“The hardest challenge is to be yourself in a world where everyone is trying to make you be somebody else.
—E. E. CUMMINGS, POET (1894–1962)
I've been finding in this journey of 'self-development/improvement' coalesced with the age of information that we live in, when it comes to finding some sort of a compass to guide us in a direction, there are a plethora of choices. It almost seems as if we have too many choices. If I don't know how to filter out what information is relevant to us at the time, I tend to go into a state of 'information overload', where it becomes all too overwhelming, causing me to ponder what the hell I just read, and ponder what the hell I want to do. Sound familiar? The more choices we become exposed to, the result is a double edged sword: perspectives will grow, but questions start to mount up to the point where it outweighs the answers we're receiving. If you're stuck at a job that's making you miserable, if you can't find the motivation to start working out, if you can't make the leap and take a risk of creating a social life you want instead of being a complete hermit and staying completely pessimistic about people, or you're just plain afraid to take a risk, here are two profoundly simple things that I've found that have made some sort of an impact in my train of thought.
What does this mean? It means knowing why the hell you wake up in the morning in the first place. This is essential to connecting with your purpose, and the actions between finding your why and getting to your purpose. That saying 'It's not the destination that matters, it's the journey' rigidly applies here. This concept is not a new one. When you connect with your why, you tend to have a clearer a focus on where to direct your energy, and where you need to be. You can direct your mental resources towards the things that matter most, rather than wasting time on the things that will hold you back as opposed to hold you high. Remember, when you know what the target is, we become quite much more efficient in doing what we need to do to get to that goal, as our primitive ancestors did when searching for animals to hunt.
2) Create an A.M. 'Power Routine'
This for me has been incredibly crucial for setting the pace for the rest of my day. This is the time of the day that I intimately connect with my 'Why.' (usually, the thought in my head which includes 'why' is 'why the hell am I up this early?') Once I remember why, in my head and in my body, why I'm doing what I'm doing(in this case, hitting the snooze, i mean, turning off my alarm) and wake the fuck up, it's go time. **Note: There is another list of things I do in order to prep and make the A.M. wake up easier, which is another topic in itself.**
Here's a short list of things I do upon waking which makes the morning much, much more productive:
1) Upon waking, I have a motivational video from YouTube ready on my phone browser to listen to the moment I wake up, face down in my pillow. This usually reiterates in my head, why I'm up, and why I do what I do.
2) Go downstairs, prepare a cold glass of water with a squeeze of lemon juice from a lemon and gulp it down. It's just damn refreshing and gets me energized. I usually gulp down some fish oil (i know, gross. But it's for the omegas!), vitamin D3 and creatine camouflaged in water flavoring. I call this my 'brain shake.'
3) Follow my stretching/mobility and body opening routine which wakes my body up and gets rid of any impingement i've acquired during my short slumber. Blood flow ensues and continue to feel awake.
4) Meditate. 5-10 mins to Tibetan bowl music. Focusing on breathing, and being an observer of my emotions and thoughts, as opposed to being directed by them.
5) Get my iPod, go for a walk and listen to an audio book or a lecture from iTunesU on a subject of interest or that's relevant to me at the time for what i'm doing. 20-30 mins.
6) Brew up some bulletproof coffee. No creamer. Just organic medium roast coffee, 2 tbsp of coconut oil, and 1-2 tbsp of unsalted Kerry Gold butter, blended, not stirred (makes a difference)
7) Then finish off with a 10 min cold shower. (Optional :-D )
So there you have it. This is my routine which optimizes my mind and body, and prepares me for the day ahead of productivity. Please continue to look for future posts on how prepare for waking up early in the morning feeling refreshed, and other body and brain hacks to optimize your morning, and possibly your life. Thank you :)