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optimistic, broke, travel & life enthusiast figuring it out one day at a time. "my ambition is handicapped by my laziness." Charles Bukowski

[thebelchers]

[sweettee-dreamer]

REASONS WHY I HATE BEING PREGNANT EVEN THOUGH IM HAVING AN AMAZING PREGNANCY....

can we normalize this, not everything you see in social media is true - these woman make it seem like such a breeze and make you feel bad for not loving being pregnant. No this pregnancy was not easy for my husband and I to achieve..it was actually very hard and took a lot of work and yes it was 100% planned and I can't wait to meet my baby however, this is not all it's cracked up to be and I won't pretend it is.

[tvandfilm]

Scream (1996) dir. by Wes Craven

[positivelypositivethoughts]

[sweettee-dreamer]

Puppy Fear Stage

my pup is around 4 months old and has been home with us for about 2 1/2 weeks, he has little to no accidents in the house, knows his name and how to sit and come. a few days ago he started getting super fearful of the hall we go up and down for his daily potty breaks and walks. now when i pick him up to go out he dribbles pee a little because he is afraid to go up the hall and when he is finished he won't even go near the door to go down. living in a multi family house allows us options to go in and out but ultimately it would be through someone's apartment and i don't want him to get used to that. send help asap cause this pup has ya girl tiredddddddd and he is getting too big and too fast to carry around everywhere lol.

[sweettee-dreamer]

how come no one talks about how hard it can be to start a family. i've been surrounded by young mothers my whole life and knew that wasn't what my ultimate goal was, you know thankfully i was careful enough, never had any scares, was generally never really concerned with having a kid. no those feelings have obviously changed and now we decided we wanted to try and start a family. BOY i wish someone prepared me for this STRESS. I have had pretty rough periods and was "diagnosed" with endometriosis around 2016, was on birth control until about 2020 and started TTC around late 2021-early 2022. no one every explained or went in depth with me regarding this diagnosis of endo so i never concerned myself with it until now. after getting married my husband and i decided to "stop preventing" hoping for the best and month after month nothing. then i got covid over christmas and my period came every 42ish days for about 3 months. around that time i started to get a little concerned because nothing was happening, around january i started tracking my ovulation and came to find out i'm not ovulating either at all or regularly. spoke to another doctor, expressed my concerns and got external & external scans and blood work. my hormone levels were normal according to the doctor and 3 months later i still haven't heard back on my scans but they showed i have polycystic ovaries. since i still haven't heard back from any doctor and i call to leave messages with no response i decided to try naturally for a year before going to a THIRD doctor for a better explanation. the only thing the doctor suggested was taking ovulation supplements to see if that helps and that my husband check his "juice". it's now been 7 months trying and nothing. it's very frustrating and it seems like everyone around me is pregnant or announcing a pregnancy and i'm here struggling in silence because no one talks about unsuccessfully trying to conceive when "nothing is wrong with you"

[positivelypositivethoughts]

[gangstacartoon]

[thornsinthesoull]

[sweettee-dreamer]

wedding plus ones, the debacle

Do people feel obligated to give everyone a plus one? I don't because if I don't know you, let alone your name why would I want you at my wedding.

Thoughts on people who justify why they need a plus one by saying "but I don't want to drive alone or sit alone"? To me that means , I don't want to hang out by myself at your even so I'll need someone to keep me company...uh no, not my job not my problem. Can you say codependency...

Thoughts on two people who work in healthcare who refuse to come to a small intimate wedding due to health concerns...don't even get me started with that shit

Oh and next time someone in your family that you don't really speak with says sarcastically "oh well I didn't get invited to that", you should follow up by saying "well when's the last time you spoke to "whoever""....

[sweettee-dreamer]

how do you move on to a new job when your current jobs is the only previous work experience you've had in the past decade?

[sweettee-dreamer]

how do you move on to a new job when your current jobs is the only previous work experience you've had in the past decade?

[sweettee-dreamer]

...I've been getting more and more unsolicited options regarding when to have a baby, so much that it's seems to be on my mind a lot more then I'd life if I'm being honest. I'm already difficult and have a hard time making a decision but this is a tough one. You can never NOT be a parent after, you can NEVER truly get back to your "old self". The transition from 0 children to one is such a HUGE transition that no one can truly prepare you for. However, on the other hand there is never a RIGHT time to have a baby - my brain will not allow me to accept that. I can't fathom why we can't pinpoint the perfect time to start a family. I like clear and explicit instructions and direction.

[be-artistic-deactivated20230306]

[sweettee-dreamer]

ages 25-30 are weird asf. I have friends that still act like their 17 and friends with full blown husbands/wives and kids. the unbalanced dynamic makes it extremely hard to not compare. I have people in one ear saying you're still young, you have time and people in the other saying what are you waiting for. I'm about 47 days out from my wedding and more conflicted than ever. Is there ever a right time for anything? What is age appropriate and according to who? Asking for a friend!

[sweettee-dreamer]

did anyone else lose all kinds of motivation to do anything during the height of COVID?

[infinitedonut]

“What people really want is to be fully themselves.”

— Eckhart Tolle