HoneyBear.exe

I was originally transcendenthoneybear, my prior had been hacked and eventually deleted after I got it back. Older Trans Gal. (30s, that's as much as you're getting if I don't know you.) 18+, obviously an adult. Minors should probably, most definitely stay away. There will likely be horny here, this is your only warning. Bisexual, but not interested in super masc presenting men, picky and have my tastes on that front. Feel free to DM me/Send asks if you like. Yes, you're allowed to flirt, and if I follow you that's consent on my end.

[sublimehoneybear]

‧͙⁺˚･༓☾Sweet as Honey, Maybe a Little Mean☽༓･˚⁺‧͙

You can call me Honey or Honeybear.

I'm an older trans gal (she/her), in my 30s. Do not they/them me.

I'm a tradeswoman with a strong background in plumbing, though I have dabbled in several other trades. (Insert joke about laying pipe here)

I'm technically bisexual, though not really all that in to super masculine dudes. And, even then, I am very picky with them. Soooo, super sapphic. (Butches and masc women, however are more than welcome.)

Yes, I'm a furry, and yes my fursona is a bear. Well, one of them. Feel free to ask and I'll show you!

I'm a switch and kinda float around on that spectrum based on mood and dynamic.

Speaking of which, I am on the autism spectrum and have ADHD. I am disabled, with pretty severe anxiety and chronic fatigue.

I am from the United States and Indigenous, Shawnee specifically. (Friendly or not so friendly reminder that blood quantum is a system made by white men to erase us and our legitimacy as people.)

I am an anarchist with equity as the core of my political mindset, if you're one of the types who believe anarchism is "just vibes" or "for people without politics", just leave because you very clearly have no understanding of it; and I am not going to deal with smug people on the right or the left talking down to me from a place of ignorance. If you start to sound like a conservative, it's time for you to back up and re-examine your mindset.

There will absolutely be a lot of nsfw/nsft content on this blog, kind of scattershotted about.

Yes, you can message me; and, yes you can flirt if you fit my type. Me following you is consent in that regard.

I can be pretty open minded, though I am not in to the ddlg space; mommy domme is a different story, however. And, of course, an absolute exception exists for masculine and butch women.

I can be a little rough around the edges, coarse sometimes when I am passionate about something.

I do post selfies, sfw/sft and not so sfw/sft, the tags are: honeybear, nsft honeybear

And, no, I don't mind if you call me momma.

For what happened to my previous blog, see this post here.

And, I have a website/Neocities!

https://www.jessadactyl.com

[sublimehoneybear]

Help a Disabled Trans Girl Out?

I think I'm just gonna a keep a general donation post out for now, the last one missed the mark so things are getting dire.

The long and the short of it is I lost my job, the state keeps denying me disability despite my doctor's case for it, and due to being an out trans woman in a rural conservative area I'm not even getting responses to job applications.

I hate having to ask for donstions because I know everyone has it roufh, and I hate asking for help, but I don't... Really have a choice right now.

Every little bit helps, and all of it is going to food and my housing/utilities. And, my bank account is basically totally tapped out.

K0-F1

C45h4pp

V3nm0

Obscured because tumblr doesn't look these words, and, I'm likely shadowbanned as is.

[sublimehoneybear]

As I implied in another post earlier, I am seriously in a dire spot about now. I feel bad asking for donations like this, but the clock is really ticking right now.

[crescentalice]

you gotta be fucking with me, right?

[crescentalice]

literally doing the whole "I wish femininity was as impossible for me as it is for you!"

[catboybiologist]

[tzikeh]

Maryland to Become First US State to Ban Surveillance Pricing That Charges More After Mining Personal Data

Maryland will become the first US state to ban surveillance pricing in retail stores, after passing Protection from Predatory Pricing Act.

Jesus fucking christ that this exists in the first place

[boyslit]

I WAS FUCKING WONDERING WHAT THOSE DIGITAL PRICE TAGS WERE ABOUT SUDDENLY i had hoped they were so the workers didn't have to finagle those little papers into the slider part anymore 😭

[eclipticasolaris]

Hi, yes, that is the OFFICIAL excuse made to me by the guy replacing the paper tags with digital ones at my local Walmart, but the end goal is to remove the numbers off the shelf entirely, replacing them with QR codes that you have to scan with the app…. Which requires your login information….. and also stores your card information so even if you didn’t use your Walmart account at the physical checkout, if you used a card they recognize, they assign that purchase to your Walmart account purchase history.

I explained very clearly to the manager my issue with the meat section not having the price tags listed, and they claimed it was only going to be for the meat, since meat is by weight, and the price of each item is printed on the packs of each item.

Sure. That’s how they get their foot in the door. Fast forward not even two weeks, and here we are:

Bar codes. No prices, no item descriptions. No price stickers on the individual items. Heck, not even the name of the item that is SUPPOSED to be there.

No. The only way to see the price is to scan it on your phone app, which is also recording what you looked at recently, as a way of gauging what you might be looking for in the future.

So here’s what we’re gonna do gang:

Every time you go into a store that has implemented these price-less tags:

Take 1-3 items up to the cash register. Ask the cashier for the price, or hit the price check item on the self checkout, which will likely call over the attendant.

Express that you didn’t actually want it, you just couldn’t see on the shelf how much it was.

POLITELY, AND WITH A THANK YOU FOR THE PRICE CONFIRMATION, Give the items to the cashier or attendant to put back.

When they inevitably try to push the app, politely decline. If pressed for why not, say you don’t want to have to carry your phone in-hand the whole time you are shopping in order to see how much things cost. (Not having cell service or data to use the app is NOT a valid excuse, as stores already often have complimentary WiFi AND more stores will provide WiFi rather than give up on this push for surveillance pricing)

If it’s a shelf-stable item, the cashier will have to set it aside, taking up room in their limited operating space, and eventually pass it off to someone to put in a holding area to put back later. If it’s a fridge/freezer item, it might have to get tossed due to food product sale regulations.

In either case, you are making it a pain in the ass for them to have these digital bar codes. Tie up the checkouts. Give the employees more busywork that the company has to pay them to do. Hurt their bottom line having to toss the pint of ice cream you carried around in your cart for 20 minutes before giving it back to the cashier.

Yes, call your reps. Yes, push for more legislation like this in more places. But also take an extra minute out of your shopping trip to MAKE IT HURT for companies to pull this shit.

[sublimehoneybear]

Help a Disabled Trans Girl Out?

I think I'm just gonna a keep a general donation post out for now, the last one missed the mark so things are getting dire.

The long and the short of it is I lost my job, the state keeps denying me disability despite my doctor's case for it, and due to being an out trans woman in a rural conservative area I'm not even getting responses to job applications.

I hate having to ask for donstions because I know everyone has it roufh, and I hate asking for help, but I don't... Really have a choice right now.

Every little bit helps, and all of it is going to food and my housing/utilities. And, my bank account is basically totally tapped out.

K0-F1

C45h4pp

V3nm0

Obscured because tumblr doesn't look these words, and, I'm likely shadowbanned as is.

[sublimehoneybear]

As I implied in another post earlier, I am seriously in a dire spot about now. I feel bad asking for donations like this, but the clock is really ticking right now.

[sublimehoneybear]

Help a Disabled Trans Girl Out?

I think I'm just gonna a keep a general donation post out for now, the last one missed the mark so things are getting dire.

The long and the short of it is I lost my job, the state keeps denying me disability despite my doctor's case for it, and due to being an out trans woman in a rural conservative area I'm not even getting responses to job applications.

I hate having to ask for donstions because I know everyone has it roufh, and I hate asking for help, but I don't... Really have a choice right now.

Every little bit helps, and all of it is going to food and my housing/utilities. And, my bank account is basically totally tapped out.

K0-F1

C45h4pp

V3nm0

Obscured because tumblr doesn't look these words, and, I'm likely shadowbanned as is.

[sublimehoneybear]

As I implied in another post earlier, I am seriously in a dire spot about now. I feel bad asking for donations like this, but the clock is really ticking right now.

[analog-delight]

Imagine hobbits with deep frying technology

[bovid-beauty]

"Fascism"—New Federal Rule Would Require Federal Funding Recipients To Deny Trans People Exist

The rule could have heavy impacts towards trans people across society.

Last week, the Trump administration quietly released a sweeping new federal rule that would use funding threats to force institutions across the country to reject transgender people. The 400-page proposed regulation would codify the administration's anti-trans executive orders into binding federal policy, imposing a blanket prohibition on federal funds going toward "gender ideology"

The proposed rule, formally titled "Regulation for Federal Financial Assistance," rewrites the government-wide framework governing all federal grants across every agency. Among its most consequential provisions, it requires that before a federal grant recipient can receive money, the award must pass a "pre-issuance review" conducted by a political appointee—not a career expert or peer reviewer—to ensure it is "consistent with applicable law, Federal agency priorities, and the national interest." The regulation explicitly instructs these appointees to screen for "denial by the recipient of the sex binary in humans or the notion that sex is a chosen or mutable characteristic." [...] An institution that acknowledges transgender people exist—through its policies, its training, its healthcare, its bathroom access, its HR procedures, its name-change processes—could be deemed to "deny the sex binary" or to “support the notion that sex is mutable” and have its federal funding blocked.

Importantly, the gender ideology prohibition has no age limitation—hospitals could be targeted not just for providing care to minors but for providing gender-affirming care to adults, because prescribing hormone therapy to a transgender patient of any age could be deemed promoting the belief that "sex is a chosen or mutable characteristic."

[wirelessmousegirl]

There inventing a new kind of sadness and its called "the look in a trans woman's eye when she looks at a public swimming pool"

[grave-of-ophelia]

Trans woman in need of help

Ive been trying to get my life together for some time now, and that started with my transition. Ive been needing help living with disabilities and burned out, and now dropping out of uni. Getting employed is pretty much impossible and I've been surviving off savings and these donation posts. Food and bills and my own hrt depend on thse until I manage to get my life together, which is very hard when your life hangs on generous donations every month.

I'll be most thankful with anything you can help with, please. And share this post around so more people can see it. I'm asking for an amount that could sustain me for many months ahead, and I'll be trying to get up on my own.

Paypal

Ko-fi

$10 / $2000

[crescentalice]

you gotta be fucking with me, right?

[crescentalice]

literally doing the whole "I wish femininity was as impossible for me as it is for you!"

[sinsinewave]

also the casual implication that someone coercively assigned male at birth presenting feminine is inherently "genderfuckery" or "mindfuck" as if that's a good thing like, as a transfem, i would in fact greatly prefer if people saw me presenting fem and just saw me as a woman (even if technically i'm nonbinary) but then again we all know TMEs don't ever think that far (also dishonourable mention to all the white emoji users in the reacts)

[catboybiologist]

They're NOT medical terms, they're legal, bureaucratic, and sometimes social ones. Do not let them rob you of transsexuality.

[shadow27]

[sublimehoneybear]

Help a Disabled Trans Girl Out?

I think I'm just gonna a keep a general donation post out for now, the last one missed the mark so things are getting dire.

The long and the short of it is I lost my job, the state keeps denying me disability despite my doctor's case for it, and due to being an out trans woman in a rural conservative area I'm not even getting responses to job applications.

I hate having to ask for donstions because I know everyone has it roufh, and I hate asking for help, but I don't... Really have a choice right now.

Every little bit helps, and all of it is going to food and my housing/utilities. And, my bank account is basically totally tapped out.

K0-F1

C45h4pp

V3nm0

Obscured because tumblr doesn't look these words, and, I'm likely shadowbanned as is.

[sublimehoneybear]

As I implied in another post earlier, I am seriously in a dire spot about now. I feel bad asking for donations like this, but the clock is really ticking right now.

[sublimehoneybear]

Help a Disabled Trans Girl Out?

I think I'm just gonna a keep a general donation post out for now, the last one missed the mark so things are getting dire.

The long and the short of it is I lost my job, the state keeps denying me disability despite my doctor's case for it, and due to being an out trans woman in a rural conservative area I'm not even getting responses to job applications.

I hate having to ask for donstions because I know everyone has it roufh, and I hate asking for help, but I don't... Really have a choice right now.

Every little bit helps, and all of it is going to food and my housing/utilities. And, my bank account is basically totally tapped out.

K0-F1

C45h4pp

V3nm0

Obscured because tumblr doesn't look these words, and, I'm likely shadowbanned as is.

[sublimehoneybear]

As I implied in another post earlier, I am seriously in a dire spot about now. I feel bad asking for donations like this, but the clock is really ticking right now.

[hellyesbro]

It really is crazy the way anybody ever managed to push the idea that there is a real, tangible "transmasc erasure". If you look up books, comics, movies, plays, etc. starring a trans protagonist pretty much every single time they are going to be trans masc or TME nonbinary. You have some notable exceptions like Nevada, or Detransition Baby, but pretty much every one of those is going to be BY a transfem author telling our own stories. But they will swear that transmascs are being erased in media compared to trans women so you will go through a list of the top 50 trans books and top 10 trans films for pride and the top 8 queer comic lists and they will pretty much all be about a transmasc experience and you will be like. okay so I reviewed 60 pieces of media and 5 of them were interested in representing trans women and the rest were transmasc or TME nb what do you mean by erasure and they will look you in the eye and say with a full chest "I am jealous that you guys get more blood libel than us"

[kayla-denker]

And pointing this out gets you treated as if your insane. They all literally claim the opposite is happening, and point to the same like 6 transfem characters from the last 20 years as proof of it — like Sense 8 and Orange is the New Black.

It's literally that study that found men think a room is mostly women when its only like 30% women, or something like that.

[transsexual-feminism]

It's literally the exact same thing as what it currently happening with god of war and has been happening since gamergate. Men mistake representation of women for the erasure of men, all parties being trans does not change this dynamic.

Transmascs are not forgetting their representation, they are using the scant representation of transfems which does exist as evidence that they are being erased. The implicit belief that everything should always be about men is the same one which causes them to make every post on tumblr about themselves.

[valencians]

you cannot headcanon your way out of overt thematic structures on which the entire narrative is built

[sublimehoneybear]

Help a Disabled Trans Girl Out?

I think I'm just gonna a keep a general donation post out for now, the last one missed the mark so things are getting dire.

The long and the short of it is I lost my job, the state keeps denying me disability despite my doctor's case for it, and due to being an out trans woman in a rural conservative area I'm not even getting responses to job applications.

I hate having to ask for donstions because I know everyone has it roufh, and I hate asking for help, but I don't... Really have a choice right now.

Every little bit helps, and all of it is going to food and my housing/utilities. And, my bank account is basically totally tapped out.

K0-F1

C45h4pp

V3nm0

Obscured because tumblr doesn't look these words, and, I'm likely shadowbanned as is.

[sublimehoneybear]

As I implied in another post earlier, I am seriously in a dire spot about now. I feel bad asking for donations like this, but the clock is really ticking right now.