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im gonna be writing an omegaverse togachaco fic where they meet in a cafe but it slowly gets freakier (not a quirkless au) should it be omega/omega yuri or alpha/alpha yuri
ochaco tops btw
They're both omegas
They're both alphas
how far inside you does something have to be before it's considered inside you? obviously organs are inside you. probably your tongue. are your eyes "inside you?" they're housed within an orifice for sure. is that the only qualification? if i put a lamp half in and half out of my mouth is the lamp inside me? does it only qualify if the orifice is typically closed (mouth generally keeping your tongue confined, skin keeping your organs confined (hopefully)) but then are your eyeballs only inside you when your eyes are closed? are your eyeballs inside you when youre asleep, but not awake? does blinking make your eyeballs be temporarily inside you?
My OCs are not my children, they are my gladiators. And I intend to have fun.
you know the old ladies in coraline? april spink and miriam forcible? they are canon lesbians. weve got old man yaoi, and old woman yuri
i mean come on, theyre old ladies who live together with their presumably infinite dogs, that used to do theater
theyre so gay
why do we want aro/ace rep. they cannot know we exist. what if they find out we're going to invade denmark?? our state of relative invisibility, while temporarily annoying, is for the greater good. we have already infiltrated. they can't find out
eshrektion
i like to draw eyes.
and it looks cool to invert the colors of paper and sketch.
you can show so much emotion with a single pair of eyes. and human brains love eyes so they dont even need to look "good" for the meaning to show. different shapes, different pupils, different structures, its all so fun. and its something that i feel like i dont need to clean up for it to look good. its a couple shapes plus a few sketchy lines, its great until i have to draw it on a character all small-like.
i think i figured it out
i still place myself very labelless, somewhere between agender and genderfluid if you wanna get into it, but im fine just being "one o' them darned transgenders." however, i also am wanting to figure out What The Fuck is going on in Genderland. and i think i might have.
i like feminine things in a boy way. I want my character base to be masculine. i hate waist definition, i hate my tits, i want a boxy shape and a v line. but masculine things are so boring. sports make my joints hurt, i like wearing actual color, i like skirts and i like the idea of lots of jewelry and makeup, i like showing emotion. i want to be a boy in a dress, but i dont fully want to be a boy either. my sense of personal gender validity (definitely not the right words but close as i can get) is very tied to others perception of me. i want them to see me and think "boy in a skirt" or "what the hell is that." i think this is why once i get close enough with someone, i stop caring about what pronouns they use on me. i feel that their perception of my gender no longer matters, because they know me and they have been perceiving me many ways likely for a while.
i love when a stranger calls me a boy, or implies im a boy. i do not love when a stranger assumes im a girl. i do not care, however, how a close friend genders me, because there is no assuming left to be done. if someone who doesnt know me thinks im a boy, then i must come across as boy (usually young boy, but i will take what i can get.) if someone i do know genders me as she, well, whatever, they know The Bullshit. however, accidental misgendering still hurts (esp when things have been fine for like 2 years), because it feels like i am not Boy or Androgynous enough for them to remember the correct pronoun/pronoun set that i have provided them. feel free to treat my pronouns like okuri inu and fake a rest when you stumble, itll probably make me feel better.
(nobody who knows my tumblr and me irl needs to hear this pronoun nuance cause theyre great, my mother does need to know it but i wont tell her bc it might make her sad.)
still identifying predominantly with agender and genderfluid, but this was the Random Bullshit. i dont actually care much abt my naked body, i care more about my shape through clothes because that is how others perceive me. i do not like feeling my tits though, regardless of clothing. its just ahghh thats not supposed to BE THERE someone come get your skin bags of liquid fat OFF MY CHEST goddamn you (here we have the reason why i want top surgery but not bottom surgery, idc abt bottom surgery, no one is else gonna perceive that if i have anything to say abt it)
i got a binder a couple days ago so all my talking to myself has been about gender. also regrets regarding wearing a binder to a Very Toasty pride event. i got moth earrings tho so thats nice
riding the gender like a fucking skateboard (i dont know how to skateboard)
i used to be confused about how difficult it really was feign attraction or to not act on unrequited feelings; i mean, media makes it out to be such a big deal. i bury and fake emotions a lot, so i figured it couldnt be too different. then i was in a relationship where i faked romantic (and sexual tbh...) attraction out of guilt for the entirety of its duration (i did not last long before i couldnt even comfortably be around them). it was pure torture, and now i understand how hard it is to play-act love, and i assume its at least similarly difficult to bury attraction as it is to summon it.
anyways that was my reasoning for my aroaceness. cannot do that shit again lmao
this is also why sitting pretty hits hard to me. im no lesbian but i can understand the line "im barely able to love someone else without playing pretend" and how fucking hard that is.
There needs to be more trans representation in media, especially for trans men.
Overtime that I've seen multiple pieces of media, I've noticed that theres more media on trans women rather than trans men, even in media that has a lot of queer characters like heartstopper and I noticed this even more when researching what trans characters were canonically trans. And yes I know there is some trans male characters such as Viktor from the umbrella academy I just feel like there needs to be a bit more. Since there are a lot more for trans women rather than there are for trans men in general media.
This is coming from a trans man, thank you for your time. Have a nice day/night/morning/afternoon :3
<long rant incoming (sorry i have a lot of thoughts on this)>
i feel like trans men are also less known somehow. some people cannot COMPREHEND that they exist. "youll never be a woman" to anyone who says theyre trans plus people trying to make rules restricting bathrooms based on AGAB on the basis of "i dont want them in the bathroom with my wife/daughter/sister/mother" when that is going to get you fully transitioned men in the womens room as well (not even mentioning how it completely ignores the existence of intersex people).
also oftentimes, especially in anime that i have noticed, trans men will often detransition before the end of the anime/manga/what-have-you. this is likely because anime is often designed for the audience to be able to look at characters and go "hot woman ooh"
and when trans men are represented, theyre usually stereotyped, fetishized, or both.
(not to say trans women dont get stereotyped, fetishized, and poorly represented/underrepresented, thats just not what this post is about.)
stereotypes? theyre usually skinny, pale, effeminate. yes, trans men can be those things, but thats virtually all the representation. in relationships, theyre seen as the submissive one, in smut theyre on bottom. do straight trans men exist in media? i havent seen it. creators are pushing the gender roles that have been forced onto women onto trans man characters. please someone find me a media with a buff trans guy.
even if its not directly trans (like in omegaverse) the stereotyping and fetishization is so bad. in omegaverse, its actually incredibly heteronormative- dominant alpha, submissive omega, where the alpha takes the stereotypically masculine role and the omega takes the stereotypically feminine role. omegas anatomy is modeled very similarly to essentially a version of female anatomy that makes them more impregnable (i will not be explaining further because i cant do it concisely) even the males, and mlm omegaverse is often very heteronormative in the dynamics (and allo/amato normative too tbh) in a way that trans men are similarly stereotyped.
and its understood that straight men knowing about trans women through only porn is bad. we get that. why isnt it better understood that straight women also only knowing about trans men through porn (because it does exist, and i am counting mpreg/omegaverse here)is bad? they jerk it to pregnant men until it is an ACTUAL trans man who needs reproductive healthcare, and/or who is pregnant, but then they dont exist apparently.
because apparently trans men are fictional novelties for us (INCLUDING some lgbtq+) to use as goon material. because they dont exist, clearly, and if they do theyre clearly just good for their genitals. its a whole other section of transphobia/chasing, its damaging to actual trans men (because yes, media can affect real-world things, it does so CONSTANTLY) and yknow how transphobes love to say trans people just have a fetish? constantly fetishizing and sexualizing trans people is in no way helping that to stop. and they see it that way because transphobes consume the highest amount of trans porn.
basically, trans men dont get anything in terms of representation, and when they do its virtually only an uwu boy twink, which some trans men ARE, but it becomes a problem when all the trans men you get in media are uwu boy twinks. because the trans men characters i am talking about are made twinks because they are trans. being a twink/femboy/drag queen/dabbling in femininity/being feminine and being a trans man are neither mutually inclusive nor exclusive, and i am sick of seeing media that says trans men are feminine no matter what and society saying trans men arent really trans unless they always try to be as manly as possible. have you ever seen a trans bear in a show/book/movie/whatever? (if you have drop the title)
more trans men characters who are actually people, please.
maybe i cant fully speak on the matter (im genderqueer (i say agender or genderfluid cause the flags are better tho, nonbinary if i dont feel like explaining it all) and use any pronouns since i gave up on trying to figure it out) but trans misrepresentation and fetishization pisses me off, especially since a good portion of it relies on the underlying idea that "ok but well,, are they REALLY men?" which is transphobic. questioning whether trans men are really men is transphobia. if you design all your men hella beefy and your only twig is a trans guy bc theyre trans, that is a problem.
if more and better representation was in mainstream media, i feel like a lot of cissexism could be taken care of after long enough of it. if stuff was NORMALIZED, societal discrimination would not be prevalent.
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her name is Sique; she's the witch (essentially minor god) of bardic magic
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i was using that map and you are blocking my view you tiny fucker
i regularly forget the word wistful exists. why is this not in my main vocabulary.
if i were in solitary confinement genuinely id just wank
he came to me in a dream (like actually, i was half asleep and got the most vivid image of a beautifully belegged shark in my minds eye. he was blue btw if you were wondering)
they should make an exception for blahaj, i wanna stare into his eyes and say "youre a mackerel blahaj"
