Something I like to think about for my particular Sarentu and their parentage is how much they look like both Kataru and Wawen
Not quite how I draw their stripes and skin and canon but overall it's a happy little accident.
Anyways been working more on The Lore of TamƬ's parentage!
For Wawen, I like to think his father and Kiro were best friends and they always wanted to raise their kids together- but by the time Kiro has So'lek, Wawen is a hunter who has completed his Iknimaya.
Fortune has it however that he takes So'lek under his wing when the boy shows more interest in being a hunter and warrior than a wood weaver like his father.
I think when So'lek isn't born yet (but Soon) or like. Less than a year old is when Kataru and Aha'ri stayed with the Trr'ong, so he wouldn't remember her and he's got more important things to do, he's a baby!
Aha'ri herself is probably about a year and a half, maybe two- Kataru had lost her mate and a pregnancy when Aha'ri was a little over a year old, and is grieving still. May or may not still be wearing her mourning paint.
At the Moot she requested to be moved clans, too painful to stay further at the one she had lost her mate in- it wasn't the clan's fault of course, debating on it being a freak accident or an early incident with the RDA.
It's just too painful to linger. The Trr'ong seem like a good fit for her to stay with this time, she could use some more light in her life.
Wawen's intentions didn't start off romantic, he was helpful with Aha'ri and kind to them both. Kataru wasn't looking for a relationship of course, especially not so soon.
Love found them though, slowly at first as Kataru and Aha'ri settled in. Learning the day to day of the daily life of the Trr'ong, she learns quickly they live up to their reputation and the stories are very much true.
The Trr'ong are excellent hosts, and Kataru quickly feels right at home- Aha'ri has plenty of little ones her age to play with and there's other mothers for her to talk to.
Wawen always makes sure to say hi, and he brings them both fresh fruit every morning- learning quickly what they both favor. Kataru can appreciate someone also looking out for her daughter.
It didnāt take long for the two to develop feelings for each other, which they both feel guilty about in their own ways- she had lost her mate recently, her daughter doesnāt have her father. Wawen keeps his feelings to himself but heās so charming and sweet to Kataru.
Before they both knew it, the year was up. I donāt know how yet it shakes out exactly, but Kataru figures out sheās pregnant and has a lot of mixed emotions about it- considering everything. She doesnāt go back to the Trrāong, she tells herself not yet- but she will tell him someday.
(The night of the Massacre, she requested to go back to the Trrāong, finally feeling like sheās ready- no matter what the consequences are. In a kinder timeline, I think Wawen would have been understanding- a bit hurt, but more so because he missed out on so much- Kataru was going through a *lot* and he tells her he would have waited even longer if it meant having them all in his life eventually. Idk I had a better line. Iāll probably find it again someday.)
Anyways thanks @sweetsugarsassafras for the idea about Wawen being TamƬās dad it has made me extremely unwell (positive)