Unofficial 6th language of love: Food
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2026
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Unofficial 6th language of love: Food
Sharing food, making food, trying food, and finding gems like History Maker Bakery in Italy 🥖🥐
2026
btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here
im bad to argue with because i have jesters blood if you misintepret me i'll just go along with it. when i was a teenager i was trying to explain the concept of the heterosexual default to someone and they were like "so you think everyone should become bisexual?" and i was like. what the hell sure. lets have legally enforced bisexuality. i'll die on a hill for the bit dont fuck with me.
Victuuri (spring season onsen rest)
sorry to be a broken record every month but christ menstruation is a stupid concept. oooooh excuse me for not getting pregnant, why the fuck is there goo falling out of me about it? grow the fuck up and reabsorb that shit for nutrients.
donning my trivia hat once again to talk about how periods aren't really body avenging you for no baby, it's actually making sure that if anything but a baby is sucking nutrition from your body, it periodically purges it by ripping away the endometrial wall where a bad egg/sperm pathogens could still get latched. this is not to say periods don't suck but your body is just trying to keep itself alive. there is no evolutionary logic to why body will do anything but sustain itself, that no baby revenge shit is dingdingding PATRIARCHY
not the article I read about this in but mentions similar stuff
playing with new brushes
he is like a toad…. i will put him in a terrarium and lovingly spritz him with water…
i went to i love you island
i went there
i went to i love you island because i love you
what’s the rush?
I'm going to the Hands Like Houses show soon and had an idea to try to illustrate one of their songs. Paradise is probably my top favourite one from them, and I find myself singing it to myself (pretending that the second part of the chorus doesn't exist) when I'm feeling stressed.
The main idea was to draw Hinata pretending that everything is fine when everything is not fine. One of the times I sang this song to calm myself down was during a paddling experience in November (which did not go so well), so Hinata is doing some paddling too now!
[Link to the song on YouTube] (the video is weird, but I love the song)
Also don't worry, he's fine ⬇️
Bonus:
Gonna be honest a lot of people deep down view cheating as worse than abuse which is why so many people view downright controlling and manipulative behavior in a relationship as 100% permissible so long as that behavior is centered around either preventing or discovering cheating.
Gonna be honest a lot of people deep down view cheating as worse than abuse which is why so many people view downright controlling and manipulative behavior in a relationship as 100% permissible so long as that behavior is centered around either preventing or discovering cheating.
In all honesty, my ideal season 2 would be 100% of the hidden camera footage from Yuuri and Victor's Summer of Mutual Pining.™
Every intense and heated Eros program training session, every awkward, but revealing conversation about what Yuri's free skate program means to him (or for them).
All the post-practice walks home from the Ice Castle, their fingers brushing tentatively or sharing a single umbrella in the rainy season, breath fogging the warm air between them.
Taking Makkachin on long walks to the beach, where finger-brushing soon becomes enthusiastic hand-holding and afternoons in the sun become cool, splashy games of run, catch and release.
Undoubtedly, some rolled eyes, some stretched nerves and bruised feelings, but also locked gazes, shy understanding and laughter.
Packing picnic lunches for day trips to the countryside, strolling through summer festivals wearing matching yukata, working their way through every flavor of popsicle from the local conbini, the melted sugary liquid sticking to their hands and faces.
Hot afternoons spent lying side by side in the cool grass listening to cicadas followed by sleepless nights of longing behind the inn's paper walls wondering, "why doesn't he?" "he couldn't possibly, could he?" or "what if we?"
And almost maybe definitely kissing innumerable times before being interrupted by Makka or Mari or the triplets or by something inside them that says "wait, not yet," because, soon, their season will finally begin.
In all honesty, my ideal season 2 would be 100% of the hidden camera footage from Yuuri and Victor's Summer of Mutual Pining.™
Every intense and heated Eros program training session, every awkward, but revealing conversation about what Yuri's free skate program means to him (or for them).
All the post-practice walks home from the Ice Castle, their fingers brushing tentatively or sharing a single umbrella in the rainy season, breath fogging the warm air between them.
Taking Makkachin on long walks to the beach, where finger-brushing soon becomes enthusiastic hand-holding and afternoons in the sun become cool, splashy games of run, catch and release.
Undoubtedly, some rolled eyes, some stretched nerves and bruised feelings, but also locked gazes, shy understanding and laughter.
Packing picnic lunches for day trips to the countryside, strolling through summer festivals wearing matching yukata, working their way through every flavor of popsicle from the local conbini, the melted sugary liquid sticking to their hands and faces.
Hot afternoons spent lying side by side in the cool grass listening to cicadas followed by sleepless nights of longing behind the inn's paper walls wondering, "why doesn't he?" "he couldn't possibly, could he?" or "what if we?"
And almost maybe definitely kissing innumerable times before being interrupted by Makka or Mari or the triplets or by something inside them that says "wait, not yet," because, soon, their season will finally begin.
Is now a good time to pitch my ideas for season 2?
Yuuri and Victor
What I love about Yuuri and Victor as a couple, more than anything, is how balanced their relationship is. In Yaoi there is almost always a clear Seme and Uke. In a lot of “traditional” relationships, there is always a male and female role. One partner is dominant and one is submissive.
But most relationships aren’t as black and white as that. Loving relationships are all about balance, and about each partner bringing their own strengths to the table, and blending two distinct beings into one whole relationship.
This means in some areas and moments, one partner will be the more dominant, but at other times, it’ll swing to the other partner. Relationships are about give and take, not about set, strong roles, and this is something Yuuri and Victor show so clearly.
They both have moments of vulnerability and strength. There’s no clear dominant person. When Victor says something harsh, Yuuri cries, but Victor also cries when Yuuri does the same back to him.
And then in their pair skate they just show this all so clearly. They are a pair, but there isn’t a distinct “male” role.
In the beginning and for the lifts, Victor is in the more “male” role, presumably because of the lift - it would be difficult for Yuuri to lift Victor who is heavier and taller than him.
But then they switch roles so beautifully, and it is Yuuri supporting Victor and propelling him into the spins.
This is how true, loving relationships are. They shift and move, allowing both partners to support each other, and Yuuri and Victor show this in every aspect of their relationship.
They are such an amazing couple, regardless of gender.
sometimes it's so very draining that the majority of aro content is about fictional relationships.
irl, i live alone. irl, i am disabled. irl, that intersection and my lack of interest in partnering actively makes life really hard. everything is expensive. i can't always cook when i want to or have fresh ingredients, because my symptoms don't care if I want to cut up vegetables and eat something homemade before they go bad. if I have a bad flareup and getting up is not in the cards, that's it. i have what's next to me. the lack of social support for single folks, for disabled folks, for folks whose family care is inadequate or damaging... it's impactful.
I talk about how i once visited a place with an ex partner. i mention how our relationship started because i was pressured into it, and i wasn't really into the level of seriousness and 'forever' she treated it with. everyone says it's weird that i agreed if i didn't want it to be serious. i remember being 16, saying no, and a chorus of people telling me i was stupid and immature, that her family was rich, that we would be cute and to listen to them, not my heart. my heart was saying nothing.
i look at my current age and life goals. for many of my peers, dating and marriage and eventual kids are common goals. i am watching my rights erode and trying to practice good mental hygeine. my five year goal is to be alive. my next major life milestone is a nebulous desire to find a life i can tolerate living.
being aromantic significantly impacts my day to day. i want to see aro people living their lives, and doing so with joy. i want to see aro adults making it, ones like me. i want aro people to thrive. i want to live, aromantically.
i scroll the aro tag. it's fandom and shipping and asexual posts.