Stereotypical Blonde Blog

Seventeen year old girl, eighteen in March. Hoping one day to be a professional jourlist writing in magasines. But for now... Just a blogger on tumblr.

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i'll never forget how beautiful those three words slipping out of your mouth sounded to me. ‘i love you.’ you said, and it felt like the gates of heaven opened up and suddenly i was allowed in. how crazy is it that when you add just a few more words, and 'i love you’ turns into 'i just don’t love you anymore’ i can go from thinking i’m with god to wondering why that god we talk about on the day-to-day would take you away.

excerpt #6 from a book i’ll never write (via cantsleepcantbreathe)

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Everyone has bad days.

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by Jenni Konrad

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Logan Paul

I know this is slightly late however, the subject should not be forgotten about. As a society we seem to talk about a topic for a few days then it is forgotten about, however we shouldn’t let this happen because then no change will happen. The Logan Paul incident happened because Logan Paul thought he could. He thought because his fans are young if he puts a little message before his video then shows a person who has decided to end his life on camera that he is a good person.

However, for most people on YouTube they have one video where they preach about how you should speak up about mental health problems and speak to someone when you are down. Logan Paul was one of those YouTubers who preached that anxiety and depression are serious matters and that you are not alone. But when he finds someone who has decided to end their own life, on their own, someone who has obviously dealt with there own demons to make that decision. He laughs. 

In the video you can hear someone say ‘grab the camera’ or something along those lines. Why would you want to video something so devastating and heartbreaking? You are disrespecting, people with mental health problems, people who have had suicidal thoughts, families of someone who has committed suicide, the family of the victim in your video and most importantly the person who committed suicide. The whole topic is disgusting.

I only see the Paul brothers as one thing and that is disgusting. I think both of the brothers are disrespectful and going bad morals to young fans, a video of Jake Paul saying the ’N’ word came out a few days ago and the sad part of the whole video was that I weren’t surprised. I think for the audience not to be surprised means something is wrong and something needs to be done. We are letting these people ruin our society showing bad examples of people to the younger and new generation which will be brought up in this world. 

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Mental Health.

Since September, I have been applying for University and creating my personal statement to show the universities my true talent. I feel like I have grown up so fast. I know what I want to do with my life and where I would like to be in a few years time however, some of my friends or people I know have no idea what they want to do and they feel like they are ‘ruining’ their life, which I do not see in that way.

I think people my age feel a lot of pressure to have their life sorted at such a young age and they feel pressure to not feel good enough. Not feeling good enough can trigger serious topics such as mental health and I read an article the other day which is if you are suffering with mental health you can pay to see someone, however if you do not have the money then you will have to go on the waiting list which is over six months long to be able to talk to people about it and the only way to be used forward on the waiting list is if you try and kill yourself.

I think this topic is disgusting and I do not have another point of view for this topic to try and justify the fact people have to try kill themselves to be taken seriously, however, if you hurt yourself physically you are seen to for free within the same day. I do not understand how the government and the world can think this is acceptable and still put pressure on young men and women to decide there life when there are some people with mental illness how don’t even want a life. I also think something must be done to change this and I understand people may say ‘they should talk to their parents’ however some people with mental health feel like a burden to others therefore some may struggle or feel embarrassed to tell someone close how they feel and sometimes talking to a stranger feels better because you don’t feel judged. 

We should have a world where mental illness is just as important as any other illness because it can kill people and people can suffer. We should speak up and not sit back, mental illness is important.  

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Hate.

My last blog or rant was about love and about Justin Bieber and Selena and I didn’t realise how upset people would get over my opinion even though what I said was not offensive in any way shape or form. It showed both sides of opinion which is a fair way to express things. However, I just came back on my account and had an angry message from some woman who obviously did not like what I wrote which is fine, people can have there own opinion; but she was so mad and rude.

The message basically told me I shouldn’t write about things I know nothing about because I have no experience in life whatsoever and I am making a fool of myself. 

Based on this, I was looking at her page and she is always so mad about what she writes back to people calling people nasty names and saying they are embarrassing, this is a strong example of a social media bully and I hate that. I may only be seventeen soon turning eighteen however that in no way means I have no experience in life because I have been through things and I have experienced different things in my life. Also, I am making a fool of myself for following what I want to be in my life. How is that making a fool of myself? 

I am writing this blog because I want people to know it is not okay to be rude or mean to someone because of there opinion, especially over Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez. Don’t let people bully you and don’t be quiet about bullying it is not okay. Speak up!

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Love.

Recently, pictures of Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez have been shown and there are reports the couple are back together. I see this in two point of views as different opinions of the couple have been shown. My first view is having self value for yourself. I always think you must love yourself before anyone else can love you other wise it effects the relationship.

However, there have been reports on how Justin Bieber broke Selena Gomez and made her feel low, insecure and many other terrible feelings which must be terrible. However, I think no matter how much you grow or how much the other person grows that self respect will always be there for you to say you cannot go back and feel so terrible within yourself again. Because how is that fair?

On the other hand, I also see it as ‘let it go, if it comes back it is yours and if it doesn’t it never was’ therefore I see true love and maturity and friendship. Which is what a relationship should be seeing the couple so happy and full of life does give people hope and inspires people to want the happiness of a relationship and the feeling of love.

But, if you constantly run back to someone does that make you weak? Or just madly in love? How can one be separated. Does this create false hope for others? The media may always confuse and make the news seem how it seems to be. Because of media, I thought true love was being together 24/7 and flowers and only having one person for the rest of your life, now I have grown up I have realised that isn’t love. Love is wanting to be with them but also wanting yourself and the other person wanting the best for you and you wanting the best for them. Caring is the main factor. Love is love. Love can be a representation of what we think love should be.

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Stranger Things 2.

I have completed finished watching Stranger Things and i can honestly say, the second series is terrifying. I didn’t think I would like the series as it is out of my comfort zone, but I am ready to watch it all over again and hope to God that their is a season 3. 

I like the character eleven as she plays the strong female role and is the hero in the film which shares the equality act and the subverted gender roles which are normally used in Hollywood. Although the series is a fiction it still makes me feel as if the story is real and makes me scared of going out in the unknown. 

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Stranger Things.

I never normally like films like Stranger Things, it has really opened my mind in the filming industry and made me want to watch different things outside my comfort zone. I normally go for romances which are the regular films, boy meets girl falls in love, family drama they over come it and happily ever after. Films like this gave me a false hope of love and romance. 

I am seventeen, I have never had a boyfriend and I have never been keen on having one as the idea of a heartbreak terrifies me. I have love someone however, not in a relationship and I could imagine it to hurt, deeply. Romantic films gave me the hope of love at first sight, then I figured myself out that I fall in love with personalities and the humour of someone which made me realise I can’t meet someone and fall in love. I want to know what makes them weak, their fears, what they love, there family, ect..

Stranger Things creates adrenaline for me as I enjoy the fear and the suspense of it. I haven’t finished series two but I have to stop myself after binge watching. Fin and Eleven make my heart melt at the young love shown on screen and the embarrassment they get about it, which is what reality is like towards young love being shy round one another. Dustin reminds me of myself, he is the character that thinks he knows what to expect however when it comes he uses humour to try find himself out of it. He is my preferred reader.

Just a small blog to get things off my mind at three minutes past eleven on a Thursday night.  

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Sexuality.

LGBT community. 

The rainbow. 

Marriage rights. 

We are all equal, right?

Lately in Australia gay marriage became legal. Which is amazing we are finally creating equality and giving society the facts that it is okay to like the same sex as your own. On the other hand, I still find it mind blowing on how long it has taken for people to realise, why does it matter who someone loves? Why are people so objected on the same gender loving one another. Also, I still hear people calling someone else ‘gay’ as an insult. Or ‘faggot’ and I wonder what is offensive about the term?

Some people have views on how a same sex couple has sex. But how does how they have sex interfere with your life? Don’t like it? Don’t think about it. Simple. If you are against a couple who can’t conceive children because an egg and a sperm are not together? IVF is an option? Also adoption, people are mad about children who have no homes, this is the perfect opportunity. Scared about the adopted children being bullied for having two fathers or two mothers? Then that is up to you on how you raise your child to treat other people.

Gay marriage is not the problem.

Homophobic, closed minded people, are the problem.

Having equality does not mean just having marriage being okay. It is about treating people how you want to be treated therefore as well as telling children what being gay, bi sexual or lesbian actually is. We should teach society that calling someone a sexuality that they may or not be, in an offensive manner. We are all humans and we all want happiness so why because of who a person is attracted to affect the way you treat someone?

Being gay, lesbian, bi and trans does not make you different in anyway. I want to live in a society where everyone is the same and everyone should not be ashamed or afraid of being who they are. Humans are beautiful people and for someone to be apart in the LGBT community is apart of there personality. This should not change opinions on someone based on who they are going to love. 

Love is love. Humans are humans. Make society a beautiful aspect again and make people want to be happy.

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Power.

Over the past few weeks women AND men have been coming forward to explain their experience on sexual assault. However, some people are explaining how they are touched my a man or a woman in a uncomfortable way and others are coming out about when they were forced to do sexual ‘favours’. My views on the touching assault. Being a seventeen year old girl I know how frightening it can be when, in my case, man who I do not know has touched me, even if it is in a nice gesture it can still be frightening. Therefore, to all the women and men who have experienced a traumatic experience; it is not okay for the person to touch you if you are uncomfortable and if you have or have not come out about your experience. Talk about it. Write about it. Make video’s about it. Just spread the word so that young men and women know what is right and what it wrong. 

As well as this, I have heard comments from multiple people that the people who are in Hollywood sexually assaulting people, have a lot of ‘power’. Having a lot of power does not make you any different of a person than the man or woman standing next to you. If having enough power made you able to sexually assault someone; does that make you powerful or a monster? The difference is clear for me to see. Therefore, this should not be an issue and having power should not be an excuse. No matter how much money or power a human has they are no different than the human standing next to them in the elevator. 

Do not, create a divide or a stereotype for people with different status’, equality is equality, our body is our own. Respect that and do not use your power to create someone to be uncomfortable.

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My Introduction.

As I grew up I wanted to become a school teacher, to teach children of young ages. I always thought helping and teaching the youth about the world and education was an amazing and honourable job. However, when I reached the age of fifteen I was asked to complete two weeks with of work experience; due to my dedication of being a teacher I chose a primary school which would give me experience. This completely changed my opinion. 

The first week of the school was challenging as I was able to see children’s personalities and although I was only fifteen and these children were in the age barrier of fix to nine, we were in the same generation so I thought I would relate to how I was and how I liked to be treated when I was at that age. However, I was shocked to hear a seven year old ask me for my Instagram. 

Throughout the two weeks of working in the school I realised more about social media and the need and addiction to it is not just older ages, it is effecting the young children also who could grow up and give so much to the world and have a chance of making a different to society however, society seems to be controlling them. I heard children moan about another child having a better IPhone or who could make the best ‘musically’. 

As a consequence, social media and the new version of society is blinding people by brain washing young children to think that social media is the only way around life and it shown me a different side to it and the addiction it can cause everyone in the world to be effected. Social media is blinding people from what is beautiful about the world. Instead of admiring the beauty of a location or a art work; people would much rather admire the uploaded picture of the art work a friend posted on Instagram. It is causing people to ignore the beauty of life and the world around us.

This made me want to become a journalist and a writer as I would be able to have my say and make a change to the world and put the message out there that there is a wonderful world out there and the generation that we as people are living and growing up in are ignoring and not realising the true beauty.