver you can be, you don't have to worry. Your kiddo will still love and admire you no matter what, and I'm sure you're a wonderful caregiver to them <3 even we doubt ourselves a lot, and that's okay! What matters most is that you're trying your best. -🦋
Give yourself space to feel all of your feelings, even the big ones like anger or sadness. There is no such thing as "good" or "bad" emotions; what's more important is how you express those emotions. It's okay to be angry or sad or however else you're feeling. It's okay to not be happy all the time, even while regressed. You are still very much loved and cherished <3 -🦋
Give yourself permission to make messes. Color outside the lines. Play in the rain. Get mud all over your shoes and clothes. Make a craft project and get glitter everywhere. Life is too short to worry about whether or not you're being super neat and tidy. We get it; it's hard to allow yourself to make a mess when you've been punished for doing so your whole life. But show yourself kindness. Nothing bad is going to happen if you accidentally spill milk on the floor or get mud and grass on your pants. Messes can always be cleaned up later. -🦋
We love you, age regressors who don't fit the stereotype of what age regression looks like.
Those of you who are physically disabled in some way and have to use a mobility aid like a cane or wheelchair.
Who swear and make dirty or dark jokes while regressed.
Who aren't skinny or conventionally attractive.
Those of you who smoke weed while little.
Who don't use or want gear like pacifiers or sippy cups.
Who throw tantrums and get outwardly upset while little.
Those of you who regress to an older kid instead of a baby or toddler.
Who prefer dark colors over cutesy pastel ones.
Who would rather wear pjs than a onesie.
Those of you who don't want or need a caregiver.
Age regressors come in all shapes and sizes, and your regression is beautiful no matter what it looks like. We love you and support you regardless of how you regress. -🦋
Just wanted to see if you’d be able to do a Matt Sturniolo cg moodboard?? I get it if you feel uncomfortable doing real people but if you were to do it could you make femme leaning please and thank you I hope you have a good day/bight
Here you go! Tbh one of the best things about getting requests like this one is getting the opportunity to research people and characters from media we've never heard of — we would have never known about the Sturniolo triplets otherwise! Thanks for your request, hope you enjoy <3 -🌱
Low effort/low spoons things to do while age regressed, with or without a caregiver!
🖍 watch cartoons
🖍 coloring pages! You can find tons of free digital ones on Pinterest!
🖍 cuddling your stuffies
🖍 listening to fun music!
🖍 sitting on call with other little friends
🖍 eating easy to make or pre-prepared snacks like apple slices and peanut butter, cheeze-its, etc.
🖍 making magic potions! You can find mini glass bottles and glitter for cheap at a craft store
🖍 fun agere journal prompts! You can find tons of them here on Tumblr
🖍 read a kiddo book! A classic is the Disney golden books!
🖍 make lists of little gear you want
🖍 write one-shot stories about your stuffies! Get creative and make up lore about them!
🖍 play calming video games like Minecraft on peaceful mode or Stardew Valley
🖍 cuddle with your pets if you have any
🖍 draw your stuffies, or draw yourself as both your big age and your little age
Hopefully some of these suggestions are useful for our fellow regressors who have limited energy/spoons but still want something to do while regressed! Feel free to reblog with your own suggestions! -🪡
Anyways moving on from our last post, might start tagging our posts with an emoji or something like that depending on who in the system writes what post. Will update our introduction post accordingly but yeah! :D
