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Doodlesssss

“It is good to love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is well done.”

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Almond Blossom by Vincent van Gogh

a good thing to do for your friends with anxiety disorders: if you have a question you need to ask them or something you need to tell them, explain the subject of the question/the statement in the same message as your opening one!

so basically: instead of saying “can i ask you a question?” and sending just that (which, as a person with an anxiety disorder, makes my anxiety go into hyperdrive) go “can i ask you a question about ___?”

it’s a little thing but honestly few things make me anxious like “i have a question for you” or “there’s something i need to tell you” without immediate explanation. thanks!

briedoof

“call me, nothing is wrong, just wanna talk on the phone” would be so much better than “Call me.”

endlace

Actually please to all of this please.

awkwardprincessally

YES PLEASE.

thecheshirecass-deactivated2018

YES THIS OK????? Like I have trained my husband to say “nothing bad, I just need to call you because it’s too much to type.” It helps SO MUCH. Just let me prepare myself, because I guarantee my imagination will take me to much much darker places.

revanchistsuperstar

Might I add, if someone with anxiety has just said something to you that’s a lot to process, and you need some time to think about what to say in response, please consider a quick “I’m not ignoring you, I need to think about what to say and I don’t want to say the wrong thing.”

Because that definitely saves your friend with anxiety a lot of strife and assuming they’ve ruined your friendship forever. Nothing is crueler than a “Seen 2:25pm” when it’s 10am the next day and you’re waiting on a reply to a huge confession.

howto-joelheyman

Normally I don’t acknowledge my anxiety very much but to any of my friends this would genuinely be helpful. Thanks

thatworldinverted

Bonus: even if you don’t struggle with anxiety, this can really help cut down on miscommunication caused by text-monotone! My roommate and I use these a lot to keep from accidentally getting into arguments.

starryeyes-starrynight

Along with this is dont text someone just their name and then nothing else. That sends me into such a panic waiting for a reply and its never something serious but it worries me so much just say hey or 'name guess what' or something along those lines

#just my name actually sends me stomach turning

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Eric Trine

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lobbygrl

Cypresses Vincent van Gogh, 1889

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larosederenoir

Les Nymphèas de Monet.

sa2ha

I love grandma activities… sleeping early, drinking tea, knitting, buying ugly sweaters and tacky clothing, gardening, feeding all the neighbourhood cats, sewing… Im all abt that!