SA Tip #1: Curate Your Profile, Baby
I get this question a lot and I figured I’d make a little post on how to sift out the legit Sugars from the Salts. I’ve mentioned numerous times before that a big indicator of a salt daddy is the length of his initial message to you. That being said, you can’t expect a POT to send you a long letter if you hardly give them anything to go off of in your profile.
Below I’ve compiled a few tips to crafting the perfect profile to lure the legit daddies versus the salts.
1. Show that you’re serious
When I say,“show that you’re serious,” actually take time to fill out every aspect of your SA profile. It shows that you actually care how you appear to POT’s, and for the love of God– babies, PLEASE spellcheck and proofread your bio. Nothing is more of a turnoff that an illiterate SD or SB. Don’t be that bitch.
Some necessary information that I like to include are:
What I’m looking for in an ideal arrangement
2. Talk about your interests
There is nothing more attractive than a well rounded Sugar Baby. SD’s like to feel like they’re not hiring a sex worker or hooker, so they want their girls to have a personality and hobbies/interests. If you don’t read, choose a subset of Classic literature and wikipedia the shit out of the big ones and some obscure titles too. If you don’t ski or do any physical hobbies, say that you love to do yoga. JUST HAVE SOMETHING THAT YOU LIKE TO DO OTHER THAN SPENDING MONEY. Sugar daddies aren’t stupid and they can see right through a girl looking to use them like an ATM. Alternately, I can see right through daddies looking to treat me like a machine where you insert coins and sex is spit right back out. A mutually beneficial arrangement is only good so long as there is mutual respect. You get that by being a woman who demands respect, not asks for it.
3. Make allowance clear on your profile
It is so so so important to say that you are looking for something long term and are only looking for one daddy at a time. No daddy wants to compete with others, and every single time you go out, you should be treating your daddy like he is the only one you have eyes for in the entire universe. That being said, you should definitely mention an allowance if that’s really something you are looking for down the road. Be up front, and don’t be afraid to negotiate and ask for what you want.
4. Don’t mention sex or sound like a dominatrix/hustla baby (even if that’s what you really are)
DO. NOT. MENTION. SEX. OR. INCLUDE. INNUENDOS. IN. YOUR. BIO. This sends the completely wrong message and implies that you are only looking for someone to pay you for sex/only want an arrangement built off of sex. Even though sex is part of an arrangement, it shouldn’t be the only thing there is. Also starting off on that foot will get you nowhere except sleazy salts. Do not mention sex. It comes naturally after establishing a relationship with your SD.
Also throw in something about working a job/being a student. The less your daddy feels leeched from, the more he will be willing to give. Always always always make it CLEAR that you are not desperate or relying on their money (even if you are). They will be more apt to want to give you an allowance and spoil you if they feel like it’s a perk to your life, not the only thing you rely on.
5. Sound as SWEET as possible without being sickeningly so
You want to be the girl next door, their sweetheart, babydolll, eye candy for them to lug around to whatever fancy restaurant they’d like to frequent with you. You want to be classy, sophisticated, darling, anything that screams ACCEPTABLE DATE. To perpetuate this idea, and to sift out the sugars from salts, just add things in your bio that make it sound like you are worth spending time and money on. You want to be the hot young dreamgirl they totally couldn’t get without having money. But make them feel like you’re wholesome, good, and all that jazz for extra perks. You want them to be impressed AF with you. That’s how you get the goods babes.
6. Only have one photo that is NOT a face photo on your profile.
A real SD understands the importance of discretion, and the salts will scattershoot send requests to SB’s requesting access to private photos/face photos. Establish a relationship, conversation, and move to texting before you share any photos. Not having private photos deters superficial requests of SD’s demanding to see photos, and you have more control over personally sending them than having a private album on SA. It also encourages actual conversation, especially from your profile.
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