Fandoms and Change.

19/they pronouns/ace. Some fandom, some personal, and a bit of sj. I can get pretty sex-repulsed, so please tell me what you tag your porn as so I can blacklist it. And play nice in general, I break easy. IF YOU USE AND/OR BLOG ABOUT ANY SORT OF BEHAVIOR-ALTERING SUBSTANCES I WILL NOT MAKE A GOOD FRIEND FOR YOU.

[squigly-protractor]

straight people give romance a bad name for the rest of us normal people

[sisterreisaid]

I want you all to promise not to pokemon and drive

[cheaphalloweencostume]

Protip for men: if marriage is a horrifying concept for you and you think it is an evil trap, do not buy a ring and ask a woman to marry you

[curtis-ballard]

I’m way over seeing radical feminist bullshit on my dash. This isn’t even social justice or a real issue.

[cheaphalloweencostume]

sorry that not marrying someone you dont loathe is radical feminism i guess?

[celestial--fawn]

women: don’t propose or get married if u don’t like the thought of marriage

men: what kind of sjw fuckery

[lemonsharks]

the other bit that this implies is: If you like your wife, act like it. Even around your friends. Be open and honest about liking your wife, liking spending time with her, and not being resentful of the shared work of building a household. Let your buddies know you can’t hang out with them because you’d rather be home with your wife, whom you like, because she is your legit bff, even though you know your buddies are gonna mock you for it. Stand up to your buddies. Tell them mocking isn’t cool and you don’t want them to do it anymore. Challenge the other men in your life to be better men. That is what “don’t get married if you think marriage is an evil trap” implies to men who are married. And while it’s all completely reasonable I imagine that it’s scary as fuck when it’s just so much easier to har de har har the little woman’s such a nag, ain’t she, don’t we all hate being married so much? with other men. In that context, “don’t get married if you think marriage is an evil trap” is kindof a radical statement.

[goshawke]

The number of guys I work with who are engaged who started pulling the “uh oh, life over soon, har har” shit that I have completely shut down with a simple “well if you don’t want to get married, then don’t”…*sigh* And they’re just like, hem, haw, welllll if I don’t then she might not stay with meee, which I respond to with “well, sounds like you need to have a pretty serious and honest conversation with your fiancee about your feelings then” and then the *panic!* look…When you remove that easy “hah hah ball-and-chain” narrative, watch the reaction. Some of them (to a female friend) will mumblingly admit that they love their fiancee and are excited to be married. Others…all you get is fear.

That’s the disservice we do men by refusing to teach boys how to explore their emotional needs. It hurts everyone. I watched three male friends walk into marriages I can tell they weren’t ready for and didn’t want, just because it was expected and they had no tools for emotional self-examination. Two of those marriages are (shockingly) in crisis, a couple years later. One has kids involved now. It’s more than a little heartbreaking. The marriages I see that are working? Are the guys with the emotional maturity to talk to their wives and who don’t care if everyone knows they’re in love with them.

[violent-darts]

SERIOUSLY. 

[wildlifewednesdays]

The dangers and troubles of being a panda zookeeper.

[bace-jeleren]

LET! THEM! IN! THE! BASKET!!!!!

[lornaka]

This needs to be a tv series!! Give me a cute series about this heroic woman and her pandas :D

[fedswatching]

[socialconflict-deactivated20240]

My goal is to be so warm and full of light that no one has any idea the kind of terrible shit I’ve seen and been through.

[yaoihands]

I wasn’t prepared for this yaoi bed jfc

[memeufacturing-deactivated20161]

[tarargh]

i only have two speed settings for blogging: “makes you wonder if theyre even still active” or “your entire dash is nothing but me”

[basiliskhallward]

fun tip for cis people: instead of saying “back when she was a he” or “back before [birthname] became [preferred name]”, try not being a pile of shit by saying something like “before she came out” or “before she began her transition”!

[secretsofaginger]

Pls friends and thanks.

[chokkilissa-nahollos]

“before she came out” is so easy and preserves so much dignity, PLEASE

[iamthedukeofurl]

I’ve been wondering the best way to say this. Thank you. 

[squigly-protractor]

If you know the person well enough that they’ve given you the full history of their coming to identify as trans, you can also say “back when she was still identifying as male” if it’s relevant to a story of internal thought process. Otherwise go with “before she came out”.

[starsarewishesindisguise]

Honestly this drive to make tv shows darker each season is so annoying if I wanted to feel sick to my stomach for hours I would watch the news not my favourite tv program

[perfectimpxrfection]

wtnv theory: all the interns that survive the nvcr internship program are gay af

evidence: cecil is super gay, maureen is confirmed not straight at least

conclusion: being gay in night vale makes u immune to death

[runerage]

finally, the bullet-proof gays we’ve been asking for

[cyberstevie]

does that mean that all the ones who died were straight

[squigly-protractor]

that would logically follow if and only if the use of “gay” here is in a coloquial sense rather than a literal one

[squigly-protractor]

Happy father’s day, have a realization of just how much of a nutjob your father has been all your life

[su-faces]

pls caption this

[goblinshell]

when ur already having a bad day and something else decides to go wrong

[squigly-protractor]

I asked my friend to explain this image and his response was “the school play has a number of very non-standard roles this year.”

[lotad]

yaoi’re*

[quagsire]

Reblog if you think chubby tums are good tums

Trying to prove something to a friend

[whtaretheodds]

do you ever just sit and think about how cute someone is and get all smiley