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The name's Suzy. She/They pronouns. Bisexual. Expect TF2, AoEx, VERY left-wing politics/social justice/feminism (probably too liberal for the radicals and too radical for the liberals in terms of what kind of feminist I am), LGBTQA friendly, stims, and some aesthetics. Will sometimes contain NSFW and is tagged and flagged as such. Fascism is a loser ideology. MAPS/NOPS/PEDOPHILES, ABUSERS, RAPISTS, FASCISTS/NAZIS WILL BE BLOCKED.

[suzpocalypse-moved]

Holy fuck, I decided to check on this blog again for the first time in pretty much a year and Jesus FUCK I was cringe material.

Anyways, follow me at my new blog @suzy-the-blogger for a less cringier me and with A LOT less politics in general (I am still very leftist as fuck, but I am rather disillusioned with politics in general in all honesty, and in a way, being less political kind of helped me grow up in a way and I have a tendency to think about various political views and how they impact other people, as well as what I think is the most moral/makes the most sense).

Not going to delete this blog because I realize it is a good reminder of how NOT to act on the internet.

Anyways, don’t expect any future posts from this blog and just go to my new blog if you want more posts from me.

[suzpocalypse-moved]

Moving blogs to make it more organzied. Will be at @suzpocalypse once I change my username

[suzpocalypse-moved]

New selfie!

[sireless]

crying fortress friends. இдஇ

[sogekii-heii]

dramatic  Σ(･o･;) ﾊｯ!

[bulbiedorf]

If you are pro life you are just anti safe abortions. They are gonna happen whether you like it or not. You are just increasing unsafe abortions that can end up with more people dying and botched abortions.

[somelizard]

That’s why I support it. Aborting a child under any circumstances should be punishable by death. Works for me!

[fandomsandfeminism]

You would kill a woman for having an abortion? 

For any reason?

[somelizard]

Yes. Before you bring up rape and incest, it’s worth knowing that those should be treated as separate issues because they are so infrequent. We should fix that problem too, but you shouldn’t connect it with abortions.

[fandomsandfeminism]

So, you are saying that a woman who has an abortion after being raped ISNT having an abortion? Why? 

And what if she is the victim of contraceptive sabotage? 

What about this woman?

What about her?

What about her?

Do these women “deserve” the death penalty? Why do you get to make that judgement? Why do YOU get to decide who’s reasons are “good enough”? 

[somelizard]

She doesn’t have the right to kill another human being. All three of them deserve to die. And I don’t get to decide because no reason is good enough.

[fandomsandfeminism]

“Pro Life”, yall. Women who had fetuses die inside them, and then had an abortion to save their own lives rather than die giving birth to a corpse “deserve to die.”  So Pro-Life. Amazing.

[suzpocalypse-moved]

Quite a lot of misogyny and rape/abuse apologism from pro-lifers.

Also, a lot of women who have abortions are trying to escape abusive partners. https://www.google.com/amp/s/thinkprogress.org/amp/p/76a59e7ec5b4

[deadpoolian]

TF2 Comic #6

[playerprophet]

Why we're terrified of fanfiction

We love hating the things teenage girls love. Fandom is just one example.

Stands up on soapbox, holds up this article like it’s the opening of the Lion King.

[whovianfeminism]

Y’all should read this because it is FIRE, but also because a post from the Time Lady Project was linked in this!

[crowfoot]

Historically, whenever young women are interested in a form of media, we like to tell them it is bad for them and that they are bad for liking it — unless the media goes mainstream, in which case it becomes no longer feminine and hence okay. Novels are dangerous and cause insanity, until they become classics worthy of being studied in college. Beatlemania is the province of “the dull, the idle, the failures,“ until the Beatles become a band that everyone loves.

Young women are so attacked for loving the media they love that it is a radical act for a young woman to love something unashamedly. And transformative fandom is the most radical act of all, because it reverses that “lady thing to respectable thing” process.

Emphasis added. It’s so good- go read the whole thing.

[ponyzaxxon]

@redninetales

[redninetales-deactivated2017071]

Holy shit, see I’ve been saying this thing since the beginning. People do hate women in fandom.

[daddy-doms-are-gross]

honestly the most frustrating part about sex positive spaces for me is that most of the people engaging in them don’t seem to see that they bend over backwards for cishet men? like sex-posi spaces put so much emphasis on why women should like being degraded/being controlled/being roughed up by men while not calling for men to evaluate their own desires and maybe encourage some empathy there. 

like they tell a woman “you have a secret desire to be subjugated? act on it! no shame!” (disregarding the fact that in a patriarchal society we socialize women to accept subjugation so it’s not a neutral desire) while turning to a guy and saying “you don’t feel comfortable hitting your girlfriend? why not? she likes it–trust us! man up!” and completely absolving them of the responsibility of thinking about their own actions and desires.

[cantfightnature-deactivated2018]

well, it’s not like I disagree with any of this

[daddydominthe804]

Few things can piss me off more than this kind of shit. Go ahead and replace “cishet men” with “nigger” or “patriarchy” with “Islamic oppression of women” and maybe you’ll have some sense of how, in the midst of your virtue-signaling entitlement, you are actually a sex-negative bigot. There is absolutely nothing sex-positive about what you are saying. What you are instead saying is that “I like to have sex and the manner of X. However, most of the people in the BDSM community like to have sex in the manner of Y. Therefore, all of those people who like Y hate women and are oppressive, disgusting shitlords.” You can fuck right off. I don’t care what your kinks are. I don’t care what gets you off, so long as it is safe and consensual and involves adults. And if people are pressuring you to do things you don’t want or don’t enjoy, you are hanging around with the wrong fucking people. They are assholes. What I DO care about is when you suggest that there is something WRONG with me or my playmates because we enjoy a dominant male/submissive female or dominant male/submissive male dynamic with sexualized violence which just happens to fall in line with what most folks enjoy. And when you do that, you’re the asshole. Take your gender studies degree and shove it up your ass. Go get the sex you want. We’ll get what we want. The twain need not meet. @alyxknight, I need some help here FFS.

[novembersecho]

I’ll chime in here. As a woman, and in particular one who enjoys a submissive lifestyle with a Dominant Male; we are exactly everything the OP is villifying:

So, if I were a Domme, with a submissive male partner, is that then more “acceptable” to you? Because I am then in the role of a strong female character? What if I were in a D/s relationship with another​ woman? Which of us then would be “wrong”?

You claim that sex positive spaces “bend over backwards” for cishet men (omfg don’t get me started on these “labels”)…has it ever occurred to you that these Dominant men NEED that sex positivity just as much as anyone? That they, ALSO, need a space where they can be who they are, without being called an oppressive patriarchal shitlord?? Because in today’s so-called Patriarchy, these men are (just as you are doing in your post) minimized, ridiculed, and hated on; for being True to themselves. Patriarchal society, my ass.

We would not stand for kink shaming a gay male, a trans woman, a black asexual…so why is it ok to shame and scoff and cry “oppression” for *ahem* cishet Dominant men?

I am FUCKING PROUD of my Daddy. He is more “man” than most. A complete gentleman, a wonderful person inside and out. He is the type of man that is WORTHY of my submission. And I, let me iterate, am not a Weak Silly Female at all. My submission *means* something​ to him, exactly because I am a strong woman. I am not ashamed of who I am, and how dare someone try to make him,.or others, feel ashamed of who they are??

And as stated above, what happens between two consenting adults is NOT anybody’s business.

Get off the high horse…but watch that first step honey, it’s a doozy.

[daddydominthe804]

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

Remember, cis-het-men are scum. That goes double for dominant cis-het-men. Bonus oppression/dirtbag points if white. /S

[daddy-doms-are-gross]

Both Of You: Pee Your Pants.

[fullten-deactivated20240430]

As soon as a dom and his sub comment on anything, it’s always awful.

Just, the worst most imbecilic response that could exist in this deminision or any other. Like, swear to god I hope that dude fucks better than he can make retort, otherwise what the fuck is the point of him.

[demi-goodnessgracious]

I know I’m probably just gonna end up regretting this or this is gonna be the equivalent of banging my head against a wall in everyone’s eyes but…. I still don’t understand the acceptance of kink shaming here. Like, I understand the whole ddlg space is gross and should be frowned upon cuz preserve the children, the image they put out there and how they are perceived and shit… But… these spaces ARE including consenting ADULTS. Trust me I understand the reason we should disapprove. I was molested as a kid, but with more reason, I stand pretty strong with the idea of: I’d rather have someone ask the consent of another being of the same age to play out whatever fantasy they thought I coulda fulfilled (WHICH IS NOT ALWAYS THE CASE WITH DDLG PAIRS; TRUST TRUST) Honestly if ppl focused on consent and how actions do and don’t affect others I wouldn’t have a quarter, maybe two, of the mental problems I have now. And we wouldn’t be having this discussion. Why does it bother us what ppl say to each other in the bedroom while doing private acts? Call your girl a cum dumpster slut all you want as long as she enjoys it and you don’t disrespect her outside of this space or any females outside the privacy of your home. Physically, verbally or mentally. (And about them sounding imbecilic. Honestly what couple that isn’t dumb struck into each other not like a pair of coconuts; no offense. For I was part of a pair of coconuts [relationships were we blindly and/or unintelligibly supported each other] a few times myself in my short life.)

[fullten-deactivated20240430]

You really should have just listened to your instincts on this one.

Kinks don’t exist in a vacuum. If they did it behind closed doors how would we know? Oh because they post that shit everywhere. That’s why 14 year olds have to put “don’t interact if you’re a kink blog” on posts about fucking crayons and shit. Also this “behind closed doors” is fucking bullshit. Like are you really okay with a school principle making their partner dress up like a child in order for them to achieve a arousal? You honestly don’t believe that shit spills over? Or a someone into race play and calling their partner racial slurs, you don’t think that spills over onto others?

Because it fucking does. Like 99.9% of the time, it fucking does.

Being critical and self reflective is fucking important. There’s nothing wrong with questioning your actions and motivations, that’s literally the only way to grow as fucking person. Which is why all these “don’t kink shame” fucks are always obviously severely stunted in their ability to rationalize and sympathize with the outside world.

Plus you’re literally defending a piece of shit that equated being called a cis man to a n******

Like wtf.

[rootbeergoddess]

Kinks are not above criticism.

Kinks are not above criticism!!

KINKS ARE NOT ABOVE CRITICISM!!!

Like why is this hard to understand? Kinks are not free from being judged no matter how much you get turned on. And just because something turns you on doesn’t mean it doesn’t have gross, harmful implications

[lovelyyishe]

I find it funny how most of the people who are called bigots are people of faith when there is constant bigotry pumped out from non-religious and anti-religious people and not to mention political propaganda in general. So where are the people calling out bigots then? Are people only bigots when you disagree with them? 🤔🤔🤔

[suzpocalypse-moved]

Considering that there is a lot of misogyny, racism, and homophobia in many religious texts (especially from the three Abrahamic religions, which are extremely anti-feminist and highly regressive in terms of equality and how they view women, minorities of any kind, and LGBT people), it is not surprising that people are becoming less relgious and more critical of religious rhetoric.

Like it or not, religion as a concept is inherently patriarchal and oppressive.

[localbadgirl-deactivated2017121]

Bulgaria just appointed a facist and neo-Nazi, Valeri Simeonov (who is also Deputy Prime Minister), to lead their council on how to “deal” with the Romani people in Bulgaria. 

Valeri Simeonov literally talked about creating modern concentration camps, and in 2016, when speaking of Bulgaria’s Roma minority, he told the parliament: “They are brazen, feral, human-like creatures that demand pay without work, and collect sickness benefits without being sick. They receive child benefits for children that play with pigs on the street, and for women that have the instincts of stray dogs.” His party has literally called for the demolition of “Gypsy ghettos” and for Roma to be instead isolated in closed reservations that could “generate income as tourist attractions”

Asides from this Ilian Todorov from the far-right ATAKA party (ultranationalist, racist, especially antisemitic and anti-Roma, xenophobic, especially anti-Muslim and anti-Turkish) is now Bulgaria, Sofia’s regional governor. 

The opposition party, Yes Bulgaria, warned that this “toxic national-populism” can only divide society and “heighten the risk of stirring up ethnic enmity” when we have already long gone past the “risk” stage as proven by recent submissions of the European Roma Rights Center and the Bulgarian Helsinki Committee – Both reports detail recent violent events which include mass attempts to storm Roma neighbourhoods, an increase in hate speech, failures by the authorities to deal properly with racially motivated hate crime, as well as incidents such as the brutal assault in April by police of a Romani father and son outside the village of Bohot in Pleven province. The son sustained serious injuries, but his father died at the scene of this assault. The authorities justified the police action by claiming that the men were found in possession of stolen pesticides and had resisted arrest.

The former vice-deputy of the ATAKA party, went on TV to praise the police for “neutralising the two thieves,” for sending a clear message, and spreading the kind of fear that will cause “all crooks and thieves to lay down.”

The situation of Roma in Bulgaria is worsening. And if those events listed are not enough already Roma are still racially segregated in education and housing, being forcefully evicted and having their properties demolished as well.

(The source with links to the reports is here.)

[localbadgirl-deactivated2017121]

Can yall please read this.

[showerthoughtsofficial]

The two oldest professions, farming and prostitution, both required hoes.

[shamelesslyunladylike]

Farming was actually invented by women, and in the beginning, before the invention of the hoe, they farmed by digging the earth with digging stick. So farming predates the hoe.

Coercing a woman into unwanted sex (i.e. rape) by exploiting her poverty or hunger, though, it’s a male invention, and does require being a huge tool.

[agrarianradfem]

Adding on to women and agricultural history: When European colonizers showed up in what is now the Northeast region of America, the European men believed the Native men to be inferior to themselves. There are lots of horrible reasons for this, but one reason is that the Native women did the cultivation while the men did not. This went against how cultivation was done in England and elsewhere in Europe. The European men found this whole situation backwards and began stripping the Native women of their ability to farm and set up methods to teach the Native men to farm (all while actually pushing the native Americans from the land). (Source: Dominance by Design by Adas)

Later, in Togo, the Germans, in an effort to increase the goods produced by the German empire, began a program to increase the production of cotton. The program, which was in large part conducted in practice by the Tuskegee Institute, sought to teach the men of the Ewe people (an ethnic group) to grow cotton. Meanwhile, Ewe women were already growing cotton and men weren’t, but the program had a problem with women being the cultivators of cotton. The project ultimately failed for many reasons, but is another example of men coming in, telling the men and women that cultivation is for men with the intention that women are pushed out of agriculture. (Source: Alabama in Africa by Zimmerman)

Agricultural knowledge allows women to feed themselves, their children, make some money, feel connected to the earth, or heal. It increases women’s autonomy. Men stripping it away is a big deal and few people know about it or why it matters.

[anti-capitalistlesbianwitch]

The DIY Girls: How 12 teens invented a solar-powered tent for the homeless

The teen girls from San Fernando High School worked on their invention over the course of a year. Come June 16, they’ll present it at MIT as part of a young inventors conference. The teens, none of whom had coded, soldered, sewn, or 3D-printed before they joined forces, won a $10,000 grant from the Lemelson-MIT Program to develop the invention.

They were recruited by DIY Girls, a nonprofit that teaches girls from low-income communities about engineering, math, and science, to go after the grant.

…When DIY Girls was founded in 2012, the nonprofit worked with 35 girls in one elementary school classroom. Last year, it served 650 girls in elementary, middle, and high schools throughout Los Angeles County. The small nonprofit even keeps a waitlist because demand for its services is so high. 

Hands-on STEM education at schools, especially for girls in low-income communities, is severely lacking, Evelyn says. Women make up just 29% of the science and engineering workforce, according to the National Science Board, a federal agency. Around 6% of female working scientists and engineers are Hispanic or Latina.

[flowerlygirls]

y'all heard about gina-lisa in germany? she was raped by two men, while being intoxicated, it was all filmed, and you can clearly hear her saying “no” and “stop it” repeatedly. the rapists didn’t face any consequences for her rape, in fact SHE paid THEM 20,000€ because she “”“"falsely accused them”“”“.

the video is on PORNHUB. the literal rape of an innocent woman is on a porn website, there are men masturbating to.actual.rape.

#IStandWithGina this is disgusting and this strong woman deserves justice, until now i have been too devastated to do my own research, but this needs to be known.

the rapists names are pardis F. (23) and sebastian C. (29) they filmed it to blackmail her so she would pay them money, she knew about it bc they spread the video around her friends and family.

http://mobil.stern.de/lifestyle/leute/gina-lisa-lohfink–vom-opfer-zur-taeterin-6876238.html

this is the german article, if anyone knows anything else or has an article in english please add.

[antiporn-activist]

This is what you support when you defend the porn industry.

[ornatesong-blog]

http://www.latimes.com/world/europe/la-fg-germany-rape-20160616-snap-story.html

English article!

[blobbybun-deactivated20211209]

as of February 2017, the case is closed. short version for everyone who cba reading all the links: she was talking in court about her rape and how she could only remember parts of what happened, along w the videos she saw of herself, and she said she didn’t know why she couldn’t remember anything and that someone probably drugged her. she was then sentenced to pay these pieces of shit for “wrongly accusing them” of drugging her. let me emphasise this; they turned the case around in the midst of her hearing, her account was questioned and a drug test was ordered - 6 months after the incident. if you don’t know this, you can’t find traces of roofies in someone’s blood for more than a few hours. the analysis was carried out by an expert on the basis of what could be seen of her in the videos to determine whether she had been drugged. the man came to the conclusion that she wasn’t, and she was declared to have lied about being drugged (which was never the main point in the first place, it was an offhand comment on her part). the attention was turned away from the fact that she was raped, that the evidence was on video, and that other women had come forward and said they had similar experiences with Sebastian Castillo Pinto (one of the rapists).  she fought against this sentence because it is on record that she specifically never actually accused anyone, she did not even name her attackers. she just told the court that she was “probably drugged” because she couldn’t explain otherwise why she couldn’t remember anything.  http://mobil.stern.de/panorama/sylvia-margret-steinitz/gina-lisa-lohfink-vor-dem-revisionsgericht–alle-auf-den-anwalt-7323846.html this is the German article on the court’s final decision. the journalist is highly critical of the judge because he dismissed and ridiculed Lohfink, stating she had to be lying because basically “why else would she have been present for the main hearing if it wasn’t for media attention”, before announcing that she still has to compensate her rapists, regardless of what happened to her during that night. 

[flowerlygirls]

in an interview sebastian gave after the last date in court, he said HE wanted to now accuse HER of commiting a crime, and get even more money from her ‘because she stole two years of my life’

[suzpocalypse-moved]

Honestly, my views have changed over the past few months (I used to think that sex work was a choice for most women and I even commended PornHub on their sex-ed site at the time, which I regret because PornHub allows actual fucking rape to be filmed and uploaded for sick fuck's enjoyment, and no, deleting it mainly for damage control and to make themselves look good still doesn't erase the fact that PornHub and other porn sites allow actual fucking rape and violence against women to be uploaded and that they fucking PROFIT off that shit) and the fact that tumblr is silent about the abuse and misogyny in the sex industry is sickening.

If thinking the sex industry is extremely exploitative, extremely misogynist and quite frankly, extremely fucking coercive against women makes someone a "SWERF", then so fucking be it.

Also, the sex-industry is extremely capitalist as fuck so tumblr and SJWs are defending what is essentially a textbook example of capitalist violence against women, children, and LGBT people.

[justfoodsingeneral]

Grilled Cheese Recipes

Includes classic grilled cheese and non-conventional grilled cheese recipes. 

Grilled Cheese Sandwich

Chicken Parmesan Grilled Cheese 

Fried Chicken Grilled Cheese Sandwich

Patty Melt Grilled Cheese

Bacon and Avocado Waffle Grilled Cheese 

Drippy Eggs with Asparagus French Toast Grilled Cheese Soldiers

Roasted Pumpkin and Sage Grilled Cheese

Brussels Sprout Grilled Cheese

Mini Caprese Grilled Cheese

French Toast Grilled Cheese Sandwich

Turkey Cranberry Grilled Cheese

Broccoli and Cheddar Grilled Cheese

Shepherd’s Pie Grilled Cheese

Grilled Curry Cheese

Spicy Chicken Meatballs and Grilled Cheese Skewers

Spinach Mozzarella Grilled Cheese on Pretzel Bread

Avocado Grilled Cheese

Cheese Curd, Bacon and Red Onion Marmalade Grilled Cheese

Chicken Cordon Bleu Grilled Cheese

Mini Grilled Cheese Cakes

Prosciutto, Apple & Gruyere Grilled Cheese

Totoro Jalapeño Grilled Cheese

Green Grilled Cheese

Reuben Grilled Cheese

Kale Pesto Avocado Grilled Cheese

[fierybluebeacon]

I accidentally created the most soothing drink in the world after trying to recreate the hot honey drink in Ponyo! I guarantee it will remove all stress and troubles, I’ve had like 3 today because it makes me so happy

[fggfhd-deactivated20161225]

@plandy !!

[spartanlocke]

I drink this all the time and it’s delicious! Very sweet and relaxing.

[hiatus-status-rn]

오 맛있겠다

[foodgasmss]

General Tso Chicken Fingers basket from Sticky’s Finger Joint in NYC. Their chicken fingers are one of the best. 😋😋