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Always been me. Always gonna be me lol.
LOUDER.
Nerds will curse at their penis and tell you to make it work during the session and will demand unprotected sex because even though they are experienced they never learn how to gain confidence sexually.
I’m giving too much information now. I might go missing with this lol.
Men will lie to your fucking face to get you to fuck them (for free) and never call you back, but somehow I’m trash for making them pay to fuck me, right?
I’m going to reblog this at least once a week forever.
This iconic post of mine
Updaaaate 🍒
I’ve lost a lot of motivation to post here haha. It’s mostly due to things in my life just being real steady and not all that interesting (in a good way). Also I’m tired! I just got back from traveling internationally for almost a month, and I’m not quite back to my normal schedule. Alsoooo also, I’m pretty heckin in love with my SD. On one hand, it makes me less motivated to post, cause I’m just enjoying being in love and all that jazz. On the other hand, it makes me less motivated to post cause I get kinda bummed knowing that even though he loves me, I can’t really count on him to pop the question or anything like that. That’s more of just a general relationship bummer, not really anything to do with my arrangement. I’ll continue to get that cash, be smart with that cash, and be a bad bitch. But I just can’t front like being a sugar baby has made me completely devoid of all emotion 🤣 it has made me more business minded, for sure! It definitely has helped me keep things real with myself! But when you love someone, it doesn’t matter arrangement or not, you wish it could be the real thing.
BUT I’m not saying it couldn’t be the real deal. Who knows? Every time I think it’s gone as far as it’ll go, he surprises me. I’m just trying to keep my expectations in check. In the meantime, I’m trying to be in the moment and enjoy our time together as much as possible.
Send me good vibes if you don’t mind. It’s silly cause things are going great in basically every aspect of life. But the heart wants what it wants, ya know?
Also, I did end up cutting things off with Laurel! Even though he was following through with everything he promised, the connection was not there for me. Every time I was with him, I just wanted to get away from him. I couldn’t put myself through that, and I’m really pleased with that decision ☺️ for anyone wondering, I was promised a brand new, very nice vehicle. Everything was going through, and it was actually scheduled to arrive. I’d spoken to the people at the dealership and everything. But I knew that if I got that vehicle, the arrangement would be pretty cemented, and I had my doubts if I could handle loving on this guy every week. So I called him up, asked him to cancel the delivery, and that was that. I have two vehicles already, so I’m not out of transportation. It wasn’t a necessity, and it wasn’t worth damaging my mental health to be with this guy who I reallyyyy felt I was not sexually compatible with.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading! Stay safe, loves! You’re more important than any amount of dough, I promise 🍒
Update 🍒
Since a couple of you wished me luck on my date/night with Laurel, I figured I would let you all know I’m home and safe and happy now (thank you so much for the good vibes! It really meant a lot) 💖 I’m really glad I went on the date, instead of backing out like I almost did. I have very bad anxiety, so sometimes I panic and run when it comes to things that aren’t 100% in my comfort zone. But last night with Laurel was so much better than my other nights. I communicated with him that he is very large for me, and that I even had to make a care kit for my “kitty” haha. Of course any guy would kinda take it as a compliment, but he also understood we had to keep things way more lubed up and he couldn’t just go to town like a jackhammer haha. We also clicked a lot better personality wise 💕 I get really anxious with new people, so sugaring can be a challenge for me.
I think I may do a post about sugaring with anxiety soon 🍒
I’m suddenly considering canceling my night with, Laurel. I have this weird feeling. Idk. 🍒
hi i have a pot who i met thru SA threatening to out me to everyone i know bc he found my real fb. he lives half way across the country but im scared af what do i do?
Hey baby girl! First of all, there is nothing to be afraid of. My guess is that he wants you to send him nudes or videos as blackmail. But what you should do is call him on his bluff. Say something like “You think I’m scared of you? You think I care that anyone knows what I do?” Even if its not true. He might back off right then and there. BUT if he doesn’t; I have some steps for you to take.
1. Is he married? Prestigious? Does he want anyone to know about his private life? I hope so. Because you are going to either ask him for his email address if you don’t already have it. Tell him you’re sending him an email.
2. Go to spypig.com or ifread.com These are email tracking services. They will create an emoji for you to copy and paste into the email that you’re sending to this man. Once he opens the email you will be notified of when he opens it. Along with his IP address and location.
3. NOW, this next part is optional. You can either let him know that you have his IP address, his real name, and his address (which is a bluff because you’ll only have his IP address and basic location) and you will also out him. Or you can go the additional mile, and actually find this info. Otherwise known as DOXing.
4. If you’d like to actually DOX him, there are plenty of tutorials online. However, I’m not going to give direct instructions because this is a serious matter and is a FELONY. So if you’d like to actually DOX this asshole, please message me.
This might make me seem crazy but I used to study computer science so any time any man tries to fuck with me in this manner, I let him know that I can ruin him with the click of my mouse. Don’t let these men scare you.
#yoda #wearenotworthy #dammmnn
if there’s anything i believe in these days it’s my own resilience. no matter how many setbacks i come across i am still actively dreaming the best version of myself into existence each and every day. i am relentless in pursuing what i want and i am patient enough to wait for my efforts to pay off. i’ll make it. i’ll always make it.
Omg, thank you for making this. I’ll add that no matter how things are/or get, know that you will always find a way to overcome those challanges….just as long as you NEVER EVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF. You are a fighter, and you will get far with that kind of attitide.
Update 🍒
Since I’m here, I’ll do an actual update too.
- my newest SD, Laurel, officially confirmed the thing I’m looking forward to. I have one more step to go through with paperwork, so I’m still trying not to jinx it. Once it’s all said and done, I’ll definitely tell you all about it haha.
- Laurel also has a huuuuuge dick. And I have small “kitty”. Laurel also does not turn me on, so the kitty is small and poorly lubed lmao. I’ve had to put together a care kit for my kitty, consisting of lube suppositories to help me out. A small squishy ice pack to sit on while I drive home, some probiotic/PH balancing suppositories for when I go to bed, and some maxi pads dipped in some slightly warm water with some apple cider vinegar in there. This care kit will be tested todayyyy! So I’ll let you know how it goes 🤷🏻♀️
- Laurel gets on my nerves. He’s TOO sexual in a way that doesn’t vibe with me. Ugh! But he’s got things I want very much. And I’m gonna see if the overt sexual behavior calms down a bit if I don’t respond to it all that much. But who cares? I only see him once a week. I can survive... and if I can’t, then I’ll tell him to hit the road.
- He’s actually a truly attractive man. His personality does him no favors. Yuck.
- I think Laurel would like for things to progress into a relationship. That will not be happening. Ever.
Wish me luck this evening 🍒
So you went and caught feelings for your SD... 🍒
I think I mentioned in a previous post that I genuinely enjoy my time with my Steady Eddy SD, “Yanny”. And also that I try to keep my feelings in check. This post is going to be half my personal story with Yanny, and half any kind of advice I can think of 💖
- So, I’ve never had trouble locking down an SD. They’ve all been pretty enthusiastic about being in an arrangement with me, even if the vast majority could not afford it haha. I, on the other hand, am rarely ever impressed with these guys.
- Yanny was a bit different from the start. He was very matter-of-fact. He was friendly and respectful, but not incredibly affectionate (or basically just cumming in his pants at the mere scent of my leave in conditioner, like most lmao). It was... kind of an unnerving feeling! I can’t lie! When he said at our first meeting “let’s face it, you won’t ever need to meet my family or anything” it was completely reasonable!! But for some reason it took me aback. Like “I already knew that, but thanks for making it clear?”. And it was so different from the cheesy, annoying guys who are usually telling me whatever they think I want to hear. For some reason I felt like I was going to make sure he realized that I was exactly who he wished he could take to meet his family, but I wasn’t going to be interested. As I type this, I am fully aware of how dumb it is 🙃
- by the second meeting with Yanny, things changed to a bit more familiar territory for me. He was still not swooning over me and saying anything and everything, like most. But he was definitely feeling me more. I told him a bit of my back story (NOTHING WITH ANY SENSITIVE PERSONAL INFO), and he told me a bit of his. And I could tell he was vibing with me in a different way
- fast forward to now. We haven’t been seeing each other a year yet. But we’ve both admitted to having feelings for each other on multiple occasions. Because of his personality, and how he doesn’t show any kind of disingenuous affection, I know he’s being real with me. He’s told me (of his own accord. I didn’t ask) he needs a little more time to think about starting a real relationship with me. This is fine with me. Cause if a real relationship means the allowance business gets weird, I don’t want it. I want my money!
- I reallyyyy like this dude. Okay? Like for real. The longer we’re seeing each other, the more I’m like “whyyyyy are you so great?? Whyyyyy is our sex so amazing???? Whyyyy do you have to be like 20+ years older than me?? And whyyyy does that have to be taboo???”
- just the other day we were laying in bed after great sex. And I asked him a question, and he ended up giving me some awesome life advice. I was soooo 💦💦💦 when we went for round two. We even did round three. WHY DOES THIS MAN GIVING ME LIFE ADVICE TURN ME ON??? What’s wrong with me??? Why am I like this??? I don’t have daddy issues, cause I have a great dad and a great step dad too! So what’s up???? Lmao
- OBVIOUSLY I GOTTA KEEP THESE FEELINGS IN CHECK. Because I really love 💵💵💵💵💵 I’m not trying to ruin what we’ve got by acting crazy in love. And Yanny needs to figure out if getting serious with someone my age is something he can do with family and friends who are a bit judgmental of his preference towards younger women 🤷🏻♀️
- So, one thing that I think really works for anyone, even if you don’t having real feelings. If you can muster up some fake feelings... Or If you have real ones! Basically, don’t talk about it. I don’t want Yanny knowing how much I like him, and I think I’m just beside myself about him. But what I do, is I show it with my body language and physical affection. I stroke his chest and arms all the time. I give him little kisses on the cheek or neck. I make it clear that I want to be close to him, and I want to be touching him and loving on him. Men. Love. That. Even if it’s not coming from a place of real feelings, it just makes them feel great. Plus, I get to keep the ✨ mystery ✨ of my feelings, cause I’m not using words.
- the only time I verbally admit my feelings is when he brings up his own and jokingly accuses me of feeling the same 💖 then I go ahead and say “yeah I like you! So what? You like me more!” And we have a cute laugh
- here and there I throw a bone and say how much I love doing “x” with him, or how nice he looks in a certain shirt, or that I really like something about him 💕 with Yanny, I genuinely mean it. But it’s something you can do, even if you don’t.
- As far as keeping my feelings in check on a day-to-day, the strength of my feelings comes and goes. Sometimes it feels like I think about him all day. And sometimes, I feel like I barely did. That’s kind of just how I naturally am. I not a clingy type. But when the feelings are strong, I remember this: I am in this for the 💵💵💵💵💵💵 no other reason. If Yanny pops up and proposes to me, cool. But I will not spend my day daydreaming about it, or encouraging those kinds of thoughts. I am bigger than just being some little lovestruck kitten. I am a boss. I am working towards goals. I know he wants me, because I am worth being wanted. If he won’t 100% claim me, it is because of his own hangups and that is not something I care about or stress about. My life and the exciting opportunities ahead of me are more than just waiting and wishing and hoping for a guy to scoop me up and marry me. The things I will do in my life will be 100000x more incredible than just getting married.
- it helps that I do have my own business and have huge plans for the future that I am legitimately more excited about than I ever could be about any man haha. But I know myself. And I know I could get trapped and feeling sad or get lost in a fantasy world if I let myself daydream all day about Yanny coming in on a white horse to marry me. It’s not a good look or a good feeling.
- SO. To sum things up. I know, for the most part, we’re usually doing everything we can to fake some emotion for these crusty old men lmao. But if you happen to find yourself with a guy who gives you real butterflies, and also paaaayyyss... look at what I said in the previous bulletin points, and repeat it to yourself. You and the money come first. Don’t jeopardize it. These gifts are something you can use to elevate yourself and your future. Be a boss first. You are incredible by yourself. Your future is exciting because of YOU, not because of any relationship.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading 🍒
Update
POT date (we’ll call him… Laurel lol) went really well yesterday. I think he dropped about $800 on the date, from what I could tell from receipts ✨ I think I’m close to getting what I really want from Laurel, but I’m still gonna say it, cause I’m not trying to jinx myself haha. I mentioned that I couldn’t have him over cause my house is really disorganized, and I think he’s gonna get me set up with someone to clean my house regularly. That would be such a relief! Ya girl would definitely prefer to play video games, over cleaning 🤷🏻♀️💖 but this weekend I’ll be hanging out with him at his estate with his chef and masseuse 🤩 I’m definitely ready to treat it like a weekend resort getaway. Gotta text him my favorite foods right now actually 💕
My other SD, lets call him Yanny (lmao), is great 💖 there’s not much exciting to say, which is fine! He’s been so incredibly reliable, and I love that security. I feel really taken care of. We have awesome chemistry, and I really look forward to seeing him every time ☺️ his job is going really well, so hopefully a raise is in my future ✨ we’ve gone on vacation once together, and it was sooo amazing. He’s mentioned doing it again, so I’m excited about that! Im seeing him tonight, and I can’t lie… definitely looking forward to the hug and kiss I always get when I walk in the door 💕💕💕 I’ll probably do a post on me trying to keep my feelings in check later haha.
Right after posting this, I got a confirming text from Laurel about the thing I really want 🤩🤩🤩🤩 hopefully more updates soon!
Update
POT date (we’ll call him... Laurel lol) went really well yesterday. I think he dropped about $800 on the date, from what I could tell from receipts ✨ I think I’m close to getting what I really want from Laurel, but I’m still not gonna say it, cause I’m not trying to jinx myself haha. I mentioned that I couldn’t have him over cause my house is really disorganized, and I think he’s gonna get me set up with someone to clean my house regularly. That would be such a relief! Ya girl would definitely prefer to play video games, over cleaning 🤷🏻♀️💖 but this weekend I’ll be hanging out with him at his estate with his chef and masseuse 🤩 I’m definitely ready to treat it like a weekend resort getaway. Gotta text him my favorite foods right now actually 💕
My other SD, lets call him Yanny (lmao), is great 💖 there’s not much exciting to say, which is fine! He’s been so incredibly reliable, and I love that security. I feel really taken care of. We have awesome chemistry, and I really look forward to seeing him every time ☺️ his job is going really well, so hopefully a raise is in my future ✨ we’ve gone on vacation once together, and it was sooo amazing. He’s mentioned doing it again, so I’m excited about that! Im seeing him tonight, and I can’t lie... definitely looking forward to the hug and kiss I always get when I walk in the door 💕💕💕 I’ll probably do a post on me trying to keep my feelings in check later haha.
Some things!
So I suddenly have a ton of followers! Hi! I wanted to write down some things. Tips, updates, just whatever:
💖 I haven’t “worked” in like 3 years now.
💖 my friends know I’m “ballin” for my age. And they drop hints about money and needing things. I drop hints to myself like “maannnnn I want a fancy purse” even haha. But here’s the deal: we all want to ball out for our friends and treat them! We all wanna treat ourselves! And when you’re sugaring and making BANK, the urge is SO STRONG. But I gotta warn you: DONT DO IT. ***INVEST*** either invest in yourself, such as school or traveling or learning a new language etc. or find someone to help you make REAL INVESTMENTS (stocks, real estate, etc). Until you’re making bank outside of sugaring (such as with a job you scored after school, or through investment payouts), DO NOT START SHOWING OUT. Don’t buy the bloody shoes, don’t buy the YSL to show out for the gram, don’t be going out and buying everyone’s drinks. Don’t. Do. It. That is the quickest way to blow right through $50,000. Be smart. If you’re smart with the cash you’re getting, you can actually become a REAL boss. Screw flexing on people (for now). $10,000, $20,000, $50,000 might sound like a lot now. And it is, don’t get me wrong. But it’s not the kind of money that’ll last. You need to make THAT money work for you! And turn $50,000 into $500,000. Then you’re really talking.
💖 if you wanna flex on people (that’s not really my sorta thing), get an SD that loves taking you shopping. Get him to buy you things outside of your allowance.
💖 if you sense Red flags, go. with. your. gut. Your safety, and your time is SO IMPORTANT.
💖 do not come across like you haven’t done this before. I like to say “in the past, a $xxxxx allowance has worked very well for me” when money is being discussed. I do allow for some negotiating, but i never go past my bottom line. There is a way to assert that you know your value and that others have paid this, but to also come across as very sweet (that’s like my whole thing)
💖 I’ve been steady with my current SD for a good while now. Things are going great on that end. We genuinely enjoy our time together, and he’s incredibly reliable. I love love love seeing my savings account go up the first of every month. I also love that he pays me in CASH. However, he’s not much for shopping.
💖 I recently starting seeing a new POT. Our second date is this week. After that, I’ll be going to his house where he’s having his chef make my favorite food and calling in his masseuse to give us poolside massages. I’ve seen pics of his gorgeous estate with both him and his daughter, and I feel confident it’s real. I think this will be my shopping Daddy. I have higher hopes for one thing in particular, but I’m not gonna say it. I don’t wanna jinx it haha.
💖 if your friends don’t support you and what you do, you don’t need them. My friends are supportive. I can tell them where I am, and they’ll make sure I get home safe. Everyone on earth is going through too much to deal with friends who judge our lifestyle. Like, shut up Karen, you suck trash dick for free. I have two vehicles and travel the world **first class**. And usually not even on my own dime. Bye. Plus, when we get to be REAL BOSSES, we only wanna treat the friends who were really there for us anyway!
💖 and last, but certainly not least... sugaring is not for those desperately in need of some quick cash. Try camming or stripping or something (no hate!! Genuinely! I am head over heels in love with a stripper. And I used to cam! The money came in muuuch quicker!!!!). But to sugar you need to appear as if you have it all together without your SD. A sob story is the quickest way to turn a guy off or make him realize you’ll accept less than what you’re worth and probably accept subpar treatment. With sugaring patience is KEY. If I want a new Daddy, I will look around for weeks and weeks. And I let them know that I’m just looking for a man who will spoil me or help me invest in my future. Not to get me toilet paper and gas. They loooove that. They love feeling like they’re with an exceptional young lady, who just wants a mature guy to help her become even more exceptional. So don’t quit your day job quite yet. Take the time to find yourself someone safe, real, reliable, and loaded and get your savings account poppin.
Okay! That’s all for now!
The eyeroll is so strong when probable salt daddies are trying to make me jump through hoops to verify I’m real.