The Sugar Baby Lifestyle

NYC | 21 | homo baby three years in the bowl. | Hit the ask box for questions

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[sugarbbyboy]

Please don’t send messages asking how to get a SD when there is tumblr posts and threads dedicated to that. DO THE RESEARCH LIKE THE REST OF US. Tired of getting the same messages over and over when the information is just a click away. You can ask me questions but nothing as simple as “what’s a SD?”. Put in the time, drink a glass of

wine and read through the many threads to have a foundation in sugaring 101

[sugarbbyboy]

So AUS was a really great trip. Now I’m back home, and just wanted to share a few little pics and videos I took while I was with Aussie Daddy. I didn’t take many :/ I always feel weird using my phone to take any photos around him so I do really sneakily 😂. We went to Versace Palace and had dinner there, we were going to go into Versace but the damn store was closed because of Good Friday ( 🙃). His backyard has a pool and a tennis court which my video doesn’t show. And the last gif is the house that he was thinking of buying next for “us”. It’s massive with a pool indoors. I’ll think about it haha

[sugarbbyboy]

Taking Australia by storm

Hey babes,

Sorry I haven’t been on a while, once again college is a lot of work and I just haven’t got time really for any type of man. I just needed a break from sugaring. But it seems like the Sugar Gods aren’t done with me just yet. Story time, grab your mugs girls. 

So two years ago when I first starting a SA account, one of the first guys I talked to was this man from Australia in his late 30′s. Not too handsome but cute. He was super into me from the get go since my profile was crafted to perfect. WHICH IS IMPORTANT, (there are a lot of helpful advice on how to to do that on Tumblr. so get researching!!!)  But anywho we Facetimed and he showed me his multimillion dollar home and all his cars and blah blah. I just wanted to know when he was flying me out because my bags were packed and ready to leave and get married. Then he completely vanished and just sucked out at communicating. He is also in a completely different timezone. But wtf!!! You can’t tell me all these nice things you are going to do for me and then just disappeared. The new sugar baby in me was pissed but when along with life. Fast forward to a year ago, when I was playing around with Tinder Plus, I decided to change my location to his and locate him. After what felt like a million left swipes (except on the daddies), I found him!! And we matched. Chatted and I got his facebook and we started chatting there. Once again he just stopped responded. So I was annoyed and just stopped trying. Fast forward to this past October, he messaged me and we had small talk. I told him I wanted to study abroad here next semester in Australia, and he was willing to pay for it all and everything. Keep in mind I still haven’t met him. Then when it came time to pay the application fee he just stopped responding and vanished. Fast forward to January, I decided I woould spruce some leftover sugar money and take a trip to Australia ( where I am currently at, at this very moment) to go visit a friend there. I decided to just message Aussie Daddy my itinerary, since what more do I have to lose. Long and behold, I arrive to Australia and he messages me saying he wants to meet. So I reserved two days for him, and he flew me out from Sydney to his mansion where he picked me up in his Porsche. To make a long story short, it was an amazing two days, and he is practically in love with me now. He explained the reason he never contacted much was because he sucked at responding and he was diagnosed with cancer. I can go on and on. But I already gave more information than I would usually like. But let’s just say that he is a whale, owning over 100 rental properties valued at over $5million each (you can do the math), owns three Porsches, has connections with major celebrities, private jets to Coachella VIP, and is allowing me to pick the Hamptons house we will rent when he comes to visit NY that he said I can invite some people over (ladies wanna come? haha). We don’t have an arrangement though, so I didn’t receive any money, and NO I didn’t sleep with him. The main problem I have is that he is looking for the love of his life not sugar babies anymore so he doesn’t want to feel like he is paying for one, but is willing to give me my own credit card, and basically anything I need but just doesn’t like the transactional side of things which I thing is actually a bit better. and I just don’t know if I’m capable of going from sugar baby to sugar boyfriend just yet. Anyone else have this moral dilemma? I’ll post some pics up from the trip later!

[hairstylesbeauty]

[slut4dior]

me judging girls who give pussy away for free

[sugarbbyboy]

School has Been EATING MY ASS BUT ILL BE BACK WITH UPDATES

As I near the end of my college career, I haven’t been so stressed in a hot sec. But that doesn’t mean the sugar pot is empty. I got some updates sizzling, but i have to see if the tea is hot enough before I pour you some. But just know a tea party is coming soon 👅

[lostescortsw-deactivated2016100]

Congratulations, you have your very first SD

Now, here are some topics which will keep him interested:

his childhood

the differences in growing up at different times

his city/town/country

your childhood

his success (this is a big one. Exaggerate and let him know he’s an inspiration to you)

your motivation in life (be truthful but make sure you have something whether its success, family, money etc)

his work and career 

your work history

charity work (his contributions and your own)

sexual history (how many partners each of you have had for example. Girls, I know others say differently.. But if there’s no way of him finding out, feel free to lie and say a lower number than is true)

your family 

your good friends

his travel experiences

his family (only at the point he feels comfortable discussing it with you)

famous people he and you have met (during this conversation mention a celebrity you want to meet that you love and that is your SD’s age. For example, George Clooney)

gadgets (ask about the usage of something that he uses i.e. an iPad that you don’t use)

his education, what he liked about college etc

your education, what you studied or are studying..

sports and exercise

psychology

food and different cuisines 

drinking and alcohol

sex (if you feel comfortable)

fashion

Feel free to reblog and add more!

[sugarbbyboy]

This Fourth Of July has been so messy, so much to update LOL. Currently on a date with a 37 year old Norwegian dude but he is definitely not sugar daddy material. He owns his own consulting firm and has two other start ups. I like my men over 40more but he is seriously so hot I couldn’t resist, and also free pasta at this place I’ve been dying to try 😋

[sugarbbyboy]

Watching Pretty Woman is a ritual before I go on a POT Date

One of these days I'm going to make a list of movies and a playlist to watch and listen to before a sugar date, so you can all feel motivated and empowered before going out

[sugarbbyboy]

My first date with Car Daddy is tomorrow, I'm so excited 😍. He sent me the money for the meet before the date which is kinda dumb on his part (for scammer babies) but I'm more than showing up tomorrow lol. We agreed to $400 for this meet, I wish I kinda rounded it up to $500 but it's okay since we are going shopping at Barneys and around downtown. He lives in a rich neighborhood so everywhere is in walking distance. The date is going to be 4 hours long, with shopping and lunch. We've discussed the arrangement a while ago on the phone and agreed to $3000/month plus gifts, shopping and additional allowance when needed, but I messaged him last night and told him that I did some calculations and that might have to be upped which he said that's fine we will discuss since nothing is finalized. I'm really trying to lock him down into the arrangement after this date but I can tell he wants to take his time since he's new at this 🙄. He's already spent over $1000 on me in over a week. So might as well cough out some more. In the meantime, I need to find more POTs, SA is getting a little stale for me

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[la-diablareina]

FUCK ME ALL THE WAY UP WHITE DADDY

[indiansugarbaby]

There goes my pants

[cockyboysandsugarism]

no but who dis?!??!!

[indiansugarbaby]

Bill Tamlyn

[vickytremor-deactivated20190807]

@nan-dough !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sparklecooch69-deactivated20170]

fuck me all the way up white daddy lmfaooooooooooooo i’m fucking crying

[luxelustsugarxx]

Why can’t I find an sd that looks like this 😭

[cinnamonsugar-uk-deactivated201]

I don’t really fuck with white men but I bet he has a pretty dick 👅

[sugarbbyboy]

Ya you probably did miss that part of the convo

[3rdeyechakra]

Reblog to make a white gay big mad

[planetfrog]

Reblog to make QPOC feel more welcome in their own community

[theelderscrotess]

reblog to normalize explicit support and solidarity for qpoc in the lgbt community

[sugarbbyboy]

Here's a video of the hotel loves ✨ the bathroom is really nice, will show in next post. Chicago is gorgeous and I was able to get some splurge money out of Car Daddy, but just a very little. Does anyone know any places to freestyle 🤔. Oh and don't mind my friend sleeping on the bed 😂😂

[sugarbbyboy]

"Oh my gosh Daddy, today has just been the worst day ever"

Me: *actually*

[sugarbbyboy]

"Yes, money will make me feel a lot better"

[sugarbbyboy]

Saks, Barney’s or the Mall?

I need some shopping help. So Car Daddy and I are going shopping on our first date and I don’t know if we should go to Barney’s (which he says is in his neighborhood), Saks or King of Prussia, which is the largest mall in America outside of Philly. Barney’s would force him to spend a lot of money on me, including Saks, while at the mall there will both upscale and lower scale stores to shop it, but at least I can get more clothes for cheap and maybe something nice at YSL or Louis Vuitton. Idk, I don’t want to milk the cow too much on the first date but I also want to get a few expensive items. Where should i go?

[sugarbbyboy]

Guys I Think I Struck Sugar Gold

Well not gold, but he’s a silver at most. My first date with POT Car Daddy is next weekend and this weekend I’m headed to Chicago with my friend for Pride. I told him how we were struggling finding a place to stay (a total lie, we weren't even looking lmao) and so he literally reserved a suite on a high floor for my friend and I at the Marriott 😍😍😍. He’s a Platinum Elite member there also so I get all the benefits. He has spent so much on me and we haven’t even met yet, I'm so grateful. I’ve been in the sugar bowl for nearly two years and I’ve never been this lucky before. This only goes to show that it does take time to find that one truly good sugar daddy. Of course I’m still not trying to count my eggs before it hatch but for now I’m just gonna enjoy this. I’ll make sure to post pics once we get to the room this weekend 😌