Nothing about you changes when you have sex. Virginity is a concept that was created to control and to shame. The hiemen (or your “cherry”) doesn’t even break. Most women are born with one partially open already, and most girls end up tearing it all the way open while riding a bike or stretching.
Misinformation like that comes along with the concept of virginity. Think about how the “cherry” is known popularly now. It’s a fake concept intended to make it seem like you lose something or damage something after you have sex. They talk about the heimen like it’s your gift wrapping, like it belongs to someone else.
Virginity is crucial to the church and fear mongering their younger goers. It creates the most basic foundation for losing body autonomy and staying uneducated about sex.
Everything about the idea of virginity is man made and intensely capitalized by the church. Like everything else the church does.
YOU DO NOT LOSE WORTH IF YOU HAVE SEX.
NOBODY STEALS ANYTHING FROM YOU IN CONSENSUAL SEX.
IT IS CRUCIAL TO LEARN ABOUT SEX BEFORE YOU HAVE IT.
We need to stop making sex such a scandal.
And IF YOU HAVENT NOTICED
12 YEAR OLDS MASTURBATE TOO.
We are LITERALLY TRAUMATIZING pre-teens, teens, and young adults into thinking their normal, HUMAN needs are shameful and wrong.
Stop letting a system that is famously full of shit and misogyny tell you about your body. They are fucking lying, and they want to make you believe what they want so they can hold the power.
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