Sweetheart_Misfit

Sagittarius. Brooklynite. An Aspiring Dj. I want to have a 9 to 5 and do dope sh** at the same time / Check out my other Tumblr for all things related to djing https://www.tumblr.com/blog/sweetheartmisfitdj

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[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[nunmajor]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Things to do when you want to give up

1. Take some time out to recuperate. You can’t keep going if you’re running on empty.

2. Take a step back to try to gain a new perspective – as sometimes we can’t see the woods for the trees.

3. Attempt to take stock of the current situation. Evaluate what you really want and need.

4. Try to re-evaluate your current strategy. What things are working and what things should you change?

5. Don’t be afraid to change direction. Sometimes that can open up new possibilities.

6. Push through the slump, and the discouragement. If you keep on going, you will get there in the end.

[resqectable]

“Never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter.”

— Samuel J. Hurwitt

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[thoughtstherapy]

Which one is your favourite? @thoughtstherapy

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[theambitiouswoman]

Book Recommendations 📚📒

Business and Leadership:

"Good to Great" by Jim Collins

"The Lean Startup" by Eric Ries

"Zero to One" by Peter Thiel

"Leaders Eat Last" by Simon Sinek

"Outliers: The Story of Success" by Malcolm Gladwell

Success and Personal Development:

"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R. Covey

"Mindset: The New Psychology of Success" by Carol S. Dweck

"Atomic Habits" by James Clear

"Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance" by Angela Duckworth

"The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg

Mental Health and Well-being:

"The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle

"Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy" by David D. Burns

"The Gifts of Imperfection" by Brené Brown

"The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook" by Edmund J. Bourne

"The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook" by Matthew McKay, Jeffrey C. Wood, and Jeffrey Brantley

Goal Setting and Achievement:

"Goals!: How to Get Everything You Want—Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible" by Brian Tracy

"The 12 Week Year" by Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington

"Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us" by Daniel H. Pink

"The One Thing" by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan

"Smarter Faster Better" by Charles Duhigg

Relationships and Communication:

"How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie

"The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman

"Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High" by Al Switzler, Joseph Grenny, and Ron McMillan

"Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life" by Marshall B. Rosenberg

"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" by John Gray

Self-Help and Personal Growth:

"The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" by Mark Manson

"Daring Greatly" by Brené Brown

"Awaken the Giant Within" by Tony Robbins

"The Miracle Morning" by Hal Elrod

"You Are a Badass" by Jen Sincero

Science and Popular Science:

"Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind" by Yuval Noah Harari

"The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks" by Rebecca Skloot

"Cosmos" by Carl Sagan

"A Short History of Nearly Everything" by Bill Bryson

"The Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins

Health and Nutrition:

"The China Study" by T. Colin Campbell and Thomas M. Campbell II

"In Defense of Food" by Michael Pollan

"Why We Sleep" by Matthew Walker

"Born to Run" by Christopher McDougall

"The Omnivore's Dilemma" by Michael Pollan

Fiction and Literature:

"To Kill a Mockingbird" by Harper Lee

"1984" by George Orwell

"The Great Gatsby" by F. Scott Fitzgerald

"The Catcher in the Rye" by J.D. Salinger

"Pride and Prejudice" by Jane Austen

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[ashsevan]

[unethicalhottie]

How far are you willing to go for your goals?

Make a list of your boundaries.

Personally, I'm willing to:

Relocate

Learn a new language

Convert religions

Do certain cosmetic procedures

Keep a slim, svelte figure

Adapt my personality

Lie about my background

Personally, I'm not willing to:

Strip myself of my culture

Change careers

Cut off my family

There are many more points I could add to either list. It's important that you make these lists before you throw yourself into socialising with HNWIs.

It is very - very - easy for girls who are green and excited to get caught up in the glitz and glamour of wealth, then get themselves into dangerous, disgusting and damaging situations.

Knowing, understanding and enforcing your boundaries from the get-go will save you a lot of pain.

If you don't have boundaries to set, that's a problem and you are too naïve for this lifestyle.

[sweetlikeacherry]

I am ready to start over and treat myself better

I am learning to let go

I will always be enough

I am going through a difficult time but I will come out stronger than before

I deserve a love that soothes my soul

It is okay to choose myself first

there is something better waiting for me

I am reclaiming my power

I choose to be single rather than in an unhealthy relationship

I am willing to believe that things will always work out, even when they don’t feel like it

I am the creator of my days, my weeks, my months, and my years and I choose to create happiness and joy

I am a work in progress, but I am proud of what I have become so far

I am willing to change for the better

I am healing generations through self love

[unethicalhottie]

Unconventional things to invest in during the beginning of your journey:

Acting/improv classes

Public speaking workshops/courses

Modelling and posing workshops

Esthetician courses/workshops - makeup, hair, nails, eyebrows, lashes etc.

Language courses/language learning apps

Sewing/tailoring classes

Cooking and plating lessons

A full makeover/style evaluation with a professional stylist

I enjoy courses and classes because they are structured. You can take 2-3 classes to learn the basics and then use the knowledge/techniques you've acquired to educate yourself further.

To save money you can also search for these courses/tutorials on YouTube. I like the social aspect of workshops and courses, but they aren't a requirement.

[chichiscloset]

Table and Dining Etiquette Tips for Elegant Women

Our dining habits reveals a lot about ourselves, attitude, and how we are perceived by others. Good table manners, as well as dining etiquette, are required qualities for every elegant feminine woman.

What are dining etiquette & manners?

Dining etiquette and manners are basic rules for behaviour around the table. The way we eat, the way we sit, the way we treat others, and even the type of conversations we hold are all part of table etiquette and manners.

Table etiquette around the world

You should be aware that dining etiquette can vary a great deal around the world. Different cultures have different norms and rules. When you travel abroad, or as a guest, make an effort to learn and follow the local table manners.

Top 3 Table and Dining Etiquette tips

1.Switch your phone off

When you dine with others, you should always focus on communication and conversation. Constantly checking your phone can imply that you are more interested in your device than in the people around you. Don’t be rude!

If you have an urgent call that you cannot miss, politely excuse yourself from the table and take the call to another room.

2.Wait until everyone is served before you eat

It is important to wait until everyone has been served before eating any of your food. Take time to consider the feelings of those around you and wait before eating. If you are dining with family, friends, or your significant other, this rule applies.

3.Place the napkin on your lap

When you are sitting in a restaurant or any formal event, the first thing you should do after being seated is to put your napkin on your lap. Remember, once the napkin is on your lap it should never be placed on the table again. If you need to excuse yourself and leave the table for a moment, place the napkin on your chair until you get back. Before you leave the table – once the meal is finished – place the napkin delicately to the left of your plate.

Stay tuned for part 2! We'll be going further in depth on the American, British and Conteniental styles of dinning etticate

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Arin Dwihartanto Sunaryo — Yin Yang   (resin on board, 2008)