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Minjae - '97 - INFP - Multifandom mom

[fyjjong]

inspired (day i / day ii) ♡ 171209 © p. reason (do not edit or remove logo)

[jaybleep]

in this house we send loving vibes to bambam 25/8 until he has to draw his card bc he’s in so much stress on top of everything and deserves all the support and positivity in the world i hope he’s eating and warm rn

[piss-bong]

[wlw]

im such an affectionate mutual….i just want all of my mutuals to know I love them….like I could not know a thing abt u and id be like wow…ur doing great sweetie!!! i love u!!!!

[kingharlevigilante-deactivated2]

Y'all really gotta stop throwing ya boyfriend’s video game systems in pools and cuttin up they shoes and lighting they clothes on fire just because you mad or you want his attention bc if he responded by throwing them $100 eyeshadow palettes in the pool or cuttin up a brand new lace wig you gon be pissed as hell, as you should be. It’s not cute, it’s abusive. And you need to fuckin stop

[luckycavy117]

Say it louder for the parents who think it’s okay to destroy their kids stuff as retaliation for disrespect

[bambamisaboomyinmypants]

I’VE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR AGES

[acestatic]

Choice culture is stanning 3 groups bc a.c.e had to be That Good and make it to top 9 in two survival shows

[donghunsflower]

2 real.

[wonnhao]

WELCOME BACK WE’VE MISSED YOU ♡

[thexfiles]

things: *get worse*

me: things can only get better from here

things: *get worse*

me: THings.. can ony… get ebbbetter…f rom.. Here

[drunkelfanastasia]

The things I realised or accepted after getting into k-pop/asian music:

music has no barriers 

american hip-hop is not the only best

hot pants, chokers, crop tops, make-up, earrings, painted nails on guys are not strange/feminine but rather hot 

guys showing even a bit of skin are precious 

concepts are important in music videos, it’s not just booty shaking

asian fashion is the most interesting and inspiring thing in the world

they all don’t look the same

even if you thought groups don’t need so many people now you understand your faves wouldn’t be the same without even one member

k-pop is not only pop, there are a lot of genres in it

that girl really had a reason to like that particular asian boy

I can learn a lot of names if I try to 

liking older/younger people for their talent is not weird

immature haters exist everywhere

fan wars exist everywhere

body shaming exist everywhere

depression and suicides exist everywhere

[dexfiles]

here is a star for everyone who’s not feeling their best today (🌟)

[peachtrick-deactivated20160422]

to all the 13 year old girls that follow me

if you think her skirt is cute, tell her

the guy that you have a crush on probably doesn’t take enough showers

liking 1D or taylor swift isn’t embarrassing. dont hide it

draw draw draw! you’ll be happy to have the skill later on

do your homework it’ll help with stress

when you’re overwhelmed you should run. it makes you feel better

don’t start cutting no matter how afraid you are

if that shirt doesn’t fit you it doesn’t matter

hug the people you love

know that your life is weird right now and it will get better

[onlytimewill-kill-deactivated20]

reblogging because I wish someone told me this when I was 13

[hannfps]

- don’t talk shit about people - if you wanna experiment with your hair/makeup go for it, find what suits you. - if you start to feel sad alot, tell your parents/friends talk about it - be the best you can be - learn to love yourself 

[tinyryder]

-don’t be embarrassed of anything you like. -clothes from Hollister and Abercrombie and Fitch only fit a certain type of body. Don’t let their narrow-mindedness make you cry in the dressing room -don’t starve yourself. Please don’t. -there’s a reason you don’t look like people in magazines and on TV. You look like you and that’s wonderful.

[will-ansmeer]

-Be yourself, no matter what other people say -Don’t start smoking or drinking alcohol, IT’S NOT COOL -Don’t waste time on judging others

[moritzfer-deactivated20160621]

Thats not only for the 13 years old!

[femme-plant-mom]

- don’t stay friends with someone who makes you feel shitty inside

- don’t be afraid to be friends with people in different grades

- your worth is not defined by what you can afford

- do what you love as often as you can, because that’s how you get better

- forgive yourself

[megalunalexi-aesthetic]

- DON’T TALK SHIT ABOUT PEOPLE DON’T DO IT JUST DON’T

[letitrainathousandflames-archive]

- your body is yours and only you can decide who’s allowed to touch you

[courtjester69420]

- if you dont fit in with others that totally fine and no one should shame you for being you 

[alterouspotato-archive]

-  You don’t have to stop being happy and bubbly to be worth taking seriously.

[crimindsaspe]

to all my small beans💕

[starlightmartina]

-Friends often leave, that’s okay and you will find someone that’s better for you -Don’t be embarrassed of wearing pink or doing feminine things, it doesn’t make you weak -If you like something and it makes you feel good, don’t make other’s people’s judgments influence you

[shortreb]

- Do what makes you happy.

[yocruz-deactivated20180409]

- you are fertile ground my friend. You are meant to grow.

-Accept yourself, claim yourself! Bc no one else will, you’ve got you in the end beginning and in between.

-Be open minded

-Cry! Cry! If you need to!

-You yourself are LOVE!!

-Live life the way you want to live it.

-cut your hair if you want! Who cares anyways! You’ll love it I promise!

-Your flaws are what makes you perfect.

-“That’s ok, it be like that sometimes”.

-Never apologize for who you are and for who you’re not.

-Keep journals, so that when you’re older you can look back on the times you were so happy, or so sad. Memories to be cherished. So you can see how far you’ve come.

-If you want love, then you must understand that you yourself ARE LOVE.

-Appreciate the people you have in your life.

-say this “ I respect myself too much to know and understand that I do not need this negativity in my life right now” and walk away, people come and go. Feelings are temporary if you want them to be.

-You’re here for a reason. Don’t sell yourself short.

-Your mind is like a forest and your heart a tear stained meadow- and you are no failure.

💛☮️💛☮️💛☮️🌸🌻🌸🌻🌸🌻

-Remember you’re human too, and you must take care of yourself too. Taking time for yourself doesn’t make you a selfish person, makes you understanding.

-you’re loved, & will be loved no matter what

[sex-dollx]

And if you’re thirteen on my blog… please please please get help and block me

[itsyourmomentt]

- sometimes friendships fade and that’s okay. the pain will also fade and you will heal.

- you will find supportive people some day even if you don’t right now. hang on until then & know that you are enough

- accept yourself for you are and know that you are worth it regardless of whether or not someone doesn’t feel that way about you

- your worth is not defined by other people

- sleep!!! no one is really worth wrecking your sleep schedule over

- don’t give up on doing the things you love even if people tell you you aren’t perfect at it or it’s a waste of time

[sillysmallsilkworm]

- Your parents aren’t always right. They’re literally just two people who had sex. But still respect their opinions. They were teens once too.

[smallerandsmaller1]

- remember that 13 is still really young! You’re just getting started. Don’t feel like you have to grow up too fast. It doesn’t matter if your friends are getting boyfriends or shaving or wearing makeup, if you don’t want to you don’t have to.

-it’s totally okay to still be a kid sometimes. It’s okay to sleep with a stuffed animal and dress up for fun and play pretend with your sister. It’s ok to be a kid because you are one!!!

-and if you want to do both, you can! Just because you wear mascara doesn’t mean you can’t still sleep with your childhood blanket. Grow at your own pace and never let someone tell you you’re doing it too fast or slow.

[sunrisepisces]

- don’t waste your time trying to impress boys who don’t care about you. Make yourself happy and someone will love you for you soon enough.

[nikey-no-likey]

- take care of yourself if you’re feeling down, not lying in bed all day with netflix, eat some fruit, take a walk and drink water

[byeonqkwan]

!!

I don’t know if there’s a lot of people in this fandom who’s not used to being on tumblr or something like that, and that’s why I’ll say this! It is not okay to repost other people’s gifs! I repeat DO NOT REPOST OTHER PEOPLE’S GIFS. 

What is reposting gifs?  It is when you find a gif on the internet (google, tumblr, twitter etc.) and post it if you haven’t made it yourself. Some people will give you permission to post it, and if you ask someone and they say yes, then it’s fine to post it with credit. Otherwise? It’s not okay to post other people’s gifs (or fanarts or graphics or anything) 

Why is reposting bad?  Someone used their time to make whatever you reposted. Someone invested their time in making a gifset or a fanart or something like that. It sucks to see others get recognized for something you made.

Why am I saying this now?  Because I’ve seen my gifs reposted on here, and hence it might have happened to other people too. 

If I see my gifs reposted I’ll ask you to take them down. 

If you have any questions feel free to ask!

[byeonqkwan]

I’d like to add, that it’s also reposting if you use them as reacting pics or in a selfie tag! It’s also reposting even if there’s a watermark! Tumblr has a feature to search for a gif. USE THAT!

[vethox]

I’m constantly torn between “if it’s meant to be, it will be” and “if you want it, go and get it.”

[i-peed-so-hard-i-laughed-deacti]

“if it’s meant to be, it will be” - friendships, relationships, people in general coming into your life, dealing with rejection

“if you want it, go get it” - your goals, aspirations, work and work ethic, changing your life (diet, exercise, hobbies, political views, opinions)

[cwote]

^this seemed important

[meangirlnurse]

if you’re a Youth and you’re reading this i just wanna discourage you from like….imitating the culture on this site too completely and building your whole worldview through the lens you’re finding here. just. be cautious be careful be critical

[dhauwjwncjsiwnxn]

finding out the heights of your internet friends is always the weirdest thing

[crutchie-morris]

reblog this with your height in the tags then we’ll all know

[danmangan]

things that are enjoyable:

showers

things that are not enjoyable:

getting in the shower

getting out of the shower

[sanhapup]

shots fired 👀