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I am a huge fan of retiring to my quarters
In this economy you'll be lucky to retire to your nickels
On an individual level, I genuinely do not care if or why someone takes a glp-1. Seriously. I have no requirements for what other people's bodies should be or what they should be doing with those bodies. Frankly, it bores me and I have no interest in that part of your existence.
On a larger, societal, systemic scale I have a tremendous issue with the way the general "we" are talking about weight, fat people, and health now that we've entered the GLP-1 era of medical history.
I care a lot about people going around saying that there's no reason every fat person in the world shouldn't be on a GLP-1 until they're an "acceptable" weight when honestly? Our idea of an "acceptable weight" is less scientific than you'd think.
I care a lot about GLP-1's turning into the new requirement for medical care, much in the way bariatric surgery has often been. Because anesthesia is apparently too dangerous if you need a knee replacement but perfectly safe if it's for weight loss surgery.
I care a lot about people acting as if you're an irrational, anti-science fool to have any criticism or caution regarding GLP-1s and being deeply wary of people calling it a "miracle drug". Especially those of us who have been around for every new wave of miraculous cures for the existence of fat people and seen what happens down the line.
I care a lot about the fact that apparently we no longer need to question whether weight loss is, in and of itself, the cure to all that ails us or if maybe losing weight won't fix your entire life and guarantee you'll live a hundred years.
I'm walking around in a world where I'm bombarded by ads like these on and offline. Being told it's about health, but here's the sales pitch:
[Image: An ad for Wegovy (semaglutide injection 2.4 mg). It shows a smiling mid-sized white woman with blonde hair in a bed room, wearing a short pink dress and a jean jacket over it. Her hands are on her hips to emphasize a smaller waistline. The slogan reads: Make them Look Twice. Discover Wegovy. At the bottom in tiny font is the text: (c) 2025 Novo Nordisk. All righs reserved. US 255EMO01018 September 2025. Actor Portrayal.]
Oh and then there's this:
[Image: A picture of an ad positioned at the entrance to a Walgreens pharmacy. The ad shows a container of Tums, a box of Force Factor Hair Growth Accelerator and a pack of Premier Protein brand chocolate protein drinks. The giant red text above them reads: "Support for your GLP-1 weight loss journey."]
I care that there's a drug that causes malnutrition, hair loss, and gastrointestinal problems so predictably and often that a major pharmacy advertises supportive care for it at the fucking door and I'm expected not to say that maybe how this is all unfolding is, maybe, a bit fucked up and harmful all because it might make you feel feelings you don't like.
That discussion is not a personal attack on you, it's not saying you're a bad person who hates fat people if you take a GLP-1 for weight loss, it's not scaremongering. If you find yourself feeling guilted, maybe ask yourself if the other person was actually trying to do that or if it's something you're feeling because there's something you need to sit with and work out.
If you do take these drugs, for whatever reason, I hope they work out great for you and have no bad side effects. Very genuinely. I hope it makes your life into what you want your life to be.
I also hope you understand that right now every day I'm seeing things that tell me that I need to disappear, because I'm unslightly, immoral, offensive and wrong until I'm then. That it would be better for me to be malnourished, half bald, and having to take anti-acids constantly than to exist while fat because that's the only health care I should be able to access until I'm not fat. And that's not okay. I don't deserve that. Nobody does.
kitten fever is worse than baby fever because a kitten is way easier to obtain than a baby so it's more dangerous
you cant obtain me. tiger stance
Actually, it's even worse because there's no baby distribution system. There is however a system by which cats will just sometimes decide to obtain you and you'll just be coming home from work and there's a little hissing thing hiding behind the cans and it's like, "rejoice, human, this is the greatest day of your life, for I have come to grant you the honor of scritching my head and hosting me in your abode, you may give me whatever amusing name you like, because I won't answer to it anyway" and then congrats, you're a fucking parent now.
help :(
iâve been out of work since december, the good news is that i'm on a trial contract for ninety days and if i make it to the end then i will have a job (yay!) and get paid retroactively. i'm studying very hard and dedicating all my free time to getting this position but me and my disabled mother are living off her pension until then, and it's not enough to keep us both from being evicted. i've also run out of things to sell... so we really need help.
i hate making these posts since they fill me with so much guilt, despite never receiving hate for them (i thank the universe that i have such wonderful friends) and i don't mean to bother anyone, i know times are hard now but if anyone has the ability to help a random person make it to the end of the month i would be eternally grateful.
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thanks in advance, guys.
"girl dinner" "boy kibble" can y'all just eat a meal gender neutrally
gender neutrients
Nom binary meals
I'm so tired of straight sized people, especially straight sized white women, trying to "heal" themselves at the expense of fat people.
Until you smash the fat hating bigot in your head, until you fight back against the horrible way we think about and treat people who are unambiguously fat, you'll remain haunted and unhealed.
Your inner child or teenager or whatever doesn't need to hear "oh, you weren't really fat at all, sweetie". Your inner teenager needs to hear, "your weight should never have mattered and nobody should've been saying shit about it to you and making you think there was a size limit on your value as a human being. You deserved a world where you could be a size 4 or 24 or 34 and it was all good."
Right now, all you're doing is reinforcing that yeah, of course being fat is horrible and bad, but people were just being too harsh in what they counted as being fat. Congrats, you're a step closer to becoming the mean girl you never got to be in high school.
The fat hating fucker in your head will never let you think of yourself as being truly on the right side of that line, not for long. That wound will always open back up.
You should never have grown up in a world where people pointed to the bodies of other women and said, "See those women? If you look anything like those women, we'll treat you like shit, just like we do them. But if you join us in treating these women like shit and saying they deserve it, we'll let you feel okay about yourself for half an hour and sit next to the cool kids' table".
I can't stop you making vertical videos and posts about how you're going on a journey of healing by proving that you were never "that big" and that the problem is mislabeling someone as fat, but I don't have to listen to you or support you or give you views.
I'm too busy fighting the battles that you're making harder by the day.
not seeing a lot of people on here talking about ICE murdering another man yesterday. His name was Lorenzo Salgado Arajou. He was a Mexican man living in Houston Texas. He was killed at age 52 and lived the past 35 years here in the USA, and was in the process of obtaining a work permit. He was shot and killed during a traffic stop that ICE claims was part of a targeted operation, and claimed he was âweaponizing his vehicleâ- the same claim ICE agents made when they shot and murdered Renee Good.
During the stop, Lorenzo had 3 coworkers with him in his truck who have all been taken into ICE custody.
His family described Lorenzo as a hardworking family man who didnât deserve to be killed. All he wanted was to provide for his wife and see his sons become great people. His eldest son recognized his father by his cries and pleas when trying to identify who the victim was.
The Salgado Araujo family has set up a gofundme to help with funeral and legal costs, and to help keep their family supported since Lorenzo was the sole provider.
On the morning of July 7, 2026, Lorenzo Salgado Araujo was ta⊠LULAC Institute, Inc. needs your support for In Loving Memory of Lorenzo Salg
Sheinbaum's demanding an investigation, I saw.
I have absolutely no hopes of that leading anywhere in this day and age. But who knows, maybe after 40 years the guilty party can finally end up on the stand like Klaus Barbie did.
Going back to old pictures of celebrities and saying, "OMG, I can't believe we considered that to be fat!" is not going to help you heal your relationship with your own body.
Until you get to a point where it doesn't matter if they were or were not actually fat, because being fat isn't some crime that you've taken it upon yourself to exonerate them of, you're still going to have that same pain no matter how many times you realize with a gasp that the "fat one" on your favorite 90's TV show was actually a size six.
It's not about where we draw the line between fat and not fat, it's about how we treat the people on the other side of it.
It's okay to be fat. It is not a sin or moral shortcoming, you do not need to be absolved by some kind of Weight Priest who'll flick you with zero calorie holy water and make the sign of the 'o' for ozempic on your forehead with the ashes of your dignity and tell you to go forth and eat no more after reciting ten "calories in, calories outs".
Thereâs a quality that certain books/movies/TV shows have that leads me to say, âYeah, I can see people making fanfiction of that.â Itâs something to do, I think, with how tight the story is, how much feels open-ended or like it could be elaborated on.
Something like Breaking Bad, for example, has low squiggability (thatâs what Iâm calling this quality). Itâs tightly written, the characters are consistent, thereâs little left to interpolate or extrapolate. Obviously, people DO write fanfic of Breaking Bad, but it still has a low squiggability score. Whereas something like Supernatural has a high squiggability score. Fantasy and science fiction often have high squiggability scores. This suggests squiggability could also be related to worldbuilding and potential for people to borrow a premise or setting.
And sometimes youâll read or watch something and youâll say, âAh, low squiggability,â and then youâll open tumblr and find out that everyone else seem to think its squiggability was very high indeed.
Leverage is a fun one because in my head it has pretty low squiggibility but nearly endless squiggibility when you add any other property to it and make a crossover
Leverage is a fun one because in my head it has pretty low squiggibility but nearly endless squiggibility when you add any other property to it and make a crossover
Leverage + White Collar (the obvious one).
Leverage + Elementary (bonus points if you set it during that three year interval in which Holmes was running around the world).
Leverage + Revenge (same ideal of striking back against the rich and powerful, but one much darker than the other).
Leverage + Psych (mayhem and shenanigans will fly so thick they will blot out the Sun).
Leverage + Stargate SG-1 (Word Of God already says they're in the same universe).
Leverage + The A-Team (the twenty-first century crew of Robin Hoods meets the old generation that had their job in the eighties).
How could I forget the obvious... Leverage + Columbo. (Another show that, like Leverage, is good for an endless amount of crossovers).
I can just imagine Nate Ford's mounting frustration as he encounters the immovable object to his unstoppable force. (And Sterling's parallel frustration as he's surreptitiously elbowed aside by this random street detective).
I don't think I'm the only person who has crossed over Leverage + the MCU. Bucky and Elliot have a lot in common....
grieving the version of myself I was never allowed to be
Went to the ER the night before last bc I was having Extremely Alarming Symptoms and had been awake for 36 hours
It took over three fucking hours for anyone at the hospital to find out we weren't there for a headache
And mind you, that's EVEN THOUGH though they triaged me in the first half hour or so
bc the doctor mistook my attempt to get my parents' attention so they'd stop talking for an attempt to lunge and punch her in the fucking face
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I had to be taken to a different ER less than 24 hours later bc my symptoms had escalated so badly that my family and I were afraid for my life
Stop telling people "Just go see a doctor."
Sometimes going to the hospital - especially for people who are disabled, overweight, Black / Brown, and/or women - is far, far more dangerous than trying to treat it yourself
1. Hope youâre feel better or will soon that sounds horrid
2. You are so beyond right.
3. Knowing the doctor will actually try to help you is one of those privileges that people with said privilege donât think about but people without it are never allowed to forget.
4. This is why when you look at health care disparities the first thing you need to ask is not âwhat is the patient doing wrongâ but âwhat quality of care does the patient have reasonable and regular access toâ. Because Iâm pretty sure that if you controlled for that most studies wouldnât find that certain people are Doing It Wrong or Just Medically Inferior, theyâre receiving criminally bad care at every term.
duuuuuude you have GOT to come out tonight we're enacting cruelty upon those who have transgressed so badly that we can justify any act against them... and you KNOW we're interpreting our delight as moral righteousness... Yeah it's fucking crazyyyyyyy get an Uber
âHaha remember when murder-hornets were gonna be a thing? What a nothingburger.â
Yes, because the Washington state government activated like a sleeper-cell and ruthlessly, systematically hunted them down and annihilated them.
âY2K came to nothing amirite?â
Yes because an army of software engineers working around the clock, losing sleep, and busting ass till the last minute prevented it from happening.
âRemember the hole in the ozone layer?â
You mean the one that was fixed through rigorous world wide government action?
One of the root problems of our society is a refusal or inability by media to articulate that all those âitâs gonna be an apocalypseâ disasters were not disasters because we collectively did something about them.
The good news is this is actually quite correctable. I maintain my firm belief that we as humans are capable of solving almost all of our problems, when we decide to do so.
And I still think thatâs going to happen. I donât know when or how, but I do know that abandoning hope wonât help bring it about.
And I refuse to let the cynics own a chunk of my heart.
TRANS PEOPLE CONSIDERING SURGERY- READ THIS PLEASE GENUINELY I AM BEGGING YOU IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE
If you are getting gender affirming surgery, especially if itâs your first major surgery, PLEASE be aware that you can become SEVERELY depressed afterwards ESPECIALLY if you have a history of depression or suicidal ideation.
Post op depression is a natural reaction to the crazy mix of hormones your body goes through after major surgery as well as the stress and anxiety of recovery. Think of it like an adrenaline crash, but dragged out longer.
For me it kicked in about 6 weeks after top surgery and the worst of it lasted until about 10 weeks post op. EVERYTHING felt IMPOSSIBLE. None of the skills Iâd been practicing worked. I thought everything was going to be bad forever. I didnât attempt, but I was in the hospital. If it wasnât for my support system I probably would have attempted.
This is not regret, but it can feel like it. I remain happy about my results to this day (going on six years later).
This is not you failing to maintain your mental health, but it can make you feel like a failure.
Things are not hopeless, but through the haze of this depression they can feel hopeless.
It can be terrifyingly sudden or it can sneak up on you. I didnât even realize what was going on until after the depression finally passed and my mental health went back to normal.
I am writing this post because nobody told me about this before my top surgery. I was caught completely off guard. For my subsequent surgeries being aware has made all the difference. Being able to treat those symptoms as an expected and normal part of the healing journey has made them far easier to deal with. Because even when my emotions go to dark places I *know* they will pass. I have been able to tell the bad thoughts to take a bad seat and focus on healing.
PLEASE have a plan in place for if this happens. I know that this topic is taboo because of how often our mental health is weaponized against us, but I desperately want every single person getting gender affirming surgery to be aware of, and have a plan for post operative depression.
It says something that the most popular comment, by far, I've ever left on someone else's post was when a random person left a reply that said they think a note could've been written by an elementary school kid because the handwriting was too advanced and I reminded them that in some places in the US, elementary school can extend into 6th grade where kids might be 11 or 12 and that's a perfectly reasonable age to expect a student to have the kind of fine motor skills to write in such a way.
It really, really says something that in all my years here (since 2010, so this blog is old enough to get a blog of its own now), that I've tried to be witty or insightful or just standing up to say, "hey, that's not okay!" when I felt there were -isms floating about insufficiently challenged and this is the thing comment has gotten, by far, the most likes. This. Two sentences stating a basic fact about the variety within the US school system.
I'm not sure what it says, but it does say something.
as a regular donor to Gaza Soup Kitchen I get their email updates, and they said today that while they've continued to be able to expand, donations are slowing down as Gaza gets less coverage. If you have a few dollars to spare, I encourage you to send them here to continue the amazing work that Hani and his team are doing.
itâs always âI understand why you have an autism diagnosis nowâ and not âthank you for explaining the entirety of the Chernobyl nuclear disaster to me, I really enjoyed hearing about the Chernobyl nuclear disasterâ
You can always explain the Chernobyl disaster to me.
You're out here just laying knowledge about the Chernobyl disaster at people's feet and they scoff? They scorn the info dump? They brush it aside like an annoyance?
JAIL FOR ALL OF THEM. JAIL FOR 10,000 YEARS.