stardust-silkys

"Everything is sex, except sex, which is power." Janelle Monae (Mostly SFW but still 18+) 40-something year old nonbinary AuDHD hypnoslut. Collared and owned by @ms-silk

[stardust-silkys]

Age: 50-something

Gender: Nonbinary, neuroqueer, possibly some agender elements

Sexuality: I’ve used the bisexual label for 30 years; pansexual also fits, as does T4T to some extent; I particularly have a soft spot for dominant femmes

Roles: I only submit to my Mistress @ms-silk but I do enjoy bottoming for others. I’m a masochist as well. I suspect I may explore switching in the future.

Kinks/ Fetishes: Primarily erotic hypnosis, although a bad experience a few years ago has led me to be more cautious with this now. Also I love impact and have recently started getting into rope. I enjoy intense sensations.

Other Things About Me: I’m a “201 bottom” (i.e., not for newbies) because of my trauma history, chronic pain, and neurodivergence. I also keep my vanilla life, especially my professional life, *very* separate and compartmentalized from my kink life. I use a pseudonym on all my profiles wherever I’m open about my kink interests. But I’m as likely to share about non-kink related interests, such as social justice, entertainment and cute animals, in those accounts too.

Where else you can find me:

FetLife: silkys_stardust

Discord: silkys_stardust

Facebook: Kitty Kintsugi

[enchantress-arc]

You should become a vampire woman's thrall today!

Benefits-

Bliss!

No more difficult decision making!

Mindless obedience!

Live in a castle without having to pay rent!

Lots of other thralls to use and be used by!

No more job searching or need to keep employment, just help the other thralls clean and take care of mistress!

Lots of hugs and kisses and cuddles and bites on the neck!

Lots of cute new clothes that show off how beautiful and obedient you are!

The pleasure of getting to service mistress, and if you're especially good, even getting to feel her please you! How could you possibly refuse? (You can't)

What do you have to lose besides-

Just a tiny bit of blood, you'll be fine without it anyway.

Your free will, not that you really wanted to keep it in the first place.

So why wait? Be a good little toy, and become a thrall today!

[stardust-silkys]

Yes please

[misscammiedawn]

One thing to remember about hypnosis is that it is a matter of following along and remaining focused.

Much of the stereotypical concepts such as eye fixations, reacting to the word 'sleep' and even the concept of 'down' work because we expect them to work.

That is to say, we have been culturally programmed to understand certain ideas and concepts as hypnotic and as being correct while following along in hypnosis.

We get drifty and floaty, we get sleepy and soft, we drift down and deep. We do this because it is what people do, it is understood.

But it is quite possible and simple to change the tempo and experiment with the methods, feelings and language. Instead of going down, deep into your mind, falling inwards... why not attempt to allow your thoughts to just start floating out of your mind, dissociating and yet tethered to the hypnotist's words, being drawn out of your mind and into my words.

Instead of letting yourself become loose and limp and docile and placid, which are all lovely things for a hypnotee to be, why not become focused, engaged, finding that every part of your mind and body is locked in and guided?

Hypnosis is all about expectations and trust, about focus and guided dissociation.

Experiment. It's fun and may lead to some experiences way off of the beaten path.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost

The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.

The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.

The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.

The “get stuff done while you wait” method.

The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.

The “break the task into smaller steps” method.

The “treat yourself like a pet” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.

The “put on a persona” method.

The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.

The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.

The “wait for a trigger” method.

The “do it for your future self” method.

The “might as well” method.

The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.

The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.

The “make it easy” method.

The “junebugging” method.

The “just show up” method.

The “accept when you need help” method.

The “make it into a game” method.

The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.

The “trick yourself” method.

The “break it into even smaller steps” method.

The “let go of should” method.

The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.

The “fork theory” method.

The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.

[kurai-hono-blog]

This is the sacred texts, this is the holy grail.

[gendercensus]

The 2024 Gender Census is now open!

[ Link to survey ]

The 11th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th June 2024.

It’s short and easy, about 5 minutes probably.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful - it’s what helped us get 40,000 responses last year.

Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com

The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.

For the curious, you can also spy on some graphs and demographic data for the incoming responses here.

Thank you so much!

[ Link to survey ]

Image credit: Malachite and rhodochrosite.

[stardust-silkys]

I had no idea until today that this exists. I’m completing it yearly

[spiraledfaun]

Bright's Picrew Hell

NON-COMMERCIAL, PRIVATE USE ONLY !! You MAY NOT profit off of this Picrew, use it for branding or advertising, use as NFT, trace over, clai

Hey we should use this to make hypnohorny avatars! here's mine

[mas-o-kissed]

hes having fun

[caspianhypno]

Oh i wonder what hes listeing to.

[hypnoboypussy]

New Icon incoming~ looks like they're a little blissed out listening to their favorite track again...

[toyintrance]

What's that, puppet boy?

[stardust-silkys]

🔥

[misscammiedawn]

Sometimes I get lazy and just rely on triggers and tricks to hypnotize a partner.

Oh... I know... sometimes it can feel so good to have a slow and intentional induction where I gently guide you down and let you just surrender to a blissful state of calm and comfortable reverie. I do so enjoy watching the way a wonderful trance partner's expression slowly dips and their muscles go slack and they just let gravity take over... the way that every single word impacts them more and more and they let go and become open and empty and blank for me.

Yes, the slow and gradual descent into trance is actually quite lovely. Why would I deprive myself of such a treat just because I don't wish to put in any effort?

...hmm...

Hypnotize yourself for me.

Oh I am deadly serious. Speak the words, watch my eyes, take yourself into a gradual state of trance. Don't rush it. Savor every moment of serene submission. Maybe I'll even be nice enough to add a few words of encouragement in there. "That's right", "You're doing so well", "Going so deep aren't you?"

Go ahead. I'll just sit back and watch as you start to slip and stumble through your words. As you start to sag and slur. As your words start to become gentle and docile and tame.

I'll be watching closely. So make it entertaining for me, my dear.

[stardust-silkys]

Craving this

[hypnepenthe]

helpful partners always love to lend a hand 🤚 🌀

based on an old post from hypnoticdom1 because it’s hot af and I can’t get it out of my head 🥵

[stardust-silkys]

😵‍💫🔥

[beloved-bug]

bdsm test worried - please read

Okay, so because I got bored I started the BDSM test again I did about two years ago to see if anything had changed. I’m finding as I go through it that some questions are a little strange because they don’t seem to serve any purpose in determining what BDSM orientation a person has, and I’m pretty sure they weren’t there last time I took this test. 

Now, please indulge me when you read this because I wouldn’t write it if I weren’t worried. I know this may seem far-fetched. I understand if you may think I’m trying to kick up a fuss, all I can say is: please that aside for a moment and take a moment to read this as I’m truly worried that someone is possibly scouting/luring vulnerable girls in our community and I would appreciate your input in discerning whether I’m right to be concerned or not. 

I think some of these questions don’t have a whole lot to do with orientation, but are there specifically to weed out young, vulnerable girls who would be ready and willing to leave their home behind. I know, I know, big statement, and to the untrained eye BDSM tests can come across iffy but … I’m not (entirely) untrained and my alarm bells are ringing. I wonder if it’s at all possible that this website is run by Charles Michael Segaloff/Michael Makai, or someone like him, and if they’re looking for their next victim. If you remember, Michael Makai ran a website with several BDSM tests, one of them I’m pretty sure led to this very BDSM test that I was taking, just back then it said bdsmtest.com instead of .org. I think this is the same test. I’ve checked his old website and unsurprisingly, since Segaloff is either still standing trial, or has been convicted by now, the links formerly leading to his tests haven’t been working, but this test looks exactly like the old one to me. Do not google the Segaloff stuff if you’re easily triggered, this is a known sex offender who’s MO was exactly this. 

Please would you peeps have a look and give some input? I really think something’s wrong. I’ve made screenshots along the way and saved them if needed. 

This is sort of a ‘mark how well this applies test’ so all questions are in first person. I’ve put them under different headers for clarity:

Possible fishing questions:

‘I like to feel that I’m older/(mentally) stronger/bigger/further in life … than my partner.’ - ok, yes seeming older may on the surface seem like a dominant trait, but .. I think it’s a buffer question for the one following a few questions later:

‘I like to feel that my partner is older/(mentally) stronger/bigger/further in life … than me.’ - this could be unnecessary question (masking as an age-play question) but whichever it is, it’s also an excellent question to fish for young girls who would be open to meeting an older man.

‘I feel like I would need to find someone to guide me around in this whole kink/BDSM thing.’If you click ‘absolutely agree’ (which I did only to see what happens because I have a hunch at this point) a box pops up under the question with the text ‘Completely optionally, enter your email address if you would like us to help you find someone (will only be used sporadically to inform you about major new kink/BDSM projects related to this question):’ followed by a white box to enter your e-mail address. This concerned me because it A. singles out those who are not taken and B. invites them to contact whoever is behind the website for guidance. This singles out those who are impressionable, inexperienced, young, and alone. 

‘I currently have nobody I can talk to about my darkest fantasies, and would love to find someone to talk to.’If you click ‘absolutely agree’ (which I did again for the same reason) the same box pops up under the question with the text ‘optionally, enter your email address if you would like us to inform you [sic] opportunities related to this question (will only used sporadically to inform you about major new kink/BDSM projects related to this question):’ followed by a white box to enter your e-mail address. This singles out those who are alone, lonely or may feel misunderstood, all easy targets, and invites them into leaving their contact details. 

‘Assuming I was single, I would like to join an existing couple’s or polygroup’s relationship for sexual and/or emotional purposes’ - that could’ve easily been phrased as ‘I consider myself polyamorous/am interested in etc’ this phrasing just makes it sounds like someone’s .. fishing? 

‘I want to meet more like-minded kinky people, and am willing to put effort in that.’ same as before -> Optionally, enter your email address (will only be used to inform you about major new kink/BDSM projects related to this question): followed by white box for email. - ok could be completely innocent, but in context? Girls eager to please (’effort into it’) and actively looking for contact are singled out here. 

‘I have a thing for large age differences in sexual encounters or relationships’ - woah woah woah, in real DD/lg that is NOT a thing. I should know, I identify as a Little. This can easily mask as an ageplay question, I don’t know enough about that but I’m pretty sure it’s age PLAY meaning the actual biological age difference is irrelevant. This is actively asking who’s up for large age difference relationships which the BDSM community at large continually warns against because it puts the younger party power-wise at a disadvantage (and not in the kinky consensual way).

‘I would be willing to leave everything I have behind, to live the BDSM-life of my dreams’ - What. The. Actual. Fuck? *alarm bells* 

Other ways to try and get email addresses:

‘If I felt a project or website contributed significantly to the BDSM community as a whole, I would be willing to make significant financial donations to it.’ - ok .. so this makes me submissive or an easy target? Unsurprisingly, if you click ‘absolutely agree’ (I’m ticking every damned box I see) the same box pops up under the question with the text ‘Completely optionally, enter your email address if we can sporadically email you about relevant projects that could use your contribution):’ followed by a white box to enter your e-mail address. - I mean, fair enough I guess, but why put it in the test.

‘If a new awesome kink or BDSM project was launched, I would like to be kept up to date.’ again Optionally, enter your email address (will only be used for emails related to this question). Followed by a white box. - on its own, not much suspicious, in conjunction with the other questions, seems like just another way to fish for contact details in case any questions of interest are answered in the affirmative.

‘I would like to work myself on a new BDSM-related project and I have ideas for such [sic] project (or already have it) or I would like to actively help out with an existing project. Again -> Optionally, enter your email address if you would like us to ask for your project interests and put you in contact with people with similar project interests to cooperate with (we will not give out your email address). followed by a white box.  

Why I’m worried:

Aside from an entertaining BDSM test, the test also figures out the following and continually prompts for an email address: 

whether someone is female (at the beginning of the test), 

whether they’re open to/attracted to/or specifically into older figures. This is worrying to me in conjunction with the following:

Open to and feels in need of guidance. This singles out those who are inexperienced in life and at BDSM, possibly insecure, too trusting and definitely impressionable. 

Open to moving in with a polyamorous couple. I have no idea how this serves as anything other than a baiting question. This could’ve been phrased 5 different ways.  

Willing to leave everything behind and move to ‘their perfect BDSM life’ -if you haven’t read the Segaloff stuff, this is to a T what Segaloff did to the underage girl-, this has nothing to do with what orientation you are and everything to do with whether you have: a strong social circle, are protected by friends and family, anyone would miss you if you were gone or it’s likely you’d be able and willing to find a plausible excuse to leave. I’m creeped out because this is exactly what Segaloff did last time.

There’s probably more but it’s almost bedtime and I’m gonna get in trouble if I don’t get ready. I know it’s a long post, and I probably rambled, I’m on a lot of painkillers so sorry about that and thank you for reading. If the test is yours and this is not your intention, I’m truly sorry for doing this, but in that case I’m sure you’ll understand with the recent MM stuff why I was worried, and I’ll happily publicly apologise as many times as needed. 

I’m tagging some people who are vastly more knowledgeable than me. If I’ve tagged you and not spoken to you before, please pardon the intrusion but I very much respect your knowledge and experience and could use your input on this. If I haven’t tagged you and you think I should, I probably thought I may not have been welcome. I’m so sorry if this is a false alarm but I’d rather be wrong than have something go wrong. I’m gonna tag for possible triggers, just in case.

@ddy-dragon, @iamyourdom, @enslavedwhore, @subduedlioness, @icandolotsofthingsmaster, @lovemysub, @belovedsangi, @toodomforyou, @mistressmg, @diaryof-alittleswitch, @subgirlygirl, @zuzusumisita, @dwpreturns

P.s.

@ddy-dragon checked and the domain is registered to a Dutch webhosting company, which means that I can’t get any information as to who owns it or who’s behind it. At least not right now, of course I can try tomorrow during business hours.

[zuzusumisita-blog]

Segaloff accepted a plea deal in April 2016 where he plead guilty of sending explicit material to a minor. This is a felony and he’ll receive up to 2 years in jail, a $250k fine, and must RE-register as a sex offender. (He was already convicted of sexual crimes in Washington in 2003.)

He was not convicted of the higher crimes of traveling with intent to engage in illicit sexual conduct with a juvenile, kidnapping a juvenile, sex trafficking of a juvenile and enticement of a juvenile, because the age of consent in New York is 17 and in Oklahoma is 16. The girl he conned into following him was 17 at the time she left. Apparently pornography cannot be sent through the US Postal Service to anyone under the age of 18 however.

As for the questions in this test, I could argue that this was simply poorly crafted as a rip off from a better test UNTIL the “large age range difference” question AND the “would you leave everything behind” question. HUGE RED FLAGS HERE. I don’t care if it’s a questionnaire about wanting to be a baker - “Are you willing to leave *everything* behind to live the baker’s life of your dreams” would set off alarm bells for me too.

And the email requests are highly suspicious. Why not just ask for an email address at the end, once, if you’re interested in receiving more information. Why ask repeatedly, and for each specific question? Very leading.

[subduedlioness-deactivated20180]

Agreed. Tons of red flags here. Scary.

[dreaming-artemis]

I haven’t been a part of the scene for too long, but this feels wrong and designed to cull vulnerable individuals. Even if everything was meant innocently (a long stretch), someone new taking this test might get the idea that those traits are what make a good sub/bottom/little/other. And that is dangerous as well.

[spicenwolf]

Please re post and distribute widely - predator alert?

The writer has made a very careful analysis of what appears to be a phishing site masquerading as a “BDSM” test designed to capture e-mail details of young women who are potentially vulnerable to manipulation of older men. The writer says she has limited experience, but my sense of the predatory few, and the vulnerability of young submissive says to me that this analysis is ps pot on, and deeply concerning.

Perhaps she is wrong, but why there are far too many ominous whys to be easily set aside. So - how does one go about a dressing such an issue? Well, I’m starting by reposting, and seeing if there are not still wiser folks who can move this concern forward.

Please re post.

[mistressmg]

Absolutely too many red flags! These questions, and requests for private information make it too easy to prey on the vulnerable!!

PSA - NEVER PROVIDE PRIVATE INFORMATION AND/OR PERSONAL CONTACT INFO TO UNKNOWN SOURCES, EVER!

[wakewithgiggli]

The OP’s post is very persuasive. This does seem very suspicious.

[stardust-silkys]

Crumbs

[stardust-silkys]

A Real Person

When I first started playing with @ms-silk 6 years ago, in our kink and hypnosis scenes, we played a lot with degradation. I found it incredibly sexy, the fantasy of being a thing to be used.

Then after we’d been together a year or two, my trauma history began surfacing. In my sexual traumas as a young adult, I actually had been used, as if I wasn’t a person. I also realized my family had only related to me in terms of their expectations of me for most of my life. They punished me during the times I went against those expectations, which were frequent, for my unrecognized autistic self.

When I started processing those traumas in therapy, I stopped enjoying many kinds of degradation and objectification play with @ms-silk. It felt too painfully similar to my own perception that I wasn’t a person. @ms-silk and I continued some play in which I was a toy or doll, but I was a treasured toy or doll.

Now I’ve been in trauma therapy several years. Recently I’ve been trying several types of trauma treatment, including Neurofeedback and trauma-focused hypnotherapy.

And now I have a new play partner, Dollmaker, a hypnofetishist like myself. After years of developing autonomy and agency in hypnosis play with @ms-silk, I’m finally able to trust myself to exercise that autonomy as needed with Dollmaker.

Last night, in our hypnosis play, Dollmaker added elements of degradation. For a while, we had been playing with fantasies of me as his doll, and we’d been doing some bimbo (or the nonbinary version, “thembo”) play.

But last night he leveled up the degradation by giving me a mantra saying I’m “just tits and holes.” Repeating that made me so aroused.

After we finished playing and Dollmaker “logged out” (the hypnotic demarcation of ending a play session), we talked about it. I told him how significant it was that I was able to enjoy that kind of play again. Dollmaker reassured me during our aftercare that I am indeed a whole, vital person.

Sometimes in my healing journey, I’m not able to appreciate my healing and growth. But being able to enjoy degradation again is such a turning point. It’s hot because it is indeed a fantasy. I am indeed a whole, complex person.

[caoten]

wanna hear a wild story? my brother’s history professor is closing in on 80 and basically lives at the university. one night my brother visited him for a meeting, and it came up that my brother was gonna be performing as a court jester at the castle the following day. and his professor busts out: “ah, that reminds me of my youth!”

he then proceeded to tell the tale of when he and his friends went backpacking to greece back in their early 20s. then one day they found themselves completely penniless. so they decided that the only reasonable thing to do was to set up acrobatic shows in skimpy outfits on the beach at day, and then drink up the money at night.

after a week or so they gained some traction, and a gang of young greek men walked up to them like “hey y’all are cool as hell, can we join y’all for drinks tonight?” and my brother’s professor was like “of course! y’all have to wear these revealing outfits and do somersaults with us tho” and the greek gang said “sounds dope. y’all are invited to live with us for however long y’all want.”

anyhow, they proceeded to live like this for the better part of 3 months, doing shows, drinking, and sleeping at the greek gang’s apartment. but after a while they decided enough was enough, and said thank you for everything, but we’re going back to sweden now. and the greeks said “sure! love y’all have a safe trip xx”

half a year later my brother’s professor gets contacted by the greek police. they ask him about the months they spent in greece, and then informs him that their greek friends have been convicted of serial homicide and robbery. that the group of young greek men had joined up with several tourist groups for several years “for drinks”, and then killed and robbed them all, terrorising the beach city for several years. with one exception, of course, because “this one group of swedish acrobats in slutty strongman suits were just ‘so damn nice’”.

and that’s the story of how one swedish history university professor survived sharing a flat with a group of serial killers for several months by performing acrobatics in slutty outfits on the beach. moral of the story? be kind of heart, thicc of ass.

[azem-ghale]

[stardust-silkys]

Wild story

[stardust-silkys]

I have some wonderful news to share: I have a new hypnokinky play partner! He lives in my area too, and I had actual in person hypnosis play with him at my house yesterday! He also gets along great with my wife/ Mistress. Also, he’s a lifelong hypno fetishist like myself. The three of us (him, my wife/ Mistress and me) had such an amazing time, and we have plans to get together and play again soon. I’m *very* happy about this 🥰

[stardust-silkys]

Because my mom died a few months ago, I’ve been thinking about her a lot lately. She wasn’t very loving to me, behind closed doors. In fact, since she’s been gone, or really since her dementia became noticeable, my dad and my sister have been nicer to me than ever before.

My first thought was that this was a reflection of how my mom treated me. I thought, maybe my sister and dad wanted to be nicer to me, but my mom somehow gave them the message they weren’t allowed to treat me better. Or maybe without her constant criticism of me, they could give me the benefit of the doubt. Another hypothesis I had is that her absence destabilized their dynamic just enough for change to happen.

And then I remembered something from my job: dementia probably starts long before anyone notices. Five years ago, I started setting extremely firm boundaries with my family, as a result of needing time and distance (emotional as well as geographic) for healing and recovery, as I started trauma therapy for myself.

Actually, at that time 5 years ago, I had tried to give them the opportunity to be part of my healing, when I told them in an email that I had started trauma therapy to heal from experiences in my childhood. Their reaction was complete silence. I participated in intensive outpatient treatment because of my anguish and despair about that silence, which almost killed me. Anyway, those events led me to be estranged from my family for several years.

When I reconnected with my dad and my sister this past Christmas, due to my mom’s dementia and other illnesses, my sister in particular took responsibility for her role in my family trauma. Later, when I spent time with her and my dad after my mom’s death, he didn’t deny or argue with me when we discussed my experiences growing up. I think both my sister and my dad learned and grew during my years of estrangement from them. It was a wake up call for them, of sorts.

But if my mom’s dementia had already subtly started taking hold of her 5 years ago, then she maybe she couldn’t have learned and grown the way my dad and sister did.

Because people with dementia *can’t* learn anything new. That’s how dementia works. That’s a central fact of dementia that is so devastating. In fact, the recent memories and skills start to erode, at first very gradually, then very quickly at some later point, until what’s left is a confusing jumble of mostly older memories.

I’m guessing that my mom probably wasn’t capable of doing the repair work for our relationship for some time.

This is a heartbreaking realization. I’m also not enough of an expert on dementia to know if this is accurate. (I’m not a neuropsychologist; I work with many people with dementia and their caregivers in my job.) But it does give me a little measure of peace in some way. It’s one more reason to not beat myself up over my mom and I not healing our relationship before her death - she probably wasn’t able to do her part in that. Relational healing isn’t one sided.

Is this forgiveness? Maybe. I’m *very* against the conventional, coerced idea of forgiveness which is a prime example of spiritual bypassing. But sometimes forgiveness just happens, after some other important stuff (such as feeling valid anger and grief).

[ayatou]

the strawhats & their dreams

[stardust-silkys]

My wife and I are at Urgent Care to get a COVID test for a kink event tonight. (Everyone in attendance has to show evidence of a negative COVID test.)

The tech doing the vitals was very coercive when I declined to be weighed. (I’ve been declining to be weighed for several years in medical appointments, because I oppose weight stigma in healthcare.)

He also kept misgendering me, calling me “ma’am” after I asked him to stop. (When I told him that I prefer not to call me “ma’am,” he called me “sir” rather than simply asking me my pronouns or preferred honorific. My wife jumped in and explained I’m nonbinary. Even then, he didn’t ask my pronouns.)

I ended up stepping on the scale to be weighed, facing away from the reading, because he wouldn’t stop insisting that I need to be weighed - “That’s our rule, ma’am.”

I feel violated. “No means no” should apply to healthcare, too. And WTF does weight have to do with a 🤬ing COVID test, anyway?

[stardust-silkys]

I just changed my scene name from silkys-kitten to silkys-stardust.

[stardust-silkys]

@ms-silk and I are doing the Kink Between the Lines virtual con this weekend, then GWNN Bash in a few days, July 20-23. Very busy with kink-related stuff.